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NEROSKY:
So what re u trying to justify now, ur post is senseless, the person who moved to fp is senseless too, anyway is time for girls to bash boys, we've been bashing girls since but to think that you came up with senseless post, you need a cognitive therapy asap

EXACTLY!!!

chukzzy1:
Shey your boyfriend no be guy ni?

My boyfriend is a guy whom I'm dating.

Understand naa

Brugo:
Lol. I will ignore your feeble attempt at goading me. You were begging the question. I only showed you how "simple" your argument was. Why do you bother with clothes? Why the need for any sense of propriety?

Cause and effect applies in the context which I discussed earlier. Forèplay like the term implies is the precursor to a more intimate experience. Why would you dress like a stripper and initiate or engage in heavy petting and stop halfway then claim you were raped afterwards? Had you not expressed consent already?

My dear you had it coming and you must share in the blame. Note the word "share".

You just have head knowledge without wisdom and Emotional Intelligence. Blatantly displaying your ignorance publicly and without compunction is the hallmark of a fool.

There is something called boundary and territory. A woman's (or man's) body belongs to her completely, moreso her privates. She is the owner. Landlady. The moment she says NO, stop!

(ADDENDUM:The moment you rape her, you have forcefully taken what does not belong to you. You have robbed her in the most intimate and wicked way possible. You have violated her life).

Lack of self-control or restraint is a punishable weakness.

Many in developed countries are languishing in jail because of the warped intelligence you are unashamedly exhibiting here. Many have died or have been harmed for raping a girl as relatives come for revenge.

Rape is mental and psychological trauma. Rape is evil. Many girls are maimed for life. Many re-experience the torture forever.

Your entire argument on this thread is what we call Beautiful Nonsense. Pray for sense pls.

donholy28:
There u go...painting all guys black

Why black? Why not white or blue.

This is racism of the highest order.

I shan't stand for it.

Medunah:
Wow, this means God has bin helping me and My mother's prayers are working or maybe its cos dey are mostly guys within my age range. Either way I thank God cos i av visited guys I know coupled with d ones I dnt in their house alone and such as never happened to me. And am gonna put a stop to that now that I can b4 anything bad happens cos all this stories am hearing nd seeing are scary

op, see what you've caused! She won't go visiting guys again even tho the guys has never made attempt to touch her

Manuelson:
come visit me, we go play ps3 tire

Hehehehehe

I didn't read all the pages, but did anyone ask the op how or why three guys attempted to have sex with her, in a manner she considers rape? .

Is it every guy she visits who does that?

What types of males does she hang out with?

After the first "incident", why did she still go to visit men alone?

classicB:
That isn't an excuse. I can deem it fit to dress scantily, that doesn't give u the right to rape me. Do u think we girls don't get moved with some male features?? Shud we now rape u people cos of that

okay... Perhaps, its cause we guiz don't normally run online to tell d world bout our ordeal unlike u ladies, dats y u fink d rape game is wholly on d guiz... or u feel men dont get molested in dis gay era

happney65:
I can never ever rape a Woman..One of my Girlfriends came today,The second time she came..Made an attempt to have sex,she said Noo..I had to cajole and cajole her before she allowed me to suck her boobs which i did quite well..She gave me her word that she isnt in the mood and which i agreed with her..She knows the next time she is coming we are having sex..Mutual Sex,na my girlfriend be that not to talk of a female friend..Why would I rape my friend?why would i do that do that?I must be out of my senses..RAPE IS WRONG..DO NOT DO IT

Wat do u mean by 'one' of my gf??

classicB:
That isn't an excuse. I can deem it fit to dress scantily, that doesn't give u the right to rape me. Do u think we girls don't get moved with some male features?? Shud we now rape u people cos of that

perhaps, its prolly cause we guyz dont run online to tell d world bout our rape ordeals unlike u ladies... Mayb dats y u feel/think we guiz dont get raped..... Even in dis gay era... !

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tpiander:
I didn't read all the pages, but did anyone ask the op how or why three guys attempted to have sex with her, in a manner she considers rape? .

Is it every guy she visits who does that?

What types of males does she hang out with?

After the first "incident", why did she still go to visit men alone?

she's as use.l.ess as her topic...am sure she want to use dis forum to advertise her lesbianism activities... Wats my business if she was raped 3x

Men should man up and discuss this topic with logic

nicerichard05:



All of una na after much struggling den I escaped. Una dey talk!

Mtchewww nobody go gree say after much fvcking nd I enjoyed it den I went back for more.

Anyway I dnt believe rape exist wen a gal is not a virgin cos at some point during d supposed rape d gal will actually get wet, moan and enjoy it. Buh trust naija gals after dem don enjoy am nd d guy don pour dem go con dey cry say wat hav u done, oh my God, I trusted u, u have killed me, I hate you. Lol after 3days dey will come for more

This is not a case to be addressed with such pettiness

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

Sometin is seriously wrong with d guys of nowadays. I remember when i was in sch, my sonsy gf came 2 spend d night in my place & i wanted 2 travel her down south, she objected i just left her. That is self control

misspicy:
Yes all guys are guilty until you guys tell us how to identify a rapist...

u really really wanna knw... ? like seriously...

These whole issue boils down to the fact that men should to learn to exercise self control even if a lady is stripped naked in your presence.So far she's not ready to have sex with you,Bro!kip that zip up.And as to ladies not visiting guys,that an erroneous statement because it would keep happening.Ladies should just be more careful,especially with the kind of guy and the way they dress.And we are all forgeting the fact there are so many called 'aunts' who are sexually molesting some young guys out there and have once been a victim.And you know how difficult it is for a guy to report such cases.Is just that the case of men raping and sexually molesting ladies is more rampant.I rest my case!

rezzy:
Some year ago when I was around 19, I was in my mummy's shop packing goods outside. Her shop is in front of our compound, so one brother Joseph opposite my house called me to bring tin tomato. So I took the tin tomato and raced to his room upstairs.

He told me to enter while he gets the money. I was putting on a top and a wrapper, and i was wearing that black underskirt. Before I knew it, the eddiot started dragging my wrapper, I began to drag my wrapper with him. He tried to put his hand inside my top, I used my teeth to block his hand. We kept dragging oo until he raked/cleared my legs from the ground and I fell.

Then it rang in my head that na rape this guy dey o. I started saying "are you trying to rape me"? Immediately, e stood up and started begging me. I just collected my money and left.

summary:he raped u
u ladies should learn to admit it we won't bite una

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Goldmaxx:
summary:he raped u
u ladies should learn to admit it we won't bite una

No she was not raped. Would you get a kick of her describing a rape case? Do you want to read something steamy tonight? Why not visit the sexuality section then.

I just saw the op's other thread where she said she sleeps over at her boyfriend's house.

So what's the reason for all her stories here?

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

hey babe I can't do that to u,trust me.it just happen u meet d wrong guy.

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

I still can't figure out how it can be easy to rape someone. I've been in many situations that the girl was very willing but because she was inexperienced and could not position her legs appropriately, it wasn't fun and became frustrating, so I had to stop.

Now, if the girl is drugged, and she passed out, then I understand how the rape will occur. If the guy has a gun and threatens to kill the girl, if she does not allow him, I can understand why the girl will allow him. But if the girl is conscious and is resisting, then I really don't understand how it's possible for a guy to maintain an erection throughout the whole ordeal and proceed to have sex with her in that situation, unless he is a psychopath...

I think quite a significant number of girls willingly have sex with a guy and regret it later, then proceed to cry rape...

poppop:
No she was not raped. Would you get a kick of her describing a rape case? Do you want to read something steamy tonight? Why not visit the sexuality section then.

no ladies wont tell dat they've being raped before maybe cause of d fear of being ridiculed,dunno.
I knw of a lady 3 guys raped in a bush raw but wen asked,she denied it blatantly even d guys tell us say dem chop am

classicB:
My sister na only God fit save us. These guys are so wicked that they will eventually turn the whole matter against the girl. What more of a bad thing can happen to a raped girl than turning against her? Telling her she initiated the act
If he had raped u that day, he will surely tell his frnds u.came with condom in handy

My sister, na so we see am o. Just look at the comments here on NL. It is a shame. These idiots that call themselves men think it is their birthright to rape a sister. NO is NO! God will punish all of you with this stupid mentality. In fact, if we don't start castrating rapists, I don't know what else will serve as a deterrent to others. Monsters in human form!!

They brag abt getting girls like toilet paper,yet they see rape as an option : signs girls aint opening d honey pot no more hence d rape

classicB:
Where do I even start from Is it from numerous cases of rape that get turned against the woman??

I remembered back then as a novice in 100L visiting male friends didn't occur to me as a big deal. I can vividly recall 3 cases of 'escaped' rape.

The first guy was touching me awkwardly and I did resist him, though he later told me he could have had his way.

The.second case looks like it too but the third guy already held me tight against his bed thank God he heeded to my pleading and allowed me go.

What if one of these 3 guys turned out to rape me? I'd have been a victim of rape, and worse of it would be that nobody will believe it to be true, especially the guys, they'd probably say things like "she seduced him" "she initiated the sex" "she brought condom along" "no evidence since nobody was there "

I put it to you guys that an average Nigerian girl have been a victim of rape/escaped being raped simply because she went out innocently to pay a visit to her supposed 'trusted' guy friend.

This doesn't make sense no more, if we can't trust our Nigerian brothers then who can we trust?

This same guys come here to complain about girls coming to visit them with loads of friends, why won't we come with loads of friends when we know there's a condom waiting to be used on.us

I have personally stopped visiting guys since 3/4 years back, it's either you agree to meet me in my parents house when everyone is home or you meet me in an eatery

I read it here sometimes back when some guys were making gest of a girl that claimed her male friend tried to have his way during a.visit I dint believe my eyes when I was seeing comments like "did you expect prayer session with him?" "you think he wants to preach abi?" "you think you went there to play games?" so these guys now see it as norm to rape an innocent female visitors?? One way or the other they just look for excuse for raping a girl only to turn it against her.

I don't know what it feels like to be raped but I do know what it feels like to be 'near rape' it's nothing good, it drains you emotionally and psychologicaly. Most of these raped victim get scared of telling close relations because they are using all their energy to get back what is lost, i told nobody about what I experienced either.

Idk what else to say, but i know prevention is better than cure. I pray God deliver us from these animals disguised in human clothing

This kinda thread needs to be on fp
Mods should do the needful

chukzzy1:
Foot and mouth disease ni

NO BE THAT DISEASE WERE DEY CATCH COW AND GOAT ABI

Genius100:
I still can't figure out how it can be easy to rape someone. I've been in many situations that the girl was very willing but because she was inexperienced and could not position her legs appropriately, it wasn't fun and became frustrating, so I had to stop.

Now, if the girl is drugged, and she passed out, then I understand how the rape will occur. If the guy has a gun and threatens to kill the girl, if she does not allow him, I can understand why the girl will allow him. But if the girl is conscious and is resisting, then I really don't understand how it's possible for a guy to maintain an erection throughout the whole ordeal and proceed to have sex with her in that situation, unless he is a psychopath...

I think quite a significant number of girls willingly have sex with a guy and regret it later, then proceed to cry rape...

YOU DESERVE A HONOR FOR THIS !!

tpiander:
I just saw the op's other thread where she said she sleeps over at her boyfriend's house.

So what's the reason for all her stories here?

HELP ME ASK THAT MUMU OHH!!

Sunshinelady:
. My dear sister, back then, i used to thnk men were 'normal' human beings ever since i learnt dats not d case i treat them 'specially'. Gone are those days when i take any guy as a close friend whom i can just visit like a regular girl frend. Infact there is no such thin as a close male frend, cos dat guy whomever he is isnt thnking d way u r thinkin. I dont knw y but av com to understand dat dats d way d were created. Men & women dont think d same way. Ada iss bored she thinks of her frends to visit &picks Obi, she goes there just to chat & keep busy, but no! Obi is thinkin Ada is there cos she needs sexual attention. Long & short of everythin is : girls d way u think isnt d way guys think, pls be cautious in ur 'frendships' wit guys (PS: i mean absolutely no offence to d male folk)

You're right, very very right, in fact, you've spoke like someone who've IQ, not all this ediot who reason with anus..