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Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Nobody: 3:24am On Aug 09, 2015

Gurgle:
Its not easy for us to reject them either so they should get a life..seriously. It makes them looks so stup!d when they sit complaining about girls

Lol you treat it like a joke? Really, wont it make them even angry if you just start laughing lol

I let them get to the point of what theyre saying and then say no clearly and politely

Yeah I have had problems with that but you cant bend yourself to spare somebodys feelings, that's too exhausting

Yeah.... Maybe I've been lucky enough not to have met super insistent dudes.... It is pretty stressful actually.

The worst thing is the complaining like you said. Nonsense. Such a turnoff. If I catch a dude complaining about a babe I can never develop feelings for him cause he has just reduced himself to so little. Tbh.

I'm very good at talking I like to think.... So I kinda guide the conversation away. Idk. It's worked thus far. I don't just burst out laughing lol but I say something that will make them laugh or I make fun of myself. It works lol

You're style scares me o! I can only imagine that kinda situation

I'm a middle child so I'm very used to bending. So yeah that's what I've always done since growing up and I find myself doing it outside too. It's hard but that's just my way.

Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Gurgle(f): 3:31am On Aug 09, 2015

MrsPhyno:
Yeah.... Maybe I've been lucky enough not to have met super insistent dudes.... It is pretty stressful actually.

The worst thing is the complaining like you said. Nonsense. Such a turnoff. If I catch a dude complaining about a babe I can never develop feelings for him cause he has just reduced himself to so little. Tbh.

I'm very good at talking I like to think.... So I kinda guide the conversation away. Idk. It's worked thus far. I don't just burst out laughing lol but I say something that will make them laugh or I make fun of myself. It works lol

You're style scares me o! I can only imagine that kinda situation

I'm a middle child so I'm very used to bending. So yeah that's what I've always done since growing up and I find myself doing it outside too. It's hard but that's just my way.

Lool glad you found something that works for you. it sounds good actually, you just steer them away from that side until they get the message

Yeah I tend to get quite forward guys, so I have to just be honest and I prefer it that way, I don't like any ambiguity. So they cant say I have been misleading them

Yeah I used to be like that too but I realized it was messing up my life. Its difficult to change but I have reaped rich rewards by doing such

But if its ok for you I can understand that. Everybody has different circumstances so bending may be more necessary for some than others

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Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Nobody: 3:34am On Aug 09, 2015

Gurgle:
Lool glad you found something that works for you. it sounds good actually, you just steer them away from that side until they get the message

Yeah I tend to get quite forward guys, so I have to just be honest and I prefer it that way, I don't like any ambiguity. So they cant say I have been misleading them

Yeah I used to be like that too but I realized it was messing up my life. Its difficult to change but I have reaped rich rewards by doing such

But if its ok for you I can understand that. Everybody has different circumstances so bending may be more necessary for some than others

I'm jealous. Of your method. I know sometimes I should do that but iono how.... I'm too used to accommodating everyone. Not good sha.

But I'm smarter now then I used to be lol. Thank God for that one at least

Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Gurgle(f): 3:40am On Aug 09, 2015

MrsPhyno:
I'm jealous. Of your method. I know sometimes I should do that but iono how.... I'm too used to accommodating everyone. Not good sha.

But I'm smarter now then I used to be lol. Thank God for that one at least

Yeah I definitely get where youre coming from but it just helps to avoid lots of unnecessary situations

A lot of the times the guy isn't even expecting you to say yes, that's why they often approaching you in a really ridiculous manner lol, theyre just trying their luck

And yeah me too. I was really naïve. Hmm definitely have some tips for my daughter lol

Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Nobody: 4:04am On Aug 09, 2015

Gurgle:
Yeah I definitely get where youre coming from but it just helps to avoid lots of unnecessary situations

A lot of the times the guy isn't even expecting you to say yes, that's why they often approaching you in a really ridiculous manner lol, theyre just trying their luck

And yeah me too. I was really naïve. Hmm definitely have some tips for my daughter lol

Trying their luck you be gambling machine ni

It is well with us all my dear

Gurgle was naive huh

When was this 20 years ago? Cause this madam has seen it all o grin

Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Gurgle(f): 4:07am On Aug 09, 2015

MrsPhyno:
Trying their luck you be gambling machine ni

It is well with us all my dear

Gurgle was naive When was this 20 years ago? Cause this madam has seen it all o

Lol I haven't seen anything, at all! do you get that impression of me? interesting

yes, it shall always be well

Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Nobody: 4:11am On Aug 09, 2015

Gurgle:
Lol I haven't seen anything, at all! do you get that impression of me? interesting

yes, it shall always be well

I don't have that impression I'm just teasing. You seem kinda innocent actually, reminds me of myself in the old days grin

Joking again o. I still dey very innocent.

These my jokes are getting lamer as the day goes on smh

Re: 10 Ways Guys Console Themselves When They Are Tired Of Searching For Girlfriends by Gurgle(f): 4:16am On Aug 09, 2015

MrsPhyno:
I don't have that impression I'm just teasing. You seem kinda innocent actually, reminds me of myself in the old days

Joking again o. I still dey very innocent.

These my jokes are getting lamer as the day goes on smh

Hahahahaha very interesting, youre almost making me glad that I cant sleep

I said almost angry

nawa for this my insomniac brain