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Gurgle:
Its not easy for us to reject them either so they should get a life..seriously. It makes them looks so stup!d when they sit complaining about girls

Lol you treat it like a joke? Really, wont it make them even angry if you just start laughing lol

I let them get to the point of what theyre saying and then say no clearly and politely

Yeah I have had problems with that but you cant bend yourself to spare somebodys feelings, that's too exhausting

MrsPhyno:
Yeah.... Maybe I've been lucky enough not to have met super insistent dudes.... It is pretty stressful actually.

The worst thing is the complaining like you said. Nonsense. Such a turnoff. If I catch a dude complaining about a babe I can never develop feelings for him cause he has just reduced himself to so little. Tbh.

I'm very good at talking I like to think.... So I kinda guide the conversation away. Idk. It's worked thus far. I don't just burst out laughing lol but I say something that will make them laugh or I make fun of myself. It works lol

You're style scares me o! I can only imagine that kinda situation

I'm a middle child so I'm very used to bending. So yeah that's what I've always done since growing up and I find myself doing it outside too. It's hard but that's just my way.

Gurgle:
Lool glad you found something that works for you. it sounds good actually, you just steer them away from that side until they get the message

Yeah I tend to get quite forward guys, so I have to just be honest and I prefer it that way, I don't like any ambiguity. So they cant say I have been misleading them

Yeah I used to be like that too but I realized it was messing up my life. Its difficult to change but I have reaped rich rewards by doing such

But if its ok for you I can understand that. Everybody has different circumstances so bending may be more necessary for some than others

MrsPhyno:
I'm jealous. Of your method. I know sometimes I should do that but iono how.... I'm too used to accommodating everyone. Not good sha.

But I'm smarter now then I used to be lol. Thank God for that one at least

Gurgle:
Yeah I definitely get where youre coming from but it just helps to avoid lots of unnecessary situations

A lot of the times the guy isn't even expecting you to say yes, that's why they often approaching you in a really ridiculous manner lol, theyre just trying their luck

And yeah me too. I was really naïve. Hmm definitely have some tips for my daughter lol

MrsPhyno:
Trying their luck you be gambling machine ni

It is well with us all my dear

Gurgle was naive When was this 20 years ago? Cause this madam has seen it all o

Gurgle:
Lol I haven't seen anything, at all! do you get that impression of me? interesting

yes, it shall always be well

MrsPhyno:
I don't have that impression I'm just teasing. You seem kinda innocent actually, reminds me of myself in the old days

Joking again o. I still dey very innocent.

These my jokes are getting lamer as the day goes on smh

Gurgle:
Hahahahaha very interesting, youre almost making me glad that I cant sleep

I said almost nawa for this my insomniac brain

Gurgle:
yeah

Lol ok. btw is your moniker short for Yinka? I keep wondering what it means

adeh39:
Tosyne2much.....nice one

Which one you dey do

Vaseline bah

I no fit get wife maaa still dey use vaseline nah

Adesiji77:
LOL @ the bolded