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MizMyColi:
That's because from the word. "Go" till this moment, we have been taught to derive our sense of pleasure from things that are without.

We are made to believe that it is only things out there, such as money, fame, women, e.t.c that can give us a sense of fulfilment and peace.

The catch however, and what folks are realizing these days is that Joy, Love and Peace are not emotions.
They are states of being which one can only achieve by coming into a feeling-realization that they have within them, all that it takes to be happy....and that the money, women, relationships and what nots they seek are meant to be an offshoot, a manifestation, of all that they carry within.

Ever wondered why it is written...
Seek ye first the Kingdom of God, and Everyother thing shall be added unto you?

Now the problem world over is that people do not seek God within them, they depend on external works to find God....

Oops, I'm talking from another plane already. Apologies

ZeezaRapture:
Nothing consine me with relationship.. I f*ck chics that come my way at free will and clean my mouth.

Dharniel:
that's an absurd way of thinking...

Freemanan:
Mummy... Are you still here? Or with the heavenly NLs... Abeg break it down.

Freemanan:
Remember Karma is always a bytch... Ladies deserve better o

MizMyColi:
Okay
*Clears Throat*

That's because it's a norm.
It is only Natural for humans to have feelings of affection for another, with whom they go into an intimate relationship.

Now when you're not part of that norm, you're seen as abnormal (now you know how the word "abnormal" came about).

That said, the world is evolving.

People are finding more priorities.

Besides, if a person thinks you are abnormal or incomplete because you are not currently dating, it only goes to show their own incompleteness and insecurities as a human being....

The implication then is something in the lines of "you must have a girlfriend to be happy"
"You must have a job to be fulfilled"

You get?

What I'm angling at now is that it doesn't necessarily have to be so.
It can be better.

ZeezaRapture:
27th October 2011 is a day i dont like to remember. I caught my own girlfriend having sex with another guy in her house. A girl i loved dearly and put my trust in her. Since then, i have vowed not to engage myself in any relationship till i am ready to get married.

So therefore, i will rather f*ck them and clean mouth than to engage myself in relationship with them

jmoore:
Some folks find it hard to accept that there will always be an exception to the rule.

When some girls get to hear that I have never been in a relationship, they would start some series of questions.

Are you normal?
Do you have feelings for girls?
bla bla bla...

ZeezaRapture:
27th October 2011 is a day i dont like to remember. I caught my own girlfriend having sex with another guy in her house. A girl i loved dearly and put my trust in her. Since then, i have vowed not to engage myself in any relationship till i am ready to get married.

So therefore, i will rather f*ck them and clean mouth than to engage myself in relationship with them

elijah2u:
because everybody thinks is an ideal way to have pleasure. lolz

misspicy:
Another rapist spotted....am watching u in 3D

Freemanan:
Feminist welcome.... Contribute to the topic biko...

misspicy:
And you are?

Freemanan:
Forming don start... Contribute and pack your face joor...

misspicy:
You see your life
I was only passing by jeje,you called me back and now you dey vex,oya come take corn

Freemanan:
Darlenese come here.... You inspired this....

darlenese:
Lol

There's an age an individual attains and people will start assuming he/she is either married or about to be, bros if when exchanging pleasantries with people that you just met ,and they keep addressing u as madam/oga how's the family ? How's ur wife and children ? Bro it means u are due for marriage , so if u do not hv a serious relationship , u are on a looooong thing.
So I think its natural for people to assume you should be in a relationship when ur biological clock is ticking fast

MizMyColi:
That's because from the word. "Go" till this moment, we have been taught to derive our sense of pleasure from things that are without.

We are made to believe that it is only things out there, such as money, fame, women, e.t.c that can give us a sense of fulfilment and peace.

The catch however, and what folks are realizing these days is that Joy, Love and Peace are not emotions.
They are states of being which one can only achieve by coming into a feeling-realization that they have within them, all that it takes to be happy....and that the money, women, relationships and what nots they seek are meant to be an offshoot, a manifestation, of all that they carry within.

Ever wondered why it is written...
Seek ye first the Kingdom of God, and Everyother thing shall be added unto you?

Now the problem world over is that people do not seek God within them, they depend on external works to find God....

Oops, I'm talking from another plane already. Apologies

Freemanan:
Oboy!
This is really an eye opener... Noted tho...

Omotayor123:
I have been wanting to ask same..

Make I sit down here and read comments