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Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Kimoni: 1:35pm On Aug 10, 2015
bellong:
Damiso and Kimoni,

I think the ladies lamenting on that thread should have themselves to blame than calling Nigerian men sexist. Prior to marrying such men, they saw all the traits yet they went ahead to marry and are crying foul afterwards.

Their sense of judgement need more questioning than the pathetic rant. If all the males they ever met are sexists, it says more of themselves than the men. Like always begets like.

To pathetically crown the stupidity, two said their daughters will be raised far away from "Nigerian men", yet they are both married to Nigerian men. Is that not idiotic.

Rate at which some ladies bash Nigerian men at every opportunity will make you repent calling Satan the devil. It is as if sexism is the sole prerogative of Nigerian men and there are no sexists in the West.

They are actually the losers in this game.
I thought it was never ever to marry nigerian men....that was just plain comedy to me anyways cheesy
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 2:34pm On Aug 10, 2015
Bellong pls reply asap
kiss
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by damiso(f): 2:35pm On Aug 10, 2015
I guess our experiences shape our perceptions so maybe we should not be dismissive of their experiences. I however don't think the generalisation is necessary. The 'Nigerian men I know or have met' will be more suitable to express their views.

I also used to think all or most Western men were more 'progressive' than our men. Now I know better.

Same way you have Nigerian men who expect their wives to do all the chores even though she works is the same way you will find oyinbo men that think the same. One of the worst chauvinist I know was my old director. White middle class guy. His actions one way or the other pointed to the fact that he could not get why mothers with young children wanted to work( his wife was a stay at home mum good for him to think that way when they could afford it).


I even know more Oyinbo stay at home mums than Nigerians so I don't know the Nigerian men who think that her daughter degree will end in the kitchen.







bellong:
Damiso and Kimoni,

I think the ladies lamenting on that thread should have themselves to blame than calling Nigerian men sexist. Prior to marrying such men, they saw all the traits yet they went ahead to marry and are crying foul afterwards.

Their sense of judgement need more questioning than the pathetic rant. If all the males they ever met are sexists, it says more of themselves than the men. Like always begets like.

To pathetically crown the stupidity, two said their daughters will be raised far away from "Nigerian men", yet they are both married to Nigerian men. Is that not idiotic.

Rate at which some ladies bash Nigerian men at every opportunity will make you repent calling Satan the devil. It is as if sexism is the sole prerogative of Nigerian men and there are no sexists in the West.

They are actually the losers in this game.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 2:57pm On Aug 10, 2015
moca:
Bellong pls reply asap
kiss
Did almost immediately...

damiso:
I guess our experiences shape our perceptions so maybe we should not be dismissive of their experiences. I however don't think the generalisation is necessary. The 'Nigerian men I know or have met' will be more suitable to express their views.
I also used to think all or most Western men were more 'progressive' than our men. Now I know better.
Same way you have Nigerian men who expect their wives to do all the chores even though she works is the same way you will find oyinbo men that think the same. One of the worst chauvinist I know was my old director. White middle class guy. His actions one way or the other pointed to the fact that he could not get why mothers with young children wanted to work( his wife was a stay at home mum good for him to think that way when they could afford it).
I even know more Oyinbo stay at home mums than Nigerians so I don't know the Nigerian men who think that her daughter degree will end in the kitchen.
Not in anyway dismissed their experiences but rather questioned their circle of men. Their experiences are not enough to generalize or paint everybody with the same brush.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Idowuogbo(f):
E ma gba mi ke..... i say make i do small amebo with today's metro oo....this man well so? Smh!

Cc damiso
Tearoses
Edwife
Kimoni
Naijababe
Cococandy

Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by edwife(f): 3:10pm On Aug 10, 2015
Idowuogbo:
E ma gba mi ke..... i say make i do amebo small with today's metro oo....this man well so? Smh!

Cc
Edwife
This is the kind of news i wish i was invisible.Imagine the rubbish!

This is pure madness and stupidity at peak. undecided
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Idowuogbo(f): 3:14pm On Aug 10, 2015
edwife:
This is the kind of news i wish i was invisible.Imagine the rubbish!

This is pure madness and stupidity at peak. undecided
Very sick man! I hope they sentenced him to life imprisonment.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by damiso(f): 3:15pm On Aug 10, 2015
Idowuogbo:
E ma gba mi ke..... i say make i do amebo small with today's metro oo....this man well so? Smh!

Cc damiso
Tearoses
Edwife
Kimoni
Naijababe
Cococandy
Me sef read am and I was shaking my head..

The guy has serious issues. You would rather let your child die...

I just cant deal seriously if I was the mother and I was there when he said it na riot police dem go use carry me away from the scene because the kind display I go display for hin body ehn. Oloshious somebori
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:18pm On Aug 10, 2015
Idowuogbo:
E ma gba mi ke..... i say make i do amebo small with today's metro oo....this man well so? Smh!

Cc damiso
Tearoses
Edwife
Kimoni
Naijababe
Cococandy
I blame the rescue people, couldn't one of them have overpowered him while the other did their job?

See mental case. Some people take this their religious things too seriously. angry
Ediot fellow.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by damiso(f): 3:20pm On Aug 10, 2015
cococandy:
I blame the rescue people, couldn't one or two of them have overpowered him while the others did their job?

See mental case. Some people take this their religious things too seriously. angry
Ediot fellow.
I cant believe the mother of the child( his wife) was there.. if it was my child I wont need people to overpower nothing by the time I decorate him with my teeth and nails he wont have time to stop the rescuers.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Idowuogbo(f): 3:27pm On Aug 10, 2015
cococandy:
I blame the rescue people, couldn't one of them have overpowered him while the other did their job?

See mental case. Some people take this their religious things too seriously. angry
Ediot fellow.
I'm telling you...and the f00ls will start shedding crocodile tears at her funeral. Id10ts!
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Kimoni: 3:33pm On Aug 10, 2015
Idowuogbo:
E ma gba mi ke..... i say make i do small amebo with today's metro oo....this man well so? Smh!

Cc damiso
Tearoses
Edwife
Kimoni
Naijababe
Cococandy
Poor girl cry cry cry...she died for her father's madness. Inshort, the level of madness everwhere these days is astonishing.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Kimoni: 3:35pm On Aug 10, 2015
damiso:
Me sef read am and I was shaking my head..

The guy has serious issues. You would rather let your child die...

I just cant deal seriously if I was the mother and I was there when he said it na riot police dem go use carry me away from the scene because the kind display I go display for hin body ehn. Oloshious somebori
shocked shocked shocked damisoooooo no, no, not Damiso....can't be

Pls who hacked into damiso's system?? Pls identify yourself angry
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 3:38pm On Aug 10, 2015
damiso:
I cant believe the mother of the child( his wife) was there.. if it was my child I wont need people to overpower nothing by the time I decorate him with my teeth and nails he wont have time to stop the rescuers.
like seriously.

I will even divorce him after. Because if it were me, he will still let me die so that nobody will touch me during rescuing. I couldn't bear to look at such a man and call him husband again. Tufia.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by damiso(f): 3:44pm On Aug 10, 2015
Kimoni:
shocked shocked shocked damisoooooo no, no, not Damiso....can't be
Pls who hacked into damiso's system?? Pls identify yourself angry
grin grin grin grin

I say Oloshious somebori now .. make I go look for posts where I have said it ni?

Its just that child neglect/cruety ( I know she was 20 but this was still their child) cases makes my blood boil..poor girl that had her whole life in front of her just had to die because her father's belief. Who even told him she will remain a muslim sef? Like Jehovahs witnesses who refuse blood transfusion for their children. Refuse blood transfusion for yourself as you can be allowed to have your own beliefs but who says that child will always be a JW?

I try to respect people's religious beliefs but I believe faith is personal and my child might not share my faith when they are able to reason for themselves( I hope they do but my parents had to deal with me converting so I would be a hypocrite to force my child).
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by damiso(f): 3:46pm On Aug 10, 2015
cococandy:
like seriously.

I will even divorce him after. Because if it were me, he will still let me die so that nobody will touch me during rescuing. I couldn't bear to look at such a man and call him husband again. Tufia.
You are right one is meant not hate but the fact that my child died because of the mans intentional stupidity would mean its better we are separated so I don't go and poison him one day.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Idowuogbo(f): 3:48pm On Aug 10, 2015
Kimoni:
shocked shocked shocked damisoooooo no, no, not Damiso....can't be

Pls who hacked into damiso's system?? Pls identify yourself angry
Lmao! Me sef open mouth ooo....madam damiso don take over from me. Ayam a goodosky now. Badosky rebranded grin
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by onegig(m):
bellong:
Damiso and Kimoni,

I think the ladies lamenting on that thread should have themselves to blame than calling Nigerian men sexist. Prior to marrying such men, they saw all the traits yet they went ahead to marry and are crying foul afterwards.

Their sense of judgement need more questioning than the pathetic rant. If all the males they ever met are sexists, it says more of themselves than the men. Like always begets like.

To pathetically crown the stupidity, two said their daughters will be raised far away from "Nigerian men", yet they are both married to Nigerian men. Is that not idiotic.

Rate at which some ladies bash Nigerian men at every opportunity will make you repent calling Satan the devil. It is as if sexism is the sole prerogative of Nigerian men and there are no sexists in the West.

They are actually the losers in this game.
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I am just amused when I see all these feminist, gender threads and so on and people fighting back and forth over trivial things. In reality, except for some very few "misenlightened ladies in Lagos". I don't see this Nigerian men bashing on the streets. Most can only whine online, they return back to the four corners of their rooms and keep mum. Online is the only leeway they have for their frustration.

You want a good guy. How have you made yourself a good person? Tattoos, daily parties, life on the high lane, lack of self respect, leagues of boyfriends and so on? When you now get played, you come here ranting.

I don't pity them, just pity all these young gals following their ideals here and thinking it is the holy grail.

There is a reason they label wrestling flicks

"Don't try this at this home" .

Meet all these ladies who make the loudest noise here out there and you would spit and want to puke.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 7:12pm On Aug 10, 2015
Sometimes I read some stories/hear some things and begin to question myself
Is it me or is it them
So a father and mother stood by and let a child drown
The man that will marry her ad touch her is he not an ordinary human?
Will the resucuers even rememebr what she looked like?
Was the mother too brainwashed? Her own daughter?! I will stab the man with my heel & blind him with deodorant whilst my daughter gets rescued. I will apologise later.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bukatyne(f): 8:10pm On Aug 10, 2015
Well it depends on What you want out of life and people's perspectives about a 'good' Nigerian husband.

I have heard, Nigerian men under metamorphosis when they move back to Nigeria So Perhaps it is best not to hook up a guy there.

And the way they chant submission, twa grin

I agree some did not look while leaping and please a wonderful Nigerian father/friend/brother/cousin might not be a good Nigerian husband.

Also, some pretended during courtship... true.

And as usual, I am glad I didn't marry a 'Nigerian' husband nor married one who worships the 'Nigerian' god grin

Cc: Kimoni; damiso; bellong; cococandy
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cococandy(f): 8:21pm On Aug 10, 2015
^^^^

Why not on that thread though?

I don't fancy debate on fun threads.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 8:35pm On Aug 10, 2015
Bukatyne,

Whatever is described as bad with men shouldn't be taken as solely Nigerian men thing.

I actually do not understand the fuss about submission from both genders. Why marry someone you cannot respect? I have seen a lot of wives talk rudely to their husbands and vice-versa. Irrespective of the gender, people should be treated with respect.

Everyone is supposed to marry whoever aligns with his/her dream, vision and aspirations and who can key in to his/her purpose in life. It says so much about a person marrying deficiently and later crying foul. I believe in not regretting whatever decision I make whether good or bad. Rather than ranting about it, I sure will find a solution to and for it.

Yes, every lady bashing Nigerian men married a "non-Nigerian man" yet they keep bashing the men. If their husbands, father's and brothers are that good, there wouldn't be need to bash men because of the love from the men in their lives.

I have a wonderful wife, so there is no need of castigating Nigerian women.

It is not Nigerian thing but human vices. Wickedness is everywhere. I have friends across the globe, race, gender and religious belief and I can bodly say that whatever evil is found in relationship in Nigeria can be found anywhere else in the world. The ladies should spare us stories about Nigerian men as if they are living in paradise.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by bellong: 8:58pm On Aug 10, 2015
moca:
Bellong pls reply asap
kiss
Sorry for the late response. Nature's call, was consulting with the gods... cheesy
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 10:42pm On Aug 10, 2015
bellong:
Bukatyne,

Whatever is described as bad with men shouldn't be taken as solely Nigerian men thing.

I actually do not understand the fuss about submission from both genders. Why marry someone you cannot respect? I have seen a lot of wives talk rudely to their husbands and vice-versa. Irrespective of the gender, people should be treated with respect.

Everyone is supposed to marry whoever aligns with his/her dream, vision and aspirations and who can key in to his/her purpose in life. It says so much about a person marrying deficiently and later crying foul. I believe in not regretting whatever decision I make whether good or bad. Rather than ranting about it, I sure will find a solution to and for it.

Yes, every lady bashing Nigerian men married a "non-Nigerian man" yet they keep bashing the men. If their husbands, father's and brothers are that good, there wouldn't be need to bash men because of the love from the men in their lives.

I have a wonderful wife, so there is no need of castigating Nigerian women.

It is not Nigerian thing but human vices. Wickedness is everywhere. I have friends across the globe, race, gender and religious belief and I can bodly say that whatever evil is found in relationship in Nigeria can be found anywhere else in the world. The ladies should spare us stories about Nigerian men as if they are living in paradise.
That's a very sound and excellent comment from you bro, makes a lot of sense. I'm wondering how come it got only 1 "like". Well, I just made it 2.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Idowuogbo(f): 10:45pm On Aug 10, 2015
EmmaFantastic:
That's a very sound and excellent comment from you bro, makes a lot of sense. I'm wondering how come it got only 1 "like". Well, I just made it 2.
Just made it 3. The Gods on point hehe grin
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 10:56pm On Aug 10, 2015
Idowuogbo:
Just made it 3. The Gods on point hehe grin
grin grin
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by cynthiaokaka(f): 12:18am On Aug 11, 2015
You're funny, let me tqke the responsibility of hqndling the money from now on.

edwife:
Hello,hi you are welcome to this place.

We use to offer drinks and food but as it is one of the people responsible for the registration fees absconded with the money,so we are broke.

Hope you understand,nevertheless the family section members are pleased to have you here.

Do have a lovely stay.

Edwife,retired chef due to short of fund.

Thanks.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by RoyalRoy(mod): 4:24am On Aug 11, 2015
EmmaFantastic:
That's a very sound and excellent comment from you bro, makes a lot of sense. I'm wondering how come it got only 1 "like". Well, I just made it 2.
[color=#000033] Just made it 4.

grin [/color]
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody:
LOL @bellong and his likes cheesy grin grin grin

I beleive that NL does not truthfully capture reality when it comes to relationships
If I were to beleive all that I read here, weddings will be only one a year event in Nigeria and Tayour who makes weddding cakes will have had to retrain to be a tailor wink

By NL standards all/most men are local bush men and most/all women are bitcheees

Yet many of us are married . . peacefully too.

My personal opinion;.. .. . There are good and bad people out there. Like attracts like, and you cant sow maize and reap yam.
Its very simple and I sincerely feel sorry for anyone who picks up things here and thinks its the norm, and putting their common sense to one side.

I also feel sorry for those who use all their energy and all their time fighting imaginary "enemies". . .when do you want to relax and enjoy your life with your partner?

you picked the man/woman for whatever reason. . find a level ground and just get on with the task.

Ive said it before, personally I love Nigerian men. I have many in my life. I have 2 under my roof. I dont know where these women are picking these men up from or the terms of their relationships. Efin ni wa. Many of these men have given signs of who they are, so why follow them. Annie cannot expect tuface to be loyal to the end. If he is loyal its because he wants to and not because she wants him to.

A man stealing from his employers cannot be loyal to you. He has no sense of honesty or integrity and is easily tempted.

A man whose driver gets to his house at 6am and takes him to work, then oga takes the key from the driver and expects the driver to sit in the sun all day and wait until 10pm to take oga home after he has spent hours in bars, cannot show you any empathy . . .its not in his veins.

The man who gave the danfo driver a big slap while the danfo driver was apologising becasue he slighty scratched his car, will give you a big slap the day you accidentaly burn his clothes when ironing them. You marry an agbero and expect a gentleman at home.

These are little little things that our women miss but then cry foul later down the line.
Look before you leap and there wont be so many stories that touch.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Idowuogbo(f): 7:55am On Aug 11, 2015
This early momo wey I wake with energy to attack my busy schedule @ work, reading this nonsense don weak me. Someone please send me redbull cry


kestolove95:
Rubbish,why shud I snoop on his fone wen he hv his private live to leave? And as an africa man and a proud african lady,I believe ma husbnd is entitle to more dan one woman..so let him flex his life joor.
Na when STI's handle you,your God given brain go reset.Till then, pele is your name. Smh!!!
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by babygirlfl:
I think it will be better if things are discussed in a thread and this one left for the fun it was created for. It feels weird coming for a debate here.
Re: The Family Section Fun Room!! by Nobody: 8:37am On Aug 11, 2015
This thread goes through phases.
Sometimes we are serious but mostly we have fun smiley
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