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reddbone:
But, but, why u dey go an slap? What did she ever do to you?

I considered my self a big fool from that day. As of now my heart is absolutely penitent.

SporaD8:
Bro, Nlers can't help u. it only u and u alone that can help yourself.
8 years together and u mistakenly slap her once(not that I support woman brutality) but on a scale of 1-10, 10 being very mature, I will rate u 8 considering that ladies could b a real pain in the a$$.
Forget the phone call, u never slap her on the phone. instead go to her in person(u mention F&F are interceding on your behalf) they should b around but leave the two of u alone so u can do u begging alone.
If this fails also,just give her like a month or two without communication and watch the magical turnaround. Thank me later.

I speculate this will work and i will do as just said, moreover if better options showcases anytime i will be left for it. Thanks alot.

chigoizie7:
This guy aint serious one bit, after writing all those "Ngugi Wa Tiongo" long story but failed to tell us what happened, after being asked what happened, u had to finally say u slapped her, yet refused to say why u slapped her.



Anyways I just wish she is really busy banging one ugly ,poor guy like dat , ee for red for u

She aint. Meanwhile i'm totally ashamed of unveiling it because what she did wouldn't get you turned atall. I solely lost my mind i must say.

SporaD8:
Bro, Nlers can't help u. it only u and u alone that can help yourself.
8 years together and u mistakenly slap her once(not that I support woman brutality) but on a scale of 1-10, 10 being very mature, I will rate u 8 considering that ladies could b a real pain in the a$$.
Forget the phone call, u never slap her on the phone. instead go to her in person(u mention F&F are interceding on your behalf) they should b around but leave the two of u alone so u can do u begging alone.
If this fails also,just give her like a month or two without communication and watch the magical turnaround. Thank me later.

I speculate this will work and i will do as just said, moreover if better options showcases anytime i will be left for it. Thanks alot.

pelij18:
She aint. Meanwhile i'm totally ashamed of unveiling it because what she did wouldn't get you turned atall. I solely lost my mind i must say.

My point is this, you can't give us quater baked info and then expect us to advice u, were do we start from?



If u can't divulge all that happened then why did u open the thread in the 1st place?







It just like a lady who went to complain to her friend (with a black eye) how her husband has beaten her to pulp only for the friend to turn and label the man a devil and wicked man, she only labeled the man like that because her friend did not also tell her that the husband only retaliated after she has used pestle to break both his leg and head.



So, give us d full gist and den we can take t from there, if u give us half baked info, we will give u half baked ans/response.

wow, I enjoyed reading that piece, you did a great work with your closely knitted and interesting use of words.
Well, from your article, you said you guys have been going out for 8 years, that's a handful of time to get to know even the deepest secrets of yourselves and also too me to truly understand yourselves.
Well the answer all lies in communication, sit her down and talk things out, I bet she'll reveal what the problem really is, if you really love her, then you two will source for a solution to whatever the problem is

chigoizie7:
My point is this, you can't give us quater baked info and then expect us to advice u, were do we start from?



If u can't divulge all that happened then why did u open the thread in the 1st place?







It just like a lady who went to complain to her friend (with a black eye) how her husband has beaten her to pulp only for the friend to turn and label the man a devil and wicked man, she only labeled the man like that because her friend did not also tell her that the husband only retaliated after she has used pestle to break both his leg and head.



So, give us d full gist and den we can take t from there, if u give us half baked info, we will give u half baked ans/response.

To be simple and candid.... There is this old friend of mine whom i reciprocated with the term "I Love You Too". So she couldn't hold but scold me beyond my conservation when she got to see it.

I know i'm wrong.

faith551:
wow, I enjoyed reading that piece, you did a great work with your closely knitted and interesting use of words.
Well, from your article, you said you guys have been going out for 8 years, that's a handful of time to get to know even the deepest secrets of yourselves and also too me to truly understand yourselves.
Well the answer all lies in communication, sit her down and talk things out, I bet she'll reveal what the problem really is, if you really love her, then you two will source for a solution to whatever the problem is

Noted sir.

pelij18:
To be simple and candid.... There is this old friend of mine whom i reciprocated with the term "I Love You". So she couldn't hold but scold me beyond my conservation when she got to see it.

I know i'm wrong.

Woooow!!!!!!!!!!, this is serious,


*u not only kinda breach d trust she had for u, but u also went ahead to hit her when she protested, bros, that's a really big issue here.

Ok, am gonna try to say something.


*this might not be d 1st time u ve raised a hand on her, I mean, for u to even think of slapping her when u re even @ fault, talk more of when she is @ fault. (I might be wrong).


*u have stayed with her for 8yrs,thus, she should as well know who that old friend is and the kinda relationship u had with the said old friend, and if she doesn't know the person, then, u re lying to her, thus, she has every right to question ur actions.(Trust is very expensive u know?)


*and if u ve known that old friend b4 u knew ur babe, that's like 9yrs ago, hmmmm, ee go hard to just say that word if u had nothing to do with d person. which ever way, ur babe is still trying to understand the motive behind that "I love u". Ish. All u could do is to try very hard to convince her otherwise, 8yrs with you is not 8days.


*the deed is already done,now, let's find a solution to solving it.


1. It will take her time to forgive u. The only way she will forgive you is when u prove it wrong, that u have nothing to do with the old friend.

2. Have u been giving her any reason to suspect u in the past?

3. She saw the conversations u had with the person u said "I love u" to, my guess is, u can't just say "I love u" to an old friend if there are not some kinda kinky convo with the said old friend, now, if she saw the "I love u" part, then she must have seen the other parts that lead to the "I love u".


4. U and I know that u ve phucked up bg time, I only pointed out those points above so that u will know how u really phucked up big time, and mere phone calls and sending F&F to plead on your behalf wouldn't solve it. + it took u 2week to even consider meeting her one on one, bros, to her , u re guilty as charged.(As in,u re cheating on her).



5. The bet thing for u to do,na to drive ur car jeje to her house, insist that u re gong nowhere until she forgives u, even if u will sleep in ur car or her balcony for days, bros, u deserve am.


Phone calls and friends wouldn't solve anything, its more like after some one must have beaten u up wella and has not seen it important to apologize to u, but ur friends keep telling u to forgive the person, while the person no send u sef, bros, u fit forgive the person ooh, but ee go hard, that's what u re actually doing to ur babe now.




U need physical apologies, when she has eventually given u audience or forgave u,bros, that trust no dey dere again ooh, try to win that trust back prove her wrong, and promise never to raise a hand on her again, unless u ve been promising and failing, and if u have? Then u re OYO.

chigoizie7:
Woooow!!!!!!!!!!, this is serious,


*u not only kinda breach d trust she had for u, but u also went ahead to hit her when she protested, bros, that's a really big issue here.

Ok, am gonna try to say something.


*this might not be d 1st time u ve raised a hand on her, I mean, for u to even think of slapping her when u re even @ fault, talk more of when she is @ fault. (I might be wrong).


*u have stayed with her for 8yrs,thus, she should as well know who that old friend is and the kinda relationship u had with the said old friend, and if she doesn't know the person, then, u re lying to her, thus, she has every right to question ur actions.(Trust is very expensive u know?)


*and if u ve known that old friend b4 u knew ur babe, that's like 9yrs ago, hmmmm, ee go hard to just say that word if u had nothing to do with d person. which ever way, ur babe is still trying to understand the motive behind that "I love u". Ish. All u could do is to try very hard to convince her otherwise, 8yrs with you is not 8days.


*the deed is already done,now, let's find a solution to solving it.


1. It will take her time to forgive u. The only way she will forgive you is when u prove it wrong, that u have nothing to do with the old friend.

2. Have u been giving her any reason to suspect u in the past?

3. She saw the conversations u had with the person u said "I love u" to, my guess is, u can't just say "I love u" to an old friend if there are not some kinda kinky convo with the said old friend, now, if she saw the "I love u" part, then she must have seen the other parts that lead to the "I love u".


4. U and I know that u ve phucked up bg time, I only pointed out those points above so that u will know how u really phucked up big time, and mere phone calls and sending F&F to plead on your behalf wouldn't solve it. + it took u 2week to even consider meeting her one on one, bros, to her , u re guilty as charged.(As in,u re cheating on her).



5. The bet thing for u to do,na to drive ur car jeje to her house, insist that u re gong nowhere until she forgives u, even if u will sleep in ur car or her balcony for days, bros, u deserve am.


Phone calls and friends wouldn't solve anything, its more like after some one must have beaten u up wella and has not seen it important to apologize to u, but ur friends keep telling u to forgive the person, while the person no send u sef, bros, u fit forgive the person ooh, but ee go hard, that's what u re actually doing to ur babe now.




U need physical apologies, when she has eventually given u audience or forgave u,bros, that trust no dey dere again ooh, try to win that trust back prove her wrong, and promise never to raise a hand on her again, unless u ve been promising and failing, and if u have? Then u re OYO.

This is the first time my hand felt her cheek aggressively, i really dont know what came over me. But reading through your kind comment i think following suit might lead to a grand finale.

pelij18:
This is the first time my hands felt her cheek aggressively, i really dont know what came over me. But reading through your kind comment i think following suit might lead to a grand finale.

Sharp,


We don't have to loose the good girls! ,U know?


Go after her, get her, she deserves better bro.





#oneLOVE

chigoizie7:
Sharp,

We don't have to loose the good girls! ,U know?

Go after her, get her, she deserves better bro.




#oneLOVE

You are right.... I will follow those procedures.

No one is perfect but learn to control yourself. No sane lady will wanna marry a guy that can beat her up with her kids ok. I hope you get out of this one sha

Give her time.

pelij18:
Okay okay okay!!! I really need you guys help.

I slapped her.

8yrs nor b ewa agayin nd agege bread,she cant jst unlike u like dat,she wan craze?


She still like u bro,she wan shakara small,nd at d same till purnish u for ur act


dnt beg her thru d phone,make sure u ask her frends wher u can c her,then show up there nd beg her like ure begging dos gatekeepers of heaven ,dnt try 2 justify ur actions ooo





Dis should help,incase it doesnt,


rent davido or wizzy 2 compose song for her wit her names oooo.


Tank me latr

ilobasama:
No one is perfect but learn to control yourself. No sane lady will wanna marry a guy that can beat her up with her kids ok. I hope you get out of this one sha

Give her time.

Courtesy is something i never lacked from childhood due to my moral upbringing. Slapping her is never a thing of me, this i must keep asserting. I really dont know what came over me. But yet she doesn't want to see through my heart how penitent it is.

But i'm a bit hopeful regarding the comment above.

Khd95:
8yrs nor b ewa agayin nd agege bread,she cant jst unlike u like dat,she wan craze?


She still like u bro,she wan shakara small,nd at d same till purnish u for ur act


dnt beg her thru d phone,make sure u ask her frends wher u can c her,then show up there nd beg her like ure begging dos gatekeepers of heaven ,dnt try 2 justify ur actions ooo





Dis should help,incase it doesnt,


rent davido or wizzy 2 compose song for her wit her names oooo.


Tank me latr

I never knew nairalanders can be of this help. Thanks alot