₦airaland Forum

favoured234:
Wouldn't wish that for anyone anyways
But at times we find out that our spec can be unrealistic

PunkyVeer:
What's that suppose to mean? Naija ladies must be really showing you guys pepper over there Most of the guys are just so butthurt. What's funny though is that, I think the ladies have groomed some of you guys so well to the point where you don't know how to build a "normal" relationship. The Nigerian guys I've met here use money as bait & that can be a turn off because we're not all for sale, yanno. We're really very different as people I've noticed.

PunkyVeer:
What's that suppose to mean? Naija ladies must be really showing you guys pepper over there Most of the guys are just so butthurt. What's funny though is that, I think the ladies have groomed some of you guys so well to the point where you don't know how to build a "normal" relationship. The Nigerian guys I've met here use money as bait & that can be a turn off because we're not all for sale, yanno. We're really very different as people I've noticed.

jonaifame22:
and I'll keep footing th bills for abortion wetin go come remain for my pocket.

Toks2008:
Hajjia how i for do?

Honestly i have a crazy passion for writing especially on relationship,religion a and politics so let me just share my taught and hope some people learn a thing or two.

In-fact i have received personal messages and calls from many nairalanders that have gone through my threads on relationships thanking me for the valuable write-ups especially on the initial gragra thread and the mistakes women make... and lots more so im happy im impacting lives positively as well as overlooking haters who for no reason will just pick on you.

mecussey:
thats the new trend now...but i dont mind as far as she go contribute something after all, polygamy is allowed just incase.

macminista:
...hmmm so you will do the same? Taking the bull by the horns..am disappointed

emusmith:
Lols...I wonder why you girls often ask that question, "Are you stalking me?" If he says, Yes. What would be your reply?

#no offence # #idle curiosity #

samtol4:
are u saying the lady is right moving in to stay with him?When the guy push her out after having everything in her then you say men are wicked! Foolishness of the highest order for a lady to move in when her dowry has not paid .

kaboninc:
Men in EVERY culture use money as bait.

Women LOVE men with money.

Money = Power = Authority!

Women love men who have MONEY because it brings POWER over which they can exercise AUTHORITY!

Chikenaaaa.....

Toks2008:
Which country are you please?

I gave a lady a ride yesterday and we got talking about several issues and she said something that made me ask which part of Nigeria she is from and she was like oops,"im not a Nigerian" and i was like Nooo wonder.

I think this money thing is predominantly a Nigerian thing.Out there a man will look like a fool thinking women are interested in your money.

kaboninc:
37 likes for this?

You're indeed a SugarBee

kaboninc:
Sugarbee....ever seen a bee without sugar? Or a bee excreting honey that doesn't contain sugar?

kaboninc:
Hehehe...we say Thanchu!!!!!

deleskizy:
Bad idea, Consider your freedom gone with the wind. Although, some responsibilities will be off your shoulder

jonaifame22:
Would it be wise as we are not married yet to each other, and also my other games will be checkmated by her dwelling with me.

Please, advice me, I love her very much but.......

PunkyVeer:
What's that suppose to mean? Naija ladies must be really showing you guys pepper over there Most of the guys are just so butthurt. What's funny though is that, I think the ladies have groomed some of you guys so well to the point where you don't know how to build a "normal" relationship. The Nigerian guys I've met here use money as bait & that can be a turn off because we're not all for sale, yanno. We're really very different as people I've noticed.

RedBenson:
Hmmmm, newbee on the forum. Welcome! Abi na another moniker u open again?

ahsekeena:
Chaiiiiii...u mean she wants to come and live with you in your father's house?!



Start saving to pay her dowry first, rent a house then do tha needful

moshould:
They expect baby, she has a Plan

DROGON:
damn! Who would dump a sweet lil girl like yourself...f*ck that nigga!! Anyways can I be the bin.??

Youngpo413:
also naija ladies are not reliable,they may dump you at anytime,so tell me how a guy can survive,so the other games will act as a shock absorber,I will advice guys to double or even triple date cos being faithful doesn't pay anymore.

darepoju:
can't u think twice..??
we ve seen ppl who stayed together with dia boyfriends and still get dumped..
if u re gonna get dumped ..u will.still b dumped no matter the trick u play...

Youngpo413:
only one showed me pepper,but I don't blame myself cos back then I was naïve and a learner who foolishly believes that love exists,but not anymore,the table has turned.

francizy:
OP I'd advice you to shun that her move. I've known people who cohabit like that and all of them end up breaking up.

Dont mind the likes of SUGARBEE, that is how they encourage girls to take bulls by the horn and afterwards, the girl in question ends up been dealt with by the bull.

As long as you guys aren't married yet, there are several cases where you both won't tolerate each other's excesses and you only wait for the day you get completely fed up and tell her it's over or it happens the other way round.

Toks2008:
Hmm then why not start the marriage move?

People don abuse me tire that im too picky and i kept wondering why wont i?

Thats why it seems im stalling.I hate philandering and thats y i must get a lady that is sexually appealling to me and when i get such,she will practically beg me to cheat on her.

I advice guys to go for wat they want talking about sexual features and hope they cope with her lapses cos no one is perfect.

Whatever pleases the eyes will be pleasing to the mind so if she is beautiful then take her to mama.

jonaifame22:
no na sidechick things na my female friends,and this my babe she can jealous ehn,if person too talk to gal for road,when we don dey together na talk,talk,talk she go talk till two of us go sleep go

PunkyVeer:
Give this man a Bells! You should be cloned! Really, you're a gem. Keep it up & keep having self respect.

jonaifame22:
even after marriage?

jonaifame22:
*yawns*