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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Decibel: 9:05am On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:


Nwannem, Ekene diri Onye we'anyicheesy
Lue n'uwa ebebe Amemu!

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Decibel: 9:13am On Aug 20, 2015
Meanwhile, APC is a daylight fraud.

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 12:01pm On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:
cheesy

I've been subconsciously waiting for a comment like yours.
Lols


It's not as bad as you view it from the outside.
Just trying to form a degree of balance.

It is as dangerous as it is outside as it is inside.

well, while some dudes are having a fun filled moment having you around the politics section....some other fans like me hurriedly skip reading any of your post from the politics section.

I cant stop you from entertaining ur politics fans, but babe it is not balanced in any way.....u r "engrossed" into politics.

So I am subconsciously waiting for u to consciously turn ur attention away a bit from politics. wink

#StillPetitionFromAfan
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by MizMyColi(f): 12:49pm On Aug 20, 2015
IsaacBuchi:


It is as dangerous as it is outside as it is inside.

well, while some dudes are having a fun filled moment having you around the politics section....some other fans like me hurriedly skip reading any of your post from the politics section.

I cant stop you from entertaining ur politics fans, but babe it is not balanced in any way.....u r "engrossed" into politics.

So I am subconsciously waiting for u to consciously turn ur attention away a bit from politics. wink

#StillPetitionFromAfan

Lols.
I am currently discussing politics elsewhere.
Not on NL.
Serious deliberations actually.

Well, I think at the end of the day, we can agree that everyone should be given a free rein to do whatever their heart pleases...As long as they do not portend any danger to humanity.

Like I said earlier, I'm working on a balance, I do not claim to have apprehended.
Politics is a new passion/hobby for me.
I intend to see it through.
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by kaboninc(m): 2:11pm On Aug 20, 2015
IsaacBuchi:


It is as dangerous as it is outside as it is inside.

well, while some dudes are having a fun filled moment having you around the politics section....some other fans like me hurriedly skip reading any of your post from the politics section.

I cant stop you from entertaining ur politics fans, but babe it is not balanced in any way.....u r "engrossed" into politics.

So I am subconsciously waiting for u to consciously turn ur attention away a bit from politics. wink

#StillPetitionFromAfan

I see you have a problem with politics. angry angry angry

Well, I will resist any attempt, in any form whatsoever, be it overtly or covertly to take away my Miz from Politics. cool cool

But I'll welcome you gladly into the fold.... cheesy

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:50pm On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:


Lols.
I am currently discussing politics elsewhere.
Not on NL.
Serious deliberations actually.

Well, I think at the end of the day, we can agree that everyone should be given a free rein to do whatever their heart pleases...As long as they do not portend any danger to humanity.

Like I said earlier, I'm working on a balance, I do not claim to have apprehended.
Politics is a new passion/hobby for me.
I intend to see it through.

Did I read "serious deliberations"? Well that's bad for us but maybe good for you....so far as the deal fetches you money I cannot be against that. After all politics is the fastest route to be rich in naija.


As for "portend danger" we can't lie about that...the deeper you go the devilish politics becomes.

I am proud of you especially how you can put ur head around that complexities of politics...Enjoy ur new hobby.....Don't forget ....ur other fans are waiting. smiley

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:54pm On Aug 20, 2015
kaboninc:


I see you have a problem with politics. angry angry angry

Well, I will resist any attempt, in any form whatsoever, be it overtly or covertly to take away my Miz from Politics. cool cool

But I'll welcome you gladly into the fold.... cheesy

Lolz...

I said it....there are here....I got to scurry off before the attack me in the name of Mix cheesy

don't worry kabonic I would not even dare openly or secretly to take her away....all I ask is can we share? grin
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:55pm On Aug 20, 2015
kaboninc:


I see you have a problem with politics. angry angry angry

Well, I will resist any attempt, in any form whatsoever, be it overtly or covertly to take away my Miz from Politics. cool cool

But I'll welcome you gladly into the fold.... cheesy

Lolz...

I said it....there are here....I got to scurry off before the attack me in the name of Mix cheesy

don't worry kabonic I would not even dare openly or secretly to take her away....all I ask is can we share? grin
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by kaboninc(m): 6:01pm On Aug 20, 2015
IsaacBuchi:


Lolz...

I said it....there are here....I got to scurry off before the attack me in the name of Mix cheesy

don't worry kabonic I would not even dare openly or secretly to take her away....all I ask is can we share? grin

Brother, this is an animal KingTom cool

We do not share things here. We fight for it. cool

There are many sweeries that should catch your fancy. MizMyColi, is definitely out of your reach. cool cool

But you are welcome into the fold though...like I said. cheesy cheesy

Here we'll teach you how to read someone insulting you and you laugh and grow a tough skin. You get to argue with goats and sheep and worms all in the shape of a human body. cool cool cool

Oh...we're derailing...and I promised Miz that I wouldn't derail her thread.... cry

I trust her to forgive me. kiss kiss

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Ngokafor(f): 6:13pm On Aug 20, 2015
Chillis:
I can see feminism train subconciously moving even for those who dont beleive in it cheesy

Op what are you preaching here.?

After una go write

Im not a femisnist.

Confused people.





.... I don die! grin grin cheesy

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 6:16pm On Aug 20, 2015
kaboninc, really animal kingTom...I can't help but lmao grin grin

No matter how a dog barks he cannot roar like a lion. MizMyColi no matter how she changes her skin she knows her root...She belongs to us. You just got to be polite to ask us to share wink

We are not derailing...our discussion is still about Miz been unemotionally available to his real family. grin grin wink smiley

***modified
As for the invitation no but thanks...I don't do politics...I only support political actions with good intentions and ideals no matter the party.

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by babygirlfl: 6:19pm On Aug 20, 2015
Ngokafor:





.... I don die! grin grin cheesy

Nne abeg no dieooo. Chillis has a way of saying the truth even in a funny way. She always cracks me up.

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by raumdeuter: 6:30pm On Aug 20, 2015
Has it occurred to some that a man has a lot of things going on in his mind at every point and is always under pressure to make things happen for his family

Imagine a man works round the clock, thinks of this that to make the family running and happy, he gets home next question you are not emotionally available

Should he just sit at home and be emotionally available while the house runs itself?
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Nobody: 6:47pm On Aug 20, 2015
Modified

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Kimoni: 7:02pm On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:



Which feminism are you on about? Is it modern feminism, true feminism or Nairaland Feminismgrin

Oh well, I have never been a fan of labels. I am more a fan of how to right the wrongs of the past and consolidating the rights for a better future...
How does a tete-a-tete with my sisters on relationships and self-perception matters relate to femininsm?

...Yet you call "them" confused people.
Smh

Madam, look in the mirror biko.

Ma'am, pls take no heed to what Chillis said. I can authoritatively tell you she was drunk when she typed that thing. If you ask her tomorrow to repeat what she wrote, she won't remember a single word angry

Pls don't let feminism arguments take over this beautiful thread again kiss

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by kaboninc(m): 7:25pm On Aug 20, 2015
IsaacBuchi:
kaboninc, really animal kingTom...I can't help but lmao grin grin

No matter how a dog barks he cannot roar like a lion. MizMyColi no matter how she changes her skin she knows her root...She belongs to us. You just got to be polite to ask us to share wink

We are not derailing...our discussion is still about Miz been unemotionally available to his real family. grin grin wink smiley

***modified
As for the invitation no but thanks...I don't do politics...I only support political actions with good intentions and ideals no matter the party.

You cannot offer her more than me nau. The loff I have for her can fill this earth. Ask her...she knows.

She's with meeeeee...... tongue

Am no sharewwwwing with you. I don't share sweeries.


So you like politics? Hmmmm Hmmmm

You support political actions with good intentions is just the same thing my Miz is harping about. We play politics in every facet of our lives....family, church, school, offices, weddings, kporakpo meetings...name it, politics is involved.

So pick your choose or choose your pick. Lol.

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by KingTom(m): 8:06pm On Aug 20, 2015
IsaacBuchi:
kaboninc, really animal kingTom...I can't help but lmao grin grin

No matter how a dog barks he cannot roar like a lion. MizMyColi no matter how she changes her skin she knows her root...She belongs to us. You just got to be polite to ask us to share wink

We are not derailing...our discussion is still about Miz been unemotionally available to his real family. grin grin wink smiley

***modified
As for the invitation no but thanks...I don't do politics...I only support political actions with good intentions and ideals no matter the party.


kaboninc:

Brother, this is an animal KingTom cool
We do not share things here. We fight for it. cool
There are many sweeries that should catch your fancy. MizMyColi, is definitely out of your reach. cool cool
But you are welcome into the fold though...like I said. cheesy cheesy
Here we'll teach you how to read someone insulting you and you laugh and grow a tough skin. You get to argue with goats and sheep and worms all in the shape of a human body. cool cool cool
Oh...we're derailing...and I promised Miz that I wouldn't derail her thread.... cry
I trust her to forgive me. kiss kiss

So I have become a subject of public ridicule abi? God just see my life cry
Make Una stop Na. grin

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by MizMyColi(f): 8:09pm On Aug 20, 2015
tongue

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by MizMyColi(f): 8:14pm On Aug 20, 2015
Kimoni:


Ma'am, pls take no heed to what Chillis said. I can authoritatively tell you she was drunk when she typed that thing. If you ask her tomorrow to repeat what she wrote, she won't remember a single word angry

Pls don't let feminism arguments take over this beautiful thread again kiss

Good evening ma'am.
Thanks plenty.
Lol.

Feminism is not even the issue again.
It is now politics.
Chaicheesy

@IsaacOnyebuchi @Kaboninc
Just leaving class now.
I will be back fully soonsmiley
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Chillis: 8:40pm On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:



Which feminism are you on about? Is it modern feminism, true feminism or Nairaland Feminismgrin

Oh well, I have never been a fan of labels. I am more a fan of how to right the wrongs of the past and consolidating the rights for a better future...
How does a tete-a-tete with my sisters on relationships and self-perception matters relate to femininsm?

...Yet you call "them" confused people.
Smh

Madam, look in the mirror biko.

You are still growing little one cheesy

You are still at the stage of Loving yourself better.

Very soon you enter the stage of loving those who are weaker to love themselves. Those who don't know better.

Feminism on the rise!
All hail the feminist mizcoli!!!!

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Chillis: 8:43pm On Aug 20, 2015
Kimoni:


Ma'am, pls take no heed to what Chillis said. I can authoritatively tell you she was drunk when she typed that thing. If you ask her tomorrow to repeat what she wrote, she won't remember a single word angry

Pls don't let feminism arguments take over this beautiful thread again kiss


Who is drunk between us? Drunk by 6am?
N'a so the drink dey catch you?

If na night I type am, I might be guilty. Not morning.

The OP is preaching feminism. Tomorrow she will shout, I'm not a feminist.
What happen to waiting for manner from boyfriends. grin

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Chillis: 8:47pm On Aug 20, 2015
babygirlfl:


Nne abeg no dieooo. Chillis has a way of saying the truth even in a funny way. She always cracks me up.

My dear check am now, she has a name for it. Tête a tête grin

Opoko.

Make una dey Dia dey shout I'm not a feminist.
E no concern moi.
I'm reaping the friut of feminism.
3yrs maternity leave with pay!

All hail feminism .

If na Nigeria you carry belly, the next thing you will see its sack letter.

TWah!

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by MizMyColi(f): 8:48pm On Aug 20, 2015
Chillis:


You are still growing little one cheesy

You are still at the stage of Loving yourself better.

Very soon you enter the stage of loving those who are weaker to love theirselves. Those who don't know better.

Feminism on the rise!
All hail the feminist mizcoli!!!!

Abiahgringringringrin

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Kimoni: 8:53pm On Aug 20, 2015
Chillis:


Who is drunk between us? Drunk by 6am?
N'a so the drink dey catch you?

If na night I type am, I might be guilty. Not morning.

The OP is preaching feminism. Tomorrow she will shout, I'm not a feminist.
What happen to waiting for manner from boyfriends. grin

grin grin you are drunk jor abi wetin consign feminism with this thing wey she write so

If I ask you tomorrow what you wrote and you remember, I'll believe you tongue
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Chillis: 8:56pm On Aug 20, 2015
Kimoni:


grin grin you are drunk jor abi wetin consign feminism with this thing wey she write so

If I ask you tomorrow what you wrote and you remember, I'll believe you tongue

So you mean you can't see relationship between her topic and feminism.

What do you think i have been preaching in this section. grin
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Chillis: 8:58pm On Aug 20, 2015
2sex:
Well said brother. I will add ladies should learn to contribute in a man's life value-wise. I don't know about other guys, but sincerely, sex is just no way to connect with me. There has to be something you offer that isn't readily available elsewhere.

Personally, I am a chronic lover-boy, romance or romantic personified, albeit they often abused it, thus my resolve to hide that part of me... I love a woman who has a mind of her own, who believe she can work to earn something no matter how small, one who strive to better her lot, without a man in it

I also don't like ladies whom, when asked a question, they reply with "I don't know" no matter how simple the question is. It shows level of shallowness, inability to make decisions.

This is what I'm talking about.

Another feminist!!!

Yippee.

Africa ôn the rise again

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Chillis: 9:00pm On Aug 20, 2015
Enoquin:
Beautiful! I wanted to open a thread about something like this but you beat me to it and rightly so because I procrastinated.

I love EnoQuin because it is only after I have loved her that I can truly love someone else. And yet it isn't a narcissistic kind where I believe myself above faults.

That is why it unsettles me when I see posts from ladies who believe it all begins and ends with a man. Yes, men have their value but so do women!

Loving your self is also valuing yourself and you will find that in doing that you subconsciously set a standard even for yourself.

An example: I found out last year that whenever my bae came to town I served him/us better than I served myself. If it was a meal like eba. I'd bring the washing bowl, hand wash, hand wipe, put the plates in a tray, open the water and pour in a cup and then we'd both settle down to a meal.
But when I was alone, even though I ate little; I'd use a wide plate, put small eba on the plate. Put my soup plate on the space of the eba plate, neglecting the tray. Sometimes, I'd pick a bowl of water, other times I wash my hands at the sink. An haphazard sort of service. To me it didn't matter, it was me serving me.
But why should me serving me be worse than me serving anyone else? Did I regard others more than I did myself?
And so the change began. I starting serving myself as I would another I loved.

Feminist!!

Another one.

Now I can take my whiskey and go to bed.

Job well done!

C'est fini.

Africa ôn the rise!

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Kimoni: 9:02pm On Aug 20, 2015
Chillis:


My dear check am now, she has a name for it. Tête a tête grin

Opoko.

Make una dey Dia dey shout I'm not a feminist.
E no concern moi.
I'm reaping the friut of feminism.
3yrs maternity leave with pay!

All hail feminism .

If na Nigeria you carry belly, the next thing you will see its sack letter.

TWah!

shocked shocked shocked Chineke meee

Cococandy, and you did not tell me since that this is what feminism is about make I don go collect form. Dis kain equality sweet o.. Choi

grin grin grin Chillis, you are drunk! Confirmed!!!
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Chillis: 9:07pm On Aug 20, 2015
Kimoni:


shocked shocked shocked Chineke meee

Cococandy, and you did not tell me since that this is what feminism is about make I don go collect form. Dis kain equality sweet o.. Choi

grin grin grin Chillis, you are drunk! Confirmed!!!

Dey Dia make pant dey wear you.

3yrs o. For 2nd child.

Kpomkwem grin

That's why I will fight and follow all protest to protect my darling adopted country.
Any protest dem call, I go even carry nakêd breast join enter road.

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Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:08pm On Aug 20, 2015
3 years maternity leave in the moon abi where grin

Don't mind chillisauce.
Kimoni:


shocked shocked shocked Chineke meee

Cococandy, and you did not tell me since that this is what feminism is about make I don go collect form. Dis kain equality sweet o.. Choi

grin grin grin Chillis, you are drunk! Confirmed!!!
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by cococandy(f): 9:09pm On Aug 20, 2015
Lol what's happening on this thread.
Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by Kimoni: 9:11pm On Aug 20, 2015
Chillis:


Dey Dia make pant dey wear you.

3yrs o. For 2nd child.

Kpomkwem grin

That's why I will fight and follow all protest to protect my darling adopted country.
Any protest dem call, I go even carry nakêd breast join enter road.

3 years without work plus full pay
All hail equality!!!!!





Somebody collect that bottle from Chillisauce angry angry

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