adeh39:


Nice one......I can see d changes in you now

CHANGE!!! LOLZ
I STILL DEY AS I DEY OHH.

sonofananimal:
I was once used or played like a card twice. That experience won't want a person to still give in again but rather look for another alternative.
Emotion is not something to toy with.

Yes you are right, but once you are that best, that's when you will see different kind of people trooping in with no concern of what you have gone through to be that best, some or many will want to take advantage of it.

I agree with you. Some girls were played upon, dribbled and then finally decieved. So they have also vowed to make sure every man they come across in live sees hell, just the way they were treated. That makes them behave in certain revengeful ways even when they are with the right person, which may also make them loose that good guy just because of yesterday's pains and disappointments. I understand your plight. This generation lacks the right orientation. When you are in love with a girl and you show her so much love she tends to take you very unserious and vise versa. Consequently, the circle of revenge continues to degenerate making the world the worse place to ever be. You must however, take solace in the fact that tomorrow will be better. Be positive. Find strenght within you and always hope for the best. That will surely help you forget about your past woulds that always come back to hunt you. Wounds are meant to be healed and not revived. Thanks.

repogirl:
just because you must talk doesnt mean you should talk rubbish.....now you just insulted her unconceived kid, maybe even cursed it, be watchful of your words, boy before they turn on you!

Gosh some idi'ots on this forum indeed have as's for brains!

You just repeated the same insults you complained about. Does it make any difference to you?

sonofananimal:
CHANGE!!! LOLZ

I STILL DEY AS I DEY OHH.

Lol....change nah

AreaFada2:


Wait o. In November last year, you said you have been dating for 6 months. When you were in doubt if to ask for financial help from him. 16 months is not quite up to 2 years ma.

Chaiiii see potential FBI

jamex93:
Yes please do . . . . .dont waste more time . . . . I proudly took from ladyf and introvert there birth ryt . . . . . . . . . Thats a good improvement

Congratulations

Orkpekyandega:

Chaiiii see potential FBI

The guy dey para... And yet we still have rookies in the NPF... I'm recommending him for any intelligence agency.. Nairalanders, wat do u think?

adeh39:

Lol....change nah

CHANGE NA PROCESS OHH.
NO WORRY! WITH TIME GRADUALLY

sonofananimal:
CHANGE NA PROCESS OHH.

NO WORRY! WITH TIME GRADUALLY

Lol.....u've changed ur siggy

Nice one

Orkpekyandega:

I agree with you. Some girls were played upon, dribbled and then finally decieved. So they have also vowed to make sure every man they come across in live sees hell, just the way they were treated. That makes them behave in certain revengeful ways even when they are with the right person, which may also make them loose that good guy just because of yesterday's pains and disappointments. I understand your plight. This generation lacks the right orientation. When you are in love with a girl and you show her so much love she tends to take you very unserious and vise versa. Consequently, the circle of revenge continues to degenerate making the world the worse place to ever be. You must however, take solace in the fact that tomorrow will be better. Be positive. Find strenght within you and always hope for the best. That will surely help you forget about your past woulds that always come back to hunt you . Wounds are meant to be healed and not revived. Thanks.

true talk, thanks a lot.

adeh39:

Lol.....u've changed ur siggy
Nice one

lolz. I JUST WANT TO GIVE IT A BREAK, DON'T YOU THINK SO!

Babe, no need of exposing him cos it will not change anything. Just move on with your life. I'm sorry about that.

sonofananimal:
lolz.
I JUST WANT TO GIVE IT A BREAK, DON'T YOU THINK SO!

Yeah....it's cool....thanks

OldJohn:



Guy you should be in your room reading your books. This place and kind of topics is not for kids like you. You no just good at all. You no sabi, dem dey teach u, u still dey ask as him take know. My friend tell your parents/guardian u don't need the phone again, its so much of a distraction for your young age

ignored

adeh39:

Yeah....it's cool....thanks

you are welcome!

Pls expose him so that you can help him and the lady he intend to marry,if you tell the girl she may forgive him but that will help the girl to know how to handle him and will also help him to change and if the girl refuse to continue the marriage it will still help him to know that it is not good to double date,but as for you both of you sex your self and sin against God repent and thank God that you didn't marry him then move on

eme40rald:

virginity sir

awesome11:

The guy dey para... And yet we still have rookies in the NPF... I'm recommending him for any intelligence agency.. Nairalanders, wat do u think?

Seconded

iammrjohnson:
seriously i see guys who date gals fr a long period of time witout any goal in mind as jobless people, how will you invest two years in someone's life and the lady will even invest more; her time, hope, plans, future, pride, backup,all the while saying no to most toasters thinking she's taken but you have no plan for her.. to me you're not a player,you're just totally jobless and have too much time on your hands

if it's sex u want,be clear about it and let her know her status..me no send anybody i'll tell u what i want,it's either you open or you go but i wont waste your time/hope on me

You are looking for more 'likes' I pity you!

Ike(cry)chukwu....

foura:
Pls expose him so that you can help him and the lady he intend to marry,if you tell the girl she may forgive him but that will help the girl to know how to handle him and will also help him to change and if the girl refuse to continue the marriage it will still help him to know that it is not good to double date,but as for you both of you sex your self and sin against God repent and thank God that you didn't marry him then move on

I quess you are wrong. The girl will get over it within 12hours, the marriage won't be call ff. And mind you, she would be happy she's the choosen one. 7 years no be here.



Moreover, why did she give her virginity when both are not married?

She was busy enjoying the guys money!

before i say anything need to get something clear..in,,your last thread dated,nov 2014 you raised where you said you been dating your bf for 6mths,here now less dan a year you say in this situation you been seein,each oda for 2yrs hmm..hence you just formulated this....no comment.

eme40rald:
Hello nairalanders

It is with sadness and hurt that I decided to ask guidance on what action I should take with regards to the event that happened in my life.

I met a guy two years ago and fell in love with him wholeheartedly in fact he is my first love. the relationship was fun and romantic. I lost my innocence to him. Although there were times I had suspicions and I would confront him about it but he always found a way to clear my suspicions. One issue I always felt bad about was that he never took me to his family. As at the beginning of the relationship about a month into it his sister got married and I was not invited I felt maybe it was too early and shrugged it off. he never used my pictures as dp claiming he doesn't feel its proper until we are married. apart from all these he was a sweet and loving man. we were like best friends.

Fast forward to two years later I did something I had never done before. I searched his phone while he was asleep and what I discovered was a blow for me. He was in another relationship!!! I stole the girl's contact and disguised as his colleague just to get information from her with time she was free with me. I discovered they had been dating for seven years and she lived in another state. just last week he said he was travelling for a business event only for me to find out he went for his introduction to her family.

confronted him and he has been begging me to forgive him.

Kind hearted nairalanders please what do I do? should I expose him to the girl or not.

So u mean for 2 whole years he never took u to his family?

eme40rald:
Hello nairalanders

It is with sadness and hurt that I decided to ask guidance on what action I should take with regards to the event that happened in my life.

I met a guy two years ago and fell in love with him wholeheartedly in fact he is my first love. the relationship was fun and romantic. I lost my innocence to him. Although there were times I had suspicions and I would confront him about it but he always found a way to clear my suspicions. One issue I always felt bad about was that he never took me to his family. As at the beginning of the relationship about a month into it his sister got married and I was not invited I felt maybe it was too early and shrugged it off. he never used my pictures as dp claiming he doesn't feel its proper until we are married. apart from all these he was a sweet and loving man. we were like best friends.

Fast forward to two years later I did something I had never done before. I searched his phone while he was asleep and what I discovered was a blow for me. He was in another relationship!!! I stole the girl's contact and disguised as his colleague just to get information from her with time she was free with me. I discovered they had been dating for seven years and she lived in another state. just last week he said he was travelling for a business event only for me to find out he went for his introduction to her family.

confronted him and he has been begging me to forgive him.

Kind hearted nairalanders please what do I do? should I expose him to the girl or not.

Expose him if you like, if you also like don't expose him ok, the choice is yours. My dear, you are a pathetic loser, my reason for calling you a loser is, you saw the signs and you ignore them. You understand he is not faithful to you, yet you decide to stay put. Women be bold, if you suspect fowl play get out of the relationship. Don't think for once you present guy is the best, until you meet another guy. Anyway, she should have known better never to put her trust in man.

I vote no.

If you play your cards right, as a loyal side piece. You may still get more than Susie homemaker.

Mznaett:



She needs it lol

u sound decent and polite. Are u?
Dont mind me oh. That is what I observed

goodgate:
There's absolutely nothing wrong in what the guy did, the girl should have known that Men are Polygamous in nature, and not all relationships lead to marriage. Exposing him will amount to wickedness, since he has asked for forgiveness.

But if a woman chops a mans money and walks away from the relationship you wont come here to claim that men should have known women are generaly looking for who will provide for them andbits in their nature to drop who ever cannot meet their expectations and move to the next one and that not every woman a man spends on should be expected to marry him. And such a woman should not be blamed cos its NATURE and women cant help it.
Well like I said, many men here are partial cis this was done to a lady. If the reverse was the case men will not wave it aside as NORMAL.

GodblessNig247:


u sound decent and polite. Are u?
Dont mind me oh. That is what I observed

Hmmm,,Ifa hear!

I lack words to say believe me
#shy

EyaaaaaaaAaaaaaaa mennnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnnn not man

witnezHD:
thanks didn't know

u can lie o

All i expected was an Amen! Or Isha Allah! Or So May It Be etc... Not the nonsense you forced me to read because you quoted me.

Excuse me! Do you know the op outside nl? Are you the nikita that she is talking about? If no...Who are you idiot to tell me that she didn't bring any thing to the table. Just STFU already.

ghostmist:
I'm more concerned about the impact the girl was able to make in his life;which we all know is ZERO!
Most of you bring nothing to the table...the young man simply made a choice between two options.Have the decency to respect his choice;it was borne out of experience.

repogirl:
just because you must talk doesnt mean you should talk rubbish.....now you just insulted her unconceived kid, maybe even cursed it, be watchful of your words, boy before they turn on you!

Gosh some idi'ots on this forum indeed have as's for brains!

sorry, i was too harsh in my post when i checked back (maybe i was under d influence of ororo or somtin ) but i think you av gone too far as well in your comment. After all, it is logical that after a lady has been dis, the status can never be reversed (that's the essence of my reflection that she shouldn't see it as a big deal but live with it and concede it as one out of her experiences in life). Afterall, u faced ur own when it happened and u did not commit suicide, i blive dat u did not even come online to report cos i sense dat u av lost ur status since Mary Slessor's Reign and social media was not this ridiculous (if u eat yam and bread n ur poo is hard, next tin is to com online and confuse MOD wit one tempting TOPIC n u r in the FP .... Trivial Private issues).
Another funny tin u ll b seeing is that d big sistas like u dat are suppose to regard the situation as norm and enjoin her how to live wit it and advise her against subsequent 'cheat', u will break down d whole system and worsen her case with d comment like: He is a bastard, go ahead and tell her Fiancee, He is a Cheat, He is an animal and so on and so forth, forgetting the fact dat som men fall victim of deceit from ladies sometimes all in the name of love and vice versa, d young lady did not say rape, they agreed and any story can come after that. The lady did not reflect that she has slept wit another man since then o (which is possible buh likely edited), U com here de run ur hand like Alligator, well i no blame u, the lady's situation was just a replay of ur story in ur refurbished brain, may be dats y u r so rude in ur comment just thinkin