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Mznaett:
Hmmm,,Ifa hear!

I lack words to say believe me
#shy

GodblessNig247:
I get . I think so. are u from the east?

Mznaett:
Am not o..

Boyooosa:
sorry, i was too harsh in my post when i checked back (maybe i was under d influence of ororo or somtin ) but i think you av gone too far as well in your comment. After all, it is logical that after a lady has been dis, the status can never be reversed (that's the essence of my reflection that she shouldn't see it as a big deal but live with it and concede it as one out of her experiences in life). Afterall, u faced ur own when it happened and u did not commit suicide, i blive dat u did not even come online to report cos i sense dat u av lost ur status since Mary Slessor's Reign and social media was not this ridiculous (if u eat yam and bread n ur poo is hard, next tin is to com online and confuse MOD wit one tempting TOPIC n u r in the FP .... Trivial Private issues).
Another funny tin u ll b seeing is that d big sistas like u dat are suppose to regard the situation as norm and enjoin her how to live wit it and advise her against subsequent 'cheat', u will break down d whole system and worsen her case with d comment like: He is a bastard, go ahead and tell her Fiancee, He is a Cheat, He is an animal and so on and so forth, forgetting the fact dat som men fall victim of deceit from ladies sometimes all in the name of love and vice versa, d young lady did not say rape, they agreed and any story can come after that. The lady did not reflect that she has slept wit another man since then o (which is possible buh likely edited), U com here de run ur hand like Alligator, well i no blame u, the lady's situation was just a replay of ur story in ur refurbished brain, may be dats y u r so rude in ur comment just thinkin

repogirl:
wooow, all this epistle on top the mata? Now it is obvious you need hep!

Oyind17:
My brother? guy I'm a lady o

noblegrex:
I've commented B4 I realise I have to ask a question first,which is;is the guy a poor guy.

eme40rald:
Hello nairalanders

It is with sadness and hurt that I decided to ask guidance on what action I should take with regards to the event that happened in my life.

I met a guy two years ago and fell in love with him wholeheartedly in fact he is my first love. the relationship was fun and romantic. I lost my innocence to him. Although there were times I had suspicions and I would confront him about it but he always found a way to clear my suspicions. One issue I always felt bad about was that he never took me to his family. As at the beginning of the relationship about a month into it his sister got married and I was not invited I felt maybe it was too early and shrugged it off. he never used my pictures as dp claiming he doesn't feel its proper until we are married. apart from all these he was a sweet and loving man. we were like best friends.

Fast forward to two years later I did something I had never done before. I searched his phone while he was asleep and what I discovered was a blow for me. He was in another relationship!!! I stole the girl's contact and disguised as his colleague just to get information from her with time she was free with me. I discovered they had been dating for seven years and she lived in another state. just last week he said he was travelling for a business event only for me to find out he went for his introduction to her family.

confronted him and he has been begging me to forgive him.

Kind hearted nairalanders please what do I do? should I expose him to the girl or not.