Phema:
I foresee marriages getting better and stronger when these so-called men of God start addressing their fellow men and advising them to love their wives as Christ loves the church.

Until then, we are just running round in circles and marriages will keep hitting the rocks. Because today's women have started demanding accountability from their men and have made the 'submissiveness' clause conditional.

Can't say I blame them.

Gbam. When will these men of God start telling men to stop cheating. They conveniently forget how many marriages are crumbling because of the all men are polygamous crew.They hardly tell these men to stop cheating and reminding them that adultery is a sin. It's always about how the woman should be submissive and pray for a wayward man to come back. Looking forward to hearing from a man of God that will tell men to pray and wait for a wayward woman to come back.

Ikiriye:

The question is are you guys born again

I am born again

freecocoa:
I'm not a religious person so I can't relate with the born again part personally, but I do know some men that are supposedly born again cheat on their wives, the preacher didn't even say not being born again is reason for it, he made it sound like the women are responsible for the man straying.

Cheating is solely on the cheat, regardless of what the other party did.

The MOG is acting on the biblical principle which must know Christ proper.people fake these things that's why you must study your future partner before saying I do.there is always the signs but we fail to act even when it is glaring dear

judedwriter:
If you see a single woman that has a good job, drives a posh car, there are good chances she is feminist. Was listening to a successful single lady in her 30's and she emphasised that no man can treat her anyhow or talk to her anyhow because of her status. No wonder when they eventually marry they pull down their marriages by standing shoulder to shoulder with their men? The marriage institution is about to collapse ayakata!

And they will still be asking us why are we afraid of successful and career minded women...women naturally are troublesome not to talk of one that live her life base on her coins...a successful man will treat everybody right,won't rub his wealth on people because he don't see the wealth as a big deal..but a woman,she automatically becomes bill gates in her small world

freecocoa:
And you are woman, alright.

She wants to appear different and shun reality. Who no wan look like Mary for Forum

kestolove95:
if d men don't patronise dem..d business won't strive..nd girls won't engage in it..so blame d men cox dey make d girls engage in it

smh. continue arguing stubbornly following western folly they call freedom.

Divorce is the case of anyone who accepts their freedom stance will get because this equality tale is pushed by feminist who disregard nd dont undrrstand the basic nature of a man.

E.g if you respect and honour your man, thats what he calls love, but feminists who are many at times lesbians ;would advice you against.

im no religious egg head, but the Scripture that says be not conformed to the world is rigt afterall.

Lol @Female President and male first lady. Oga Oyedepo, when woman become presido, her hubby na first gentleman dem dey call am oo. Walahi, you really nack the nail for head for this mata. Our women don dey find equality so teyyy dem don forget why Baba God even create them. May God deliver us from their desperation sha, aaamin!

Idrismusty97:
Are you calling god Boko haram?

Yes. If not worse. Didn't he use flood to destroy/kill thousands of people.

judedwriter:
so a man can't scold his wife LOL-i laugh in japanese dat kind of man shoud be wearing his wife's skirts while she wears his trousers.

Can a wife scold her husband?

I do understand letting someone know how they disappointed you with their actions but why can't you be respectful while at it?

Mintayo:
This thread will be very interesting... make i dey watch. I have always said it, feminism and christainity are two parallel lines. it cany happen.
But some ladies will still be deluding themselves by calling themselves "christain feminist", what a way to delude oneself!
The Bible is so clear about how a Christain Marriage should be, but deception, seducing spirit ;Dhad taken over.
Soon union between a man and a woman will be forgotten, it will be man-man, woman-woman, man-doll, woman-doll, man-animal, woman-animal and all sort of abomination, all in the name of freedom.
May God help us.

Well true to an extent, any woman who calls herself a feminist and a Christian at the same time is a joker. The thread isn't hot because of the fear of the "Man of god", They still believe a sky daddy will struck them down...Holding onto some misogynist religion and feminism at the same time, what a joke! Imagine if these words comes out of people like Timaya or any other men Twitter would start boiling. See them saying "It's true", "Hmmm" etc Nigerian feminists are bunch of jokers.

Rich4god:
I been wan reply you, but as I see ur dp, I just gv up...

the babe na rasta

Ilekeh:
I've stopped respecting MOG and I don't see that changing soon.
He's one of the reasons why marriages don''t last.
When two people discuss their marriage with another biased being, such as MOG, instead of working it out between the two of them, divorce happens.

Word

Ikiriye:


The MOG is acting on the biblical principle which must know Christ proper.people fake these things that's why you must study your future partner before saying I do.there is always the signs but we fail to act even when it is glaring dear

I know bible is misogynistic in nature but that's not the point, the man of God blamed women for divorces these days, didn't you read it?

ammyluv2002:
He's right! God bless him for saying the truth. I am the problem we have today as in we just no wan agree.

I am so heady & annoying. I don't rub shoulders with a man all in the name of civilisation #Trash

I ought to be submissive to my hubby without conditions

I think you ought to speak for yourself, miss.

kestolove95:
Rubbish...wat abt d men dat can stick dia prick to one toto?

Are u regarding the Bishop as "rubbish" or his notion and statement? Which ever ways, u just insulted an anointed man of God. Better pray for 4giveness.

jekbitu:
They will change when they are 50

SilvanusII:
ABEGEEEE!!!! Make I hear word. In a country where women pray for husbands. Who would willingly request a divorce except in situations where they av bin frustrated and abused. But NO! Sexist and Chauvinist that he is, he will blame the women for refusing to be doormats. Eish!!!! Behaving like one of the Pharisees who wanted to stone the woman.

There is hope after all.

Ilekeh:


Yes. If not worse. Didn't he use flood to destroy/kill thousands of people.

But those people doesn't believe in him now, he had to kill them all including their babies. Imagine you create a robot and gave him "Freewill" and then the robot used his "Freewill" to not believe in you? Such audacity! As a loving and merciful creator won't you destroy the robot? .

Idrismusty97:
It is in the Bible, It is in the Qur'an. Women are born to be slaves to men. The problem of every marital lives isn't about the man being a drunkard, or the man being unfaithful, or he being promiscuous. It is about the woman being unsubmissive! The Man of God is just echoing the glorious scriptures of the Bible. If you have doubts read it yourself to know that you are a destined slave, You don't have a say about your own future, career or ambition. Your husband owns your life period!. If you think otherwise you aren't a Christian.

and a woman will marry this man

Velocitron:


I think you ought to speak for yourself, miss.

And the Bishop should speak to himself too?

babygirlfl:


Gbam. When will these men of God start telling men to stop cheating. They conveniently forget how many marriages are crumbling because of the all men are polygamous crew.They hardly tell these men to stop cheating and reminding them that adultery is a sin. It's always about how the woman should be submissive and pray for a wayward man to come back. Looking forward to hearing from a man of God that will tell men to pray and wait for a wayward woman to come back.

When a man rushes to you to marry what do you look out for,fat wallet,good looks,good house,car etc.look out for a man that fears God before you start running from pillar to post

freecocoa:
Just imagine, so the woman should keep being submissive and prayerful and God will bring back wayward men home.

Christianity and misogyny, smh.

Any beter option? Divorce? For a man to cheat, divorce is so welcome, he would rejoice infact.

But unknowing to women, being a good/ respectful/respectable woman can bring a man back home. if the girls aint better than mine why would I be silly.

im not in support of cheating at all, but these things can be solved, especially when women stop taking advice from other women who don't know jack shi.t about men nd who have consistently failed in their own affairs.

Oyind17:










I av been close to many married people. marriage is not all about pleasing a man

If you ever meet a real,the man of your choice,the man you truely love,your eyes will be opened to many benefits of submission.Am talking from a personal experience.Since you dont know me,then use Omotola Jolade and Shine Begho that was in Cool FM as your case study

Oyind17:
Men want submissive wives, when they are not worth it. I should turn to a slave course I want my marriage to work or what? Man be submissive and I'll be submissive. I can't play the fool in a union we both agreed on. Sorry Bishop men are the problem not women

I can spot you there. I know your true color based on your comments on my posts.

A lady confessed for attempting to cheat, u were still siding her. You need a dck in your life.

Lesbianism will get you nowhere.
STD and STI is real

Midehi:

thank you my dear...if only they can stick to their wife alone and render the business closed, no man, no ashewo.

Hhenn! when they walk about naked, and patronize every juju home, why won't the biz trive?

freecocoa:
I was just wondering how you can be in support of what the preacher said, how a woman is supposed to be paying for and submitting to a cheating man

I'm not in support of the preacher but what the bible says. I'm speaking from a Christian angle here. I don't know your religion but as a Christian, women are expected to be submissive to their spouses unconditionally

Chillisauce:
Fake bishop.

After eating all their tithe you dey yan rubbish.

May God have mercy on you for your ignorance.

Oyind17:








and a woman will marry this man

He is Poor in mind sister disregard him

Ikiriye:


May you live longer my sister,the truth is always bitter.stay blessed

Lolz...And u too

shizzy7:
submissive WITHOUT CONDITIONS hahahaha

There are Unsubmissive Conditions..

I know but if we are to go by the Bible rules....We should be even in that Unsubmissive conditions