Kachisbarbie:


Lols
No vex. I just hate to be addressed as that, these days Nairalanders throw that word about carelessly.

kmcutez:


Everyone has an atom of dominance and submissiveness in them. Depends on which one is more dominant. I find cocky people cool too if there is a balance in their cockiness.

kmcutez:


Confident people are strong and they are balanced in every facet of their life. They know when to be submissive and when to be assertive, so they are both submissive and assertive, that is what makes them strong and confident and balanced.

I neither fear being submissive nor being assertive. I know when to be submissive and I know when to be assertive. My submissiveness has conditions and is not unconditional.

I will not be submissive to a cheat, a liar, a wife beater or someone that does not love or respect me etc. If that makes me a coward that is fine with me.

ammyluv2002:
Really? Aren't you tired of twisting thing. Don't lie just because you want to prove me wrong..like i said, i only aired my view so you can also air yours. What did i say in that comment? Pls, you are bigger than dis...Can't you see i didn't bother to reply your last post because i got tired of the mention. I also said " there's nothing we can achieve on our own without Christ helping us" i really don't get why you are taking this too personal. Seriously, i don't get it. Pls, I'm not trying to attack you so pls don't attack me. Shey, by their feet ba? Then let it be! I'm not here to prove anything to you. Pls, let's learn how to tolerant other people's views in spite of all your comments i didn't make funny comment about them so pls let me be, biko!

haul:


Woman relax, intimidated? That's too funny please.

She ooze of intelligence, my first time noticing the moniker though. Yeah I agree confident is sexy only if you find cocky people cool too

She's as atom of dominance in her, her comments prompt me to profile her and I was awed how someone could be that stonehearted .

ammyluv2002:
Amen! I wish you same too but getting a loyal man isn't the main thing.

The bible made it very clear to be submissive whether he's loyal or not just do your part and be submissive. It's difficult though but with Christ we can do all things. I listened to a Rev Fr yesterday on AIT and he said " You can't make someone change but your acceptance can make them conceive the thought"

MrDenygerian:
Yes women,.. be submissive like slaves.

If he beats you, be submissive.
If he hits the kids, be submissive.
If he changed after marriage, lost his job, and takes your salary because he paid your bride 'price', be submissive.

Do this all in the name of Christ.
1 Peter 4:13
But rejoice inasmuch as you participate in the sufferings of Christ, so that you may be overjoyed when his glory is revealed.




Fools.

freecocoa:
Stonehearted? Anyone who knows me will laugh very hard at that phrase.

kmcutez:


I agree that last post was tasteless but I guess the message was lost in translation. It seems the baby was thrown out with the bathwater, so I will just wave my white flag of surrender and be submissive.

kmcutez:


You will be surprised that based on that so called comment she will be more of a headache than a woman that is labelled a feminist, who is confident and sure of herself.

Based on that too, majority of the men that are looking for submissive women are control freaks and insecure. Nothing beats two confident people in a relationship.

haul:


thank God(no need since you don't believe) I don't know you, "stone hearted" was a conclusion of my premises.

ammyluv2002:
He's right! God bless him for saying the truth. Women are the problem we have today as in we just no wan agree.

We are so heady & annoying. You don't rub shoulders with a man all in the name of civilisation #Trash

A woman ought to be submissive to her hubby without conditions

dinachi:

I hope you won't mind if his love is also conditional? Many of you women screaming about feminism,are just people suffering from extra large amounts of PRIDE. Ofcourse submission is impossible if you are a very proud person or you do not have said self control. A humble woman will not find submissiveness difficult at all. So are you proud and lack self control?
If you can't submit why marry in the first place?
You won't submit to a liar and a cheat? Was Oyedepo talking about liars and cheats?
Do you also expect your husband to love you if you are a liar and cheat?
My dear it is either you become humble and submissive and enjoy your marriage or you keep engaging your husband in fistcuffs and die a sad,bitter woman. The choice is yours!

AfricanApple:

osazeeblue01:
MAY GOD BLESS U FOR SAYING THE TRUTH. ANYBODY THAT QUOTE U WRONG NEED DELIVERANCE , HE OR SHE SHOULD GO AND HIS OR HER HEAD IN OVIA RIVER.

freecocoa:
I don't think there's anything in my posts to suggest am stone hearted but I'm not surprised, it's very common to be mistaken for what I'm not by many men around here because of the kind of society we live in, it's all good anyways, I love the kind of men I attract.

ZionSpecie:

I still stand by her comment. You just can't fault it. Being confident doesn't mean you shouldn't be submissive. A submissive woman will be well respect by a worthy husband. Don't try to alter the ancient landmark.

kmcutez:


Why should I mind if his love is conditional. Is he not a human being like me. I myself can never love nor respect a cheat or a liar, so why should I expect any different from him.

What do you mean by was Oyedepo talking about liars and cheats? Are liars and cheats not men. Are men not husbands.

My respect is not unconditional. Sorry if this offends you but I make no apologies for it.

kestolove95:
Rubbish...wat abt d men dat can stick dia prick to one toto?

dinachi:

Are liars and cheats not women? Are women not wives? So what is your points really?
Why are you worried about liars and cheats, do you want to marry them?
Any time they talk about submission, you mention liars and cheats.
The point is you will be submissive to your boss authority in the office today even if he is a liar and a cheat but when you get home you refuse to be submissive to your husband.
It is simple really. Since you are too puffed up with pride and lack of self control, then do not marry, remain single.

haul:


You not mistaken, it is what you are on here that signals peoples perception, except you've got an oFfline personalty tho.

But this right here?..........

kestolove95:
Rubbish...wat abt d men dat can stick dia prick to one toto?

kmcutez:


What is my business if my boss is a liar or a cheat in his personal life. All I'm looking at is his professional capabilities. I will not respect him though if he is a liar and a cheat in his professional life, but as a professional you keep your feelings to yourself and do your work.

freecocoa:
Lol, with wisdom, but the man can do it however he pleases. Okwa la gi dis time.

subterfuge:
more than Ten million (10 million) PROSTITUTES (ASHEWO'S) EXIST IN LAGOS STATE ALONE.
THESE WOMEN CAN SLEEP WITH 20 TO 30 DIFFERENT MEN EVERYDAY.
THEY DISTRACT SOME MEN FROM THEIR WIVES

ammyluv2002:
He's right! God bless him for saying the truth. Women are the problem we have today as in we just no wan agree.

We are so heady & annoying. You don't rub shoulders with a man all in the name of civilisation #Trash

A woman ought to be submissive to her hubby without conditions

freecocoa:
This is the real me on relationships and I am beyond certain this is how it ought to be, I don't have to let

dinachi:

Good, as a professional wife keep your feelings to yourself and be submissive, case closed!

cococandy:

This girl sef.

Ijighi ahu o

Bibol:
I find it amusing when the failure of a marriage is blamed on a gender alone. If we have to be sincere with ourselves, it takes two correct heads to make a marriage work. Correct in the sense that both parties have to respect each other's feelings. As the man loves his wife, the woman is bound by the bible to submit her headship to her man.

If a man loves and adores his wife and she keeps proving heady, at some point he will get tired and just 'free' her. On the other hand if the woman keeps being submissive and she gets constantly treated like a doormat she will give up at some point. That's why you hear things like "oh, leave him, as long as I don't know who is cheating on me with he can go to hell" Why is this so? Because humans will be humans and we all have our breaking point. If both parties will follow God's injunction to the letter or at least try to follow, there will be more peace in marriages.