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Who wrote this write-up. Honestly, i must say you did hit the nail on its head squarely. I did experience the same and i must say you are absolutely correct.

1miccza:
Nice write up but i think the most important is her financial support

Nigerian men, gold digging since 14BC.

Xaurel:
Nigerian men, gold digging since 14BC.

Lolz...Nigerian ladies hiding their money since the days of Eve

Nice pm

realnelvin:
Who wrote this write-up. Honestly, i must say you did hit the nail on its head squarely. I did experience the same and i must say you are absolutely correct.

Thanks bro.

Can you share a tip?

sonofananimal:
OP!


WOMAN IS WOMAN, WEATHER WORKING CLASS OR NOR WORKING CLASS.

WE WANT TO MARRY A PERSONALITY, A WOMAN WITH DIGNITY, ATTITUDE, GOOD CHARACTER, SELF RESPECT AND THE LAST OF ALL! A PERSON WHO DON'T NAG THE HELL OUT OF YOU.



WORKING CLASS DOES NOT DETERMINE YOUR PERSONALITY OR CHARACTER. YOU CAN MARRY A WORKING CLASS WOMAN AND LATER FIND OUT THAT SHE IS A CHEATER AND HAVE BAD ATTITUDE.


@ OP!! THAT YOUR LIST IS CHILDISH AND INMATURE

Bro...I have tried to analyse all these working class ish and I discovered that the major cause of the frequent noise these days is poverty. To me, and potential woman is all that matters, a working class person does not gurantee healthy and long lasting marriage. Though, every home needs multiple source of income to survive but a wive who reasons with the husband financially is on point..

CaptPlanet:
He didn't mean to talked to her in that manner

but what em em but why ?

Hmm true talk

Missmossy:
Hmm true talk

Hmm, thanks.

You sha
About to join the Working Class Club...
Guess so?

emusmith:
Hmm, thanks.
You sha About to join the Working Class Club... Guess so?

Lol...very soon.

Xaurel:
Nigerian men, gold digging since 14BC.

Nope that's not gold digging in a family it's called support she would support him if she's a bit ok financially

Gbam

davide470:
You are quite a case.


So are you a working class lady?

hehehe

1miccza:
Nope that's not gold digging in a family it's called support she would support him if she's a bit ok financially

when a man asks money of a woman, its "supporting him financially", when a woman asks money of a man, its being materialistic or gold digging. Nice.

Great post.

Missmossy:
Lol...very soon.

I'm so glad hearing this. I know NYSC is at the doors or... Seriously if they did post you to pH, would love to know.

lol..u wicked oh.

vizkiz:
marrying someone as jobless as you are will be the biggest mistake of one's life

How does this work? i am new here

mecussey:
Bro...I have tried to analyse all these working class ish and I discovered that the major cause of the frequent noise these days is poverty. To me, and potential woman is all that matters, a working class person does not gurantee healthy and long lasting marriage. Though, every home needs multiple source of income to survive but a wive who reasons with the husband financially is on point..

EVEN THE WORK SELF, THEM USED TO SACK PEOPLE.

SO IF THE WORKING CLASS WOMAN IS SACK THE NEXT DAY, WHAT DO YOU CALL OF HER?

ALL I AM TRYING TO SAY IS THAT WE DON'T USE MATERIAL CAPABILITY TO CHARACTERIZE A GOOD OR BAD PERSON.

kaeforum:
Thats if u meet one thats willing to share, all that glitters is not gold, just becos u see a well dressed gals who spends on u during courtship doesnt mean she will do it when u wear her ring.
Most working class gals are selfish, they use their money for themselves only, so gold digger guys take note dont be fooled by her cosmetic generosity.

Atleast that will save me full spending on hungry undergraduate galz...

We don hear how many naija women r workin class even if de start work na dem go de form biggest gal....men will start getting tired of dem.....

emusmith:
So many relationship issues here and there. Guys and Ladies are asking so many questions such as:



a. Is it OK to date an undergraduate with the aim of marrying her?

b. How old is modest for a girl to get into a relationship?

3. I caught my girlfriend with another guy, should I break up with her?


A lot of salient and underlying factors exist why relationships of many years 'dilapidate' in a twinkling of an eye.

I'm not against dating an undergraduate but I'm against dating one with an undergraduate's mindset. There are quite many who believe they are not yet ready for this whole relationship saga hence doing you a favour hanging out with you. Shocking, but true. To such, I say, Bon Voyage!

As the age long mantra says, Only time will tell.

When these girls behave that way, some times, you don't get to blame them even as Ladies in general believe you know what you're up to coming to ask them out...The crux of this thread is Dating a Working Class Lady Has More Advantages And Better Chances Of A "Safe Landing"Than Dating An 'undergraduate'. Let's see some of my reasons:


1. Good Money Management Skill.

A working class lady better understand how hard it is to make money. Yes, she buys shoes and some times engage in profligate spending but with caution. She tries to keep a part for the rainy weeks, LOL. With this attitude of hers, you can hand your ATM to her without worries


2. Maturity

Maturity is built in her through the stress at work. Though girls will be girls but there are some things you won't see her get involved in. Imagine her working and schooling at same time, you'll hardly even see her in social networks sef. How we need mature ladies in the dating game and not just recharge card beggers.


3. Her Generosity Is Heightened

It is expected she has conquered the "Me Alone" attitude because a part of her salary goes to her family, supposedly. Some times, she sends some to her siblings. Most times, she is left with a little. At those moments, her dp will change, "Family is everything". True! Those guys in her work place wondering, "what's she doing with her money?". Now you know. You can be sure she will be of financial help to both in-laws.


4. She Has A 'better' Idea On What She Really Need In Her Man.

She has met several kinds of guys, so her choosing you is more of her "last resort". Having dated "many guys", you're one lucky dude. o:
You can't count on an undergraduate that much. She still has many choices to make: Uni, Masters, NYSC, Work place etc. Oh mehn!


5. Financial Assistance

She can be of great help when the burden of pre-marriage activities come knocking. Also, she won't just come into your house with her GMG, but with some of her things too that will benefit all. It's not compulsory but it's relieving, you know.

6. Less Time for Casual/Childish Stuff

It's hard to find a working class Lady who is engrossed with work find time to live carelessly (partying). It might exist but only in rare cases. More often than not, she spends time with her closest besties not with any T, D & H. If she is ALWAYS on Social Network, forget it. At least, you can tell she has a dream, a passion, a drive. Even if she is less busy, she tries to perfect her tailoring, dancing or designing skill. She hates being idle. Above all, childish stuff like being the FTC or making money out of guys on internet or real life disgusts her.


7. Work Exposure

Having to work with other married colleague of hers, she gets to know the real needs of every man thus coming into marriage with some form of relevant information. Just hope she doesn't meet the wrong women sha.


Have a good evening
#covers blanket#

bookmarked for some reasons.

@op,are u refering to ladyF in dat num 6 @op,are u refering to ladyF in dat num 6

[color=#006600][/color]@op,are u refering to ladyF in dat num 6 @op,are u refering to ladyF in dat num 6

OP, are u saying that lady F is not a working class?

........you wanna a hot body? you wanna buggatti?, a massareti?, a lamborughini? sipping martini?...

Better work B!itch.

That's all I have to say for this post.

Nice one tho Mr. Smith


(emusmith, HI sunshine). I trust you are well.

Xaurel:
when a man asks money of a woman, its "supporting him financially", when a woman asks money of a man, its being materialistic or gold digging. Nice.

Wrong again? When it's a marriage this does not take place instead they would agree and take financial decisions the asking from both parties wouldn't take place at all..

Xiadnat:


........you wanna a hot body? you wanna buggatti?, a massareti?, a lamborughini? sipping martini?...

Better work B!itch.

That's all I have to say for this post.

Nice one tho Mr. Smith


(emusmith, HI sunshine). I trust you are well.

Haha...This your comment is Hot!
I am, dearie. I can see the thread favours your ministry

makay200:
@op,are u refering to ladyF in dat num 6 @op,are u refering to ladyF in dat num 6

I didn't mention names o

ugsams:
bookmarked for some reasons.

State plz

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