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Have you ever crushed on someone and later;
You realise that you didnt love the person or you regret ever going crazy for such person due to time span.

Maybe you didnt find what you wanted in the person and you say to yourself 'What was i thinking when i was crushing on him/her'.

Your thoughts were real while crushing and later you wonder how those feelings disappear.

I guess crushing at time makes you feel awkward at the end.

Share your stories...

Every crush is a fake feeling (pretending to be love) already.

well i dont crush, but some of them that crushed on me later realised that,





they was just carried away by something

onemorepls:
well i dont crush, but some of them that crushed on me later realised that,






they was just carried away by something

what something?

Lol... It happened to me alot when I was younger.

Back them I would crush on any preety girl I saw bt nw when I see most of dem I begin to wonder what I saw in dem dat gave me sleepless nights

Crushes never last, so I just grit my teeth & endure them. Don't think I've ever dated anyone I had a crush on though because I'm aware it's only a fleeting feeling.

There was this one guy I had a HUGE crush on. I'd wake up early just to watch him go to work..through the window He killed it when he started talking to me. I want my crushes to be mute. I don't wanna know much about them or I get over it quickly. Same thing with people I admire. I never want to meet them in real life because if I did, something about them would kill the admiration for me. I guess I like the mystery & filling in the blanks with imagination.

I think I'm naturally a big crush-er (dat one na word? ) but I guess I have effectively killed that part of myself.
The thing about me is that if I have a crush on you and you start to seriously reciprocate it, 9 times out of 10, the crush will die.
IDK, I prefer liking someone that is relatively unattainable. If I can actually have you I don't really want you as much.

In the reverse, when I feel like people have a crush on me I feel so burdened... It's like I have this obligation to be sweet to them.... Stressful.