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Ucheosefoh:
Read what I wrote very well you will read where I wrote that communication on her part is poor I do most of the calling that is number reason for my refusal to call her, second is my pride which I will always protect because things like attention and affection is what suppose to come natural I have played my part and I don't think I should be dictating to an adult what to do. I am not possessive and will not. Third is that their was a day we had some issues we did not settle well before she traveled I tried settling it in order to avoid a repeat of it she said I complain a lot that I like prolonging issues, my dear since that day I vow never to complain in my life again and I am hell bent in keeping that vow.

Now i understand u very well, but jst give her a benefit of doubt and call her, then let her excuse be d main reason for u to take a walk. Gracias

oparaben:
Call her, let her explain. Don't conclude yet. What if she's been in great danger ever since then? Always give people chance to explain before concluding.

You are right but I hate to be tagged a nag the last time I try to resolve an issue of trust we had she said that I complains a lot which is an indirect way of calling me a nag since that day I vow never to complain again

Ucheosefoh:
her number is always available all this while

just ask her, there must be a reason

Ucheosefoh:
You are right but I hate to be tagged a nag the last time I try to resolve an issue of trust we had she said that I complains a lot which is an indirect way of calling me a nag since that day I vow never to complain again

Good for you