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Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

Good, but if he does not know how to take care of my home, she shall surely be shown the way out.

Op, u did nt add PRAYERFUL WOMAN to d attributes, or u think by her strength she can prevail? Capital NO

moronic advice.

seun I understand you are trying to makes nairaland fun for all but putting these trash on front page is not advisable.
leave things like these in the romance section and give us better things to read.

...op and his bullcrap again! ...Always justifying infidelity and giving excuses why men cheat or dump their wives..little wonder divorce cases are increasingly common.

..Maybe you and the zombies that agrees with you should mould your own type of 'Stepford Wives' who are 100 perfect without flaws like you are 100%flawless yourselves..Confused lots full of crap yet women put up with them daily.

...Clowns!

IzonOwei:
the world has actually relegated the seriousness of marriage in the times we live in...its so hard for men to be faithful these days...it will only take a guy who respects and appreciates good qualities in a women not to cheat on her...but such men are rare..sometimes even the few who are wel behaved end up falling sometimes... ...there are a few reasons why its so tough for men:

1..MONEY: money is such a bad thing for a guy who is struggling to be faithful to his woman...with so much cool cash there is this tendency for an average guy to ginger any beautiful lady out there...this is a very serious issue...i have had friends who were all churchy and chaste right through the university but are now womanizers after securing a job with SHELL,MOBIL,CHEVRON etc...so bad...money can make a man feel he can do all things...And we know the beautiful girls are on the prowl to get them well to do boys...

2..DECADENCE in the world presently..fornication is just right in front of all men...the internet,at our work places...Ladies wont let a chaste man think well...In the past sexual immorality wasnt much advertised,but now its viral(instagram,facebook,porn sites,bbm etc)...

For me...its all about applying scriptural principles and always putting the interest of Jah and our wives ahead of ours..then we can avoid hurting them...


E NO EASY OOOOO...

I agree bro that its not easy at all.

These ladies are everywhere and very very sweet looking things in different ways and sometimes i sit and ask myself how on earth was i able to live a sexually decent life with good money flowing because my case was not because of lack of money as i was making about 300k a month for over 10years and still faithful to a lady but today i get angry with myself because i still cant philander because its a sin and if only i can take an excuse from GOD just for one year but unfortunately its not possible.

I will advice men out there to relax and pick a lady that pleases their eyes"very very vital" because whatever pleases your eyes will please your soul then pray to GOD for the indwelling of the holy spirit so that they can live faithfully with just one lady because only a man with the fear,love of GOD and seriously filled with the holy spirit that can remain sexually faithful to one woman because its pretty difficult for a regular guy to remain sexually faithful to just one lady.Girls are too much everywhere and willing to mingle.

Toks2008:
Maybe this will sink in if i put it this way.

Given the chance to pick just one.

A cheating spouse who cheats even if you are not aware

A man that will out-rightly dump your ass.

I never mentioned that these virtues will make any man stick to only you but will not dump you and i dont know why many people keep missing Thia.

I am trying to get your argument seriously..If these attributes are to ensure a woman doesn't get outrightly dumped,then what's the point.A man dumping a woman is not when he throws her out and moves a new woman into his house.It starts from cheating.A man who does'nt stick to his woman has impliedly dumped her.And these days,most men are not ready to leave their wives.They just want to have fun out there and go home.So please,what's your point exactly?When your opening statement was that these tips will make it impossible for any lady to snatch your man?

Tunagee:
Good, but if he does not know how to take care of my home, she shall surely be shown the way out.

A humble woman will definitely learn to.

queenfav:
I am trying to get your argument seriously..If these attributes are to ensure a woman doesn't get outrightly dumped,then what's the point.A man dumping a woman is not when he throws her out and moves a new woman into his house.It starts from cheating.A man who deosnt stick to his woman has impliedly dumped her.And these days,most men are not ready to leave their wives.They just want to have fun out there and go home.So please,whate your point exactly?

Pray you don't ever get dumped as a wife as in dumped and then you will understand that these two are widely different.

Toks2008:
I agree bro that its not easy at all.

These ladies are everywhere and very very sweet looking things in different ways and sometimes i sit and ask myself how on earth was i able to live a sexually decent life with good money flowing because my case was not because of lack of money as i was making about 300k a month for over 10years and still faithful to a lady but today i get angry with myself because i still cant philander because its a sin and if only i can take an excuse from GOD just for one year but unfortunately its not possible.

I will advice men out there to relax and pick a lady that pleases their eyes"very very vital" because whatever pleases your eyes will please your soul then pray to GOD for the indwelling of the holy spirit so that they can live faithfully with just one lady because only a man with the fear,love of GOD and seriously filled with the holy spirit that can remain sexually faithful to one woman because its pretty difficult for a regular guy to remain sexually faithful to just one lady.Girls are too much everywhere and willing to mingle.

..i feel your condition bro..its just so hard...sometimes one would wish immorality wasnt a sin... ...na wa

Toks2008:
Pray you don't ever get dumped as a wife as in dumped and then you will understand that these two are widely different.

Well,I am privileged to mediate on at least 3 matrimonial cases daily in my office.I am a legal mediator with the ministry of justice.I would however love to know what it means to be 'dumped'.Enlighten me please?

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

4get abeg, if a man wants 2 cheat he ll do it. Its in some mens' blood.

Etizz:
Number 1 & 2 is OK by me

if you have a wife 1 and 2 qualities without 6 quality,you have not married a good wife.

@op I really want to be enlightened by you.Am all for learning anything that might help my profession.

queenfav:
Well,I am privileged to mediate on at least 3 matrimonial cases daily in my office.I am a legal mediator with the ministry of justice.I would however love to know what it means to be 'dumped'.Enlighten me please?

Been dumped is synonymous with desertion which is the only condition the bible gave for a lady to leave her hubby.1 Corinthians 7:15

The fact that a man is having extra marital affairs does not mean he has dumped or deserted the wife but the scenario usually plays out in such a way that the wife finds out he is cheating,gives him no breathing space and threaten hell for him on earth then the guy now leaves the home and at the end they say he dumped the woman.

I still maintain madam that if every woman can care less about her man's infidelity and focus on her life warning him to use protection if he must be doggy i believe the case of divorce as a result of infidelity will drastically reduce.

I keep saying this, i hate philandering with a passion but that will not stop me from stating the facts on ground.

In most cases,No atention seeking woman is really ready to snatch any man but just to share him but when the wife starts acting up,she eventually give her hubby away totally to the side chic and it becomes a case of husband snatching.

NOBODYY:
When a DESCENT loving wife come around...Come beat me

D TIN WEY GO BEAT U TO PULP DEY UR BODY. MY OWN NA TO LAFF LIKE HYENA WEN D TIN BEAT U FINISH

Toks2008:
A good thing a woman is admitting for the first time.

D points make sense

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sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

You are a rich liar, you should stop following stupid boys.. not all men cheat

Anything that will happen will happen.. if you like let your man be a Saint ...

Trns4mat:
Spot on

meeeen I go with number 2ajytime anydau.

WebSurfer:
You are a rich liar, you should stop following stupid boys.. not all men cheat

.m nt a liar ok,& who tod u I follow silly boys? Yes I totally agree wt u nt all men cheat bt dey are vry rare.

The kind of Mini skirt some girls wear nawa o.

I hope this girl wont continue dressing like this when i marry her.

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

When a girl is a Sex maniac and can ride her man 2 hours and upwards and she is sexually decent, the man will be running from sex.

He wont have enough strenght for her not to talk of another girl.

profojah:
For you to say this, I guess you've been cheated by a man before.. Eyaah Pele..

The Op writeups is actually right... If a woman should do all this for me(most especially, Good P*ssy, Good food, and Fear of God),. mhen!!.I'll quit the sh!t called Cheating..

hahahahahahahaha... Ok ooo.

Toks2008:
Been dumped is synonymous with desertion which is the only condition the bible gave for a lady to leave her hubby.1 Corinthians 7:15

The fact that a man is having extra marital affairs does not mean he has dumped or deserted the wife but the scenario usually plays out in such a way that the wife finds out he is cheating,gives him no breathing space and threaten hell for him on earth then the guy now leaves the home and at the end they say he dumped the woman.

I still maintain madam that if every woman can care less about her man's infidelity and focus on her life warning him to use protection if he must be doggy i believe the case of divorce as a result of infidelity will drastically reduce.

I keep saying this, i hate philandering with a passion but that will not stop me from stating the facts on ground.

In most cases,No atention seeking woman is really ready to snatch any man but just to share him but when the wife starts acting up,she eventually give her hubby away totally to the side chic and it becomes a case of husband snatching.

Wow, your point is that a woman should keep on doing all you pointed out, knowing her husband is cheating,just to avoid being deserted?It doesn't work that way.Ask any married lady here.Again,you are entitled to your own opinion.But from someone who has spent close to a year handling all sorts of matrimonial cases,I'll say you need a firmer grip on reality.No offense!

moscobabs:
madam shut up..men are polygamous in nature just put follow the op article to remain relevant in ur hubby house.

. Oga open up..& who tod u I don't ave all ds attributes? Men wil. Always be men evn f u like remove ur kitty cat place t on hs face he wl still cheat,cos wt d way thngs av change n ds world if u are nt a man dat can discipline & control ursef u wl fall into ladies temptations. Wt al ds fake butts,fake boobs,cosmetics,surgery evrywere & ladies are realy packaging demsefs wella..

Freemanan:
Are you a Philosopher?

Believe me, if you are married, you will know what i mean.

400billionman:
When a girl is a Sex maniac and can ride her man 2 hours and upwards and she is sexually decent, the man will be running from sex.

He wont have enough strenght for her not to talk of another girl.

Lol! so true bro.In-fact if every woman can try to make sure her hubby c*ms before leaving home every morning either by m action or actual s*x i believe the guy will even be tired sef to build up desire for another chic.

ilobasama:
My sister if you ve got these qualities, except them de follow u from ur village, ur man cant cheat on you.

sorry for ur pains

oga na u dem follow for ur villa

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

You tried, the above will work most of the time

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

Av you tried it before, wait a minute..... I assume you're not yet married