emerged01:
op,I completely agree with you but you can try arrange your points in order of importance. "Fear of God" should be number 1.

Make woman get fear of GOD dey cook trash all the time without any sign of improvement....Tarrr

Freemanan:

Okay OLD MISS.

Yeah, show some respect, boy. It's indeed miss. The old is allowed too

the world has actually relegated the seriousness of marriage in the times we live in...its so hard for men to be faithful these days...it will only take a guy who respects and appreciates good qualities in a women not to cheat on her...but such men are rare..sometimes even the few who are wel behaved end up falling sometimes... ...there are a few reasons why its so tough for men:

1..MONEY: money is such a bad thing for a guy who is struggling to be faithful to his woman...with so much cool cash there is this tendency for an average guy to ginger any beautiful lady out there...this is a very serious issue...i have had friends who were all churchy and chaste right through the university but are now womanizers after securing a job with SHELL,MOBIL,CHEVRON etc...so bad...money can make a man feel he can do all things...And we know the beautiful girls are on the prowl to get them well to do boys...

2..DECADENCE in the world presently..fornication is just right in front of all men...the internet,at our work places...Ladies wont let a chaste man think well...In the past sexual immorality wasnt much advertised,but now its viral(instagram,facebook,porn sites,bbm etc)...

For me...its all about applying scriptural principles and always putting the interest of Jah and our wives ahead of ours..then we can avoid hurting them...


E NO EASY OOOOO...

sandracoopert:
That is not 100% correct. In as much as doing these things can make some men happy and loyal, it won't keep some from cheating or still getting a new woman. A cheating man or woman cheat for no reason even when they have everything.

Maybe this will sink in if i put it this way.

Given the chance to pick just one.

A cheating spouse who cheats even if you are not aware

A man that will out-rightly dump your ass.

I never mentioned that these virtues will make any man stick to only you but will not dump you and i dont know why many people keep missing Thia.

I can't dispute the fact that the post is very correct.However there are men who are exceptions to these principles.I have an older friend who is a magistrate.She makes her own money,gives the husband regular se.x,dresses hot whenever she is home,respects him,cooks his meals and serves him personally despite having a housemaid,ensures she supervises the kids homework and prays with them before they all go to bed..You name it,she does it!Yet the husband still cheats.She has caught him severally and he begs for forgiveness.My point is a man who wants to cheat would cheat.It only takes a decision from a good man to stick to his wife regardless of whether she scre.ws or blows well.A woman should be on top of her game,make her home a haven..Yet its no insurance against her husband messing up.So,if the wife is diagnosed of cancer,which makes her bedridded and incapable of doing all the op said,what happens?Won't he cheat.There are colleagues I have that though not yet married,have already planned how they would cheat on their wives.One even said his wife would have the best car in the house as a bribe to keep her happy,while he makes himself happy with his side chicks.In marriage there are no certainties,no guarantees.If you do anything for a person with the intention of getting that person to respond in a certain way..You are in for a rude awakening.My grandma would say,don't say you are lucky,till you are married!

PunkyVeer:


Yeah, show some respect, boy. It's indeed miss. The old is allowed too

I know. And you got the noun right - "BOY".

RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL YOU KNOW

shikshark:
doing the laundry is an added advantage

which kind laundry when deres washing machine

People cheat. Even if their partner is Jesus Christ.

100 attributes wont help. That is life

Freemanan:

I know. And you got the noun right - "BOY".

RESPECT IS RECIPROCAL YOU KNOW

But of course, boy

moscobabs:

madam shut up..men are polygamous in nature just put follow the op article to remain relevant in ur hubby house.

Gbam! Thats all.

Women will read this article and without assimilating they start talking about men will always cheat and im like "what on earth were they thinking when they were reading the write up"?

If you like be an angel, a cheat will always be one but the point im making is that even if he cheats on you he will never even imagine dumping you NEVER except maybe he is under a very strong spell and that spell go try.

Missy89:
People cheat. Even if their partner is Jesus Christ.

100 attributes wont help. That is life

See yourself.

im sure you refuse to assimilate. Ladies..

Sijo01:
Non of the aforementioned can stop a man who wanna be snatched................ A flirt is a flirt even if he has 'Mrs. Perfect' as a wife.

spot on! Men cheat for no reason. They see it as an adventure

PunkyVeer:


But of course, boy

Aye love.

ElFenomeno1:


Oponu ayirada

like i said "added advantage" ill pardon you for your comment because it seems ure from indomie generation.
go and sin no more

Missy89:
People cheat. Even if their partner is Jesus Christ.

100 attributes wont help. That is life

Yeah. "PEOPLE CHEAT"

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

We r saying it increases d chances....I'm nt married though, bt I broke up with ma gf even wen she possessed all except d fear of God.... Culdnt imagine settling with who doesn't fear God

you have forgotten a very important part. if i married you and you were 120 pounds, i expect you to stay at 120 pounds till you reach 80 years old. dont become a sumo wrestler-linebacker weighing 300 pounds because that will annul all the six attributes you put up there

What exactly does this society want from women


i can't believe this post got 85 likes!!!!


The society is not being fair to women at all.

Why must a man's choice of life be blamed on his wife

I thought a woman was supposed to take care of the house singlehandedly while a man handles the finances, according to the society especially

How come to keep your husband "from being snatched", the woman has to do her part of taking care of the home and still handle her financial upkeep that is supposed to be the man's job, according to the society


What is then the work of a husband in our society with the 6 qualities listed above

From OP, i believe the man's role should be to eat the woman's food, enjoy her sex, enjoy her love, keep his money to himself, be proud of her sexual decency etc!!!


A MAN'S CHEATING ATTITUDE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIS WIFE!!!

A WOMAN IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HER HUSBAND'S SEX ESCAPADES!

A MAN WHO WANTS TO CHEAT WILL CHEAT, NO MATTER WHAT THE WOMAN DOES, CHEATING IS A CHOICE!!!

OUR SOCIETY;S ORIENTATION JUSTIFYING MEN BEING POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE IS WHAT MAKES THEIR MEN CHEAT AND LOOK FOR THEIR WIVES TO BLAME!!!

MEN HAVE HORMONES, DON'T WOMEN HAVE A STRONGER EMOTIONAL HORMONE


A CHEATING/SEXUALLY PROMISCUOUS SINGLE MAN WILL END UP A CHEATING/ SEXUALLY PROMISCUOUS HUSBAND, IRRESPECTIVE OF HOW
ANGELIC HIS WIFE IS

WOMEN, BE A GOOD WIFE BECAUSE GOD SAID YOU SHOULD BE. NOT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND FROM BEING WHO HE CHOOSES TO BE. HIS CHARACTER IS NOT YOUR MAKING.

femi4:
spot on! Men cheat for no reason. They see it as an adventure

GOD BLESS YOU

lovethchioma:
@op... from your writeup i can deduce that its allowed for a man to cheat only that they wont snatch him if the woman does all those things as mentioned in ur writeup. I'm also seeing most guyz here nodding their heads in agreement, that yes we might cheat but we will always come back to you provided you do all these. Just SMH. moral decadence is jst increasing in our society where most people who are not disciplined and lack self control think its ok for them to cheat. what ever happened to being faithful? any man who cheats does not deserve a good woman. people are now telling God that He is stupid for creating jst Eve for Adam and not Eves.
Cheating is so easy, how abt trying smth more challenging like being faithful. its only a man who fears God will determine to be faithful no mata wat.
Come ooo @op, how is it possible to snatch a man who doesnt cheat. Some who hate the truth wud b angry and want to quote me. oya over to una

This is one of the most intelligent response to the article i have read today and yes you made a very very good point but please lets leave morals out of this.

I am a living example and i can say anywhere that i have never cheated on any woman i have ever been with and of-course talking about just two ever from my teenage years.

The first one from 19 to 26 and she left because she believed i was cheating on her and another one took over from 26 to 38 before that one sef show her color due to a temporary set back i had few years back.

I am writing this for you to understand that when it comes to been faithful to a woman no woman is worth it and if not for Christ in me i will definitely be changing ladies like handkerchief and will never think of staying sexually faithful to any lady ever because you ladies don't deserve a faithful man and i mean most if not all of you so please preach your sermon to the naive guys.

I am not asking any-man to be unfaithful simply because its a sin to be adulterous and not because any woman is worth it and i want every lady to understand this that polygamy is never a sin and it is adultery that GOD hates. A man can marry hundred if he wants to and you either accept this fact or go jump into the lagoon.

Every lady should take her mind off that aspect of having her man to herself only and if GOD helps you to find a DECENT,AND DISCIPLINED GOD FEARING GUY then that your luck but men will always be polygamous and the earlier you accept the better.

So foolish that some ladies leave their hubby because he cheats on them and starts sleeping around with randy guys or marry another man that has other ladies or wives and i kept asking who is foolish.

I will advice every lady reading this,get your mind off the cheating nature of men and be happy with yourself.

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

U nailed it!

shikshark:
doing the laundry is an added advantage

well,2ru but dats d only tin I hate.i can do odas but not dis.i can do it once in a while wen I marry but not al d tym.my bf knws my opinion on dis& doesnt mind.i dnt pretend 2 do tinz I wont do.

Toks2008:


See yourself.

im sure you refuse to assimilate. Ladies..

assimilate to what?

Elesta:

U nailed it!

A good thing a woman is admitting for the first time.

Toks2008:


What happens to buying a washing machine?

Abeg park well.Im not talking about house maids here im referring to wives.

exactly,i hrd of a washing machine dats just 65k& it dries clothes after washin dem.il b a workingclass wife so y slave myself durin d weekends?technology has changed som tinz so no nid 2 stress urself out wen der ar machines 2 do certain tinz.

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

I hope this makes sense.

Total rubbish if the man is an atheist and does not believe in that rubbish fairy tale primitive and backward Nigerians believe in about a man in the sky...

You morons need to grow up

I cant believe you wrote all these epistle without even comprehending the write up.

Please read the article again then come back to comment.

JumiaQuickSales:



What exactly does this society want from women


i can't believe this post got 85 likes!!!!


The society is not being fair to women at all.

Why must a man's choice of life be blamed on his wife

I thought a woman was supposed to take care of the house singlehandedly while a man handles the finances, according to the society especially

How come to keep your husband "from being snatched", the woman has to do her part of taking care of the home and still handle her financial upkeep that is supposed to be the man's job, according to the society


What is then the work of a husband in our society with the 6 qualities listed above

From OP, i believe the man's role should be to eat the woman's food, enjoy her sex, enjoy her love, keep his money to himself, be proud of her sexual decency etc!!!


A MAN'S CHEATING ATTITUDE HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH HIS WIFE!!!

A WOMAN IS NOT RESPONSIBLE FOR HER HUSBAND'S SEX ESCAPADES!

A MAN WHO WANTS TO CHEAT WILL CHEAT, NO MATTER WHAT THE WOMAN DOES, CHEATING IS A CHOICE!!!

OUR SOCIETY;S ORIENTATION JUSTIFYING MEN BEING POLYGAMOUS IN NATURE IS WHAT MAKES THEIR MEN CHEAT AND LOOK FOR THEIR WIVES TO BLAME!!!

MEN HAVE HORMONES, DON'T WOMEN HAVE A STRONGER EMOTIONAL HORMONE


A CHEATING/SEXUALLY PROMISCUOUS SINGLE MAN WILL END UP A CHEATING/ SEXUALLY PROMISCUOUS HUSBAND, IRRESPECTIVE OF HOW
ANGELIC HIS WIFE IS

WOMEN, BE A GOOD WIFE BECAUSE GOD SAID YOU SHOULD BE. NOT BECAUSE YOU WANT TO KEEP YOUR HUSBAND FROM BEING WHO HE CHOOSES TO BE. HIS CHARACTER IS NOT YOUR MAKING.

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

Bros you are so on point, you have got all the points spot on.
But the problem is how many women have this attributes?

niggi4life:
Bros you are so on point, you have got all the points spot on.
But the problem is how many women have this attributes?

May GOD bless you bro and that takes us to scale of preference because if we start looking around we may never find a lady that has these qualities and this is why guys keep jumping from one lady to another.

Nkechi is a great cook

Tope is a magician in the bedroom

You just cant resist the humility of Janet then you run to nkechi to have a sumptuous meal and to tope for good sex and you just want to be around Janet because of her serene life style so you marry all of them for different reasons.

The question is "can't ladies just try to develop these attributes?" what is difficult in all these and trust me, all these cheating these ladies are crying about it may surprise them that even a randy guy might just find himself glued to the lady that has these attributes.

Good!!!!

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

Hahahaha.... it seems you are talking from experience, but generalization might be wrong sometimes.

I cant imagine hw sum1 wld bring Jesus into dis& say even if Jesus Christ is d partner,e wil stil cheat.its absolutely wrong& disrespectful 2 say so.in d old testament wen tinz like dis hapnd,pple died on d spot.tnk God 4 Jesus& His death 4 Us.as 4 d issue on ground,not all men cheat!!!most cheat but not all!!!i knw a woman who is hot-tempered,very big,has had many abortions in d past,has tried lesbiansm,smoking& all forms of attrocities but God stil gave her d best man!i can say it anywer dat He dsnt cheat!!!av stayed wit dem so I knw wat am sayin,she uses her story 2 encourage we youths.d man drives straight home after work each day& watches cartoon wit d wife& kids.so u c, dnt av d mentality dat all men cheat.Men who fear God genuinely do not cheat,some so called"born again xtians"may cheat but not a man who has d genuine fear of God!!!op ur points are cool tho