MRBrownJ:
FIXED!!!

Requote please and avoid quoting me fictitiously so highlight your points and dont make it look as if i wrote those.

But before you go on please answer these innocent questions..

1.How old are you?
2.Are you married?

When i get answers to these questions then i will continue to discuss with you.

Only

sparkleice:
I smell lies here.sme men will stil cheat on u evn aftr doing all these.evn f u want to gve him. Ur kitty cat everyday,tie. Ur two legs on d ceilng,cook hs best meal,and all dat he wil stil nt b satisfy wt u alone a cheat s always a cheat.so forgt ds post

are u talking from experience?

snowDiva:

My wife, afar?
I gbadun that kiss uh? Thanks

Toks2008:

Alagba Brown
I have passed the age of delusion and illusion.I have grown beyond fantasies and wishful thoughts.
Its not about what is right ore wrong and this is not about been happy or sad ore any form of sermon on the mount.
What is the difference between a man that cheats and a man with many wives?

RESPECT, CARE, RESPONSIBILITY, BEING FAITHFUL TO YOUR SPOUSE(s)
what you wrote is as crazy as saying that stealing and borrowing money is the same thing, come on bro!
if cheating and polygamy was the same thing then men wouldnt hide at the dead of night to perform one, while openly do the other.

Polygamy is an age long thing and a woman is monogamous in nature and any woman who disagrees should go ahead and marry two husbands and see how good it makes her feel.

whether men are polygamous or not, cheating AINT natural in marriage and thats what is IMPORTANT here, so keep trying to brainwash women otherwise!... the minute you understand what i wrote is the moment we will make some progress here!

I understand that many people especially ladies will never agree to my stand view.

because EVERYONE knows its WRONG, even the miserable and deluded women who desperately stay married to these cheating men due to social/religious/family pressure or what not

The day a woman starts hinging her marital happiness on her hubby's fidelity is the day she starts to embrace sadness.

the day anyone believes that there is possible happiness to be married to a DISRESPECTFUL, DISHONEST, DECEITFUL and UNFAITHFUL man, is the day we should believe pigs can fly.

Every woman should embrace the virtue i listed to be relevant in her matrimonial home and this has nothing to do with making the hubby stay sexually faithful to her and i repeat,all adulterers are definitely on a destructive path and of-course hell awaits them but this sermon won't change a thing.

these virtues only matter if these women are married to RIGHTEOUS men, and NOT philandering men. if you believe that married women should stay married at "all" cost, whatever the nature of their men, then they should also accept being BEATEN, being RAPED, being TREAT LIKE SLAVES, being MARRIED TO INCESTUOUS men etc

As difficult as it may sound,every lady should expect that guy to cheat and if he never does i say congrats to her. I don't expect any teenager to understand this or any one that is immature at heart but as they grow they will remember this fact.

LIE LIE LIE!!!! this is an insult to all the men that RESPECT their women/marriage/family and dont cheat! this is also an insult to the vows they took and therefore it nullifies that union. telling women that they should "gladly" expect the worst and put themselves in harm's way, just to stay married at all cost, is not only WRONG but also very FOOLISH. we all know what is RIGHT and nobody should settle for less.

Sabrwahaqqo:


My wife, afar?

I gbadun that kiss uh? Thanks

snowDiva:

, you think I will forget you?
Not possible my Queen !

how many women have all these.

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

and how many women have all these? the points are on spot though, nice one op

Joy1706:

Come, Toks are u sure you're ok? Is that supposed to be a consolation. Is the dumping worse than the cheating. I should do all these for a cheating man? I dey crase? If my husband cheats, he'll be the one doing all these to remain RELEVANT to me. What the hell is that?

It's women I blame. If they never stayed with their cheating husbands, all these insults wldnt arise. Mtchewwwww!

....You still dey ask??..the guy dey kolo no be small

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

OP may God bless u, u just spoke my mind, the no2 and 5 is mind blowing, thank you OP

KelvinC1:






if you Like make you get the WHOLE PASTORS PHONE NUMBER on this earth and if you Like go to the 36 states of NIGERIA including the LGA'S and do the BEST CHARM you know you can do including the FCT ABUJA.. Brother and Sisters, listen well well , the truth is, ANY MAN AND WOMAN WEY WON CHEAT, DEM GO CHEAT.. na inside blood dey tin dey run.. As for me I AM FAITHFUL.. #ADOYII

lol laugh no fit stop, and how you take faithful??

Abegi, all na story. No matter how hard u please some people(applies to both men and women) they still vanish if they want to.

Joy1706:

Come, Toks are u sure you're ok? Is that supposed to be a consolation. Is the dumping worse than the cheating. I should do all these for a cheating man? I dey crase? If my husband cheats, he'll be the one doing all these to remain RELEVANT to me. What the hell is that?

It's women I blame. If they never stayed with their cheating husbands, all these insults wldnt arise. Mtchewwwww!

Consolation that you are only good as backup and emergency purposes

A man who wants a God-fearing woman must also be God-fearing. A man who wants all the above must also do his part in the realtionship

shikshark:
doing the laundry is an added advantage

Na men life women come live so ooo. Abasi pls help us women. Amen.

chefremy:
even if you do all these,you just have to keep praying that they dont snatch him.

Men don turn to cars wey robbers dey snatch? lol

Valid points @ OP!

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

My fwend even if u do senseless things 4 d next 20yrs U're covered........ure d man of d day

NOBODYY:
Do all this over nd over again


They'll still snatch me...Na only u wan dey chop better thing

hahahahahahahahahaha......U're matter don tire me.....av granted u a 3weeks vacation frm Nairaland abeg find sumwere else go

Do all dis 6tinz & see if I wunt built an empire of luv & passion upon u ma future wifey

NemzySeries:

My fwend even if u do senseless things 4 d next 20yrs U're covered........ure d man of d day

jannies:
Valid points @ OP!

franksam2009:
OP may God bless u, u just spoke my mind, the no2 and 5 is mind blowing, thank you OP

Thanks guys.

For those calling for my head its apparent that they are either teenagers,immature at heart or do not know a jack about marriage.

This is not a teenager writing but a man who have lived 4decades and have experienced marriage first hand but i quite appreciate that not everyone will accept my view and thats what makes it fun and really exciting.

Guys must understand also that as innocuous as these points may seem,it may be quite difficult to find a lady that has all these virtues and the most important thing is to be tolerant,appreciate and celebrate her good sides,and try your best to ignore the bad aspects because no one is perfect.

Try to be faithful to your wife because its a hell bound act to philander. be patient to get one woman that pleases your eyes and pray to God for the ability to remain chaste not because of any lady but because of GOD.

GOD help us all.

Toks2008:



Thanks guys.

For those calling for my head its apparent that they are either teenagers,immature at heart or do not know a jack about marriage.

This is not a teenager writing but a man who have lived 4decades and have experienced marriage first hand but i quite appreciate that not everyone will accept my view and thats what makes it fun and really exciting.

Guys must understand also that as innocuous as these points may seem,it may be quite difficult to find a lady that has all these virtues and the most important thing is to be tolerant,appreciate and celebrate her good sides,and try your best to ignore the bad aspects because no one is perfect.

Try to be faithful to your wife because its a hell bound act to philander. be patient to get one woman that pleases your eyes and pray to God for the ability to remain chaste not because of any lady but because of GOD.

GOD help us all.

Amen

[quote author=HAKKINS post=37829625] dumping u is diferent frm cheating. read nd understand d mssg of d write up. TNK U[/quote I hear u tnx.

I LOVE GOD-FEARING & HUMBLE WOMEN

IzonOwei:
e no easy my sister oo..but we dey try sha...

abeg try wel wel o.e nor hard.Tamara is ur strength!

oreos:


Lazy shameless fool...why should cleaning up after your mess become your wife's chore-\

your full generation na fool... na person like go see woman dey do like mumu..

Spot on @ op! If u had omitted the fear of God, it wud be Total waste. I'm talking from experience.

j1mmy:


Total rubbish if the man is an atheist and does not believe in that rubbish fairy tale primitive and backward Nigerians believe in about a man in the sky...

You morons need to grow up

Please can you tell me why you don't believe in the man in the sky?

Toks2008:
Yes guys they say are naturally promiscuous and an angel as a wife may still not make a man sexually faithful to you.But im not talking about sexual faithfulness but the actual act of dumping you for another lady which is a terrible slap on the ladies in such situations.

But im happy to let every lady reading this to know that it will be extremely impossible for any lady to snatch your man from you if you have these 6 wonderful attributes.

1.A good cook: I can not stress this enough. If you know how to cook your man's favorite food and i mean you really take time out to ask him what his favorite is and you go out of your way to learn the act of preparing such food in the best way he likes for him whenever he wants it then you have secured him 50%.

2.Be his personal private LovePeddler: Don't be deceived,every man wants his wife to be a sex-maniac for him in the bedroom and the more timid you are the greater the chance of losing him so give him real good in the bedroom and zip him down when he least expects it and blow that trumpet so good and make his head spin and trust me, he will run home to you everyday. The most boring thing any woman can do is to always wait for her hubby to demand for sex "ooohh how boring" please develop the act of giving him first attack and scr*w the shit of him after-all he is your hubby and if you don't do him well,who will?

3.Financial independence: Please if you are a "full housewife" reading this i guess its time to free yourself from perpetual insult. get something doing no matter what and even if you are not allowed to do an office thing just try and get something doing because nothing trips a man than a financially independent lady even if you don't spend a dime on the home front,the fact that you have something doing that brings home money is good enough. And for those who play to their hubby's gallery of sit at home order,be ready to be mocked by same man when there is a tilt in his emotional balance.

4.Humility:Its so sexy to have a sweet humble lady who is non abusive to her hubby and his family,a humble woman will be full of respect and adoration for her hubby and even people around her and its very difficult for any-man to do away with a humble non abusive woman.

5.Sexual decency:I am not talking about your past but a woman who is sexually decent with her hubby and does not give room for the hubby to point an accusing finger at her is a delight to every man.A man gets turned on even more with the mindset that he is the only one having access to that honey comb but a sexually indecent woman is a curse to herself and the hubby.

6.Fear of GOD:A woman who fears GOD is a delight to her entire household and she will be a strong pillar for her husband and family. Her ways will be pleasing to GOD and apparently pleasing to her man.

If you are a lady who possesses these 6 attributes even without a child for him yet please relax yourself and don't bother about any lady snatching your husband.Yes if he is the randy type he may freestyle these attention seeking side chics but he will always run back to you and it will be extremely difficult for any daughter of eve to snatch him from you.

I hope this makes sense.

Hmmm...



Hokay!

Wow!!!......I'm really loving this!!!!

Thumbs up @op

kinglekan:

Shaygirl sup

KINGLEKAN...
Am absolutely kul

kinglekan:

Shaygirl sup

KINGLEKAN...
Am absolutely kul