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Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Filashade(f):
Quick question:

Why will any guy in their right senses ask a girl if they are a virgin?

Especially if u can guys just met?

Its only Nigerina guys i see do that. U guys r too nosy. Y dont u wait till u get to know her then find out urself.

The ladies have every right to flare up since u hv no manners.

But I dont know why a lady would get angry if you ask her her age? I mean so what if u look older than ur age? Deal with it!! Such is life!!!

Also i thought guys said they dont want no virgins so why u lot complaining? U want experienced babe. So get an experienced babe and leave Virgins for real men and not immature boys/players who just want to hit the cuchi.

Seriously Nigerian men r something else.

I tire for dem sef.

I just give up. U nigerina guys r already thinking about sleeping with her even though u just met her abi?

Is okay..

angry angry
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by paxson: 10:18am On Sep 10, 2015
Mzdivacious:
lol NO!I just hate d ways guy on here think its retarded
"girls are only after money"
"girls open their legs to anyone with money"
"girls are d problems in this world"
"naija girls are hoes"
"naija girls are gold diggers"
"girls are ugly without makeup"
wtf..nairaland guys grow d fck up already.e tin dagba o! grin
if I may ask,how old are u and are u a Virgin? don't lie o...A sha tin da gba! grin
Mzdivacious:
lol NO!I just hate d ways guy on here think its retarded
"girls are only after money"
"girls open their legs to anyone with money"
"girls are d problems in this world"
"naija girls are hoes"
"naija girls are gold diggers"
"girls are ugly without makeup"
wtf..nairaland guys grow d fck up already.e tin dagba o! grin
if I may ask,how old are u and are u a Virgin? don't lie o...A sha tin da gba!
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by paxson: 10:21am On Sep 10, 2015
oreos:
What is the essence of asking a lady the second question? Are you going to treat her any different based on virginity status? However there are situations where you could ask without making her feel insulted or awkward
to know the width n depth of the honey well na...buh wait o,wetin women no dey package ds days sef? guys are in trouble!
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:24am On Sep 10, 2015
Kachisbarbie:
I really don't see what's difficult about that question. When I was single, I answered those questions with ease. It was even easier to answer the virgin own than age, bc people doubt my age a lot. Maybe they ain't used to seeing a young lady come this far grin.

Why would a guy ask a girl abt her virginity? If she ask you your salary, shey they will come on NL to create thread?
Some questions are better answered with time.

When I meet anyone, the main question I ask is your full name, I don't know why... I love that question...lolz.
Still wondering what's difficult about the question. I totally agree with you that some questions are answered with time even without one asking. The funny part is when you tell a guy your real age without hesitant, they always doubt it. So what I do is to hike mine and watch them turn around to reduce it to my actual age.

I have also learnt to turn the tables around. I ask them these questions first and watch as they smile sheepishly while answering.cheesy
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:25am On Sep 10, 2015
Kachisbarbie:
I really don't see what's difficult about that question. When I was single, I answered those questions with ease. It was even easier to answer the virgin own than age, bc people doubt my age a lot. Maybe they ain't used to seeing a young lady come this far grin.

Why would a guy ask a girl abt her virginity? If she ask you your salary, shey they will come on NL to create thread?
Some questions are better answered with time.

When I meet anyone, the main question I ask is your full name, I don't know why... I love that question...lolz.
The thing is ladies ask guys a lot too. But when we ask them...they get offensive. How am I to know u detest those? But u have been asking me all this while... any girl with her virginity will answer. Those without jobs or degrees get offended too when u ask them...women believe they have the right to ask guys any questions and guys should not get offended..shey na u come approach them.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:27am On Sep 10, 2015
Fourwinds:
it not all girls but some do things dat make guys say those things u listed.

I have also seen..look advice girls more than boys but boys tend to listen to advice more than girls. I once work in a girls school.. they dislike any one dat advice dem against dating...they just want to do it..

now fast forward...when they are 20-25 years and a guy who now date them put forward those two questions
definitely they will feel uncomfortable because as teens they were very eager to date and along d line got disvirgin... do u know what they lack...patience
lovely..God bless u 4ds sincerity... and its d truth...deer was a pre degree lady I was advicing in skul 2 focus on getting her admission first buh she no gree o she sha one date..
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Morizo(m): 10:28am On Sep 10, 2015
A lady ' age in d eyes of d public keeps her glowing inside out. So its private. But her virginity is her feminine pride. So guys back off please
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:33am On Sep 10, 2015
EggovinMma:
It's only a primitive man that will ask a lady if she is a virgin. It's also only silly and coward men that beat up women.
haha. .guys need to know d mileage. Y asking guys how many gfs they have had? when u are asked in return...u begin vex? Y? again, as women ask guys abt their finances and workplaces to gauge if marriage could be imagined ..guys ask abt the age and virginity to know if loyalty can be guaranteed.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:35am On Sep 10, 2015
Filashade:
Quick question:

Why will any guy in their right senses as a girl if they are a virgin?

Especially if u can guys just met?

Its only Nigerina guys i see do that. U guys r too nosy. Y dont u wait till u get to know her then find out urself.

The ladies have every right to flare up since u hv no manners.

But I dont know why a lady would get angry if you ask her her age? I mean so what if u look older than ur age? Deal with it!! Such is life!!!

Also i thought guys said they dont want no virgins so why u lot complaining? U want experienced babe. So get an experienced babe and leave Virgins for real men and not immature boys/players who just want to hit the cuchi.

Seriously Nigerian men r something else.

I tire for dem sef.

I just give up. U nigerina guys r already thinking about sleeping with her even though u just met her abi?

Is okay..

angry angry
lovely.. I used 2 wonder if ladies lyk u still exist... I guess I shld stop wondering.. #placing importance importance on purity...
besides dnt generalise ooo...
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:36am On Sep 10, 2015
Morizo:
A lady ' age in d eyes of d public keeps her glowing inside out. So its private. But her virginity is her feminine pride. So guys back off please
u don't wanna imagine how d place is...whether e go mak sense or not?
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:38am On Sep 10, 2015
kosplateau:
The thing is ladies ask guys a lot too. But when we ask them...they get offensive. How am I to know u detest those? But u have been asking me all this while... any girl with her virginity will answer. Those without jobs or degrees get offended too when u ask them...women believe they have the right to ask guys any questions and guys should not get offended..shey na u come approach them.
Not every girl with her virginity will answer that question. The guy dey hunt virgins abi wetinhuh Most times you only get to know about a girl's virginity when you try to get down with her.

As for me, I will answer truthfully depending on the context in which the question is asked.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by oluFELAxy(m): 10:44am On Sep 10, 2015
As for me, I'll surely ask for her age, bt nt her virginity status.
Though i'll let her know my terms- am not interested in marrying a lady that has lost her virginity. that will make her react.
and if after wedding, h discover that she is not a virgin, then she has stories to tell.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:45am On Sep 10, 2015
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:48am On Sep 10, 2015
softysparky:
Not every girl with her virginity will answer that question. The guy dey hunt virgins abi wetinhuh Most times you only get to know about a girl's virginity when you try to get down with her.

As for me, I will answer truthfully depending on the context in which the question is asked.
every virgin lady answers oh. as ladies dey hunt for rich pockets...guys dey hunt for virgin punaani. nothing is normal any more.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:49am On Sep 10, 2015
Fourwinds:
so someone will just grab. u and marry u without knowing all these things rite.huh
yes. If you look and like what you see go ahead and marry.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Mzdivacious(f): 10:50am On Sep 10, 2015
Freemanan:
We sell hear.. undecided
yh yhundecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 10:52am On Sep 10, 2015
AdaNri1:
yes. If you look and like what you see go ahead and marry.
olooo...seeing isn't believing.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Mzdivacious(f): 10:54am On Sep 10, 2015
paxson:
if I may ask,how old are u and are u a Virgin? don't lie o...A sha tin da gba! grin
if I may ask,how old are u and are u a Virgin? don't lie o...A sha tin da gba!
lol jamb qweshun
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 11:01am On Sep 10, 2015
softysparky:
Not every girl with her virginity will answer that question. The guy dey hunt virgins abi wetinhuh Most times you only get to know about a girl's virginity when you try to get down with her.

As for me, I will answer truthfully depending on the context in which the question is asked.
Aha!
How old are you undecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 11:06am On Sep 10, 2015
kosplateau:
every virgin lady answers oh. as ladies dey hunt for rich pockets...guys dey hunt for virgin punaani. nothing is normal any more.
Okay.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 11:36am On Sep 10, 2015
paxson:
to know the width n depth of the honey well na...buh wait o,wetin women no dey package ds days sef? guys are in trouble!
That is not a reasonundecided
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 11:45am On Sep 10, 2015
Freemanan:
why is it a question?
that's why you shouldn't ask. You don't need to know.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by bammy777(m): 11:53am On Sep 10, 2015
olamigbemi:
Smile? 27-29 n m here tinking I look 23-25! Actually am really 20
. Oniro oshi.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by bammy777(m): 11:55am On Sep 10, 2015
olamigbemi:
Believe me some guys are dumb enough to ask that! I didn't just typ dat to book space it actually happen a very stupid guy walked up to me n ask for my name! After dat s nxt question was how old r u?
. Lol he wanted to know mayb he's dealing with MINOR.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by uppa(m): 12:03pm On Sep 10, 2015
Mzdivacious:
why would we claim to behuhthe guys asking are they virgins or God.op are u avirgin??mtchew
u guys shd know no girl feels sorry or guilty or cheap again.we doing d same thing niggas are doing so take a fxking break .the question is actually annoying.why d hell would d first thing u ask me be about my sexuality its fcking private
madam even though no one has asked for your age or if you still a virgin, you just proved the op right cos you done dey para already, am just wondering what you will do if you were asked the questions
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 12:06pm On Sep 10, 2015
1) a gentle man shuld not ask a lady abt her virginity...it soundz judgemental n nt necessary, she can can volunteer de info on her own if she lyks2) a civil guy shuld know hw to couch questions abt a gurlz age...don't com raw n direct...imply it n be as polite as possible cool
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Obaf16(f): 12:18pm On Sep 10, 2015
cozy7:
Make up makes them look mch younger (and disgusting), so they always live in d mind set of being younger....ALWAYS LYING ABT THEIR AGE. Secondly, 99.9% of them aren't virgins, but claim to be.

So asking them those 2 questions makes them remember their past records....hence d anger.

Op, u should even be happy that they don't bite u sef
The questions r not for u
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Obaf16(f): 12:19pm On Sep 10, 2015
futprintz:
1) a gentle man shuld not ask a lady abt her virginity...it soundz judgemental n nt necessary, she can can volunteer de info on her own if she lyks2) a civil guy shuld know hw to couch questions abt a gurlz age...don't com raw n direct...imply it n be as polite as possible cool
Gbosa
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Nobody: 12:22pm On Sep 10, 2015
[color=#27408B]*Clears throat*
Eheen Kachisbarbie, I've been meaning to ask you. How old are you?
And softysparky, how old are you too? + ha you a fagin?



grin grin
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Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by Obaf16(f): 12:37pm On Sep 10, 2015
Before i opened,i was expecting something different frm dis because i don't c any big deal in these questions,but some guys r stupid they don't knw appropriate time to ask such question. Anyway guys don't b deceive by artificial virgin,i hv my reasons.
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by UpLoyo: 12:38pm On Sep 10, 2015
Laitesmart:
Why do ladies find it difficult to answer some questions the way it is? simple, straight and direct. Some ladies will flare up when guys ask them some certain questions using the anger as an excuse to avoid the question. Questions that on a good day are actually harmless.

These two questions are always headache for ladies and i dont know why. Maybe the ladies in the house can let us know.
The questions are...
1. HOW OLD ARE YOU?
2. ARE YOU A VIRGIN
[size=25pt]The answer if quite simple, because only a f00l, a chronic bab00n and an imbec1ile with no functioning brain cells will ask a lady such a question. will the guy that owns this website please create a dumb.ass section/retarrds section for some of you jerkoffs that has nothing better to do with your life than a girl's virginity. [/size]
Re: Why Do Ladies Flare Up When Asked These Two Questions? by canDy4eva(f): 12:56pm On Sep 10, 2015
domopps:
I give up on you!


Even when your younger bro end up dating ur grandma's age mate by being gullible like you !




Cheeeeeeeers
hmmm...
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