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To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(op): 10:35am On Sep 12, 2015
They said guys go into relationships for sex And intimacy(How Truehuh) ... Why then do ladies go into relationshipshuh Especially those that will tell you they are not ready for marriage.


A friend told me courtship is a scam and fraud. He said if I guy tells you " I want to court you" it's tantamount to saying "I want to sex you" And I agreed with him on that as I have seen a marriage that didn't last six months after 10 years of courtship And a Marriage of no courtship that lasts for Eternity.!

I realized *from personal survey* that :

90%of ladies have boyfriends for monetary/financial benefits *imagine a girl telling her boyfriend "You can't be sexing me for free* (how's she different from a prostitutehuh).
And they tend to dump the guy sorry as$ should he default in meeting up with their demand. And move on to the next victim.

What happened to Being self Independenthuh

8% of ladies have boyfriend for sex. *Imagine a single lady coming to social media to lament about how she's being sex starved. (lipsrsealed) when does pre marital sex become a necessity undecided

What happened to Abstinence till Marriagehuh

2% of ladies have boyfriend for support. They need someone they can talk to and share things with.

Which category Did you Belonghuh



P. S. I stand to be corrected. No bashing or derailing please.
Let us Interact in a Mature Manner.
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Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by feran15(m):
90%huh? please what kind of people do you move with?

so of all the people around you, no one is dating a guy because they 'love him' and not for the money or sex?
please madam, re conduct ur survey.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by JeffreyJamez(m): 10:42am On Sep 12, 2015
Who says the word "sexing"..huh...sounds annoying
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 10:42am On Sep 12, 2015
this is crazy! oya to the boys why do we have girlfriends!? angry
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 10:45am On Sep 12, 2015
clearly the question is meant for em ladies/girls, buh 90% of comments will come from the guys.



PM™
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 10:45am On Sep 12, 2015
feran15:
90%huh? please what kind of people do you move with?
Na 90% of the people she came across... lol tongue
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Akkord4gov: 10:46am On Sep 12, 2015
I want to read lies
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 10:47am On Sep 12, 2015
Let me park here first...
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by FruityLass: 10:50am On Sep 12, 2015
90% for money?

8% for sex?

2% for support?

What kinda olosho survey is this.


So there are no hardworking, selfdepedent and career driven ladies.

Ok
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 10:50am On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
Let me park here first...
Excuse me Miss, there is no space for parking here cry
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 10:51am On Sep 12, 2015
FruityLass:
90% for money?
8% for sex?
2% for support?
What kinda olosho survey is this.

So there are no hardworking, selfdepedent and career driven ladies.
Ok
guy no para Na personal survey la grin cheesy
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by makingsense(m): 10:53am On Sep 12, 2015
Na even guys dey comment self.









Well I came to read comments
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 10:54am On Sep 12, 2015
Jetjacky:
this is crazy! oya to the boys why do we have girlfriends!? angry
Lol... Procreation!

*runs away*
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(op):
FruityLass:
90% for money?
So there are no hardworking, selfdepedent and career driven ladies.

Ok
Those kind of ladies don't have Boyfriends.. They had rather keep their relationship with the opposite sex neutral.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 10:55am On Sep 12, 2015
I seriously think most ladies have b.fs cos of the companionship,the care,love, attention and what have yhu,not necessarily for the gain......most times when the afore mention reasons are lacking,the affair no doubt turn boring and tiring,that is why even when a lady is dating an extremely wealthy guy,she wouldnt still feel contented or satisfied...why? Becos that companionship, and mutual frndship is nt there....







So to those guys thinking,ladies engage in the dating world cos of the gain,stop that weird mentality,she can only come in for the gain if yhu force her or turn a pest.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by FruityLass: 10:56am On Sep 12, 2015
Jetjacky:
guy no para Na personal survey la grin cheesy
Ok, am a man.

Why would I be dating a guy for money afterall I can work my ass up.

Ok, sex? There are those who have itching ho**s.

And yea for support......together we can make it.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(op): 10:56am On Sep 12, 2015
Ladies where are youhuh Guys Abeg give ladies space.
Introvert and ladyF una dey run tongue
Aminat508 no laugh for this matter ooo. Oya modify undecided
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 10:57am On Sep 12, 2015
Freemanan:
Lol... Procreation!

*runs away*
No!! please don't run... come here! abi you done branch transgender! or are you shy!? tongue
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by FruityLass: 10:57am On Sep 12, 2015
[quote author=Omotayor123 post=37932028][/quote]you are right.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 10:58am On Sep 12, 2015
Jetjacky:
Excuse me Miss, there is no space for parking here cry
i don already park here wether u like it or not.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 10:58am On Sep 12, 2015
FruityLass:
Ok, am a man.

Why would I be dating a guy for money afterall I can work my ass up.

Ok, sex? There are who have itching ho**s.

And yea for support......together
confused! man... or girl... or trans... No verse!
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 10:59am On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
i don already park here wether u like it or not.
Okay Na... but this place dey bust tire oh tongue
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by FruityLass: 11:00am On Sep 12, 2015
Jetjacky:
confused! man... or girl... or trans... No verse!
confused nigga cheesy
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 11:00am On Sep 12, 2015
How come na only boys full dis place,dis thread is meant for the ladies not those guys down there.. Shuooo.
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Aminat508(f):
Most women really don't care whether you have money or not. That may seem shocking, but it's true. cool


What women do care about is HOW YOU MAKE US FEEL. kiss

You need to be able to give us an EXPERIENCE. You can do this with money - but sometimes it works even better to do it without money . not only sex matter abegi grin

there is more to the equation than cash YES

Show us love, care, nd be contented.

Mae West once said, "A man can be short and dumpy and getting bald but if he has fire, women will like him." A man with "fire" gives women good experiences that they remember. And those experiences do NOT have to cost a lot of money
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by misspicy(f):
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Jollyjoy:
I seriously think most ladies have b.fs cos of the companionship,the care,love, attention and what have yhu,not necessarily for the gain......most times when the afore mention reasons are lacking,the affair no doubt turn boring and tiring,that is why even when a lady is dating an extremely wealthy guy,she wouldnt still feel contented or satisfied...why? Becos that companionship, and mutual frndship is nt there....
So to those guys thinking,ladies engage in the dating world cos of the gain,stop that weird mentality,she can only come in for the gain if yhu force her or turn a pest.
.

This is the answer on every girls lips,so niggaz keep ur fvcking money to yourselves,spend it on your families and h**s,use it to attain success....not coming to spew trash on nairaland....



Besides all this school boys, corpers and job seekers wey dey Nairaland so,how much money do you af that y'all claiming you spend on girls,your parents are still giving you money yet you will claim you are giving girls money,please how much is your allowance sef


And Op expect this thread on FP anytym.from now
Lalasticlala loves my postsgrin

Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by loomer: 11:02am On Sep 12, 2015
For money and hot sex na
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 11:02am On Sep 12, 2015
FruityLass:
confused nigga cheesy
assing eh! no body confuse pass me now... so tell me abeg to satiate my curiosity!
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(op): 11:03am On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
I seriously think most ladies have b.fs cos of the companionship,the care,love, attention and what have yhu,not necessarily for the gain......most times when the afore mention reasons are lacking,the affair no doubt turn boring and tiring,that is why even when a lady is dating an extremely wealthy guy,she wouldnt still feel contented or satisfied...why? Becos that companionship, and mutual frndship is nt there....







So to those guys thinking,ladies engage in the dating world cos of the gain,stop that weird mentality,she can only come in for the gain if yhu force her or turn a pest.
But most ladies tend to see money first before any other things..
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Omotayor123(op): 11:04am On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
How come na only boys full dis place,dis thread is meant for the ladies not those guys down there.. Shuooo.
Na Amebo carry them come grin
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Jetjacky(m): 11:04am On Sep 12, 2015
Jollyjoy:
How come na only boys full dis place,dis thread is meant for the ladies not those guys down there.. Shuooo.
Lol shoo?? Na so you dey take do your own magic?? cheesy
Re: To The Ladies... Why Do You Have Boyfriends??? by Nobody: 11:07am On Sep 12, 2015
Omotayor123:
But most ladies tend to see money first before any other things..
i dnt see money first,maybe those that see money first will do justice to this your statement but one thing is sure, there comes a time when the money turns boring without the care,attention,time and the rest.,..









My humble summission.
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