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Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by thelish(f): 11:51am On Sep 13, 2015 |
DeeTus: OK, |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by bukatyne(f): 12:02pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
martyns303: The husband should have explained to the wife that he expects her to do the cooking after marriage and the cooking before was just part of wooing/courting. Since the husband's job is more flexible, she can cook in bulk bi-monthly and stock a lot of canned vegetables/blanched vegetables/blended pepper/moin moin and other edibles while the husband prepares daily if she will not be available. This should not be a cause for disagreements And if the wife cannot cook, let her learn from her husband. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by EfemenaXY: 12:08pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
reminiscing: This is so skewered. Pls could you tell us what the man's responsibility is then? Does he automatically become her father too, as soon as he signs the dotted lines? 3 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 12:11pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: The duty of d man is to provide for the family and from time to time,help out in d kitchen wen he is chanced. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by EfemenaXY: 12:13pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
reminiscing: Provide what, exactly? And what sort of "from time-to-time" help are you talking about? 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 12:21pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
EfemenaXY: Its lame arguing with you. 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by sneak3(m): 12:23pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
That the guy cook before now doesn't require the wife o relegate him to the constant cook at home. Stuff like dis need understanding btw d parties involved. The wife shld show the cooking will even wen its not convenient by so doing the hubby wil not see it a big deal helping web Eva he's dispose to. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by EfemenaXY: 12:29pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
reminiscing: Why do you see this as an argument? Aren't you adult enough to see through your line of thinking? Or do you just regurgitate information without fully understanding it? My questions are simple enough. You were quick to state what a woman's role MUST be as soon as she gets married, but you suddenly go coy when I ask you to be more specific on what YOU think the man's role MUST be in equal measure? C'mon, you can do better than that. 2 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by pmc01(m): 12:30pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: I apologize. I was only teasing about sheathing swords cos of your husband. For the records, I respect women and you included, I'm sorry I came out disrespectful. However, it doesn't have to do with the gender. Best regards. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by EfemenaXY: 12:32pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
sneak3: So why then did he bother learning how to cook in the first place? If he believed that cooking is 100% the woman's prerogative?? 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by pmc01(m): 12:37pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
freecocoa: I apologize. I was only teasing about sheathing swords cos of your husband. For the records, I respect women and you included, I'm sorry I came out disrespectful. However, it doesn't have to do with the gender. Best regards. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by pmc01(m): 12:41pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
emsheddy: |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by coolheed: 12:42pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva: It is important that we are factual and not make a general rule from an exception. I don't pray that my responsibility to cater for the family is performed by my wife. The Bible and Quran call the husband the head of the family and this is also supported by the African culture. Have you wondered why women carry babies in their wombs and not men? Why women give breast milk to their babies and not men? Western culture are alien to our society as they question everything including God and this potentially lead to destruction. The western advocates of equality in marriage are the ones propagating same-sex marriage, sexual organ transplant, open marriage, gender swap and other practices that are "devilish". The point is that man and woman have different roles and responsibilities. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 12:43pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Am disappointed in All these Lazy and spoiled brats ladies shouting HOUSEHELP. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 12:47pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
reminiscing:You must be high, cooking is not a responsibility of mine, I may prefer to do it because I actually like to cook my own meals or because I'm the better cook, I didn't sign to be his mother please, I signed to be his wife and he didn't marry me for food, why marry if you can cook or get meals somewhere else then? 5 Likes |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 12:54pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
pmc01:It's alright. Best regards too. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 1:04pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
agarawu23:lol you done make me verse! how come u no allow me no tay tay... aya do quick throw the party! |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 1:08pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
dukeolumde:thanks I have always wanted to know the meaning of that.... 1 Like |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 1:11pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Freemanan:lemme guess you're a good cook yourself... if not una go by down restaurants.... BeCaUsE My BroThER food is important |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 1:14pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
emsheddy: |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 1:15pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
kandiikane:Millenia. But I see your point. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 1:15pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Jetjacky:I Am a terrible cook... Food is surely important.... But I Am serious, Don't really give a damn about eating anything.. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
reminiscing:Also during football match. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 1:19pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
reminiscing:Also during football match? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Pamelayoung: 1:21pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
RedCard1: You are very wrong my dear, cooking 4 a woman is d last thg a typical igbo man will do. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Pamelayoung: 1:23pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
pcguru1: I quite agree with him, men love women that gives them tough time they don't like it wen it comes easy. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Nobody: 1:26pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
@post, I like home cooked meals but I also like my woman to always turn up in well done manicures.Always. So I insist on doing the cooking. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by Jetjacky(m): 1:32pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Freemanan:lol... Na you know |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by EfemenaXY: 1:38pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
BoboYekini: ***faints!*** |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by emsheddy(m): 1:41pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
thelish:My dear, where that one for happen nau? abeg wife no dey kneel down till her husband chop finish for Isoko and Urhobo jor...I know they kneel (at times) to offer water for washing hand. My isoko mothers dey flex their marriage and some of them even frown at how marriages break up anyhow today because of 'I too know' of today's young ones. By the way, shey you go tell your boyfriend-turned-husband to continue to cook for you because him been dey cook when una still be bf and gf? |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by freecocoa(f): 1:45pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
EfemenaXY:African gentleman style, he still had to insist. These people no go kill person. |
Re: His Newly Wedded Wife Won't Cook For Him by emsheddy(m): 1:46pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
ireneidiva:Madam abeg, if the mothers in your own area will happily run out of marriage, the ones in my area won't! They had to endure a lot to get to this stage, I agree. but they will never tell their husbands to cook for them. Never! |
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