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Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:21am On Sep 08, 2015 |
Drinkwater:ok |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:22am On Sep 08, 2015 |
ronald4lif:headquarters no dey c dis kind tin o |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 4:33am On Sep 08, 2015 |
Eniqurl:"True tho"? Do you already have a boyfriend at this your age? |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Cutehector(m): 5:20am On Sep 08, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva:wat d op posted 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by czarr(m): 5:30am On Sep 08, 2015 |
I refuse to be taken for granted! |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 6:32am On Sep 08, 2015 |
Its both ways. |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Eden007(m): 7:01am On Sep 08, 2015 |
So true...Love itself is complicated. |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:42am On Sep 09, 2015 |
so true...wonder if nigerian ladies really know what they want or is good for them....#rampant media-delusioned nigerian ladies |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by martinoonline(m): 11:13am On Sep 10, 2015 |
And this is coming from a lady...You're a gem dear! Gone through your profile, you've got a good grasp of relationship matters. @Mzflexydeeva...I think you should consider a career in relationship & dating counseling. Have you? 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:24pm On Sep 10, 2015 |
martinoonline:Hmmmmmmmm! Well still considering but wud rather be a host on such issues. A lot of ladies are blinded by the norms of wat aa relationship shud be that they forget that there's no set rule. Some day I hope to get tje chaance cos it's something I really love doing. 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by martinoonline(m): 5:59pm On Sep 10, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva: Ok then. Wishing you the very best! |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Marcelinho(m): 6:18am On Sep 11, 2015 |
Hi swedy, can we talk...privately Eniqurl: |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 6:21am On Sep 11, 2015 |
martinoonline:thanks |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Adeshizzy: 9:13am On Sep 12, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva: well said 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 5:56pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Waoh!! You are incredible! Two bottle of Oriqin for you. Op |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 6:56pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Donabydeco:abeg bring am fast. |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Maximillian1: 9:23pm On Sep 12, 2015 |
Phinagold:what's this one saying |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 8:38am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Mzflexydeeva:Hope this enough?
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Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 9:01am On Sep 13, 2015 |
Rubbish! Ladies pray for guy like this so if a girl is taking u for granted why not dump her undeserving soul? I was faithful to someone who took me for granted, made me cry and turned me into a laughing stock. I dumped his sorry soul, only regret is that I didn't leave him earlier. |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by mrkay101(m): 11:41am On Sep 13, 2015 |
carzola: Speak for urself bro 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Phinagold(f): 3:37pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:42pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Donabydeco:correct guy 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 4:43pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
mordtonia:easier said than done. Sometimes people don't realise wats right in front of them |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Maximillian1: 6:44pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
Phinagold:mtchewwww....xo fr ur mind nw u funi |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Nobody: 11:10pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
your 100% right. one girl just started doing that to me. but thank God for my no 6 though she don play me small 419 sha |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Meekmind(m): 11:45pm On Sep 13, 2015 |
uote author=Mzflexydeeva post=37772704]Equality is a big problem among both sexes today. There is a common saying these days that "what a man can do a woman can do better" and it is no longer news that finding a perfect partner is impossible but as impossible as it is, some people still like to say they have found a perfect partner. Its not because they have really found a perfect man or woman but one who fits in perfectly. Understanding is what makes a person fit in perfectly but it is rather sad to see some guys getting heart broken for their nice and cool attitudes. Some girls think its their right to have a nice guy around them but the truth is, rather than feel it its your right, just be grateful you have a great guy. Whereas some girls pray for a good guy, others take the guys they have for granted. Some attitudes in guys which girls take for granted include: 1. GENEROSITY - In this context, generosity is in terms of finances. Simply because he is generous enough to spend doesn't make it your right. Lots of girls are quick to abuse this gesture taking it as a sole entitlement. Some guys have the cash but will never spend it on a girl. So if a guy spends on you, don't take it as an opportunity to open an office or extort him. Learn to say thank you because the fact is, a guy gives because he wants to not because he has to. There's nowhere its written where a guy has to be financially responsible for you because he's dating you. 2. GENTILITY - A guy who treats you like a queen should be seen as a king. Simply because he's calm, polite, courteous doesn't mean he can't be bad or rude. Its really sad to see some ladies tarnishing the image of a guy they claim to love simply because he treats them with courtesy. A lot of simple, calm, polite guys are often taken as maga, they seem to be seen as weak when in actual sense they are the real men who know what it is to take care of a woman. 3. LIGHT HEARTED & PLAYFUL - Loving a guy who plays like you are both in primary school is to be desired. Dating a tyrant or a bossy guy is in itself bondage. That a guy plays with you a lot isn't enough to disrespect him irrespective of the age difference. Some guys enjoy having their girlfriends as play mates. This doesn't mean he's immature or probably childish but when you treat him like a child, disrespect or take him for granted because he's always in a cheerful mood and has a good heart, the essence of having a friend is defeated. There should always be a line irrespective of how free and playful a guy is with you. 4. PATIENCE - Most ladies take patient guys as fools, feel they can ride on them, mistreat them and even give a nonchalant attitude. Patience is a virtue. It takes a great man to know the value of patience and understand how it works. Its difficult to find people who are really patient today. Don't think that because he is patient you can keep been the unbearable girl and he'll keep coming back. There is always so much a person can take. So when you have a guy who is patient with you, its not a reason to keep pushing him. 5. SINCERITY & OPENNESS - That he keeps you in the known isn't weakness. That he tells you everything isn't stupidity. That you know everything about him isn't your power.... A lot of ladies see this as weakness in as much as others crave for guys who keep no secret. He's not telling you things so you know when to use his weakness against him rather he confides in you out of trust. Don't make him look any more weak than he already accepted to you. Don't go about sharing his story, don't give him a biography of his weaknesses every time you have a fight. Be his safe place, a shoulder to always rest on. 6. LOVE - It is a common saying that " when a girl knows how you feel she will take advantage of you". This is rather alarming. In thus generation where love seem like a mirage it is surprising that some girls would still find a guy who genuinely loves them but would over do things turning him into their toy or a maga or even their last option. True love is hard to encounter but never turn a love so pure into darkness. Our attitude towards people also affects the choices we make in life. It is that little thing that makes a big difference.[/quote]. wow, Op u just rekindled unwanted memories, I did all of this and more for a relationship that spanned a year & half, I did everytin u pointed above and more, even extended my magnanimity to her family thinking we were on same page but neva got quarter of what gave..she became so rude, disrespectful, arrogant, full of ego...I showed her way more than she deserved...In the end I just had to save my self from the needless emotional trauma by calling it quit...The one sided stuff was hell on earth, i don't blame her though, I blame myself 4 loving the wrong person rightly and hanging on to her hoping she would change...It's well sha 1 Like |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 5:32am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Alicho7:lol |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Mzflexydeeva(f): 5:33am On Sep 14, 2015 |
Meekmind:hmmmm! A lot of guys suffer this fate knowingly or unknowingly. |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Phinagold(f): 2:21pm On Sep 14, 2015 |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Akinbahm(m): 8:27am On Jun 09, 2017 |
Use all the world grammar to criticise their behaviour won ni gbo de po ki won gba... Well what I noticed about them all is just that they are confused. |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by Sarang(f): 9:59am On Jun 09, 2017 |
I have someone who all this description fits, the kind of a man you will say to until I die will never leave. Some guys are nice honestly. I actually believed this..chai mumu mumh o |
Re: 6 Attitudes Guys Possess Which Ladies Usually Take For Granted In A Relationship by imma2(m): 10:29am On Jun 09, 2017 |
Wish most Nigerian girls see this. But "No". The spirit of scam is imbibed deep within them 1 Like |
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