Gejpresident:
Useless story

Useless hoe

I won't pity u cos u are a gold digger

Abroad matter will kill all this stupid girls

Come to Melbourne and see how Nigerians hustling cos of bitchh they got at home

That's good for u hoe

JustCalMeDBoss:


My dad did not ask about the family my sis got marrid. All he cared about was to preach GRAIL MESSAGE to the guy. now the guy is messing up. I put it to heart not to forgive ma fada infact I hv disowned him. And I swear not to bury him.

tpiander:
I cant comment until at least six threads have been opened on this topic.

AmicableEd:
Please help me, i need to know what people in my shoes would do if this had happened to them.

I had a great love story. Yes, it seemed then. The man came like a rolling stone and hit me so so badly and left me. He felt his pre determined action was accomplished, while l was left nearly a fool.

We met through my close friend. He saw my picture on her Display picture on BBM and pressured her to link him to me.

That was how we got talking. Before you know it he asked me to be his woman. I was glad because l loved him. The attractions was not spontaneous. It grew against all odds.

People cautioned me saying he looked more of a playboy only ready to break hearts. I confronted him with all these things.
To my surprise, he did not hide who he was. To him, that was his past. He had ran away completely from it.

I admired his 'sincerity' and 'honesty'. And l felt that truly many of us had had an ugly past, and when you say you have come to Jesus, and you are seen behaving like a follower of this Christ, who then can condemn you?

This made me grow to like him more. Do l say like? I think he swept me off my feet.

Then he proposed in a dramatic way and we had a beautiful introduction between our two families. Even the way it was packaged, it was more like a wedding ceremony, that you would not expect another.

But that was the way he wanted it. He was traveling out of the country, and would start processing my papers from then, so l was made to believe.

I am 25years old but God, l have seen deceits. I have experienced broken heart. Despite the fact that l prayed. I thought l prayed and received direction.

However, the happenings after the introduction proved otherwise.

I now got to understand that he asked for the elaborate introduction ceremony because he was applying for a marriage visa in UK and he needed pictorial evidence.

I learnt he had already got a fake wedding certificate but needed me to do an appearance for him.

His intention was that once he was out of the country he would cut off all communications between us and leave me waiting endlessly for him.
God is gracious.

My supposed fiancé was expected to process the traveling documents for both of us, but he had gone to the embassy for the interview. Yet he kept me from knowing this. Now, it is almost a year after the introduction ceremony, l have not heard any word from him.

You would say where are his family members in this?

When we were dating, he was the one coming to meet me. We stayed in different but close states. He knew all my family but l only got to know his own on the introduction day.

One friend of his who said he did not want to hide anything from me because he sensed l am too decent to be treated in this manner, had to open up to me on many things. He confessed most of them, on getting to know me felt bad that such was being done to me.

One of them was the way my lover tried setting me up, using another friend of his to toast me and work on me to see if l would fall for the ploy. He wanted to use that as a strong reason for leaving me, that he caught me with another man.

He failed. But l am no more engaged.

My parents are not into the know now. They felt we were passing through a phase as we have some irreconcilable issue we are still working on.
Please tell me. How do l tell family members and friends who witnessed the ceremony and those who had heard about it that l have been left unprotected. No one to call my own. That l am starting again. But, is it not too soon?

The whole thing looks like a bad dream?
Let me quickly wake up from it, Lord.

The shame!

This is my true story. I am devastated that l could fall for a 'sucker'.
I was blind and deaf to all signals received prior our introduction.

Now, l am alone. Where do l go?

I can not stand to hear,'So you have seen what we were telling you.'

Help me.

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/09/i-had-great-love-story-but-it-turned.html

MrsPhyno:
We can't help the babe so don't title this post 'Help!'

God don save you be dat, take am as a sign. That man would have killed you in una house.

AmicableEd:
Please help me, i need to know what people in my shoes would do if this had happened to them.

I had a great love story. Yes, it seemed then. The man came like a rolling stone and hit me so so badly and left me. He felt his pre determined action was accomplished, while l was left nearly a fool.

We met through my close friend. He saw my picture on her Display picture on BBM and pressured her to link him to me.

That was how we got talking. Before you know it he asked me to be his woman. I was glad because l loved him. The attractions was not spontaneous. It grew against all odds.

People cautioned me saying he looked more of a playboy only ready to break hearts. I confronted him with all these things.
To my surprise, he did not hide who he was. To him, that was his past. He had ran away completely from it.

I admired his 'sincerity' and 'honesty'. And l felt that truly many of us had had an ugly past, and when you say you have come to Jesus, and you are seen behaving like a follower of this Christ, who then can condemn you?

This made me grow to like him more. Do l say like? I think he swept me off my feet.

Then he proposed in a dramatic way and we had a beautiful introduction between our two families. Even the way it was packaged, it was more like a wedding ceremony, that you would not expect another.

But that was the way he wanted it. He was traveling out of the country, and would start processing my papers from then, so l was made to believe.

I am 25years old but God, l have seen deceits. I have experienced broken heart. Despite the fact that l prayed. I thought l prayed and received direction.

However, the happenings after the introduction proved otherwise.

I now got to understand that he asked for the elaborate introduction ceremony because he was applying for a marriage visa in UK and he needed pictorial evidence.

I learnt he had already got a fake wedding certificate but needed me to do an appearance for him.

His intention was that once he was out of the country he would cut off all communications between us and leave me waiting endlessly for him.
God is gracious.

My supposed fiancé was expected to process the traveling documents for both of us, but he had gone to the embassy for the interview. Yet he kept me from knowing this. Now, it is almost a year after the introduction ceremony, l have not heard any word from him.

You would say where are his family members in this?

When we were dating, he was the one coming to meet me. We stayed in different but close states. He knew all my family but l only got to know his own on the introduction day.

One friend of his who said he did not want to hide anything from me because he sensed l am too decent to be treated in this manner, had to open up to me on many things. He confessed most of them, on getting to know me felt bad that such was being done to me.

One of them was the way my lover tried setting me up, using another friend of his to toast me and work on me to see if l would fall for the ploy. He wanted to use that as a strong reason for leaving me, that he caught me with another man.

He failed. But l am no more engaged.

My parents are not into the know now. They felt we were passing through a phase as we have some irreconcilable issue we are still working on.
Please tell me. How do l tell family members and friends who witnessed the ceremony and those who had heard about it that l have been left unprotected. No one to call my own. That l am starting again. But, is it not too soon?

The whole thing looks like a bad dream?
Let me quickly wake up from it, Lord.

The shame!

This is my true story. I am devastated that l could fall for a 'sucker'.
I was blind and deaf to all signals received prior our introduction.

Now, l am alone. Where do l go?

I can not stand to hear,'So you have seen what we were telling you.'

Help me.

http://www.kemifilani.com/2015/09/i-had-great-love-story-but-it-turned.html

olajorn:
I no go run away like this

MrsPhyno:

i trust u now were u not yarning on some thread about how u love children/babies

thats very good of you

olajorn:
I like babies and they love me too

MrsPhyno:

go and get one nah it's easy, at least on your part

u in MD now?

olajorn:
If you are ready,I am ready

I still dey Delaware

MrsPhyno:

i neva ready o bettah go look outside like i said, i dont get jealous

wow.... long ride eh. u must be tired. take care of yaself sah

kunle75:



I feel for you sister,don't worry he cant succeed for too long in his journey am sure of that.


God will strengthen you ,but i will advise that either of your parent please try and talk to the one that are closer to,and confide in them both then move on with your life.


The good lord will help u

olajorn:
God is my strength...I only sleep 3hrs as I have to be back in manhattan before 7am...

If u not ready I go chill small

MrsPhyno:

dey dere dey chill o

wait i thought u were spending two days there

AmicableEd:

People cautioned me saying he looked more of a playboy only ready to break hearts.

I confronted him with all these things.
To my surprise, he did not hide who he was. To him, that was his past. He had ran away completely from it.

I admired his 'sincerity' and 'honesty'. And l felt that truly many of us had had an ugly past, and when you say you have come to Jesus, and you are seen behaving like a follower of this Christ, who then can condemn you?

This made me grow to like him more. Do l say like? I think he swept me off my feet.

Then he proposed in a dramatic way

and we had a beautiful introduction between our two families. Even the way it was packaged, it was more like a wedding ceremony

But that was the way he wanted it.

I am 25years old but God, l have seen deceits. I have experienced broken heart. Despite the fact that l prayed. I thought l prayed and received direction.

When we were dating, he was the one coming to meet me. We stayed in different but close states. He knew all my family but l only got to know his own on the introduction day.

I can not stand to hear,'So you have seen what we were telling you.'

erico2k2:

Can't you spot the flaws in the write up.how can HE use her in terms of marriage to gain a spouse Visa when she is not British or hold any legal rights in the UKso as U see.it don't add up unless the writer was assuming and she got it wrong in that aspect.4 all she knows the guy could be dead or in prison.we have seen people locked up for up to 7 years.

bonaparte:




WAIT FIRST OH!!!, WHY WOULD SOMEONE NEED TO MARRY IN NIGERIA TO GET VISA IN THE UK WE ARE NOT ALL FOOLS YOU KNOW

tpiander:
she meant the man used the ceremony to show he has ties to Nigeria .

yilly:
Tk hrt n tk ur time to let dem knw bt wen u are ready. Dats life, u'll b fine soon.