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“I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Priscy01(f): 3:40am On Dec 04, 2017
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by duduade: 3:44am On Dec 04, 2017
He is also man na... Trying his powress... A beg move on and forget that incident... Just have it at the back of your mind that might sleep with your sisters and house helps

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by bigtt76(f): 3:44am On Dec 04, 2017
Ok naaaa! Get on with the wedding jaaaare and think out your next strategy.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by softy(m): 3:45am On Dec 04, 2017
Hmmmmm. No be small tory ooooo

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 3:45am On Dec 04, 2017
There is nothing shocking about this story Joro.

Because you are reflection of your friends who are all gold diggers that didn't mind as long as he gives them enough cash.

Both the bride & 3 ladies on bridal train are the same.

please go ahead & marry him. That's who you deserve.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by daewoorazer(m): 3:46am On Dec 04, 2017


If she shld continue with d marriage, the least of those he's still gonna fück is her siblings..

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 3:48am On Dec 04, 2017
Marry him for his money and be fvcking his friends behind him. perfect

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 3:49am On Dec 04, 2017
duduade:
He is also man na... Trying his powress... A beg move on and forget that incident... Just have it at the back of your mind that might sleep with your sisters and house helps

naa, i doubt if he will sleep with house helps. the man obviously has Class & enough money. he has better options.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by eskorbrown(m): 3:51am On Dec 04, 2017
Wat if u didn't find out?? Just forgive him and continue with ur wedding plans.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by obowunmi(m): 3:55am On Dec 04, 2017
If a man doesn't communicate to you that he is polyamorous or polygamous

Then cheating is a form of emotional abuse.


A growing number of Nigerian men have suffer from sex addiction. They have no self control.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 3:57am On Dec 04, 2017
eskorbrown:
Wat if u didn't find out?? Just forgive him and continue with ur wedding plans.
forgive you say ?
nigga slept with not 1 but 3 bridesmaid. have you taken your meds ?

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Rutley(m): 4:17am On Dec 04, 2017
I dont even know what to say
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 4:19am On Dec 04, 2017
jamariwolf:
forgive you say ?
nigga slept with not 1 but 3 bridesmaid. have you taken your meds ?

okay, if you were the lady. what will you do?

Biko, let her go ahead with the marriage oh. don't put sand in her garri.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 4:28am On Dec 04, 2017
He slept with them and bragged about it, that is being childish.

He's been crying since you confronted him, that's being remorseful.

For your family to change because of money, they may have tested the other side of life and don't wanna go back to it.

If you stop the marriage, a lot of people will be badly hurt including you.

Forgive and move on but expect more cheating though.

I have my own confusions to think about now biko. undecided

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by eskorbrown(m): 4:33am On Dec 04, 2017
jamariwolf:
forgive you say ?
nigga slept with not 1 but 3 bridesmaid. have you taken your meds ?
He didn't sleep with dem wen dey became her bridesmaids,he did wen dey were not.I'm not trying to justify dat.if he has asked for forgiveness,then she shud do dat.A thief cannot be called a thief until wen caught.Which still begs d question;Wat if she didn't find out??

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by SenorFax(m): 4:40am On Dec 04, 2017
He's just sampling, while waiting for the real order. Forgive him, after all he didn't deny.

And pray for dry and dusty harmattan thunder on top those bridal bikes you call train. They will just raise hand on your wedding day if you allow them follow you go church, or worse, laugh to your face during thanksgiving. ��

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by SenorFax(m): 4:44am On Dec 04, 2017
jamariwolf:
gold diggers. I must get money for this life and fvck all you hoes.
back to topic, Marry him for his money and be fvcking his friends behind him. perfect
Retards on NL

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by princeade86(m): 5:08am On Dec 04, 2017
cancel the wedding, but she will not because of money

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Blackhawk01: 5:14am On Dec 04, 2017
30 billion for ya akant or an ideal marriage? Just choose one.

*Modified*

Did I just read "I love my girls, I'm not mad at them"? shocked

You ain't weird, you're stupid, very stupid sef. angry

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 5:18am On Dec 04, 2017
joro u can lie for Africa, I have watched this movie before

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by emeralddayo(f): 5:31am On Dec 04, 2017
Baby girl, call off the wedding irrespective of what your family members are saying, your happiness is key, not theirs. Besides, money isn't everything (and you already got enough to enjoy life without him) don't bother about what people would say, cos people will definitely say worse if you go ahead with the wedding and later have ish(many will call you a gold digger)as it might later be obvious to all you married him for his money.
And about your so called friends....hmmmm,I have no idea what to say, if possible ignore. Them, cut them off without giving them reasons why.
your marriage is supposed to be built on trust, but now you might never trust him again, don't wait until you get infected with incurable sexually diseases before you know you ought not to marry him
#myown2cent

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by FreeWorld23: 5:33am On Dec 04, 2017
Hmmm
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by harffie(m): 5:36am On Dec 04, 2017
emeralddayo:
Baby girl, call off the wedding irrespective of what your family members are saying, your happiness is key, not theirs. Besides, money isn't everything (and you already got enough to enjoy life without him) don't bother about what people would say, cos people will definitely say worse if you go ahead with the wedding and later have ish(many will call you a gold digger)as it might later be obvious to all you married him for his money.
And about your so called friends....hmmmm,I have no idea what to say, if possible ignore. Them, cut them off without giving them reasons why.
your marriage is supposed to be built on trust, but now you might never trust him again, don't wait until you get infected with incurable sexually diseases before you know you ought not to marry him
#myown2cent
Got many things to say to your quote but less time....hmm

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by malware: 5:37am On Dec 04, 2017
This is so pathetic, but consider that tarty million in your account first and move on with the wedding. After all, you're a woman, you should know how to handle him.

Meanwhile, the story weak me

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Daboomb: 5:37am On Dec 04, 2017
Priscy01:
Joro shared a yet shocking story of a bride-to-be who is currently in a dilemma and needs advise from matured minds.

She revealed her fiance is from a rich family, and she has gotten gifts from his family… But the problem is he has slept with 3 of her bridesmaids..

Read her story below:
“This is concise as I’m too distraught to type. I’m meant to get married soon. My fiancee is from a rich family. His fam bought me a car, land amongst other things for wedding gift.”

“As at today I have millions in my account from wedding money as gift. He was dreamy to me. My all. But I’m in a quandary now. I don’t know if I should go ahead with the wedding. My family thinks I should. I realize people change when they see money.”

“I realize people change when they see money. My family doesn’t care about the cheating because they know I’ll be financially secure. Cutting the story short.”

“I found out my fiancee has slept with 3 of my friends on my bridal train. I saw this in a text he was sending to his friends and bragging. I’m so ripped apart. I can’t eat or sleep.”

“I confronted him and I said I needed time to rethink. He has been crying. I love my girls but I’m not mad at them. Is it weird I’m mad at him alone. He sleep with them all while we were dating. Please public opinion matters.”


http://www.torimill.com/2017/12/found-out-my-he-has-slept-with-3-of-my.html

Lalasticlala Mynd44 Dominique



There is ALWAYS A PRICE to pay!
You can chose what you value most but l suspect that you wont want to giveup on all those millions, lands, car, e.t.c grin grin

Sleeping with your friends does not mean he dont love you, men are not emotionally attached to who they phuck, to them, its just an act of "adventure and conquer".
You can leave him but the next poor guy you meet, wil also phuck two of your neighbour, so what is the difference? grin
I even suspect one of your bridesmaid (that you are not mad at), is secretly 'fasting and praying' that you will call off the marraige so she can just step-in and become the new, official wife.
undecided undecided

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Toosure70: 5:38am On Dec 04, 2017
I don't still believe this, let's try him with your mum before I will comment.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 5:38am On Dec 04, 2017
jamariwolf:
gold diggers. I must get money for this life and fvck all you hoes.
back to topic, Marry him for his money and be fvcking his friends behind him. perfect
and get many STD(s) except you would be f**ing them with condoms.. And using condoms is as boring and useless as masturbation.

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by missyadorable(f): 5:39am On Dec 04, 2017
That's not strange.

Most Men sleep with their fiancee's or wives' friends
That's the reason smart women don't let their friends get famzy with their men.
Same reason, reasonable women don't advertise their men on social media.

In this case,you are just 1 of the few ladies to find out.
The guy is not remorseful,he will continue to fvck ur friends after the marriage.He is rich and women don't care as long as a man has the money,they will fall for him.


The choice is yours.

Meanwhile,whats the function/duty of bride maids?
I didn't have them during my wedding

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by 7footre(m): 5:39am On Dec 04, 2017
He is only sorry he got caught. Advance at your own peril

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Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Nobody: 5:41am On Dec 04, 2017
emeralddayo:
Baby girl, call off the wedding irrespective of what your family members are saying, your happiness is key, not theirs. Besides, money isn't everything (and you already got enough to enjoy life without him) don't bother about what people would say, cos people will definitely say worse if you go ahead with the wedding and later have ish(many will call you a gold digger)as it might later be obvious to all you married him for his money.
And about your so called friends....hmmmm,I have no idea what to say, if possible ignore. Them, cut them off without giving them reasons why.
your marriage is supposed to be built on trust, but now you might never trust him again, don't wait until you get infected with incurable sexually diseases before you know you ought not to marry him
#myown2cent
so impossible now. That's one hell of a decision to make. She should continue and start the relationship in marriage though afresh. Make promises and get better.
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by money121(m): 5:42am On Dec 04, 2017
Ok
Re: “I Found Out My He Has Slept With 3 Of My Bridesmaids Few Days To Our Wedding” by Goldenheart(m): 5:43am On Dec 04, 2017
Fake stories every where

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