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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by RexTramadol1: 7:47am On Sep 26, 2015
Let them GO


If she's Loyal, let her GO




If she is wayward, let her GO


In short, let everybody GO


They all deserve NOTHING


I hate ladies!

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by scentmarlc(m): 7:56am On Sep 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
Actually looking foward to the day OPs on nairaland will stop being cowards hiding under the canopy of "it happened to a friend"

It happened to your friend and you being the third party narrated it like you were actually te one that practically slotted your joystick into her kitty-cat? smh


I will advise you tell your friend to open the thread himself b4 i can offer my own advice cheesy
hmmmm tosin
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nicklaus(m): 7:59am On Sep 26, 2015
This story isn't at all complicated, it's rather annoying.

I have experienced it once but after bleeping her one too many times I cut my losses and moved on.

The thing is, I wasn't interested in whether she is a virgin or not I just loved her but a little distance tested her fidelity and she failed.

I don't believe in the "if i truly love" phrase and dumped her like waste. Coz if she believed it she wouldn't do that too

So word of advise for you OP or whoever is involved, it's time you cut your losses and move on. there is nothing heroic in forgiving her, it only makes you a fool to her

Thinking she'z got u all wrapped up around her endless cycle of cheating streak. . .
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by ELIJAHARMONICA(m): 8:03am On Sep 26, 2015
I think you should forgive her but note this, she is not a wife material for you
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by UnimkeAk(m): 8:04am On Sep 26, 2015
x6blade:
This story brings anger to me. It's similar to my story I disvirgined my girlfriend but after some months I had to travel out of the country after 2 months this girl slept with another guy I was very suspicious and I questioned her which she confessed to. I broke up with her faster than the speed of light it took her 3 months of begging to get me back. But ever since then I don't see her the same way , and I always have this thought that there's always a guy in the corner. I know I wouldn't stay long in the relationship as I feel nothing.


every girl who isn't married or has her wedding invitation cards out, always has a guy on the corner.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Alexcollins(m): 8:04am On Sep 26, 2015
you are not respected by a lady until u have proved urself... I had similar experience in the past.. she simply became indifferent and arrogant.. since then I have learnt the act of taking it on first visit... and they always come back for more..
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 8:06am On Sep 26, 2015
another virginity story.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by streetzdreamz(m): 8:07am On Sep 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
This same thing happened to me recently

I dont know if sharing my experience will be necessary
like seriously bro, this issue is doing the rounds this days, an average Nigerian guy has a bad tale to tell about ladies, why? Cuz he chose to be all loving, caring, understanding and a perfect gentleman, truth is this species of humans ain't worth that luxury, just a tiny fragment stands out................... At the long run they are at the receiving end of this show of betrayal and shame, then they start screaming bloody murder...... @topic never stick to a woman who claims to be a virgin for years, it's crazy, cuz you will be anticipating that wedding night as if it's something special, you end up getting back stabbed from the front, wouldn't even date anyone for six months,dating, courting for 2years? y'al are trying and deserves a gold medal,in plain English your frnds gf is nothing but a renovated whoorre ! Stick to her at your own detriment.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by ELIJAHARMONICA(m): 8:08am On Sep 26, 2015
I think you should forgive her, but note this, she is not a wife material for you.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by ebonytarki(m): 8:08am On Sep 26, 2015
Our God is a God of 2nd chance......she's human,she made a mistake,forgiveness is divine...give her d benefit of doubt.give her anoda chance.dats my own opinion
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by effyzie01(m): 8:09am On Sep 26, 2015
Women folk are really confused beings. A guy I know (tosyne2much, I swear it is not me, lol) was a victim too. And it involved a friend.

The guy dated the girl for over 8 years (Hausa courtship things) and the only time he dared touch her hand, her parents called for an emergency meeting with the guy's parents accusing him of wanting to spoil their 'innocent' child. However, my friend later confided in me that, even if he were to be promised a trillion Naira (his words), he won't be able to count how many times he straffed her. That she was his s.ex slave, a girl he goes to when he could not get any other one.

I had to challenge him to tell the girl's guy. He did and the 'couple' broke up.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by oluwaisaac(m): 8:09am On Sep 26, 2015
Ha....a whole virginity...henn....just like that....eh...over a man in the next compound....,? Chei....kai...well, at times, I marvel at how majority of girls think. Hmmm...tor. My broda, he is one of the proverbial Adam, who culdnt preserve his wife from the serpent's temptation. He should be more careful with his next girlfriend. Period!
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Nobody: 8:17am On Sep 26, 2015
I was suprised the day my cousin told me she had 8 bfs i was like how on earth do u manage them..she always chatting 247 always with her phone..19 years old girl choppin 8 di.ck only her. May God Save us from ladies o, those hoes ain't loyal.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Geophem(m): 8:18am On Sep 26, 2015
sebyt4u:
So sorry about dt, to err is human to 4giv is divine. U failed by going against God, u shouldn't ve touched her no matter d pressure. On dt ground u would ve been free to leave her cos she breach wat both of u agreed on. Buh u ve sinned against God, n God is ever ready to 4giv us. So 4gv her n both of u should devote time 4 God. Cos fear of God is beginning of wisdom.
jatijati....... So he shld go ahead to marry a dog because of God
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by bobojoshua(m): 8:20am On Sep 26, 2015
fxbot:
This why it's not good to accept such from a girl.

I was a victim of what you have written and believe me when I say it hurts so bad.

If you read this, follow my advice.

Leave any girl who claim virginity and say she would wait for marriage. It's a big lie, especially if she isn't the religious type. They often fantasize on it and would give in with a little pressure.

Did you read about the good guy bad guy thread yesterday? If not, please do.

The average Nigerian girl want fork and good forks. You are not respected if you can't fork them. They want to be forked real good.

The guy in the compound already saw she wanted it but your friend was blinded by what he watches on movies and read in novels. A bad guy knows when make moves.

Over the years I have perfected the art and I can know when to fork a girl if I want.

Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by fxbot: 8:28am On Sep 26, 2015
Vikky014:

including ur sisters abi
does your boyfriend fork you well? You better get a nice therapeautic dick to relieve you of urges. I wouldn't mind cumming on your face after forking so hard!
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Missmossy(f): 8:28am On Sep 26, 2015
Awww too bad!!!
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by enyioma10000(f): 8:28am On Sep 26, 2015
hmmm, y e bi say na men dey comment pass for this post. well d guy should forget about her n move on.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Vikky014(f): 8:31am On Sep 26, 2015
fxbot:
does your boyfriend fork you well? You better get a nice therapeautic dick to relieve you of urges. I wouldn't mind cumming on your face after forking so hard!
boyfriend kewht for undecided
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by fxbot: 8:33am On Sep 26, 2015
bobojoshua and ogaofficer contact me here. My mail to this account is dead. eurobigdata at gmail.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by fxbot: 8:35am On Sep 26, 2015
Vikky014:
boyfriend kewht for undecided
you are claiming virgin abi? Just do mistake let a guy suckk your cliitts and cuunts and you testify about the goodness of this world.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Simeon005: 8:37am On Sep 26, 2015
Opportunity comes but once
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Vikky014(f): 8:37am On Sep 26, 2015
fxbot:
you are claiming virgin abi? Just do mistake let a guy suckk your cliitts and cuunts and you testify about the goodness of this world.
which virgin?sec or tertiary good for u
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by umehmj(m): 8:38am On Sep 26, 2015
don't be surprised this guy that deflowered your guy's babe will be one nonsense guy. things like this are red flags in relationships. my advice: forgive and forget. forgive yourself for ever falling for a heartless cheat and forget she ever existed. red flags are time bomb, it's only a matter of time before they detonate. studies have shown it's easier to stay without sex when one is still a virgin than when one has tasted the forbidden fruit. now ask yourself. If this babe fit cheat when she still be virgin, how much more when she don taste the sweet cucumber?

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by fxbot: 8:41am On Sep 26, 2015
Vikky014:
which virgin?sec or tertiary good for u
then why did you bring my sister into it? Can you tell me this to my face? Else you would end up on my bed. That's a guarantee!
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by trigar12(m): 8:42am On Sep 26, 2015
fxbot:
This why it's not good to accept such from a girl.

I was a victim of what you have written and believe me when I say it hurts so bad.

If you read this, follow my advice.

Leave any girl who claim virginity and say she would wait for marriage. It's a big lie, especially if she isn't the religious type. They often fantasize on it and would give in with a little pressure.

Did you read about the good guy bad guy thread yesterday? If not, please do.

The average Nigerian girl want fork and good forks. You are not respected if you can't fork them. They want to be forked real good.

The guy in the compound already saw she wanted it but your friend was blinded by what he watches on movies and read in novels. A bad guy knows when make moves.

Over the years I have perfected the art and I can know when to fork a girl if I want.


Abeg share your skill with us, I'll love to know pls
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Fourwinds: 8:42am On Sep 26, 2015
tosyne2much:
You try to coarse a lady into sex, you are being tagged a person who's only in for sex



You practice celibacy, they still go at your back bleeping
somebody else


Ladies are confused set of beings and i doubt if God Himself understands them
very confused..


dat betrayer with d use of virginity is terrible.. some girls are wicked

how can u deceive a steady guy dat is faithful and take ur stu..pid a..ss to another useless dummy of urs maybe because of money


thunder go dey fire dat girl steadily

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Dignity12clems: 8:52am On Sep 26, 2015
She has find another person that will marry her, kindly look for another lady, if u wish to marry her for the person that disflower her u are free to continue, she will not forget 1st person that entered Jerusalem.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Timijo(m): 8:56am On Sep 26, 2015
sebyt4u:
So sorry about dt, to err is human to 4giv is divine. U failed by going against God, u shouldn't ve touched her no matter d pressure. On dt ground u would ve been free to leave her cos she breach wat both of u agreed on. Buh u ve sinned against God, n God is ever ready to 4giv us. So 4gv her n both of u should devote time 4 God. Cos fear of God is beginning of wisdom.
This is the best answer ever. I advise the op to take this piece of advice.

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Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by shota(m): 8:57am On Sep 26, 2015
4stylz:


Can't even understand what this one is saying; take a walk please.

Then you are not Nigerian. Learn not to be involved in Nigerian issues cos pidgin is our language.
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Vikky014(f): 8:58am On Sep 26, 2015
fxbot:
then why did you bring my sister into it? Can you tell me this to my face? Else you would end up on my bed. That's a guarantee!

y wunt i bring in ur sister am i nt sme1's sister who knows u might even be my bros in d real world tongue

mind u i can tell u dt physically and wunt end up in ur bed
Re: Met His Fiancee A Virgin But Got Deflowered By Another Guy by Vikky014(f): 9:00am On Sep 26, 2015
Fourwinds:
very confused..


dat betrayer with d use of virginity is terrible.. some girls are wicked

how can u deceive a steady guy dat is faithful and take ur stu..pid a..ss to another useless dummy of urs maybe because of money


thunder go dey fire dat girl steadily
hahahahaha@steady thunder firing

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