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Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:30pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Hello my good people of nairaland i,m sharing this to u because it makes me feel so bad the day my fellow guy say i,m not a man simply because i dont smoke, nor take alcohol. It all happened yesterday at a friend party when all the guys were demanding two to three botles of alcoholic drinks like star, gulder and orijin and i happend to be the only guy who ask for a botle of malt, so one guy just stood up and start telling me that i,m less a man that how can i just ask for a malt bla bla and also i,m not suppose to be in their midst. Guys if you see me that day I was so ashamed and felt embarrased. All the girls were just looking at me. The reason why i dont take alcohol is because of the decision i made long ago when i was 19 yrs old that i will never take alcohol again in my life because of the horrible expirience i had during my first time i took it. So friends does it make any guy less a man if he dont take alcohol nor smoke cigarate? |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by agohmamuda(m): 1:36pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
The person that would have answered this question very well is Judas; |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Nobody: 1:37pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
You're actually more of a man than them because you're not afraid to stand alone. A lone wolf. They're the sheep because they think doing things everybody does, makes you "cool". Stand tall, my brother because the butt of the joke is them. 4 Likes |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by adedayourt(m): 1:39pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
U ARE A MAN MY GUY av come to dat point of my lifee where d world's opinion bout hw i chose to liv my life is a sounding brass. most of my friends take alcohol like der life depends on it but i really dont find fun in it nd no amount of talk insult embarazmnt can change dat. bliv me der are some ladies der dat day who admire ur person but wnt voice out to avoid being spited kip to ur decision brov it ll pay off in d long run 3 Likes |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Nobody: 1:39pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
They're just ignorant people. I don't smoke nor drink too. I don't mean to brag, but very few men I've met can match my physical or mental strength. If you like smoke acid, I'll still beat the sh!t out of you...lol...People who say such things don't even know the first thing about being a man. Just ignore them. 3 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Godswillnwaoma:..you are not less of a man..you are a better man by sticking to your convictions..you can't be like everybody else..besides only women have the right to tell who is a man.. 1 Like |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Nobody: 1:40pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
PunkyVeer:exactly |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by bqlekan(m): 1:43pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Lol bro, don't mind them.. I've had this same stigma and lived through it, from school to service to work.. they even call me 'youghurt man' So bro, you are more than just a man.. I hope you don't bet too? |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:44pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
RickRichards:thanks |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by majamajic(m): 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
@Op, what about womanizing ? Cos I know that most men that doesn't smoke nor drink follow women up and down. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Tallesty1(m): 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
RickRichards:Same Here. They just want to initiate him into their group |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Nobody: 1:45pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
RickRichards:most of them dissing him for not smoking and drinking started off because someone told them that..talk of peer pressure..some may even be looking for out but are already locked in..men who have no control over habits they are slaves to downgrading a real man..mtcheew 1 Like |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:46pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
bqlekan:i dont take part in anything gambling. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by bqlekan(m): 1:47pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Godswillnwaoma:That's good., you are the real man.. but I know you do the last one.. I don't need to ask |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by jmoore(m): 1:48pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Improve your self-esteem and defend your values. Stand for what you believe in, that's what real men do. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:49pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
majamajic:i,m from a very good christian family, i know my personality. I dont womanize but i have a gf. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Afrok(m): 1:49pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Hehe.... the so-called REAL MEN who drinks, laughs at mad men but after they drink to stupor, they become less of a mad person. Never live your life to please anybody, simply because humans can't be PLEASED. I don't drink and that's me, its like u are the gentle type coz it'll be hard for a friend to get pass me not to talk of embarrass me with something that concerns me. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:49pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
bqlekan:hahahahaha. U are funny. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by BuddhaPalm(m): 1:50pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Godswillnwaoma: The biggest part of being a man is 'mental autonomy'. You generally give zero fvcks about what other people think - especially about you. Make your own definitions. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
So what do you want to do. Start drinking and smoking to make you a man ?? You made a decision so stand by it. Its personal. If your friends cant accept you for who you are, maybe its time you made friends that are like you. Who drinking and smoking don help. I was at friend's during the sallah, guys were drinking. They asked what i ll take and i said malt. A guy asked....you no de drink ?? I smiled and said no. They all looked shocked .No shame there at all. I also made a choice not to drink. Never for once have i been intimidated by others. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Nobody: 1:51pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
BlaqCoffee109: Yup. No will or spine. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by bqlekan(m): 1:52pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Godswillnwaoma:thank God you understand.. try supress that one too |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:54pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
ilobasama:thanks 1 Like |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 1:55pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
bqlekan:e noo easy naaa bcs i get blood for body. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by bqlekan(m): 1:58pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Godswillnwaoma:lol., the blood flow is thick.. especially when you don't smoke, drink, gamble etc.. but you can supress it.. it takes that same determination you've been using.. not easy but possible.. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Kingsasian(m): 1:59pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
If you happen to be in my doeshoes then you would have changed your decision long ago. I don't take alcohol neither do I smoke. I have been laughed at on several occasions by friends and they never for once moved me. Those consuming unlimited bottles of alcohol does not mean that they are more manly than non alcoholics. OP, stand your ground, there are so many that admire you the way you are and for your habit. Let me stop here by saying this, most ladies love non-alcoholics. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 2:03pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
bqlekan:also with the help of the almighty Jehovah |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by bqlekan(m): 2:06pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Godswillnwaoma:sure.. you are right. |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Mobsync(m): 2:17pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
You better stay in your nonalcoholic state. You are not less of a man. A bottle of Gulder, Star, Snapp, Origin, Smirmoff and the likes go for 250. Three bottles is 750. Times 10 times a month is 7,500. And that's excluding the money for nkwobi, isiewu, cowleg pepper soup, suya and the likes. or are you going to drink without eating something pepperish? |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 2:45pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
agohmamuda:what are u saying |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 2:46pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
Mobsync:dont mind them |
Re: Does It Really Make Me Less A Man? by Godswillnwaoma(m): 5:02pm On Sep 27, 2015 |
bqlekan:yeah |
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