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ATMC:
Lmao!

ATMC:
Nobody ooo

aim5:
Y'all are cruel... that's why I hate females

ATMC:
The feeling is mutual

aim5:
I'm joking. But yeah I got too nasty I'll admit hahah I scared the other girl off.

sinaj:
You are very wrong op.



Curling of d toes can also be faked


D only way to knw a gurl is avin orgasm is by...

Vinshu:
Wrong. That is the misperception.
Depends on the size of the female organ and some guys have organs of horses that can kill.

hardeymorlar:
it's dis kind of ppl dat'll come back 2 create d topic....'she doesn't pick my calls anymore,pls wat does dat mean'....smh

simplex2:
Can't seem to find them toes; I''m doing missionary and the toes are curled up my back, I'm in doggy and its buried deep inside the bed behind me, she's riding my dckk cowgirl and them toes are folded away behind her...

Wait a minute, reverse cowgirl...aha...that's the toes...its permanently curled though.

#sighs#

PureEvanescence:
Okay, ATMC this is interesting. Kindness isn't the only reason women fake an orgasm, there's tiredness- when she's tired of the crap you're doing at the top or from behind or from anywhere for that matter. There's boredom- when she's yawning and utterly uninterested+ bobo is doing nothing new, no change of style. There's the okay-I-have-cum-please-stop-hurting-me, when a man thinks that pounding makes her cum and if she doesn't, the pounding continues until something happens, so she screams and wails and acts action porn so you can stop the nonsense.

Then, as for the toes, true that. But that can also be faked and I'm telling you from the experience of a lot of people I know, mine inclusive. Men easily say- I know what she wants, I know how to make her cum, I know when she cuts, I know where and how to touch her. I can guarantee these ones 100%, they know nothing. First of all, sit down and accept that the woman's body is entirely different from yours, accept that you know nothing about it and be open to learn. Most women when it comes to sex are very kind and considerate, so that when a man says- I know how to touch my woman, I make her come all the time, they don't want to oppose this notion, they don't want the man to feel less, so they help him uphold this lie and keep faking the orgasm. This is a very unconscious act, so don't say- why can't she tell him?

Sincerely and without any judgement in your heart, ask your woman what it is you can do to make her cum or at least enjoy the process. If you're truly sincere, you'll be shocked at the feedback. I stress on sincerity because some of the things women want in bed might be embarrassing, some unusual, so in order to open up about them, you must be coming from a place of absolute love and concern. I will give you an instance-

Personally, my major turn on in bed is just hearing my man make silly sounds, moaning and saying things that don't mean anything. When I get the impression that he's entirely into what we're doing and is pleasured solely by me, It's exciting and it's a huge turn on for me. Just listening to him moan while making love to me, will make me cum.

For my friend- she loves it when he kneels down to eat her out. He doesn't know this but sometimes, he unconsciously kneels to do it and for her, kneeling gives her the impression that he adores and worships her, that this, right there is where he'd rather be. Seeing him kneel to eat her out melts her heart and frees her entire body, she's automatically more in-tune to his touch and every other thing he does leaves her vibrating.

For another friend- when he looks her in the eye during the missionary session while squeezing her nipples, she cums, straight away. She feels like she sees through him when this happens.

Another one said she likes the doggy style and she'll cum faster when he talks about her body parts and compliments them. Like- 'oh my goodness babe, I like the way your ***** feels around my ****.

You think you know when she cums? You thought wrong. If a woman wants you to think she cums, you can think it for the rest of your life, meanwhile she didn't cum for one day.

If you care about someone, and you sincerely want them to enjoy the process, it is their body, ask them. Be sincere and let them know that you'll do it, no matter how silly it is. When you've done a good job, you'll know deep down your heart, you won't need to scream it, lol. Learn to worship that body, it's gospel!

PureEvanescence:
Okay, ATMC this is interesting. Kindness isn't the only reason women fake an orgasm, there's tiredness- when she's tired of the crap you're doing at the top or from behind or from anywhere for that matter. There's boredom- when she's yawning and utterly uninterested+ bobo is doing nothing new, no change of style. There's the okay-I-have-cum-please-stop-hurting-me, when a man thinks that pounding makes her cum and if she doesn't, the pounding continues until something happens, so she screams and wails and acts action porn so you can stop the nonsense.

Then, as for the toes, true that. But that can also be faked and I'm telling you from the experience of a lot of people I know, mine inclusive. Men easily say- I know what she wants, I know how to make her cum, I know when she cuts, I know where and how to touch her. I can guarantee these ones 100%, they know nothing. First of all, sit down and accept that the woman's body is entirely different from yours, accept that you know nothing about it and be open to learn. Most women when it comes to sex are very kind and considerate, so that when a man says- I know how to touch my woman, I make her come all the time, they don't want to oppose this notion, they don't want the man to feel less, so they help him uphold this lie and keep faking the orgasm. This is a very unconscious act, so don't say- why can't she tell him?

Sincerely and without any judgement in your heart, ask your woman what it is you can do to make her cum or at least enjoy the process. If you're truly sincere, you'll be shocked at the feedback. I stress on sincerity because some of the things women want in bed might be embarrassing, some unusual, so in order to open up about them, you must be coming from a place of absolute love and concern. I will give you an instance-

Personally, my major turn on in bed is just hearing my man make silly sounds, moaning and saying things that don't mean anything. When I get the impression that he's entirely into what we're doing and is pleasured solely by me, It's exciting and it's a huge turn on for me. Just listening to him moan while making love to me, will make me cum.

For my friend- she loves it when he kneels down to eat her out. He doesn't know this but sometimes, he unconsciously kneels to do it and for her, kneeling gives her the impression that he adores and worships her, that this, right there is where he'd rather be. Seeing him kneel to eat her out melts her heart and frees her entire body, she's automatically more in-tune to his touch and every other thing he does leaves her vibrating.

For another friend- when he looks her in the eye during the missionary session while squeezing her nipples, she cums, straight away. She feels like she sees through him when this happens.

Another one said she likes the doggy style and she'll cum faster when he talks about her body parts and compliments them. Like- 'oh my goodness babe, I like the way your ***** feels around my ****.

You think you know when she cums? You thought wrong. If a woman wants you to think she cums, you can think it for the rest of your life, meanwhile she didn't cum for one day.

If you care about someone, and you sincerely want them to enjoy the process, it is their body, ask them. Be sincere and let them know that you'll do it, no matter how silly it is. When you've done a good job, you'll know deep down your heart, you won't need to scream it, lol. Learn to worship that body, it's gospel!

ikekings:
Hmm. I believe you.

johnydon22:
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First thing you need is patience, do not be the kind of man that just wants to get into the business immediately by penetrating.

Fore-play is the most important part of getting your woman ready, a girl's sexual needs are far more complex than ours.
So take your time on long lasting and hot fore-play and most importantly you have to know what your woman loves.

I recommend special emphasis on Neck kisses, nibbles and twirling of the tongue. .No lady can resist that.

Kissing the ear lobes, shoulders, toes, stomach, belly button.

Nipple sucking is very important but pay mind to her feedback to know if to apply a bit hard or softness while at it.

Lap kisses drives them wild, you may take your kisses through out her laps down to her inner laps almost brushing the honey pot but don't touch the honey pot. . that tease and anticipation literally gets them nuts.

Nipple pinches, if you are the type that is comfortable with eating the Coochie, you take your time on that and never forget to maintain soft pinches on the nips.

One finger first into the Vay and try to brush through the upper wall of the coochie . . . .Just take your time to please your woman.

Never you both be as silent as logs, communicate on your wants in bed and don't be too selfish not to let out rewarding groans and moans when she is riding or treating the D right..

Not an expert though, just my two scents from experience
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Vinshu:
THE TRUTH:

Orgasm is faked because the female is not enjoying the activity. And there are reasons as to why:

-) The guy is not playing with her. Just thrusting.

-) Short or no fore-play. Straight to the activity

-) Short or small organ.. I.e not hitting the spot required.

-) Organ too long or big.. I.e feeling pain instead so she fakes so you cum and f!uck off.

-) No sensation.. e.g trash talks.. try it, it works.

-) Not in the mood. Most cases.

And so on..

ribbit:
Immediately she cums, the pussy brings out more juice, that is how to know .. They can't fake that.

tommychow:
If you're thrusting and she's "coming" and you wanna be sure, pull out and watch her well for a while. If she's still unaware of your actions and still acting like she's having convulsion, she's on cloud nine. If she looks at you with her normal face and says something like "are you done?" "why did you stop?" or "is someone knocking?"...MY GUY YOU NO TRY AT ALL!

My advice is not to try and find out because stats shows women fake it most of the time, and I mean MOST. Very sad. Just enjoy the intimacy.

johnydon22:


There is no law that says she must cum. . . In fact constant pounding of a girl for long minutes is not a guarantee of orgasm.

You can only end up getting her sour but yet no orgasm. . A woman's body is a complicated machine, and so not always does it require strength and long lasting duration.

If you have no idea what you are doing, it doesn't matter how long you go it will only seem like pouring water on a stone..

ATMC:
Really? Do you stare at her toes?

ALWAYS, its my duty to satisfy her

sinaj:
You are very wrong op.



Curling of d toes can also be faked


D only way to knw a gurl is avin orgasm is by...

ATMC:
Get help ASAP!

johnydon22:
This is a selfish mindset brother.

Sex should be equally enjoyable to both gender, so her orgasm matters as much as yours.

You must pay mind to her own needs because a woman's sexual needs and wants are far more complex than that of a man.

So strive to give your woman orgasms because every lady deserves it as much as you think you deserve orgasm too.

squirting may occur from G - spot stimulation... center of gravity orgasm is a totally different form of female orgasm from clitoral orgasm. . And i bet center of gravity based orgasms are more intense...

sinaj:
You are very wrong op.



Curling of d toes can also be faked


D only way to knw a gurl is avin orgasm is by...