Haboseyday:


I hail oo
Ur suggestion na confirm

the OP na learner,the earlier he realized that there are no faithful and decent ladies anymore,the better for him,guys has to go with the flow...moreover,I pity guys that takes these b!tches so serious.

freshcvvs:


huh

loool,just messing with you

Are you guys for real?

Una no serious! Walahi!

IYANGBALI:
and vickyrotex/rokiatu they are both virgins. My male friend tolded me that he confirmed it

No saint can work in a hotel. It's a valley of temptation.

maryhaam:
loool,just messing with you

Gerraherre

freshcvvs:


Gerraherre

holla holla whollup naa

Men deserve worse

BlackBaron:
Move on dude.
It's a myth if you think females are holy or don't play games too.I once stumbled on a popular but well hidden blog where mostly females (married and singles) narrated their escapades. Just let's say they do it so much better.

Use your head. Take a hike!

That link to that blog!

whirlwind7:
Dude, just walk away!
You feel weak and dejected from getting heartbroken? Well, here's a news flash: That's EXACTLY how a heartbreak feels!
You will get over it with time. Don't pay any attention to that guy up there who advised you to have a "heart to heart talk". That's bullsh!t. Women are too damn complicated in the first place, without this additional dilemma. You don't need it.

If she had a heart, she wouldn't continue in her business, and at the same time planning to settle down with you.
The 10 months you've dated is enough time for her to have called it quits with her side job, if she was serious. You are just lucky she is checking herself for HIV infection. But that, plus the pregnancy test kit, is a pointer she is having unprotected sex with her clients!!!

The thought of this nearly made me puke. You have been dipping your magic stick into a public toilet! Don't just stop at testing for HIV only.
Go check up yourself for every STIs known to man. Gonorrhea, syphilis, herpes, herpertitis, staphylococcus infections, scratch and win, piss and drop, you name them!

Lawd help us!

Lord have mercy. Lwkmd hahahahahahahahah
Which one be scratch n win, piss n drop again?
Abi Na lottery?

maryhaam:
holla holla whollup naa

Nice chatting with you.

According to the OP'''He has been doing it/journeys to the DEEPER WETLAND since 10 mnts without notice the sour/blister in her PUNS.Wen he's filled/satisfied,he decided to twist up excuse/tell the world Arabian nite story.Pray,he didn't meet his match in madness'HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE A WOMAN SCORNED" He ate her PONMO and wanna. discard her like a rag.I pity some pipu.How many lady/men dat are in relationship/married wey nor get ugly past?

radicalove:


Are you for real? What kind of heart to heart talk could they possibly have? The guy should just walk away.

she would not change, just move on.

freshcvvs:


Nice chatting with you.

same here laters

that lady is definately on a JUJU things

Eh eh!

Nah petrol attender you want gee me?

Lol!

By d way, I no search o!

Meti99:
Pele ti e.


But i can recommend a decent lady to you on nairaland...


And

she is




Lizabeth25.


dat gel decent no be small.

Homguy:
so even when he got suspicious, he should still act the ostrich?

yes nah!

ephemm:


yes nah!

ok. I am not a simpleton though...and I pray Op isn't. Good luck to you.

Curvinus:
Watch it bro cos that girl you claim to be so hung up on might just be another sociopath on the loose. They are so good at getting you addicted to them that you'd start to assume something is wrong with you when you begin to question their credibility. But in the end, they'll alienate you from your family and friends, destroy your life and dump you for another victim. They are compulsive liars, very manipulative, promiscuous and whimsical as well. They are cold and emotionless but have a marginal propensity to display rage when you try to call them out on their lies. But they are very charming and charismatic and know how to work on you to break your defences. To them, your are just an object to be manipulated for their own benefits. They're only in it for the thrill or for what they can get from you in the immediate terms. They have no long term goals and all of your games mean nothing to them because they are incapable of having emotions. No guilt, no remorse. Nothing.


I once dated one but since I had a cousin with similar traits, I found her out very quickly but remained diplomatic and professional till she left me to prey on another loser. We still see every once in a while but now I am two steps ahead of her every move. The song Karishika comes to mind here. That Phyno guy and the other lad know what they are on about. You are hooked on a Karishika and you need to break lose as fast as possible or remain in it and lose your mind. I say this because however smart you try to play with them, you'll always get counter intuitive responses which will further depress you. This because they will process your words and body language as neutral information and will never give you the desired response. When they do, it is to further lower your guard and prey on you even more viciously. You are just an object to them and not a fellow human being.

Now this is not what you want from a relationship. You want to be loved by someone who will reciprocate your affections and not some stone cold pathological liar. I'm not trying to bash them here because it is who they are and cannot change. I'm talking from the point of view of someone who has lived with one of them for several years. Goodluck.

wow wow wow..!! All you wrote here is the truth about their traits.... Currently battling with one now... A cheat, a liar and secretive prostitute who calls her lifestyle ."as having fun" .... A choirister for that matter ...

I'm surprised no one is crucifying the OP for getting involved in pre-marital sex. It seems it is not only socially acceptable to engage in one these days, it is socially required. MORAL DECADENCE. I fear for my children oo

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tanx man 4 ur constructive advice..BT did ur gul,is she base in Oyo..n is she an NCE holder.cos did my gul also works in an hotel,I equally saw her hiv status just as u narrated..n shes also in her late 20s.

menix:
U re weak instead of running naked to d church to give thanks u got delivered frm Delilah.

Karishika!!

Princepioneer:
wow wow wow..!! All you wrote here is the truth about their traits.... Currently battling with one now... A cheat, a liar and secretive prostitute who calls her lifestyle ."as having fun" .... A choirister for that matter ...

Bro it is who they are - soulless beings lacking in empathy. It is said that they have no oxytocin receptors or do not produce enough of the hormones to form the bonding that is seen in the majority of normal people. They live a boring life and would do anything to escape boredom, including substance abuse, promiscuity, gambling, arguing and outright violence. The best you can do is to cut your losses and bail.
Try doing some research on sociopaths as this would hasten your recovery process.

NoLoveNoPain:
This lady was introduced to me last year December and we started as friends, we seldomly contact each other and we're not really into each other but all of a sudden things took a different turn and we became best of friends, always online updating each other how the day is going. I work with a filling station while she works as a hotel receptionist and we're in our late 20s, perfect age to start a family. She always ask questions on when I will be ready to have my family and I always tell her to be patient with me to at least get a better job that matches my B.Sc qualification or at least raise a seizable amount to start my personal business (Diesel Supply to Corporate business entities e.g. Banks, Hotels etc) while she also change her job.

Sometimes in June, during one my journeys to her pleasure island, I noticed a blister on her right nipple and she said i should not navigate to the area, I don't even bother to ask what happened to her. After that day, I discovered the blister refuses to heal up and I was worried. My mind said someone is exploring that arena but I don't want to believe those thoughts. One weekend in July, while checking music CD in her shelf, I stumbled on a HIV medical test result, pack of accurate (urine pregnancy test), though the result was negative but I was very disturbed, scared and worried. I asked her what was the motive behind the test and what is she doing with more that a dozen of test kit, she mumbling some excuses like "I sell those test kit to people who are ashamed to get them in pharmacy store etc.

I confided in my friend who said I should go for a test which I did and was negative.

I became very restless at work because I'm really into this lady. With no proof or anything to justify her wayward life, I took her phone and activated "automatic call record". I activated the call record on Sunday, I stylishly sent the recorded conversation to my phone last night (Wednesday) when I visited her because she's on a night shift, as I type, I'm heartbroken, the very first conversation I listened to open the lid of canker-worm, I've been dating/sleeping a prostitute since the last 10 months, the sad part is that I don't know how one of his customer knew about me because in two separate conversation, they made jest of me and most likely another man is with her at work as you read this.
I feel so weak......

Do you believe in God?

Theres no such thing as coincidence or luck .If God didnt wish to save you, you would be giving a different story titled:My Fiancee gave me aids[b][/b]

This world is filled with wicked people.Fact is most pple you come across anre double faced,forget the smiles.Dont assume that because this lady did this to you means ladies are like that ,there are alot of Good women.Accept this as God saving you and please, humiliate that lady by inviting your friends and her friends pretending it to be a surprise proposal then, play the calls.

MAY BE THAT WILL SAVE HER LIFE.SOMETIMES YOU NEED TO HUMILIATE THEM TO PULL THEM OUT OF THEIR HOLE

tut tut

Wowzer! Now this is bad...accept my sincere condolences o. It is well! At least you had a pro on your bed all along thanks to all the customers that left a bit of their experiences for your satisfaction. Repeat the test in three months pls...pele.

That is to say, u son enter one chance be dat and u should thank your star that you found out early, if not it would have spell soon for you. My advise, please run for your dear life now before you regret.

Curvinus:


Bro it is who they are - soulless beings lacking in empathy. It is said that they have no oxytocin receptors or do not produce enough of the hormones to form the bonding that is seen in the majority of normal people. They live a boring life and would do anything to escape boredom, including substance abuse, promiscuity, gambling, arguing and outright violence. The best you can do is to cut your losses and bail.
Try doing some research on sociopaths as this would hasten your recovery process.

my, oh my.... Just checked it out, what an eye opener! They are really dangerous...

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No.
Seem like you mistake me for the OP. I am not the one narrating his ordeal. I am not the OP.
I just commented on this thread, like everyone else.

Go to the beginning of the thread and check who the OP is, then direct your question to him.

NoLoveNoPain:


I became very restless at work because I'm really into this lady. With no proof or anything to justify her wayward life, I took her phone and activated "automatic call record". I activated the call record on Sunday, I stylishly sent the recorded conversation to my phone last night (Wednesday) when I visited her because she's on a night shift, as I type, I'm heartbroken, the very first conversation I listened to open the lid of canker-worm, I've been dating/sleeping a prostitute since the last 10 months, the sad part is that I don't know how one of his customer knew about me because in two separate conversation, they made jest of me and most likely another man is with her at work as you read this.
I feel so weak......

OP I beg how did you activate the automatic call record?

blackchukky:
These hoes ain't loyal

How do you expect a prostitute to be loyal to you

@ Curvinus ...

You nailed it man...had an encounter with one and I just had to summone courage to call it quit after posting my ordeal with here on Nairaland.

All you described about them are nothing but the truth.

#even ur boo get boos.. Just singing