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Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Mekyno(m): 3:35am On Oct 06, 2015
Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by aderonkedeborah(f): 4:37am On Oct 06, 2015
wordbank:

Ngwanu lukat tit...
U don't even have nose in ur dp, how wl u smell shitty dudes when they approach
Be real bae cool
lukat it..where e dey?
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by babafirst(m): 5:12am On Oct 06, 2015
That marriage was hinged on fraud so she can and should have left sinceeeeeeee.It's not too late,she can still end the marriage.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by babafirst(m): 5:15am On Oct 06, 2015
Octaves:
I think a marriage founded on deceit is no marriage and should be annuled.
Btw i didnt know that conji could make someone crazy
hmmmm,conji na serious biz ohhhh.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by dominicnuel(m): 5:42am On Oct 06, 2015
proxillin:


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You dont have to sex before you know if you are dealing with an impotent or not.
wat abt if u dealing with a sex maniac?
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by zenith4biz(m): 5:44am On Oct 06, 2015
Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen!


Here am I
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by wealthypool: 5:46am On Oct 06, 2015
I c this as people who deceive themselves about Christianity and religion. y live in total bondage wen u should have cried out and seek help. virginity before marriage is still d best. of course u can kno ur partner without sex. men easily get aroused arround their loved partner.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by JohnsonNtene(m): 5:55am On Oct 06, 2015
haha...funny comments, i don laugh tire 4 here o. They key is to ask God for direction before getting married.

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Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by mekonglobal(m): 5:55am On Oct 06, 2015
:oSomebody pls help my ignorance isnt there any medical solution to impotency issues? Goodheart, KingTom.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by amdoyin82(m): 5:57am On Oct 06, 2015
Food for thought......., thank God say me and my wife sampled ourselves wella before we got married.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by exotiqueify(f): 6:11am On Oct 06, 2015
lilmax:
There's nothing to learn from here..... The man is at fault

Advice the men to communicate not the ladies

. . . . . .For being a guy & posting dis?U are d only reasonable voice on dis thread! Bless ur heart
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Oguieke(m): 6:13am On Oct 06, 2015
Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen! grin
am here for u baby, i swear i will ever satisfy u both in bed and on the table, pls marry me.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by queebeediva(f): 6:14am On Oct 06, 2015
shocked what? To think that he is a pastor and yet consive such a thing from his wife makes me wondered Who is devil. 20years of bondage, pains, misery, frustration e.t.c that man is a package of wickedness . May God give the lady the grace to decide what to do.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by hedonistic: 6:20am On Oct 06, 2015
Fake story through and through.

Then again, taking this to be a hypothetical situation, most of you don't seem to realise that 'impotence' is not a permanent disability or an untreatable condition without solution.. Unless the man's dick has been chopped off. What's the essence of Viagra and other similar medications, or of several medical and psychotherapeutic interventions?

I personally laugh at this 'no sex before marriage' nonsense some of these wayo girls come up with cos I am sure as hell sexing you within two weeks of our relationship or I exit without regret. But that is not to say that truly virtuous women should be discouraged from holding on to their personal principles due to an irrational and over flogged fear of potential 'impotence' in the man. That's far-fetched in most cases.

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Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Oguieke(m): 6:22am On Oct 06, 2015
AreaFada2:


Fertility ke? The impotent guy might be fertile, if you can get the sp.erm out. grin cheesy

Impotence is not equal to fertility.
i married through OLX never knew she is a sexomania but am giving her what she want even now.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by wordbank(m): 6:26am On Oct 06, 2015
aderonkedeborah:
lukat it..where e dey?
C'mon na me make u comot am? Oya no vex just put am back I no go complain again
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Obiwiz(m): 6:31am On Oct 06, 2015
missmary:
I still dont support premarital sex... Her husband wasnt honest with her... I say she divorces him... Even God will understand...
Pre-marital se.x is better than divorce any day! I said so.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nobody: 6:34am On Oct 06, 2015
Richardonald:
rubbish dat may happen once in 100 years..how can a man marry and didnt tell her woman he is impotent....U are trying to say dat our WOMEN shud start fucking around..na mumu girl go follow what u plant here
Try to understand his message. That man should be locked up in kirikiri, wicked man
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Acidosis(m): 6:34am On Oct 06, 2015
I know a couple with similar story, same church.

The woman left and got married few years after. She met her second husband in her forties.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by monex(m): 6:35am On Oct 06, 2015
i dont know about other churches but in the catholic church, that marriage could be deemed as never having taken place and has a chance of being anulled. this is different from a divorce. as procreation/fertility is one of the fundamentals of catholic marriage, deliberately withholding such information from your spouse invalidates the vows.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Acidosis(m): 6:41am On Oct 06, 2015
Pre-marital sex is just a way of exercising the instrumentality of se xual urges. It has nothing to do with good marriage.

There are 101 ways a woman can check the effectiveness of her partner's d i c k without s e x.

Those who give fertility excuses are chronic liars/deceivers. They only need the s e x and nothing more. We must stop deceiving ourselves.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nobody: 6:42am On Oct 06, 2015
[quote][/quote]Because some
churches may not divorce, but separation is allowed
especially when they are endangering their own lives
through fights and others.

C contradiction
Lols
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by tunde1200(m): 6:43am On Oct 06, 2015
Funny dude.
grin grin

ClassCaptain:
I for Comment but I dey busy new..Na 10mb I day use
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by fyneboi79(m): 6:44am On Oct 06, 2015
So she has now become the healing pastors mistress grin
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nobody: 6:47am On Oct 06, 2015
chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

Please and Please...
Stop mistaking impotency for infertility_ lots of Nigerians do this. Impotency is erectile dysfunction, inability to get the deek up and going, it is different from sperm count issues.
Even though they are linked, they are not the same.

He could be very fertile (very good sperm count) meaning she can conceive via ARTs.
I am yet to hear that they check if a man can get that deek up through any test, except you're supposed to test with the doctor/nurse.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by ps3o(m): 6:48am On Oct 06, 2015
Ginaz:
if I were in her position, I won't have known what to do. God please give me a husband that is good in bed o, that can satisfy his wife in everything. amen! grin
I don follow u put AMEN!
U too need to work more on your character as well.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by arcdone(m): 6:51am On Oct 06, 2015
The genesis of this no sex before marriage. I am not supporting
anyone to engage in premarital sex, however, you need to find a
way to know your partner during courtship. ....I will yhu get to know ur partner then..when u said yhu dnt support sex before marriage?
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by mradjoy(m): 6:51am On Oct 06, 2015
Kachisbarbie:


Please and Please...
Stop mistaking impotency for infertility_ lots of Nigerians do this. Impotency is erectile dysfunction, inability to get the deek up and going, it is different from sperm count issues.
Even though they are linked, they are not the same.

He could be very fertile (very good sperm count) meaning she can conceive via ARTs.
I am yet to hear that they check if a man can get that deek up through any test, except you're supposed to test with the doctor/nurse.
But now dat d lady in question is a virgin, how do we now fertilize her when there's no hole to put the sperm.
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Henricarter(m): 6:56am On Oct 06, 2015
eyinjuege:
What exactly are ladies to learn from this story? Are you saying virginity is overrated, and no point keeping oneself before marriage? Pls come out plain and let the ladies know exactly what you think they ought to learn.
... Simple SAy NO to premarital sEX
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Henricarter(m): 6:57am On Oct 06, 2015
SAy NO tO prEmaritail SEX is not good,SAy NO tO prEmaritail SEX is not good,SAy NO tO prEmaritail SEX is not good,
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by cyberdurable(m): 7:02am On Oct 06, 2015
chymystique:
Ladies should learn what from this story? Its the ladies fault though... why didnt they go for fertility tests before the marriage plans?

I still insist that "No Sex Before Marriage" is one of the best things ever for any intending couple

[b]u are insisting it for ur children now abi?
But u didn't hear it wen ur mama dea insist am for you...

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