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Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by canDy4eva(f): 8:00am On Oct 06, 2015 |
AfricanApple:plz wot do u tag as bin "wise" |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by proxillin(m): 8:01am On Oct 06, 2015 |
[quote author=eksola01 post=38710839][/quote] Little romance abi? Thats sin too. No little sin |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nelton(m): 8:02am On Oct 06, 2015 |
In my church this marriage will be declared null and void. Although the church is against divorce but in cases like this it will be allowed because the marriage was based on deception so it is assumed that it never took place because if not for the deception things would have been different so they will be allowed to go their separate ways. Sad story though. |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by uche13: 8:07am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Your pastor should be ashamed of himself if this story is true. What happened to confidentiality been maintained better Pastor/member? Did she tell. The pastor to spill out details of her challenge to all and sundry? Gossiping is now rampant in God's house that members are even scared of sharing their problems out of fear that it would be divulged to the public. Some would even gossip in a "christian way" "Let's pray for sister X, that as her wedding is approaching, she won't find it difficult to conceive based on the abortions she has done in the past " Nonsense! |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nobody: 8:08am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Ginaz:Am your man |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by mumu9gerian: 8:08am On Oct 06, 2015 |
missmary:I totally agree, the foundation was false, shr has every right to divorce him, its still NO to premarital sex |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nobody: 8:11am On Oct 06, 2015 |
proxillin:Erectile dysfunction (ED) otherwise known as impotence is the inability to HAVE OR SUSTAIN an ere.ction. Impotency is never ever when you can't erect at all. Your deek mustn't stand for a fertility test, sperm could be extracted(TESA, TESE...etc). Are you a medical practitioner? because I would be very surprised hearing this from one _ That's me opposing your statement @ "your deek must stand...", no it mustn't stand. wristbangle: I done talk my own. I only came here to correct people mistaking impotency for infertility. I feel she was dull for staying that long in a marriage founded on DECEIT. There was never a marriage... 2 Likes |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by eckersley: 8:13am On Oct 06, 2015 |
chymystique:Hy. Impotence or erectile dysfunction is different from infertility/sterility. Generally defined: Impotence is the inability of the man's thing to stand hence he cannot do the do with wifey while Infertility is the inability to get pregnant and can occurs in both males and females. So a man may be impotent but fertile (get a woman pregnant e.g via hospital assisted means) But a potent and infertile man may be able to do the do with his wife 100 times daily but cannot get her pregnant. Read up details here http://www.impotence-guide.com/impotence-vs-infertility.html |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Bimbomartins(m): 8:14am On Oct 06, 2015 |
proxillin:My friend. I read thru ur post and I realised ur point, however u can't try to disobey an express command." Marriage is honourable bed undefiled." ist thing I knw is the man is nt a true man of God, he lied n covered it up. On the other hand our marriage commitee always ask both parties to pray to knw Gods will for em. Did she pray and God directed her to a sinner? Don't blame d church for Christians failing in there primary duty, whoever breaks d hedge him shall d serpent strike. N.B am a deeperlifer. 1 Like |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by wristbangle: 8:15am On Oct 06, 2015 |
chymystique: I love this. |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by wristbangle: 8:16am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie, what do u have to say ma? |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by MzMay(f): 8:20am On Oct 06, 2015 |
dharay99:"Screening in & out" lol |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by MzMay(f): 8:21am On Oct 06, 2015 |
dharay99:"Screening in & out" |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Egemeole: 8:21am On Oct 06, 2015 |
see sex outside marriage is sexual immorality. And sexual immorality leads to Hell fire |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by proxillin(m): 8:22am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: CHesosi...You know Nigerian medical lab will tell to sleep with your woman or masturbate to extract your sperm. It happened to me. Nigeria |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by AfroKnight: 8:24am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Sadly fertility tests only check for sperm quality not Erectile dysfunction. So there's no way she would know before marriage. Only the man can tell her and he chose not to. That's wickedness. |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nobody: 8:29am On Oct 06, 2015 |
proxillin: You can claim to be religious_ so masturbation is against your belief. There are cases of men on days on IVF egg retrieval who couldn't masturbate due to tension, they had to get that sperm out somehow if it wasn't frozen previously. The wife to be won't be inside the lab with you, shey na to carry test result come show her? Lols @ emboldened. There are big fertility clinics that can extract here in Nigeria |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by dharay99: 8:31am On Oct 06, 2015 |
MzMay: #smiles# Yeah... |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by wristbangle: 8:31am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: U dey mind them. Anyway we are here to learn and thank God u have cited the discrepancies between infertility and impotent. My own definition Infertility: Dick fit big or small or stand kakaraka like zuma rock but the akamu no fit fertile babe egg. Impotent: Dick gear no go gree pick race. E go dey sleep like lazy cat but the akamu go dey fertile. To me na infertility worst pass. Dem fit hijack person akamu whey e dey impotent, knack am for inside one babe belle make e become jonny bravo. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by kannymoore(m): 8:31am On Oct 06, 2015 |
proxillin: You are wrong |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by proxillin(m): 8:34am On Oct 06, 2015 |
wristbangle: This thread is getting informative. I am learning. Thank God I posted this story |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by melakes(m): 8:38am On Oct 06, 2015 |
OP, y not simply address deceit in relationships rather than the virtue of virginity. every single day, over 100 marriages are being dissolved as a result of issues not pertaining to virginity but to deceit. however u term it, virginity is a virtue of a decently brought up lady & shud neva b made 2 look like abnormal esp wen such ppl have chosen to b different from the multitude. Besides, sex is a sin outside marriage of cos but its never a sin in discussions. our churches ds days make d mere talk of sex appear so unholy yet its only hypocrisy. to be couples shuld freely discuss their sexual beliefs & express their minds freely with each other. in our days, the most religious ppl ar turning out 2b d most deceitful ppl. only d act of sex outside marriage is a sin. |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by chika0072(m): 8:39am On Oct 06, 2015 |
proxillin post=386 :Dis part got me laughing |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by wristbangle: 8:40am On Oct 06, 2015 |
proxillin: Honestly bro. Left to me, I blame the couples who shun away fertility test and other sexual tests before tying the knot but the husband is wicked sha |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Nobody: 8:40am On Oct 06, 2015 |
wristbangle: hahahaha. We were having this discussion one weekend o. Which one worse pass between Impotency and Infertility... I was almost alone for Infertility, some even said they are the same thing, others said impotency is worse. The thing is, we should never pray for a partner that would look you in the eye and lie to you on issues like this. It's heartbreaking... |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by catalanscrew(m): 8:42am On Oct 06, 2015 |
And some people will still blame PMB for this...... |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by wristbangle: 8:46am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Kachisbarbie: Amen ooo. Imagine when person wan play kelewa with the partner, the person come dey give one excuse.. chai! Kachis am sorry to say when I hear story like this, I do say some un believers are more oriented than believers. Too much spirit koko no good. If we tell some parashute believers Christian say make them attend sex seminar, dem go term person as pervert. |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Gideonmi(m): 8:47am On Oct 06, 2015 |
GBAM...... U talk well GraceInUSA: |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Sunbellar: 8:47am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Why can't you tell us the name of your working church? |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Franzinni: 8:50am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Oh well ... I have heard it. But did your pastor deliver her from the main problem? I mean... You know... Tear rubber things. Just saying. Cus virginity seems to be the ultimate problem. |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by bummyla(m): 8:52am On Oct 06, 2015 |
Sorry Lady! I can understand the 20 years agony! But her husband is full of pride! and if he is a true man of GOD, he would have prayed himself to his healing! He is wicked and pompous human being, what is there in letting people know you have a certain problem! Problem shared is problem solved. Some of my friend are having challenges in child bearing, they made it open and now people are helping them out! And lastly if he had had a very good superior pastor the man would have known that something is not right with his subordinate pastor and who have asked! http://www.bummyla.com |
Re: A Sad Story Of A Virgin Married Woman - Ladies Learn by Dexema(m): 8:53am On Oct 06, 2015 |
proxillin:EPIC! |
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