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She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by Badirukehinde(m): 8:34am On Oct 07, 2015
It is Only if the person who joined the couple on that very day, said to the Man; "Do You agree to take this woman as your beloved 'Slave' that marital violence, oppression, subordination should then be accepted...

She's Your wife, Not your slave. You didn't marry a machine, you got married to a fellow human who can not share herself into 10 as you just cannot too. We just do not know that, there are several Women out there whose homes have become prisons & they seek self determinism, identity & emancipation from the 'other' gender.

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by Kingsasian(m): 8:42am On Oct 07, 2015
I just tire o. A man will just be at home and cant help his wife with some chores even on weekends.

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by QueenEdna(f): 8:52am On Oct 07, 2015
Im glad this is coming from a guy, bless you op.... Domestic violence/maltreatment of Wives by their husbands has become a norm in our society. The way nd manner some men treat their wives like a piece of thrash baffles me.I think its really pathetic aΩ̴̩̩̩̥d̶̲̥̅̊ needs to stop.

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by Badirukehinde(m): 9:38am On Oct 07, 2015
Kingsasian:
I just tire o. A man will just be at home and cant help his wife with some chores even on weekends.
Lol Tha's real serious...With crossed legs, some even boss their wives around ordering for their meal, it's uncalled for
Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by Kingsasian(m): 9:47am On Oct 07, 2015
Badirukehinde:

Lol Tha's real serious...With crossed legs, some even boss their wives around ordering for their meal, it's uncalled for
that is a typical African man with ancient mentality.

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by YourCoffin: 11:20am On Oct 07, 2015
How the slaves are being conned into believing they're the slavers....
Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by Wenebadu(f): 11:32am On Oct 07, 2015
Wives are turn 2 slaves in their matrimonial homes,they have no say or decision,all they do is to obey and adhere to strict rules from their dictators(husbands) bullshit*

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by justcallbuki(f): 4:58pm On Oct 07, 2015
at the end of the day..... The man will still say 'what have you done today'? Mtwcheww.
The woman will lose her self esteem,while trying to please her hubby.

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by queenfav(f): 6:00pm On Oct 07, 2015
This is very old fashioned sha,I expect men nowadays to have learnt from their fathers,and treat the wife like the helpmeet that she is.Rather most just assume the position of 'commander in chief of the home forces',and turn her into a doormat.
Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by queenfav(f): 6:04pm On Oct 07, 2015
I strongly believe that women are also to blame because its what you consent to,that becomes the norm in your relationship.Where a woman has the mindset that she was "born just to make a man happy",she might as well have handed him chains to bind her to eternal slavery.I tell my clients to teach their female kids to have a healthy self esteem,to have a life outside being just a "wife and mother".Most victims of domestic 'slavery' and abuse start out by being too desperate to snag a man.They put up with anything no matter how abusive or demeaning just to be and also stay a MRS.If a man won't help out in chores,do thoughtful things around the house to make life a little easier for his wife,then it has been the pattern of their relationship from the get go.She simply let him treat her that way,and then he becomes worse knowing that she will let him get away with just about anything! believe in telling a man what is expected of him as a husband in all aspects because many men just have no clue whatsoever.

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by johnson232: 6:31pm On Oct 07, 2015
Wenebadu:
Wives are turn 2 slaves in their matrimonial homes,they have no say or decision,all they do is to obey and adhere to strict rules from their dictators(husbands) bullshit*
@bolded, it's tradition, that's how we met it, just like the way we met bride price. U women should start the revolution from the abolition of bride price. It should be holistic, the price attached to the bride signify transaction, which is synonymous to slavery, buying and selling.

Whether the amount involve is peanut or not, a price was paid. Women should start protesting against bride price, the same tradition encouraging men to treat their wives as slaves, is also responsible for bride price...

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Re: She Is Your Wife Not Your Slave by Badirukehinde(m): 8:01pm On Oct 07, 2015
johnson232:

@bolded, it's tradition, that's how we met it, just like the way we met bride price. U women should start the revolution from the abolition of bride price. It should be holistic, the price attached to the bride signify transaction, which is synonymous to slavery, buying and selling.

Whether the amount involve is peanut or not, a price was paid. Women should start protesting against bride price, the same tradition encouraging men to treat their wives as slaves, is also responsible for bride price...
I think I agree to that stance...What's the essence of an exhorbitant. Bride price that's more of selling ones daughter

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