I've been having this problem for quite some times now.

I'm more of an Introvert kinda guy. No gf, not too many female friends either, mostly indoors except when going to class for lectures or church service.

Sometimes, whenever I try to engage talking with a gurl, they start by being normally confident and all that but, within that very same minute, they won't be able to look straight into my eyes.

I've experienced this several times on different occasions. Not that I'm handsome, I'm just an average guy (I think).

There was a time, close to whre I stay in school, a nearby filling station, there's this lady who works in the filling station mall, she's very nice, sometimes she gives me her phone to help her fix some stuffs which I usually find out there's nothing wrong with the phone most of the time. All of a sudden one Saturday evening, when I went to buy few groceries, I greeted her and she greeted too but the greeting ended with 'pastor', I thought I didn't hear it clearly until she repeated it one more time with "what do you want to buy 'pastor'?

I just acted like it's nothing but what bothered me was that, when I was talking with her, she couldn't look at me in the eye anymore unlike before. It has happened so many times.
There was a time too when I went to a bank inside my school to do some transactions, when I entered, I saw people sitting down, most were female students though, I noticed some were staring, I wasn't having a pen with me so I had to go borrow a pen from one of them. Not long after, while I was busy writing, she tapped me and calmly said I'm going, then I immediately understood she was politely asking for her pen. That was when I discovered she was really beautiful, I smiled and try to be friendly, tho I'm very shy too but sometimes you just have to pocket shame before you let something precious slip away.

I was still smiling and trying to be friendly and saying few funny things, her friend was laughing not far away, she just couldn't keep the direct eye contact and had to face somewhere else but smiling too, then I gave her back her pen and she left. Staring somewhere else actually made me feel somehow and till I went back home that day , I was just wondering why that happens everytime.

I'm just furious, what could it mean when ladies try to avoid looking directly at you when having a conversation with them?

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I wee tell you later.. Brb

it doesnt mean anything.

She is probably not into you.
Because if a girl is likely inlove wit you, she makes all the efforts just to look at your face.
If in case she is shy she will just look at you and bend her head immediately.
(Datz the power of being shy)
If she doesn't look at all probably she is not dah into u.

This one that everyone is booking space, I need answers from thinker-heads not space bookers.

they are just being polite.

either you've got chronic mouth odour or ....

if u ar an introverted guy, try to be humor with it. and also, do u really have feelings for girls that refuse to stare at you at face cos i dnt really grasp ur point here?

gab264:
She is probably not into you.
Because if a girl is likely inlove wit you, she makes all the efforts just to look at your face.
If in case she is shy she will just look at you and bend her head immediately.
(Datz the power of being shy)
If she doesn't look at all probably she is jot dah into u.

They actually do feel normal in the first place and could talk without any ish, buh afterwards they still talk but won't be able to look directly.

It's either you have sexy eyes ，pity face or frightening facial properties。

Stevaz01:
either you've got chronic mouth odour or ....

Lol.............God sef can testify my mouth doesn't ooze after brushing in the morning till night comes.

when I hate someone, I don't look them straight in the eyes

I think it's because the eyes can transmit messages more than the tongue, what makes it more interesting is that the eye only pass across hidden messages in the heart, so it sells us out when left on its own.
But brother I think you've not met a confident girl yet, maybe you just keep on meeting the timid type

It depends...some ppol are NOT into eye to eye contact while having convo & I'm one of em...it's juz like so awkward looking at d face of the person who's looking at me as well.. but it doesn't mean anything..

foxvilles:
This one that everyone is booking space, I need answers from thinker-heads not space bookers.

Sorry to ask, how old are u?

AfricanApple:
when I hate someone, I don't look them straight in the eyes

That's true, you are not even looking at the camara

Stevaz01:
either you've got chronic mouth odour or ....

madman

rottennaija:

Sorry to ask, how old are u?

What's age gotta do with what I'm talking about? Alright, I'm 20somthing.......so tell me why you asked

It really means nothing.... Sometimes we just get shy

it means she is shy. unless u av crossed eyes

Usually when a girl likes you, she finds it difficult to look into your eyes. When a lady is too bold to you, she most definitely doesn't like you.

Actually I'm guilty of that too, but mine happens when I like the person. I won't be able to keep eye contact with him I keep moving my eyes away.
But when I'm not shy of the person I'm able to keep eye contact.

trapQ:
Usually when a girl likes you, she finds it difficult to look into your eyes. When a lady is too bold to you, she most definitely doesn't like you.

That's a very wrong philosophy which is not always the case.

elantraceey:



That's a very wrong philosophy which is not always the case.

I agree with you. Being too bold doesn’t mean a girl doesn't like the guy.

rottennaija:

That's true, you are not even looking at the camara

which one kon be camara

she isn't into you....... hope you get that

AfricanApple:
which one kon be camara

wetin you de find for ground?

The mall girl called you pastor? If you are one,it could be that the Holy Ghost Fire annointing in your eyes is just too much or maybe them girls are shy.

Hannysmilez:
The mall girl called you pastor? If you are one,it could be that the Holy Ghost Fire annointing in your eyes is just too much or maybe them girls are shy.

Hmmmm.........when I'm still praying for Holy Ghost anointing to come upon me.

This one is gidi gaan o