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I'm 20yrs old as of now. I've been told that I'm a bit handsome by young and older women as well and by some guys. I had a good life back at my hometown where looks had little importance.

I now live with my parents in Anambra state and it seems that a lot of guys express hate for no apparent reason. Almost 70-80% of girls give me looks and I had experiences of girls trying to take pictures of me. I moved here as part of helping my mum in growing her business, but I feel that a lot of young people are more interested in dating than anything else.

Some girls act downright rude without looking at my face. I feel so lonely, and this has contributed a lot to my introvert nature of life which for some time now am trying to put to an end, no matter how simple I dress some people seem intimidated by me. Friends have being avoiding me for no actual reason, especially when they are about to going to a social gathering like party, ceremony's and all sorts, because I think that is where I can be able to explore the world and make friends some kind of being social to that is exactly what ave wanted all my life.

Please no insult and mind you that this thread is not to seek attention of whose so ever but just to spit out my daily pains with nairanders and seek solution's of how to present my self more than physical appearance to people, because they were unable to see the good aspect of me.

Plzz romancelanders how can I overcome feeling alone, avoid stereotypes of friends and (probably make real friends and build a social circle here
HELP!!!!

Mind you that this is no #attention seeking# thread as some will fink right now, but is just a true life packaging of just a growing up guy.......

@op..... I no wan sware for you now

@op,their reactions are 'cos your ugly!!

Befriend King Raoul. He seems to be going through the same issue. Two hot peas in a pod

PunkyVeer:
Befriend King Raoul. He seems to be going through the same issue. Two hot peas in a pod

Hmmm really

nedu2000:
@op,their reactions are 'cos your ugly!!

I wish to hear dis all times.
tanks anyway

ur own strong oh

Show me ur pix 1st then will tell u what 2 do.
Be4 that maybe ur a proud/pumpous guy nd ur attitude is bad or you are lying to pple here

interesting

Smh! You need therapy.

gab264:
Hmmm really

Yeah. You have not been reading his threads? He feels he is hot & that it has now become some sort of a "burden". I know many would love to have such a burden. I mean really, who doesn't wanna be scrumptious?

PunkyVeer:
Yeah. You have not been reading his threads? He feels he is hot & that it has now become some sort of a "burden". I know many would love to have such a burden. I mean really, who doesn't wanna be scrumptious?

I fink mine is a bit different from his"
I just need these people especially the new friends ave make here to see beyond my outlook and give me a chance to be around thats all I ave wanted.

gab264:
I fink mine is a bit different from his"
I just need these people especially the new friends ave make here to see beyond my outlook and give me a chance to be around thats all I ave wanted.

No seriously, he feels the exact same way you're feeling. Have a chat with him & you might end up being BFFs. Not many people can relate to this issue, hence I suggest you talk to him because to most people it's like you're talking unicorns...can't compute how this is an issue to start with. I think he's the only one that'll GET this.

Goandie:
Show me ur pix 1st then will tell u what 2 do.
Be4 that maybe ur a proud/pumpous guy nd ur attitude is bad or you are lying to pple here

Am not pumpous or whatever.
they never give me a chance to be around that's just it.
When u can't give a new friend a chance because they have not been able to look beyond maa physical look.
It sucks honestly,I need to be social with people all over.
Am fed up with my introvert of a thing.

All this foolish boys that always claim to be good looking. And if you check you will see that they ain't sh..it.

Oops, just checked and like I said you ain't sh..it. If you are the definition of good looking then a good number of us would rather be ugly. Mumu like you.

PunkyVeer:
No seriously, he feels the exact same way you're feeling. Have a chat with him & you might end up being BFFs. Not many people can relate to this issue, hence I suggest you talk to him because to most people it's like you're talking unicorns...can't compute how this is an issue to start with. I think he's the only one that'll GET this.

Your rigth dear"
If you were able to experience my pains,then such a person can be in a better position to direct me exactly.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]What do we actually have to say to this? [/color]

It is some kind of asking for a help I fink.
Naija boy if u have any to give,will highly appreciate it

waywardpikin:
All this foolish boys that always claim to be good looking. And if you check you will see that they ain't sh..it.

Oops, just checked and like I said you ain't sh..it. If you are the definition of good looking then a good number of us would rather be ugly. Mumu like you.

I appreciate yaa points of view anyway.

so for ur innermost mind now u fine shweeeeee

I have a filling that... I fine pass u..
lolz...

The OP no get work o. Who tell you say you fine. Na only monkey mama wey dey believe say monkey fine.

OP...you're indeed handsome. Will you marry me?

PrettyHausaGirl:
OP...you're indeed handsome. Will you marry me?

Am just a little scared cus pretty gurls like u) ain't royal
#No offence #

u dey confused! u just need focus and wisdom. . .

Bro,TBVH u're not Brad Pitt

yeah u goodlookin though, buh if I tell u wah I face, just last week I was asked out by a woman old enof to be my mum, I mean I was shocked, homie get friends who would accept u for who u re. I've got great friends and they always tease me saying they would never introduce me to their gfs , but u know they just kiddn. so bro relax.

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]What do we actually have to say to this? [/color]

Wht's he saying?

this is a sign....the Lord wants me to buy a gun.

armylord:
yeah u goodlookin though, buh if I tell u wah I face, just last week I was asked out by a woman old enof to be my mum, I mean I was shocked, homie get friends who would accept u for who u re. I've got great friends and they always tease me saying they would never introduce me to their gfs , but u know they just kiddn. so bro relax.

Bro that the exactly the type of friends am clamouring to have honestly.
Friends that I will get to laugh wif and always go out like we dem boys we are
Anyway tank's .