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vfactor:
My friend that's not who you are. It's just who you re comfortable being or what you enjoying being! If you want, u can be serious too. Its all a matter of putting yourself in the shoes of the ladies you re dating: would you be comfortable if your gf galivants and spend much time around men, in the name of who she is?

stupidity:
I noticed all the guys that creates thread about being "good looking" always have their best picture attached to their profile.

Attention seekers they are.

petkoffDrake:
Not that I move around with them all the time.... d quite and non-social type... 88% of d friends I have (females) 1st open a conversation to me and indirectly force me in being friends with them. But am trying to adapt being social and that's what am trying to do now, now am having problem with that too

vfactor:
You only need to set reasonable limits! Don't do things you won't like if its done to you. Be as plain and open as possible. Trust is earned.


N/B: sometimes too, the ladies need to deal with their trust issues!

vfactor:
You only need to set reasonable limits! Don't do things you won't like if its done to you. Be as plain and open as possible. Trust is earned.


N/B: sometimes too, the ladies need to deal with their trust issues!

petkoffDrake:
Av done my best to make her trust me, but she always monitors me... calling almost 10times a day, she see me talking or calling someone she'll wanna know who.... if she sees a lady or girl looking at me, she'll request we leave d premises or change position.... FOR GOD SAKE! WE AIN'T MARRIED. am even still in my early 20

vfactor:
Trust issues, insecurity! It get very irritating! Maybe she's been cheated on or she's also cheating!

Harbosede02:
U bae is right....u shouldn't be trusted,u aren't out of a relationship and u are already eyeing someone hr....mtchewwwwwuuuuuu

petkoffDrake:
ooom! understand me....
I am considering my friends advice cos its working perfectly well for his friend. his friend is handsome and has maintained distance relationship for close to 2yrs now

Harbosede02:
wahever....come to think abt it...would a distance relationship remain distant forever??what if the new bae frm the distance relationship find out u can't be trusted too??

What type of relationship would u nw venture into??

petkoffDrake:
I'll stick to it. for now

stupidity:
I noticed all the guys that creates thread about being "good looking" always have their best picture attached to their profile.

Attention seekers they are.

petkoffDrake:
pls friends I can't seem to be in a serious relationship... all av dated and currently dating, don't trust me 1bit. am about to end A 5months old relationship cos she told me to my face that she don't trust me, even if I get married to her today.
I probably feel free with d opposite sex coming around me and we chat, play around, visit places e.t.c maybe that's why they all think I can cheat easily and won't trust me.... But that's who I am...
Should I cut out "who I am" and start playing "who am not, jus cos am in a relationship and I don't want her to feel am cheating on her" should I??
A friend of mine told me to start a distance relationship, after I must have told her my plight. That's what am considering now, cos tired of not been trusted or monitored in a relationship just cos am good looking!
Av seen a pretty girl here in Nairaland I'll like to mingle with (name withheld)
so pls, should I try DISTANCE RELATIONSHIP??
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I know I'll be insulted.... so its all good, i'll be expecting it.
PETKOFFDRAKE!

dani3:
yes u should. Cultivating a good habit is not a crime

brutalkhleo:
show off best advice: wait till you get a job and you don't have time to chill with baes no more

chomytex:
But how are u sure that the distant relationship would work..i suggest u stay off relationships n work on yourself.

petkoffDrake:
how do u mean?

chomytex:
But how are u sure that the distant relationship would work..i suggest u stay off relationships n work on yourself.

chomytex:
The person close to u didnt trust u,wat makes u think a distant lover will trust u?..just saying tho..

brutalkhleo:
bros that is what I meant now...since you are too irresistible all of 'em girls are tripping,,, just relax and enjoy the attention since you are now a tourist centre for girls...