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henribj:
everyone is good looking in their own eyes, it don't mean others see them as such
#justsaying

sorry that was a mistake. I mean I am still looking for a cutie to get me pregnant

ronald4lif:
Your piece is laced with loopholes, ignorance and error even as you displayed your inability to respect others choices and decision. By failing to embrace others life choices and undermining their unshackling liberty you became shortfall of any right to parade your personal opinion on others.

Your write up became nauseous when you suggested P'square are not properly wedded to their wives because they haven't performed a ceremonious white wedding ritual. This disjointed assertion and display of arrogance to venture into someone's union without a need to do so speaks volume of your ignorance and lack of elementary knowledge of the matrimonial institution.

Prior to the invention of white wedding which from it inception was unconnected to religion but became customary after Queen Victoria of England wore a white gown to her court wedding and with Christians adopting the dressing code into it system there have been marriages around the world. The practice of wedding has been in force even before the advent of religion so for you or anyone to suggest that anyone who didn't wed in a church is not properly married is naive and ignorance. I don't know about you but my great grand parents and ancestors were properly married to their respective wives the traditional method without church wedding and before the importation of Abrahamic doctrines to our clan.

Lastly, the issue of baby mamas isn't confined to our celebrities like you're indicating and being insinuated by many. There have been baby mamas even before the booming of Nigeria entertainment industry and it has been a prevalence even among the 'common' class and non celebrities. I know of countless baby mamas who have never been entangled with any celebrity.

if one is a Christian, you should wed in the church. If you practice other religions then you should follow the dictates of such a religion.
#justsaying

LadyAimy:
sorry that was a mistake. I mean I am still looking for a cutie to get me pregnant

keep looking, age is your friend so you have nothing to worry about
with all the cuties in and around town you still never see anyone?
#justsaying

robosky02:
[s]Have we ever wondered what the deal is with some of our young girls that get pregnant for Nigerian celebrities who half the time probably do not give a hoot about them?

Have we ever stopped to wonder if and how they arrived at being pregnant? Yes I know they indulged in the act but did they deliberately get pregnant? Or did it happen by accident?

To be honest, at the rate at which young girls are getting pregnant for our Nigerian celebrities, I am of the opinion that they are probably even timing their ovulation to ensure they get pregnant when they engage in sexual intercourse with these men because it is so rampant that it just CANNOT be a mistake anymore.


Back in the day, Tuface Idibia was reprimanded for leading young girls astray with his numerous baby mamas but now Tuface even seems more like the normal one since he was finally able to tie the knot with one of his baby mamas at the time.

Now, we have artists like WizKid, Davido, Jesse Jagz, Flavour, Ice Prince, Patoranking, Olamide and so on. Let’s not forget the infamous Maje Ayida who had a baby by his ex-girlfriend Anita while married to his superstar wife Toke Makinwa.

Even our female celebrities have a stake in this as well with the likes of Omawunmi, Waje, Anna Banner and a host of others. But thankfully, Omawunmi married her baby daddy while pregnant with baby number two.

Is this a trend? Or are the women blinded by the fact that the men are celebrities and having a baby by them somewhat translates to “financial security”?

Please permit me to include supposed “wives” who are yet to marry in the sight of God but already have CHILDREN for their supposed “husband”. Like the likes of Psquare and brothers who are very successful but for whatever reasons known to them, have refused to marry their women in the church.

This act is not only wrong in the sight of God but it is just as though you are still living with a concubine. It really baffles me how you can be married before the law and your community but fail to be married before the almighty God.

Yet you live as man and wife and even recreate offspring like man and wife. What a shame!

To be honest, the wives of such people should actually be glad they even performed the traditional rites because given the rise of baby mamas these days, they could easily have gotten away with having them simply as their baby mamas.

What is our society turning into? What are we teaching our children?



How can we raise our children with the notion that daddy has other children with other women? Doesn’t this already breed enmity and competitiveness?

Call me old fashioned but children are supposed to be raised in a home. As a matter of fact, children ought to be born after the man and woman have TIED THE KNOT!

There used to be a standard procedure back in the day: Meet the girl, date, propose, introduction, traditional, court, church wedding and finally, babies.

Whatever happened to that trend? Now they call it “Civilisation” or better yet, “Westernization”

What a shame indeed!

Sometime ago, on TV, I watched an interview of Jesse Jagz’s baby mama, Ruby who is also an artist signed on the same record label as he is; Chocolate City. She was asked about her future plans with Jesse and to my surprise, she responded saying she didn’t want to be in a relationship with him and that she is happy with where they are at the moment aka she is okay with just being a baby mama.

OMG! That had to be the most unbelievable thing I have ever heard!

What is this society really turning into? Since when did it become okay for a woman to have a baby for man that isn’t her husband and even be ok with it?

My question is if you do not aspire to become his wife and he your husband in the near future, why then do you want to have a baby with him in the first place?

I really do not know the reason why all these women are clamoring to become “baby mamas” but enough is enough ladies!

You are precious and should treat yourself as such. No marriage, no babies! If he really wants a baby, he clearly can afford a wedding after all, he’s a celebrity.

Ladies, you must stop presenting yourself in this manner regardless of if the end result is marriage to a celebrity. It really doesn’t worth the risk of becoming a baby mama.

Maybe we need to return back to the good ol’ days when such behaviour were frowned upon. Enough really is enough!

What do you think is the reason for the up-rise of baby mamas in Nigeria?

Feel free to comment and share your opinion and suggestions.
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http://alocovivavoce.com/2015/10/14/the-sudden-uprise-of-baby-mamas-in-nigeria/

Thrash! Thrash! Thrash!
Judgmental people like you who are quick to assume and pass judgment are irrelevant in the scheme of things. The earlier you live your own life and S.T.F.U of other people's affair the better for you.
By the way you sound a reasonable woman will prefer to be a baby mama to someone else than been your wife. Marriage is not a must, it is a choice and marriage is not a guarantee to make heaven nor is it the ticket to a life of bliss, peace and happiness.
TO EACH HIS/HER OWN. KINDLY GET BUSY AND GET AWAY FROM OTHER PEOPLE'S AFFAIR MR. RIGHTEOUS MAN.

Yonce:
I know that's not the issue, I'm just highlighting where you said that no girl can get pregnant for a celeb "by mistake" because if she learns she's pregnant, she should abort it. If she doesn't, then its intentional. That's wrong.

As for their intention, its definitely their ticket out of poverty and middle class lifestyle. Afterall, I've never heard of a doctor or lawyer or a nurse getting knocked up by a celeb.

in this age and time, any girl(a sabi girl o, and not a "mary amaka" who gets pregnant for anyone did it intentionally and its not a mistake.
#justmyopinion

ronald4lif:
Your piece is laced with loopholes, ignorance and error even as you displayed your inability to respect others choices and decision. By failing to embrace others life choices and undermining their unshackling liberty you became shortfall of any right to parade your personal opinion on others.

Your write up became nauseous when you suggested P'square are not properly wedded to their wives because they haven't performed a ceremonious white wedding ritual. This disjointed assertion and display of arrogance to venture into someone's union without a need to do so speaks volume of your ignorance and lack of elementary knowledge of the matrimonial institution.

Prior to the invention of white wedding which from it inception was unconnected to religion but became customary after Queen Victoria of England wore a white gown to her court wedding and with Christians adopting the dressing code into it system there have been marriages around the world. The practice of wedding has been in force even before the advent of religion so for you or anyone to suggest that anyone who didn't wed in a church is not properly married is naive and ignorance. I don't know about you but my great grand parents and ancestors were properly married to their respective wives the traditional method without church wedding and before the importation of Abrahamic doctrines to our clan.

Lastly, the issue of baby mamas isn't confined to our celebrities like you're indicating and being insinuated by many. There have been baby mamas even before the booming of Nigeria entertainment industry and it has been a prevalence even among the 'common' class and non celebrities. I know of countless baby mamas who have never been entangled with any celebrity.

Well said...some people are too judgemental it makes them look very ignorant .

STFUareyouGod:
I need baby mama too. Since that's the new trend in naija. Interested ladies can forward their applications

Wow, how that could be? neg+neg=.?

naughtynaughty:
Abortion is bad, we shuldnt be a baby mama again. Wt rili does d society want frm us. Aw rada be a baby mama dan abort..so far d guy is well 2do.

nonsensical comment.
and if the guy is not "well to do" you will abort aby?
clap for your self, you are truly a brainiac

Dear OP church wedding or court wedding both come after the main wedding recognized by God which is the traditional exchange of dowry or bride price. That is the main wedding because there parental consent is given along with prayers and blessings. The church wedding is a western & society concept. The court wedding is also a western concept with a legal balance.

robosky02:
Please permit me to include supposed “wives” who are yet to marry in the sight of God but already have CHILDREN for their supposed “husband”. Like the likes of Psquare and brothers who are very successful but for whatever reasons known to them, have refused to marry their women in the church.

This act is not only wrong in the sight of God but it is just as though you are still living with a concubine. It really baffles me how you can be married before the law and your community but fail to be married before the almighty God.

Like seriously? And who exactly is this person pontificating on how exactly marriages should be conducted? Some people are so arrogant and self entitled it's not even funny.

melya:
Wow, how that could be? neg+neg=.?

I'm a dude

Ever since people discovered that HIV is not as rampant in Nigeria as they have been reading in books, they went back to sex without protection and the result is baby boom. Imagine how many babes each celebrity with a baby mama must have strafed without condom before impregnating one of them. now imagine how many guys strafed that baby mama too without condom (or is it only celebrities that she will allow without condom?) before she met the celebrity. If you try to do the maths, you will be tempted to believe there is nothing like HIV but I believe there is. it's not just as endemic as they try to make us believe. A lot of girls now wait until midway into strafing then you hear "baby, please remove the condom". If you are not careful, you will fall for it. When the issue of pregnancy comes up, another wahala. Everyone knows how dangerous abortion is in Nigeria so why take the risk? She calls the person responsible and he's extremely happy to hear the news so that's it.

henribj:
keep looking, age is your friend so you have nothing to worry about with all the cuties in and around town you still never see anyone? #justsaying

I'm looking for a big catch. Age dosent matter

ronald4lif:
No where in my post was I supporting or encouraging the practice of baby mamas. I was however, stressing on the need to be less judgmental, embrace individual choices and dismiss the popular conception that celebrities are the only ones who indulge in the practice.

And while agreeing with you that a man should perform marital rites and pay dowry of their women before procreating I disagree that a marriage must be only seen as complete after a church wedding or blessing from a pastor like you put it, has been conducted.

Just like I said in my previous comment, there have been marriages around the world and in Nigeria before religion was established in our country and unless you have any discountenance to prove those marriages weren't 'blessed' then parading it as factual is erroneous.

Everyone deserve the right to exercise their independent freedom of the type of wedding they desire, be it in a church, traditionally or a court setting, and for one not to perform a church wedding doesn't make their union less merited than others. P'square can have white wedding at their own convenience or decide never to, it doesn't demerit who they are and what they share with their respective wives.

I am just here to ask you to ignore that guy. Nigeria Christians read the entire Bible but never act like Christ. What is Pastors blessing? The question is what are the marital rites recognized by our constitution? I am a Christian but i really get pissed by over zealous and self righteous people. I have so much admiration for the current Pope not because he is infallible but his decision to remain less judgmental but like Christ shows love to those who does not even deserve it.

robosky02:
stellytwinkle(f), Twaci(f), azeeza(f), safarigirl(f), cutiepie25(f), Enypie(f),

where are you clinic matter @ tohpahz(f),

wat is dis1 saying. Don't dabaru my brain abeg

LadyAimy:
I'm looking for a big catch. Age dosent matter

with all the "big catch" in and around town you still have not made a choice?
oh i guess they are just not interested in you
#truthhurts
#justmyopinion

OP

how baby mama take concern you na? you no go mind your business? na you dey feed them

henribj:
nonsensical comment. and if the guy is not "well to do" you will abort aby? clap for your self, you are truly a brainiac

if d guy is not well to do I wunt abort...aw jxt abstain

naughtynaughty:
if d guy is not well to do I wunt abort...aw jxt abstain

lol
that's btw you and the guy

henribj:
with all the "big catch" in and around town you still have not made a choice?
oh i guess they are just not interested in you
#truthhurts
#justmyopinion

Lol, who won't be interested in what am carrying back and front? I am being picky

robosky02:
Have we ever wondered what the deal is with some of our young girls that get pregnant for Nigerian celebrities who half the time probably do not give a hoot about them?

Have we ever stopped to wonder if and how they arrived at being pregnant? Yes I know they indulged in the act but did they deliberately get pregnant? Or did it happen by accident?

To be honest, at the rate at which young girls are getting pregnant for our Nigerian celebrities, I am of the opinion that they are probably even timing their ovulation to ensure they get pregnant when they engage in sexual intercourse with these men because it is so rampant that it just CANNOT be a mistake anymore.


Back in the day, Tuface Idibia was reprimanded for leading young girls astray with his numerous baby mamas but now Tuface even seems more like the normal one since he was finally able to tie the knot with one of his baby mamas at the time.

Now, we have artists like WizKid, Davido, Jesse Jagz, Flavour, Ice Prince, Patoranking, Olamide and so on. Let’s not forget the infamous Maje Ayida who had a baby by his ex-girlfriend Anita while married to his superstar wife Toke Makinwa.

Even our female celebrities have a stake in this as well with the likes of Omawunmi, Waje, Anna Banner and a host of others. But thankfully, Omawunmi married her baby daddy while pregnant with baby number two.

Is this a trend? Or are the women blinded by the fact that the men are celebrities and having a baby by them somewhat translates to “financial security”?

Please permit me to include supposed “wives” who are yet to marry in the sight of God but already have CHILDREN for their supposed “husband”. Like the likes of Psquare and brothers who are very successful but for whatever reasons known to them, have refused to marry their women in the church.

This act is not only wrong in the sight of God but it is just as though you are still living with a concubine. It really baffles me how you can be married before the law and your community but fail to be married before the almighty God.

Yet you live as man and wife and even recreate offspring like man and wife. What a shame!

To be honest, the wives of such people should actually be glad they even performed the traditional rites because given the rise of baby mamas these days, they could easily have gotten away with having them simply as their baby mamas.

What is our society turning into? What are we teaching our children?



How can we raise our children with the notion that daddy has other children with other women? Doesn’t this already breed enmity and competitiveness?

Call me old fashioned but children are supposed to be raised in a home. As a matter of fact, children ought to be born after the man and woman have TIED THE KNOT!

There used to be a standard procedure back in the day: Meet the girl, date, propose, introduction, traditional, court, church wedding and finally, babies.

Whatever happened to that trend? Now they call it “Civilisation” or better yet, “Westernization”

What a shame indeed!

Sometime ago, on TV, I watched an interview of Jesse Jagz’s baby mama, Ruby who is also an artist signed on the same record label as he is; Chocolate City. She was asked about her future plans with Jesse and to my surprise, she responded saying she didn’t want to be in a relationship with him and that she is happy with where they are at the moment aka she is okay with just being a baby mama.

OMG! That had to be the most unbelievable thing I have ever heard!

What is this society really turning into? Since when did it become okay for a woman to have a baby for man that isn’t her husband and even be ok with it?

My question is if you do not aspire to become his wife and he your husband in the near future, why then do you want to have a baby with him in the first place?

I really do not know the reason why all these women are clamoring to become “baby mamas” but enough is enough ladies!

You are precious and should treat yourself as such. No marriage, no babies! If he really wants a baby, he clearly can afford a wedding after all, he’s a celebrity.

Ladies, you must stop presenting yourself in this manner regardless of if the end result is marriage to a celebrity. It really doesn’t worth the risk of becoming a baby mama.

Maybe we need to return back to the good ol’ days when such behaviour were frowned upon. Enough really is enough!

What do you think is the reason for the up-rise of baby mamas in Nigeria?

Feel free to comment and share your opinion and suggestions.



http://alocovivavoce.com/2015/10/14/the-sudden-uprise-of-baby-mamas-in-nigeria/

There used to be a standard procedure back in the day: Meet the girl, date, propose, introduction, traditional, court, church wedding and finally, babies.
OP, re u aware that for wat ever reasons, some families have re_arranged the old pattern to Meet d gal, propose, GET PREGNANTN introduction,traditional etc what do u say to a gal in such crazy situation??

LadyAimy:
Lol, who won't be interested in what am carrying back and front? I am being picky

I dunno what your carrying be it at the back or front
that being said, we men are also picky, and whatever it is your selling, some of us are not interested in buying
#justsaying

robosky02:
Have we ever wondered what the deal is with some of our young girls that get pregnant for Nigerian celebrities who half the time probably do not give a hoot about them?

Have we ever stopped to wonder if and how they arrived at being pregnant? Yes I know they indulged in the act but did they deliberately get pregnant? Or did it happen by accident?

To be honest, at the rate at which young girls are getting pregnant for our Nigerian celebrities, I am of the opinion that they are probably even timing their ovulation to ensure they get pregnant when they engage in sexual intercourse with these men because it is so rampant that it just CANNOT be a mistake anymore.


Back in the day, Tuface Idibia was reprimanded for leading young girls astray with his numerous baby mamas but now Tuface even seems more like the normal one since he was finally able to tie the knot with one of his baby mamas at the time.

Now, we have artists like WizKid, Davido, Jesse Jagz, Flavour, Ice Prince, Patoranking, Olamide and so on. Let’s not forget the infamous Maje Ayida who had a baby by his ex-girlfriend Anita while married to his superstar wife Toke Makinwa.

Even our female celebrities have a stake in this as well with the likes of Omawunmi, Waje, Anna Banner and a host of others. But thankfully, Omawunmi married her baby daddy while pregnant with baby number two.

Is this a trend? Or are the women blinded by the fact that the men are celebrities and having a baby by them somewhat translates to “financial security”?

Please permit me to include supposed “wives” who are yet to marry in the sight of God but already have CHILDREN for their supposed “husband”. Like the likes of Psquare and brothers who are very successful but for whatever reasons known to them, have refused to marry their women in the church.

This act is not only wrong in the sight of God but it is just as though you are still living with a concubine. It really baffles me how you can be married before the law and your community but fail to be married before the almighty God.

Yet you live as man and wife and even recreate offspring like man and wife. What a shame!

To be honest, the wives of such people should actually be glad they even performed the traditional rites because given the rise of baby mamas these days, they could easily have gotten away with having them simply as their baby mamas.

What is our society turning into? What are we teaching our children?



How can we raise our children with the notion that daddy has other children with other women? Doesn’t this already breed enmity and competitiveness?

Call me old fashioned but children are supposed to be raised in a home. As a matter of fact, children ought to be born after the man and woman have TIED THE KNOT!

There used to be a standard procedure back in the day: Meet the girl, date, propose, introduction, traditional, court, church wedding and finally, babies.

Whatever happened to that trend? Now they call it “Civilisation” or better yet, “Westernization”

What a shame indeed!

Sometime ago, on TV, I watched an interview of Jesse Jagz’s baby mama, Ruby who is also an artist signed on the same record label as he is; Chocolate City. She was asked about her future plans with Jesse and to my surprise, she responded saying she didn’t want to be in a relationship with him and that she is happy with where they are at the moment aka she is okay with just being a baby mama.

OMG! That had to be the most unbelievable thing I have ever heard!

What is this society really turning into? Since when did it become okay for a woman to have a baby for man that isn’t her husband and even be ok with it?

My question is if you do not aspire to become his wife and he your husband in the near future, why then do you want to have a baby with him in the first place?

I really do not know the reason why all these women are clamoring to become “baby mamas” but enough is enough ladies!

You are precious and should treat yourself as such. No marriage, no babies! If he really wants a baby, he clearly can afford a wedding after all, he’s a celebrity.

Ladies, you must stop presenting yourself in this manner regardless of if the end result is marriage to a celebrity. It really doesn’t worth the risk of becoming a baby mama.

Maybe we need to return back to the good ol’ days when such behaviour were frowned upon. Enough really is enough!

What do you think is the reason for the up-rise of baby mamas in Nigeria?

Feel free to comment and share your opinion and suggestions.



http://alocovivavoce.com/2015/10/14/the-sudden-uprise-of-baby-mamas-in-nigeria/

Every time church church u wed traditional why not wed in De church psqure they're very successful but refused to wed in the church na must
Op stop distracting your brain, na you holy pass
You Not ask Lionel Messi, Ronaldo, Neymar Lil Wayne
Christ Brown why they didn't wed in the church na because you wed in the church everyone must wed in the church
What you mean now if you wed in the church you can't divorce

octopusfreaky:
none of your bizzxzx..

Its actually nobody's biz but say something meaning to at least dissuade an ugly trend.

henribj:
I dunno what your carrying be it at the back or front
that being said, we men are also picky, and whatever it is your selling, some of us are not interested in buying
#justsaying

You can't speak for other men, speak for yaself.

Nigeria was at one time the abortion capital. Not sure which is worst.

LadyAimy:
You can't speak for other men, speak for yaself.

I already did speak for myself, and as long as there is one negative/opposition voice, there are bound to be others.
or are you saying that the whole men in 9ja are interested in buying what your selling at the front and back?

People do not actually know what they want when choosing a life partner so they allow love, infatuation or their private parts make the choice.

Yea, because some of these artists or ambitious people, after getting married actually find out months later that they made a mistake in their choice.

But Tuface popularized Baby mamaism. Yes, i agree with the fact that these ladies time their ovulation. One girl did it with one of my guys.

PappyMason:
Yoruba women/girls account for the highest baby mama's aka bastard producers.

Ask Tuface for confirmation.

I think it is part of the culture actually and this is not being tribalistic. Just like spraying money it caught on to other tribes.

Isaiah 4: 1

THESE ARE A FEW PEARLS FOR THE SISTERS: Play hard to get. Don't fall in love too early or too cheaply. Don't get pregnant ignorantly. Don't settle for less than you're worth. You're an Afrikan Queen, not a side chick.

ronald4lif:
Your piece is laced with loopholes, ignorance and error even as you displayed your inability to respect others choices and decision. By failing to embrace others life choices and undermining their unshackling liberty you became shortfall of any right to parade your personal opinion on others.

Your write up became nauseous when you suggested P'square are not properly wedded to their wives because they haven't performed a ceremonious white wedding ritual. This disjointed assertion and display of arrogance to venture into someone's union without a need to do so speaks volume of your ignorance and lack of elementary knowledge of the matrimonial institution.

Prior to the invention of white wedding which from it inception was unconnected to religion but became customary after Queen Victoria of England wore a white gown to her court wedding and with Christians adopting the dressing code into it system there have been marriages around the world. The practice of wedding has been in force even before the advent of religion so for you or anyone to suggest that anyone who didn't wed in a church is not properly married is naive and ignorance. I don't know about you but my great grand parents and ancestors were properly married to their respective wives the traditional method without church wedding and before the importation of Abrahamic doctrines to our clan.

Lastly, the issue of baby mamas isn't confined to our celebrities like you're indicating and being insinuated by many. There have been baby mamas even before the booming of Nigeria entertainment industry and it has been a prevalence even among the 'common' class and non celebrities. I know of countless baby mamas who have never been entangled with any celebrity.

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