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Tallesty1:

"nah, don't go there. that girl will just finish you, I won't advise you to date any of my friends cause they are not wife materials. They will just chop you and clean mouth and they are too materialistic. You will go broke and die before your time if you do. and many other bla! bla!! bla!!!. They are my friend and I know them more than their parents, so chill. If you're ready to settle down like you said, then give me small time and I will find a nice girl for you. It is a promise" she said.

LadyX:
Op, if the cousin's friends are not wife material, she is also not wife material.

I don't know whether what the cousin said about her friends is true, but I think she could be insincere. How come all her friends are bad?

Maybe she doesn't want them to marry before her. Maybe she's jealous that her friend is going to enjoy her cousin's money.

Some 'friends' might be so envious of you but they would still be laughing with you.

Tell your friend to look for another girl and forget about the cousin's friends.

Tallesty1:
Do you support the idea of dating the girl to find out who she really is?

LadyX:
If he decides to date the girl to know who she is, let him do it with eyes wide open...the disadvantage is that he could end up wasting his precious time if it turns out that she is a "bad" girl.
If he has another option, forget the girl..if he doesn't have try.
Know that some girls can form Holy Mary..let him be careful not to be deceived.

Tallesty1:
The guy has backed down already but I feel like digging around to know if his cousin is telling the truth.

LadyX:


Now you are talking... When you find out the truth, tell us....don't forget to mention me

MrsPhyno:
It's like OP just wants us to bash the cousin

LadyX:
Op, if the cousin's friends are not wife material, she is also not wife material.

I don't know whether what the cousin said about her friends is true, but I think she could be insincere. How come all her friends are bad?

Maybe she doesn't want them to marry before her. Maybe she's jealous that her friend is going to enjoy her cousin's money.

Some 'friends' might be so envious of you but they would still be laughing with you.

Tell your friend to look for another girl and forget about the cousin's friends.

Tallesty1:
Hahahahahahahahahahaha.


Information is not free

MizMyColi:
Lols
IsaacBuchi

It could be both of two extremes, she could be jealous or she could be being plain truthful.

The best way to find out is for his friend to give her a chance to prove or disprove.

It is wrong to judge a book by its cover.
It is wrong to write-off people based on what you've been told about them.

I've been a victim of hearsay...Not necessarily concerning marriage, but people get to hear and observe lots of mumble jumble about me from afar, and when they come close, they're left in awe as I'm an exact opposite.

His friend should not relate with her based on the mindset of what his cousin told him.
Let him get to know her, and keep an open mind. Time has a way of revealing mysteries, even if she pretends.

Tallesty's friend should make sure that the cousin hasn't told that her friend anything to poison her mind against the guy.

A friend who speaks so brazenly and unguardedly about her friends (guilty or not) isn't particularly one to be trusted.

You catch my drift?

IsaacBuchi:
Sure I catch you. I knew with you I was finally going to find a good response on this topic.

We shouldn't be judging people from one hearsay. And marriages are not going to be of perfect people. We all to thread carefully and make choices that suits us best.

Thank you...u've a pleasant way of saying matured comments.

lilspiceyy:
Dats y I don't have female frnds. Back stabbers!