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Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:08am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


did u ask him what he sees in u dat is making him go haywire? What was his response?

D dude is just jobless na am sure he has a gf he just want to get famous on nl cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:11am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


He is fustrating me embarassed
sad
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:12am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


D dude is just jobless na am sure he has a gf he just want to get famous on nl cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy
I don't have a gf again
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 12:13am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


D dude is just jobless na am sure he has a gf he just want to get famous on nl cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy

btw, hs he ever seen ya face?
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:13am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


did u ask him what he sees in u dat is making him go haywire? What was his response?
Bros, No mind the gal jare..

She's just hating me for loving her.. I'm tired..
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 12:14am On Oct 22, 2015
EbuDox:

Bros, No mind the gal jare..

She's just hating me for loving her.. I'm tired..

u dey craze.
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:14am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


btw, hs he ever seen ya face?


Na he hasnt o cheesy
I wore skirt today he said jean

cheesy he is a liar dats a nono
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:15am On Oct 22, 2015
EbuDox:

I don't have a gf again
Why u tellin me??
Tel ur ex gf!
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 12:18am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


Na he hasnt o cheesy
I wore skirt today he said jean

cheesy he is a liar dats a nono

hw e tk know say na trouser? He is only after ur cookie.
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:20am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


hw e tk know say na trouser? He is only after ur cookie.

U see??
nd na skirt i wear
D dude is nt crios
Probable a class mate or a troll
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 12:22am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


U see??
nd na skirt i wear
D dude is nt crios
Probable a class mate or a troll

i guess the thing is financially nt capable. Did u ask him if he hs a car and the amt of money in his bank account? Cn he even tk kia of u if u accept?
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by chigoizie7(m): 12:26am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:
1. You go overboard with gifts
Unless you are in a steady relationship with a woman, it is better to avoid lavishing extravagant gifts on her - especially on the first few dates. If you turn up with a gift-wrapped diamond brooch or an exotic arrangement of orchids for her when you barely know each other, more likely than not she will be embarrassed at your over-the-top gestures. At worst, she is likely to get suspicious of your real intentions and feel that you are trying to buy her affections. Even if she is the kind of girl who can be hooked only by attractive gifts, consider if this is the right reason you want to have a partner for. So keep it subtle on the first few dates and let your gifts convey your thoughts for the person rather than be an excuse to show off your finances.


2. You come off as desperate
At the other extreme of unattractive male behavior is a desperate attempt to make a girl like you. You probably have been told that women are looking for guys who are sensitive, responsible, financially responsible and with a sense of humor too. However parroting these lines before her and repeating ad infinitum about the times you agreed to babysit your nephew or take the stray cat to the vet will hardly convince a woman to be your girlfriend. Rather she will suspect that you are trying too hard to win her and this will put her off. Instead focus on expressing your qualities through actions; also women are more wired to emotions, therefore it is how you act and make her feel that will determine her interest in you.


3. You are too nice a guy
Sometimes men despite being supportive and giving in a relationship find it difficult to keep a girlfriend – if you are one of these, probably you are being too nice and letting yourself being taken for granted. In order to get a woman to like you, it is not necessary that you turn yourself into a doormat and accommodate all her wishes. If she wants to fix up a date at an hour’s notice and you have an important meeting fixed for the evening, by all means tell her that you are unavailable. At the end of the day what a woman is really looking for is a guy who she can respect and admire and if you constantly put her needs ahead of yours, you will come off as unimportant and hence forgettable.


4. Getting too close too quickly
Women on the whole like to be sure of a guy before getting intimate with him. So one of the most common reasons why they reject a guy as a potential partner is because he tries to get physical with a girl before she has given a hint that she would like him to do so. Brushing past against a girl repeatedly, groping for her waist/hand, or kissing on the mouth without being invited to, are common goof-ups by men who think that they will come off as being sexy and desirable if they try to get physical with their partners. In fact they merely come off as annoying and desperate.



Add urs.



5. Waiting for a darker version of your physique.
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:27am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


i guess the thing is financially nt capable. Did u ask him if he hs a car and the amt of money in his bank account? Cn he even tk kia of u if u accept?

Wat concern me wit his assets it takes more dan finances to woo me

I see beyond liquidity assets
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:33am On Oct 22, 2015
goldengunman:
i have some guys that needs gf, u can apply, wait o, what's ur selling point
No selling point at all angry
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:36am On Oct 22, 2015
Omogbenusola:





Dats nt true if yr profile pix is true
What has a relationship got to do with my picture?
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 12:38am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


Wat concern me wit his assets it takes more dan finances to woo me

I see beyond liquidity assets

so u dn't care abt money?
What does it take u to date a man?
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 12:39am On Oct 22, 2015
LifeIsGuhd:

What has a relationship got to do with my picture?

he meant to say "u r too ugly nt to have a b.f."

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Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by LifeIsGuhd(f): 12:45am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


he meant to say "u r too ugly nt to have a b.f."

No wonder...

Now I know the problem grin

Thanks for buttressing

sad angry
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by pussyphilia(m): 12:49am On Oct 22, 2015
I am of the opinion that ANY guy that wants a girlfriend will get. My personal experience made me believe that.

No be say I too fine oo but I hardly approach a girl and gets rejected. D no of gehs wet I don bone eh. And no be say I too hol money sef.

I remember when I served. God forgive me!

Guys, jes gather moral u go nack that akpako.

Gehs no hard, abi I lie @op?

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Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:51am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


so u dn't care abt money?
What does it take u to date a man?

Love care he must be intelligent he must be i control he must b a good religious person
He must be matured enof to handle situations
He must b a family man humble

Deccent crazy outgoing good mannerism i cant finish typing all bt u kno

To me money will just make me like u bt to love u
U av to go deep m a tradition person !!!!!!

well Grounded!!!!
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by pussyphilia(m): 12:54am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


Love care he must be intelligent he must be i control he must b a good religious person
He must be matured enof to handle situations
He must b a family man humble

Deccent crazy outgoing good mannerism i cant finish typing all bt u kno

To me money will just make me like u bt to love u
U av to go deep m a tradition person !!!!!!

well Grounded!!!!
u go wait taya!

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Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:55am On Oct 22, 2015
pussyphilia:
u go wait taya!

cheesy my nigga mesef no dey imagine mysef datin lovin or gettin married!!
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 12:57am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


Love care he must be intelligent he must be i control he must b a good religious person
He must be matured enof to handle situations
He must b a family man humble

Deccent crazy outgoing good mannerism i cant finish typing all bt u kno

To me money will just make me like u bt to love u
U av to go deep m a tradition person !!!!!!

well Grounded!!!!


do u fink u cn find a man with all of those features?
Really! Money can not mk u fall in luv?

Adonbilivit.
Two things that cn make a lady fall in luv rapidly are: money and fame.
That's why ladies are crazy abt celebrities.

That i.diot dat went to hug wizkid on stage and she was even crying, those two factors played a vital role in making her fool herself in front of so much crowd.

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Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by pussyphilia(m): 12:58am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


cheesy my nigga mesef no dey imagine mysef datin lovin or gettin married!!
beta! Na im be say u go become nun, abi?

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Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:58am On Oct 22, 2015
pussyphilia:
beta! Na im be say u go become nun, abi?

Na be my sef
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 12:59am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:



do u fink u cn find a man with all of those features?
Really! Money can not mk u fall in luv?

Adonbilivit.
Two things that cn make a lady fall in luv rapidly are: money and fame.
That's why ladies are crazy abt celebrities.

That i.diot dat went to hug wizkid on stage and she was even crying, those two factors played a vital role in making her fool herself in front of so much crowd.


embarassed money can make me like a guy nt love him

Fame na am too shy to b d one gettin it!
I cant look peeps in d eye wen talkin so dats a no! For me
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 1:03am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:



embarassed money can make me like a guy nt love him

Fame na am too shy to b one gettin it!
I cant look peeps in d eye wen talkin so dats a no! For me


how do u assess luv? For hw long will u have to study dis guy to knw if he possesses all the aforementioned qualities dat u listed.

These guys are unpredictable, they cn fake it.
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:05am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:



how do u assess luv? For hw long will u have to study dis guy to knw if he possesses all the aforementioned qualities dat u listed.

These guys are unpredictable, they cn fake it.

M a drama queen i kno wen one is acting!
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by pussyphilia(m): 1:05am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


Na be my sef
na for naija u go be ya sef? Abi for yanki?

U knw how e dey be naija naw?

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Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 1:08am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:


M a drama queen i kno wen one is acting!

btw, do u av a b.f, currently?
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by Nobody: 1:08am On Oct 22, 2015
delectablegyal:


btw, do u av a b.f, currently?
No
Re: Why You Don't Have A Girlfriend by delectablegyal(f): 1:11am On Oct 22, 2015
halfrica:

No

no wonder. Good luck in ur search.

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