remember007:
the wife ,husband ,and the wife to be must all be muslims so its no news...still waiting for my hubby to be to think of a second wife..hell will be let loose

Stop bragging online, you will do nothing if your hubby takes a second wife.

Well well. Better than FFK that uses and dumps. His 3rd wife now but nobody wud say he is a xtian

PuciPrince:
Well well. Better than FFK that uses and dumps. His 3rd wife now but nobody wud say he is a xtian

Being a xtian is way more than filling it in forms.

teeowl:
she is a muslim.

The vast majority of so called "successful" Nigerians have more than one wife. Muslims, Christians, animists and even pastors.

cococandy:
Lmao.
She's 'such a good woman' according to the posts I'm seeing here.

This is what defines goodness for us?

what is the definition of stupid? You may be stupid to some other people.

She's just deceiving u people, so that by the time she finally poisons the man nobody will suspect her.

boolet:
Being a xtian is way more than filling it in forms.

Who decides who is a Christian ? Is it you?

remember007:
the wife ,husband ,and the wife to be must all be muslims so its no news...still waiting for my hubby to be to think of a second wife..hell will be let loose

stop making vain noise, if he decides, nothing will happen; if u not staying in the house, u can happily leave; he will even be happy...

Madam; see africa is a patriarchal society! It has been and will always be; that's our tradition... education has crippled in and it's seeming mitigated, but don't start boasting... just pray u marry a soulmate and friend, with high morals, that's what u should be more concerned about.

Just joined this forum, show a jjc some love

Wahalahi! Half of her problem is solved once she has admitted and supported her husband for the move. She wouldn't be chasing or worry over her husband and the new wife to the level of having a high blood pressure. I believed she has concluded that there's really nothing worth dying for nii ooooo.

God will continue to grant her wisdom and knowledge to cope with the new couple.

What's wrong with people? It's her religious upbringing to accept the husband's decision to take a second wife so why would she be hiding her pains or not happy over it? Please let her be!

Read between the lines, she said join me to pray for them...what she's saying is that after she's done with both of them they'll need all your prayers

Isn't she a muslim woman
Does she have a choice?

remember007:
the wife ,husband ,and the wife to be must all be muslims so its no news...still waiting for my hubby to be to think of a second wife..hell will be let loose

Your jealousy nor get part2........There's love in sharing o

dailynaijanews:
Most hausa Muslim Women are usually very happy When their Husband GETS A Anew wife

That is Normal” its the muslims culture

AnanseK:


Who decides who is a Christian ? Is it you?

By their fruits you shall recognize them Matt 7:20. I hope that satisfies your question...

I guess dis woman is up to something

remember007:
the wife ,husband ,and the wife to be must all be muslims so its no news...still waiting for my hubby to be to think of a second wife..hell will be let loose

lol,only u go chop wetin dey between his leg finish? learn to share my dear

I'm not surprise, just hope not a 16 year old

She has no choice, she is a Muslim and that is their culture, she knew it before she got married to the man so being against it after the marriage is foolishness, though some still try to be against their husbands taking another wife. The husband can still take some more wives.
I remember one of my boss, a Muslim got married to a Christian woman, the woman doesn't have rest of mind because she was so afraid that the husband will pick another wife. The woman was living in fear, it was as bad as that and everyone around notice it, maybe she did all this because the husband was very rich.
If it's a Christian woman that said this, then I will tell the husband to be very careful because hmm mm I cannot fit talk wetin go dey the woman mind oooh.

October1960:
I like the honesty and openness of Muslim marriage.
The Christians pretend and have all sorts of mistresses at work, school, banks, even church. Even so called Christian wives are just good at pretending.
The Xtians may deceive themselves but they don't deceive the average Nigerian.

In Nigeria even Pastors are polygamous but they keep pretending that polygamy is Muslim issue. Hypocrisy in my opinion .

Hey guys this lady is hundred percent unique, if she didn't ask for your prayers then what else did you guys want her to ask for? It is better for her husband to get a second wife than sleep around with prostitutes or banging another man's wife as most men do. It's natural that most men are polygamous we must accept that fact. Most men cheat the wife, so some guys here should stop blaming the poor woman.

zubby29:
lol,only u go chop wetin dey between his leg finish? learn to share my dear

zubby29:
lol,only u go chop wetin dey between his leg finish? learn to share my dear

INTROVERT:
No be hausa muslim be that?

itunmo?d yorubas we say oro asiwere lo man yato(only d fool words du dy diff)

Harbosede02:
Dah post of her's is just to please whoever she wants to please....I doubt if its really frm her heart

It doesn't matter what your doubts are, she simply asked for your prayers and if you can't pray for her, then forget it. People are different but you must respect a woman who has decided to stay with her husband come rain and shine. She has made up her mind not to divorce nor cause problems for the society by not abandoning her children who could end up not being well cared for....besides we must respect her faith too, she's a Muslim and Islam allows polygamy. Better than having one wife and 100 girl friends....

GogobiriLalas:
Read between the lines, she said join me to pray for them...what she's saying is that after she's done with both of them they'll need all your prayers

it seems you don't know the psychology and mentality of women. When they yes they mean no and when they say no they are actually saying yes. If the man should pet this lady and robe her mind ,it will get to a point the woman will ask him that what did he see in the new woman that she doesn't have and that she has accepted her destiny bla bla bla .and that is the same woman saying she is happy.

Amen.
May God bless you @Hajia Fatima
Such a concise statement from a strong woman.

#i'm from a second wife too

Any woman who prevent her husband from marrying another woman should be jailed - Abraham Lincoln

INTROVERT:
No be hausa muslim be that?

Pls don't bring that 'Hausa muslim' nonsense here. A woman is a woman. And I assure you no 'woman' would be happy about her husband getting a second wife.
She is just masking her jealousy.

Is allowed in Muslim religion to marry up to four (4) wives, so she don't have any reason to be jealous. There is nothing surprise in what she wrote. #truth

remember007:
the wife ,husband ,and the wife to be must all be muslims so its no news...still waiting for my hubby to be to think of a second wife..hell will be let loose

why do girls love destroying their ears in de name of piercing?

Orisa je npe meji obinrin ko'denu - i suspect booby trap on point.