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Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Nobody: 6:29am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Adex097: Epitome of a good wife material Please explain. It's their culture and orientation and I can understand people from her part of the country, culture or religion praising her.. What if the news was... Hello Nairalanders,Twitter etc.. My wife is taking a second/latest/new husband.. Please join our family to wish them/us happy Union I wonder what the response would be...would the man be a virtuous man and epitome of a good husband?? Btw I would like that kind of woman...not as wife o...I mean side chick or a visiting missus when madam is on code red, pregnant or suffering from malaria. 1 Like |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Laredojohn(m): 6:31am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Different views, she might likely mean it,to an hausa family it's most likely not a big deal...so she needs our prayers to make it work, she is a courageous woman, weather it's out of her mind or not. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Obynolee(f): 6:32am On Oct 23, 2015 |
INTROVERT: As a Muslim woman, she doesn't have a say on that, I think it is the best thing for her to accept what she cannot change |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by babafirst(m): 6:33am On Oct 23, 2015 |
remember007:Lwkmddddddd,you just made my morning with unquenchable lafta. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Nobody: 6:33am On Oct 23, 2015 |
It's really good and a blessing to be a Muslim man from the northern part of Nigeria with all the fingers stuck deep and heavily soiled with Niger delta oil or Naija's naira. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by babayinka77(m): 6:35am On Oct 23, 2015 |
GreatEngineer:You must have better understanding of what marriage is in islam before marrying a Muslim. Your husband could have up to 4 wives but it's not a must. There are some xstians too who marry more than one wives. My point is, it doesn't matter whether Muslim or xstian, it's either the husband marry other wives or have girlfriends which could be more dangerous for even the wife. The prayer point should be that God should grant us good husbands and wives. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by babafirst(m): 6:36am On Oct 23, 2015 |
boolet:Lol,so FFK na form Christian.Loooooooool. 2 Likes |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Omotayor123(f): 6:40am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Harbosede02:From her heart ke... What woman won't feel Pained and cheated for sharing her husband. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Nobody: 6:42am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Oh Allah, do not give me a reason to need more than one woman. Amin 1 Like |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Obynolee(f): 6:43am On Oct 23, 2015 |
chrisbaby24: Nothing dey her mind, Muslim women doesn't have a say on this, in fact, the husband is entitled to four wives and it's in their Quran that you don't object to the man's? decision to add wives and except when it forms part of the marriage contract, I.e,the parties agreed before /during marriage that the man will not add another wife /wives. If he does, it's a valid ground for divorce. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by LaRoyalHighness(f): 6:44am On Oct 23, 2015 |
If she fights, you will complain She keeps quiet, you will complain She rejoices, you complain.. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Toks2008(m): 6:46am On Oct 23, 2015 |
gbosaa: Im so happy that with your own hand,you wrote that you will not want such as a wife and you even went further to state that you can cheat on her. In my opinion,a man who cheats on her wife is worse than a man who takes a new wife. I dont pray to go into polygamy either by keeping a side chic or outrightly marrying another wife but every lady should and must understand that it is very old fashioned to clamour for the faithfullness of your hubby to you only. If it happens praise GOD. there is more to life and marriage than disturbing your pretty head over who your hubby sees or sleeps with. Warn him to use protection to reduce the chance of bringing home stds and also warn if to do it far far away from you if he must and get busy builing your life. I always feel like giving a deafening slap to any lady who says her man can never cheat on her cos this is the dumbest thing any lady can ever say. If you are married stay married and dont give up your marriage for any mistress cos most times no man is ever ready to give up his wife for any sidde dish but it is these clueless wives that willingly give up their hubby for the side chic to take over and they usually end up with another randy man or worse still another married man thereby commiting same crime they left their hubby for with another married man. Until women accept polygamy as part of a man makeup,they will always experience heartache and unhappiness. Please no lady should quote me and start saying wat if the woman does same..please go ahead if that is what you wanna do and face your parole. 2 Likes |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by ehix89(m): 6:51am On Oct 23, 2015 |
this woman cld be cookin one beta poison for both the new bride nd her husband,,, I doubt if any woman in her right frame of mind wld want tew share her man......my take |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by cococandy(f): 6:52am On Oct 23, 2015 |
EnlightenedSoul:I don't have problems won't her being down with it. I just find it funny that some people consider that as what it means to be a good woman. So my post isn't directed at her but the posters. 1 Like |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Omotayor123(f): 6:52am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Toks2008:Chai..! @the bold words make I comment my reserve Good morning! |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by flightdey: 6:53am On Oct 23, 2015 |
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Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Nobody: 6:54am On Oct 23, 2015 |
cococandy: I agree with you, Coco. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by amakele51(m): 6:56am On Oct 23, 2015 |
maxti:she just accepted wt she can't changed. It could be dat she had no child. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by thundafire: 6:57am On Oct 23, 2015 |
as far as na aboki man dy involve no wahala God will really judge we humans oooooo |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by ceeceeuwa: 6:57am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Beesluv:Rare gem ke? Only time will tell... |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by ZziClass1k(m): 7:01am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Africa and polygamy. but the north and west no wan learn. we will soon be like china. |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by lilmax(m): 7:01am On Oct 23, 2015 |
There's nothing wrong with it according to her religion |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Toks2008(m): 7:02am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Omotayor123: Morning dearie.. Do you know that in some parts of the world,a woman can marry more than one husband and they can stay together in same house? so its a cultural thing... Polygamy should be embraced expecially by women to avoid unnecessary divorce,heartache and unhappiness. 1 Like |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by bukatyne(f): 7:02am On Oct 23, 2015 |
cococandy: Of course, a Good wife in Nigeria is one willing to take her husband's shit. Sha know that a good husband is not determined same way. @OP: I don't get the woman is planning something brouhaha... She is Muslim wife So not new to her. Besides, like someone said, they see marriage as a contract and not a covenant. I wish her all the best and hope the second wife is peace loving too. 2 Likes |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by MosakuAW(m): 7:07am On Oct 23, 2015 |
montezz: Tankuu oja're... Omo Yoruba dada |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by MsGlobalwonder(f): 7:11am On Oct 23, 2015 |
cococandy:like I always tell people that care to know; I will only take polygamy serious if/when polyandry is celebrated and accepted too. For whatever reason polygamy is celebrated, a woman needs much more but are not allowed by religion and society. Polygamy is simply greed and selfishness until a woman too can officially have numerous partners. 1 Like |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by cococandy(f): 7:11am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Read some comments and I'm like " nothing new here". As usual bukatyne: |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Segunjosegs(m): 7:11am On Oct 23, 2015 |
that's what religion has done to our mentality I say this without apology RELIGION HAS DONE MORE HARM TO SOCIETY THAN WAR |
Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Missmossy(f): 7:12am On Oct 23, 2015 |
Been a Muslim, she must have expected it. No woman would naturally be excited or happy about that. 1 Like |
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