Stop whining me...Its for a project

ladokuntlad:

JuanDeDios:

You've judged them already. Has it occurred to you that you're only ranting against this because you've been "sensitised" against it from the onset?

Beesluv:


Congrats, the level of your STUPIDITY has been noted. Thank you

TeamSimple:

Don't mind those silly hypocrites. I don't know which is better to them,marrying another woman legally or having so many mistresses.

meenagiggs:

Pls don't bring that 'Hausa muslim' nonsense here. A woman is a woman. And I assure you no 'woman' would be happy about her husband getting a second wife.
She is just masking her jealousy.

VivaVivre:
I stated a fact, the glaring fact and I didn't judge them!!! Learn to distinguish between being factual and being judgemental. There's a great disparity between both.

JuanDeDios:


Read your post again. Slowly. You talked about bleeding hearts and depriving and sharing sad fates and all. You were not stating facts - look up what facts mean - you were giving vent to your deep-seated anti-polygamy views. From your post we see that women in polygamy deserve to be pitied for their "fate" and that second wives are "depriving" first wives of what belongs to first wives. Further, you think that those who see things differently from you are victims of prolonged mental conditioning - without realising, of course, that you're victim of same. There are people who see things differently from you. You know that but you think your viewpoint is superior to theirs? Fine, as long as you preach your gospel peacefully, but stop saying you're not judging them.

VivaVivre:
You Mr are the one who is meant to go back and read my post slowly. My heart bleeds out of sympathy for them. Sympathy is a human emotion inclined towards pity, and compassion so how is that being judgemental? My pity for them is a fact based on what I ve seen over the years and what I feel as a human being. I believe it is not unconstitutional to have and exercise compassion. Your summation makes me laugh! What a ridiculous way to conclude on my post. I am a factual person and I stated the obvious fact. If I judged them (which I won't to your displeasure), I would ve said "bloody polygamists", " what a culture/religion of oppression", "what a foolish woman", "that man and his new wife better beware, because that 1st wife is venomous". These are judgemental statements. I owe you no explanation whatsoever, I had to put things straight in order for people of like minds as yourself not to misconstrue what I wrote earlier on. Have a good life. Perhaps, I am entitled to my opinion.

VivaVivre:
You Mr are the one who is meant to go back and read my post slowly. My heart bleeds out of sympathy for them. Sympathy is a human emotion inclined towards pity, and compassion so how is that being judgemental? My pity for them is a fact based on what I ve seen over the years and what I feel as a human being. I believe it is not unconstitutional to have and exercise compassion. Your summation makes me laugh! What a ridiculous way to conclude on my post. I am a factual person and I stated the obvious fact. If I judged them (which I won't to your displeasure), I would ve said "bloody polygamists", " what a culture/religion of oppression", "what a foolish woman", "that man and his new wife better beware, because that 1st wife is venomous". These are judgemental statements. I owe you no explanation whatsoever, I had to put things straight in order for people of like minds as yourself not to misconstrue what I wrote earlier on. Have a good life. Perhaps, I am entitled to my opinion.

Toks2008:


Morning dearie..

Do you know that in some parts of the world,a woman can marry more than one husband and they can stay together in same house?

so its a cultural thing...

Polygamy should be embraced expecially by women to avoid unnecessary divorce,heartache and unhappiness.

jamalchance:
I am sincerely scared 4 that husband .... I hope to find a girlfriend that would be happy to know I have another girlfriend

Na girlfriend I talk ooooo

INTROVERT:
No be hausa muslim be that?

Truckpusher:
You won't break the sky , worse case scenario you'll make way for the incoming fresh woman.

remember007:
the wife ,husband ,and the wife to be must all be muslims so its no news...still waiting for my hubby to be to think of a second wife..hell will be let loose

pheliciti:


Symptise and pity them...? Hmm. .Are you female? They probably pity you too when your husband is being shared among different mistresses. .different perspectives, different strokes, different folks.

doublex:
yes,their would be more male folks standing alone ....age group:15-24 years(male 17,486,177/female 16,732,533)= 753,644 MORE MEN THAN WOMEN.......age group 25-54(male 27,697,644/female 26,285,816)=1,411,828 MORE MEN THAN WOMEN.so even with nigerian men immigrating more than women,theirs still more men under 55years. What do you suggest? yes,their would be more male folks standing alone ....age group:15-24 years(male 17,486,177/female 16,732,533)= 753,644 MORE MEN THAN WOMEN.......age group 25-54(male 27,697,644/female 26,285,816)=1,411,828 MORE MEN THAN WOMEN.so even with nigerian men immigrating more than women,theirs still more men under 55years. What do you suggest?

babafirst:
Lwkmddddddd,you just made my morning with unquenchable lafta.

isacolukay:


Babe u fine sha...

buskie13:
why do girls love destroying their ears in de name of piercing?

Raymondenyi:
stop making vain noise, if he decides, nothing will happen; if u not staying in the house, u can happily leave; he will even be happy...

Madam; see africa is a patriarchal society! It has been and will always be; that's our tradition... education has crippled in and it's seeming mitigated, but don't start boasting... just pray u marry a soulmate and friend, with high morals, that's what u should be more concerned about.

remember007:
how does that relate to the topic on ground? moreover how are my ears destroyed because d last time I examined my ears, i wasn't and still not deaf

remember007:
tnks

isacolukay:


Be nice Na, kindly follow back.

Ephemmm:


Make money
Make more money
Make more more more money
Make more more more more and more money

After that, you will realize that you can have more than 3 girlfriend at a time, and they won't even move away from you despite the fact that they know one another. The most interesting part of it is that they will be fighting at your back, but won't be able to confront you if you know how to play your card wella.

If you have money, 90% of ladies will be following you like a sheep being taken to where it will be slaughtered.

ststyreal:

Well, everyone have his or her own level of tolerance. As for me, its better to have a concubine outside, far away from me where I won't even c u guys, than bringing in another into my home, u r simply telling me to my face that I aren't good enough for u and that alone is heartbreaking. Habaa! There is something called Jealousy, don't u know, I can't stand us being two in d house, God forbid it for me, amen.