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So you didn't give him a favourable response until he went to America? Love indeed.. ..

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The story doesn't make sense.

1. He is a doctor residing abroad. And you convinced him to visit Nigeria. He did and he introduced you to his family within the 5 days he stayed.

2. On Valentine's day, he was on call and returned with a gift. ( I thought he visited for only 5 days).

3. In 2014, you wanted to return to Nigeria. ( when did you travel? He visited you in Nigeria. Now you are visiting Nigeria too?)

....just saying

Does anybody see any odd in this lady story:
1. The gal fell for the guy once she saw he was in the states
2. Didn't the gal have any guy in her life when the guy(USA) called.
3. From the moment she noticed he was overseas, she was the one who started putting more interest in the guy
4. 5days and she just rush into his marriage proposal when she know next to nothing bout the guy after forming all through for him
5. How old is she when she married the guy.

To me the gal was just desperate so the guy can take her out of this country. To me, all this NA WASH. Any way, happy married life

Wishing you an happy married life. Congrats. @op, pls can you get me the contact of the best lady , walahi I like am

AmicableEd:
When faith meets destiny, history is made. This simplifies the love story of Frances and Desmond.

They got married last weekend but their love story is beautiful!

As narrated by the bride

Fourteen years ago when we first met, I had no idea where the road was taking me but was soon to find out. According to my husband, he first saw me on campus when I was a Jambite and tried to talk to me but I bluntly said “Sorry I don’t talk to strangers”.

Our paths crossed again in my final year in UNIBEN, a memorable night when I hung out with him, his twin brother and his friends. I was actually invited to complete the guys to girls pairing as he was the only one without a date but not knowing I was actually going to be meeting my husband. There was a striking chemistry between us but it seemed like a love tale that ended that night.

After I graduated from school in 2005, I moved to Lagos and Desmond completed Med School the following year. We kept in touch through text messaging and infrequent phone calls. Coincidentally, I saw him again in Lagos towards the end of 2006 as I happened to be serving on the same road where he did his houseman ship. Even after the long gap, it was still hard for him to come to terms with the fact that we couldn’t work things out. Thereafter, we lost contact again as he relocated to the states.

Fast forward to December 2013, I received an extraordinary surprise message from Desmond on Facebook. He didn’t say much but from the way he constructed his words, I couldn’t help but conclude that the guy was still in love with me. My warm response to him triggered a series of messaging that ended up in a phone call.

We tried to manage a long distance relationship for about 10 months and I was finally able to convince him to visit Nigeria. We had not seen in 8 years so I was excited but anxious even though we had been communicating a lot on phone (no Skype or video calls). When he visited, he surprisingly introduced me to all his family (from mum, dad to his siblings). I was not expecting that all but it showed me how far he was willing to take the relationship. His visit was really short (5 days) but it was one of the best 5 days of my life. I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.

THE PROPOSAL

February 2014, he was on call the night before so he came back home early in the morning bearing gifts. We went for dinner later in the evening and then hung out at a bar where we had an argument. (Desmond can be very inquisitive and can ask questions that will frustrate Mother Theresa. LOL) so he had frustrated me with his questions, I snapped and he told me “you know what I don’t think we can work.” My plan was to leave the next day and stay with my friend until I returned back to Nigeria’



So we got back home after he “spoilt’ our valentine outing. I was lying down in the sitting room and he came to kneel close to me and started apologizing and asking me more questions! (Imagine my frustration). Before I knew what was happening Desmond had pulled out a ring box and asking me to be his wife. I started laughing hard and asking him questions too “where did you put the ring?” “who knows you are proposing?” I was shocked but of course I said YES!!! to the love of my life. The rest is history.

See all the photos

http://weddinginnigeria.com/he-broke-up-with-me-the-night-he-proposed-frances-desmonds-fascinating-love-storywedding-photos/

is this a love story or what?

Harrisonwo:
Does anybody see any odd in this lady story:
1. The gal fell for the guy once she saw he was in the states
2. Didn't the gal have any guy in her life when the guy(USA) called.
3. From the moment she noticed he was overseas, she was the one who started putting more interest in the guy
4. 5days and she just rush into his marriage proposal when she know next to nothing bout the guy after forming all through for him
5. How old is she when she married the guy.

To me the gal was just desperate so the guy can take her out of this country. To me, all this NA WASH. Any way, happy married life

the NAIJA WOMEN effect.

What should I take away from the story?

Op are you the lady?

pet4ril:
Waooo destiny indeed, I love your story and may God bless your marriage

The story is touching my dear...

Choi, see story o.....wristbangle , sorry kinglekan ,damn it!! I meant ipledge oya let's start our own o

she said 'I don't talk to strangers' lolz who the fvck still uses that line on this part of the planet..

guess she was 14yrs back then.

Congrats my dear, God bless ur union.

Estharfabian:
See He proposed At Home....And Not Ontop of Mountain Everest..OR ONTOP OF OBAMA'S HEAD!!!..


i dunno Why Guys go through All those Lengths Just To propose....Throw me the Ring And i'd gladly Catch it..


PS..don't get me wrong.....I'm Big On Romance....
Buh the "He proposed Inside the Redsea thingy is getting really Cliché..." what matters is Y'all Gonna last long n not endUp in some Sad divorce a week later..

THANKYOU....many will be doing fake cheap proposal inside shoprice and on top olumo rock! It is very okay to propose in your bedroom.... And not one tacky setting in the name of romance....its just annoying. Good thing my husband did not form one kind yeye romantic proposal if not I for no gree to marry am...anyway the guy know me and fake romance don't mix even though I love reading and writing romance stories

InvertedHammer:
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The story doesn't make sense.

1. He is a doctor residing abroad. And you convinced him to visit Nigeria. He did and he introduced you to his family within the 5 days he stayed.

2. On Valentine's day, he was on call and returned with a gift. ( I thought he visited for only 5 days).

3. In 2014, you wanted to return to Nigeria. ( when did you travel? He visited you in Nigeria. Now you are visiting Nigeria too?)

....just saying

Thank u oh.My sentiments exactly.The story isn't complete and d coincidences are too much.Is any1 thinking what i'm thinking?

repogirl:
THANKYOU....many will be doing fake cheap proposal inside shoprice and on top olumo rock! It is very okay to propose in your bedroom.... And not one tacky setting in the name of romance....its just annoying. Good thing my husband did not form one kind yeye romantic proposal if not I for no gree to marry am...anyway the guy know me and fake romance don't mix even though I love reading and writing romance stories

hehehehehehehe....LoL! propose to me in one Mumu-ish mall like that...I'll just RUN AWAY... you sef go Surprise...LoL!

I just think all Those PROPOSALS In the name of romance are Publicity stunts....Just Tryna get Attention...They'll be bringing Enemies/badbellez to themselves...its best You just do everything in the confines of your home..away from preying Eyes...! ""

anyways...Na their business...wetin concern me?

Harrisonwo:
Does anybody see any odd in this lady story:
1. The gal fell for the guy once she saw he was in the states
2. Didn't the gal have any guy in her life when the guy(USA) called.
3. From the moment she noticed he was overseas, she was the one who started putting more interest in the guy
4. 5days and she just rush into his marriage proposal when she know next to nothing bout the guy after forming all through for him
5. How old is she when she married the guy.

To me the gal was just desperate so the guy can take her out of this country. To me, all this NA WASH. Any way, happy married life

Nairaland Sure has potential Investigators!! ""

we really need Your kind in NIGERIA....

Estharfabian:
hehehehehehehe....LoL! propose to me in one Mumu-ish mall like that...I'll just RUN AWAY... you sef go Surprise...LoL!

I just think all Those PROPOSALS In the name of romance are Publicity stunts....Just Tryna get Attention...They'll be bringing Enemies/badbellez to themselves...its best You just do everything in the confines of your home..away from preying Eyes...! ""

anyways...Na their business...wetin concern me?

Abi ooo, wetin consign us with Kim Kardashian wanna bees?

nawa o.... all these sweet love stories.
oh Lord when my own sef go come?....

itsMrIke:
So you didn't give him a favourable response until he went to America? Love indeed.. ..

I noticed that, lol. It was when the guy relocated to the states that the relationship really started.... No wonder the guy was always asking questions, am sure he sef dey doubt the girl for him mind, lol.

Any way I still wish them a happy married life.

As much interesting as the story might have sounded, there is still something that the Couple should watch out for.
The issue of asking frustrating questions to each other. They might need to work on the relationship further.
I wish them all the very best...

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The waist on that bridesmaid in ash gown tho....

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The topic should be "He Propose The Night He Broke Up With Me" and not the reverse.

The topic should be "He Propose The Night He Broke Up With Me" and not the rereverse

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Estharfabian:
See He proposed At Home....And Not Ontop of Mountain Everest..OR ONTOP OF OBAMA'S HEAD!!!..


i dunno Why Guys go through All those Lengths Just To propose....Throw me the Ring And i'd gladly Catch it..


PS..don't get me wrong.....I'm Big On Romance....
Buh the "He proposed Inside the Redsea thingy is getting really Cliché..." what matters is Y'all Gonna last long n not endUp in some Sad divorce a week later..

if u no see anybody propose to u, go buy one from Aboki...

this is a lesson to NL ladies , the guy fit the one wey the always like ur post .still yet u go dey ignore am !!.

1st sting for attraction: The guy is @ least well off...financially

2nd : He had gone 2 d almighty 'abroad' for greener pasture which obviously is paying him

3rd : He loves her

4th : the same as my 1st point

5th: incase you don't gerit...Make money 1st...You shall move mountains and marry ur dream wife so long u love her...hers can tap growth frm urs...