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He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by AmicableEd: 8:55am On Oct 20, 2015
When faith meets destiny, history is made. This simplifies the love story of Frances and Desmond.

They got married last weekend but their love story is beautiful!

As narrated by the bride

Fourteen years ago when we first met, I had no idea where the road was taking me but was soon to find out. According to my husband, he first saw me on campus when I was a Jambite and tried to talk to me but I bluntly said “Sorry I don’t talk to strangers”.

Our paths crossed again in my final year in UNIBEN, a memorable night when I hung out with him, his twin brother and his friends. I was actually invited to complete the guys to girls pairing as he was the only one without a date but not knowing I was actually going to be meeting my husband. There was a striking chemistry between us but it seemed like a love tale that ended that night.

After I graduated from school in 2005, I moved to Lagos and Desmond completed Med School the following year. We kept in touch through text messaging and infrequent phone calls. Coincidentally, I saw him again in Lagos towards the end of 2006 as I happened to be serving on the same road where he did his houseman ship. Even after the long gap, it was still hard for him to come to terms with the fact that we couldn’t work things out. Thereafter, we lost contact again as he relocated to the states.

Fast forward to December 2013, I received an extraordinary surprise message from Desmond on Facebook. He didn’t say much but from the way he constructed his words, I couldn’t help but conclude that the guy was still in love with me. My warm response to him triggered a series of messaging that ended up in a phone call.

We tried to manage a long distance relationship for about 10 months and I was finally able to convince him to visit Nigeria. We had not seen in 8 years so I was excited but anxious even though we had been communicating a lot on phone (no Skype or video calls). When he visited, he surprisingly introduced me to all his family (from mum, dad to his siblings). I was not expecting that all but it showed me how far he was willing to take the relationship. His visit was really short (5 days) but it was one of the best 5 days of my life. I knew I wanted to spend the rest of my life with him.

THE PROPOSAL

February 2014, he was on call the night before so he came back home early in the morning bearing gifts. We went for dinner later in the evening and then hung out at a bar where we had an argument. (Desmond can be very inquisitive and can ask questions that will frustrate Mother Theresa. LOL) so he had frustrated me with his questions, I snapped and he told me “you know what I don’t think we can work.” My plan was to leave the next day and stay with my friend until I returned back to Nigeria’



So we got back home after he “spoilt’ our valentine outing. I was lying down in the sitting room and he came to kneel close to me and started apologizing and asking me more questions! (Imagine my frustration). Before I knew what was happening Desmond had pulled out a ring box and asking me to be his wife. I started laughing hard and asking him questions too “where did you put the ring?” “who knows you are proposing?” I was shocked but of course I said YES!!! to the love of my life. The rest is history.

See all the photos

http://weddinginnigeria.com/he-broke-up-with-me-the-night-he-proposed-frances-desmonds-fascinating-love-storywedding-photos/

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by pet4ril(f): 9:04am On Oct 20, 2015
Waooo destiny indeed, I love your story and may God bless your marriage..... oh my goodness! FTC! Lady F must hear this grin please seun, dis my account number 419419 at sow now to harvest later bank. I dedicate this FTC to my one, adorable and only lekan love you forever kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss kiss

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by naijaboiy: 9:10am On Oct 20, 2015
Touching undecided

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by delishpot: 9:11am On Oct 20, 2015
White mans wedding is now the norm in west Africa. It makes me sad.
HML to them sha.

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 9:24am On Oct 20, 2015
See He proposed At Home....And Not Ontop of Mountain Everest..OR ONTOP OF OBAMA'S HEAD!!!.. angry


i dunno Why Guys go through All those Lengths Just To propose....Throw me the Ring And i'd gladly Catch it.. undecided


PS..don't get me wrong.....I'm Big On Romance.... undecided
Buh the "He proposed Inside the Redsea thingy is getting really Cliché..." what matters is Y'all Gonna last long n not endUp in some Sad divorce a week later..lipsrsealed undecided

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by nawtibownie: 9:57am On Oct 20, 2015
Fate! I like their story sha.
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Deefuray(f): 10:05am On Oct 20, 2015
Cute couple

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 10:29am On Oct 20, 2015
Interesting smiley
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by AmicableEd: 10:55am On Oct 20, 2015
grin
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Akinola007: 8:54am On Oct 23, 2015
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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 8:54am On Oct 23, 2015
Frances and Desmond...ok nah. Continue.

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Jamaticulus(m): 8:55am On Oct 23, 2015
Proposal in the Zoo
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Dottore: 8:55am On Oct 23, 2015
Ok
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by AYOdeji2102: 8:55am On Oct 23, 2015
Ok
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by donholy28(m): 8:55am On Oct 23, 2015
Nothing fit stop wetin go happen when true love is involved.... but dix Lady get luck o..she form too much

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 8:55am On Oct 23, 2015
cry cry I've seen a lady who left her husband's house the very night after wedding. She didn't even sleep a night before she packed out



I think marriage is overrated. What's in marriage that you can't get outside it? _Fuck? Child(ren)? Love? Care? Happiness? I doubt if there's anything. Infact, your problem even becomes double after marriage #MPO




Op sorry to go a bit off the topic

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by meshacha1: 8:56am On Oct 23, 2015
What kind of love this generation is having.

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by donholy28(m): 8:57am On Oct 23, 2015
Estharfabian:
See He proposed At Home....And Not Ontop of Mountain Everest....


i dunno Why Guys go through All those Lengths Just To propose....Throw me the Ring...I'd gladly Catch it.. undecided


PS..don't get me wrong.....I'm Big On Romance.... undecided
This one na desperate chick

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 8:58am On Oct 23, 2015
HGTF
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by deramarks(f): 8:58am On Oct 23, 2015
Cute! Hml
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by drinkmorewater: 8:58am On Oct 23, 2015
WTF?!?!

So if you don't talk to strangers how do you meet new people?

Anyway this only stresses the fact that if boy doesn't approach girl, that girl would more or less remain single throughout her life especially here in Nigeria where girls feel boys must approach and even when they do na to turn them down without even hearing a word..

Now she's giving stories that touch the heart but if to say they didn't meet again after turning him down on the first day she will still be 30 and single #fact

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by yanabasee(m): 8:59am On Oct 23, 2015
I thought, initially that... He proposed to her... Then broke up and flee...


But, I wish them happy marriage! And I wish her twins for the inquisitive husband... This one he's twin... If she no bore am another twins... She go collect question taya grin

And he seems aggressive to me! But e no consine me jareh!

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 8:59am On Oct 23, 2015
Great
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 8:59am On Oct 23, 2015
Lovely couple...but the story seems to be missing certain vital sentences...

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by egbaguy: 8:59am On Oct 23, 2015
Waoh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Datz all I can say........I love 'LOVE'!!!!!!! Can't wait to tell my own story too.......hml to u guys......I'll join una vry soon ;DWaoh!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Datz all I can say........I love 'LOVE'!!!!!!! Can't wait to tell my own story too.......hml to u guys......I'll join una vry soon

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Mubby4luv(m): 8:59am On Oct 23, 2015
followiing
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by mikael78: 9:00am On Oct 23, 2015
Please dont try this at home..... he who has an ear let him hear.

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Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by kullozone(m): 9:00am On Oct 23, 2015
Wow
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by AdemolaA2: 9:00am On Oct 23, 2015
Congrats to you young lady!!!
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by Nobody: 9:00am On Oct 23, 2015
Estharfabian:
See He proposed At Home....And Not Ontop of Mountain Everest....


i dunno Why Guys go through All those Lengths Just To propose....Throw me the Ring...I'd gladly Catch it.. undecided


PS..don't get me wrong.....I'm Big On Romance.... undecided
Re: He Broke Up With Me The Night He Proposed! Frances & Desmond’s Love Story by adepiero: 9:00am On Oct 23, 2015
Sharp woman, not so much of romance just a woman thinking of her future is all I see undecided

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