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Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by calabardick(m): 4:10pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Apart from Hell fire, the next worst thing that can happen to human is bad marriage. It is not your portion.... 3 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by stonecoldcafe: 6:39pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
90love: Quick question: is this guy British? I take it you guys reside in London by your profile. If your husband is not British, and you are, how are you not sure his interest in you was just for papers and papers alone? Shine your eyes woman! 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by 4nobody4every1: 7:12pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
lastpage:lmao 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by 4nobody4every1: 7:14pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by Nobody: 7:21pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
90love:Very well,then...if it's become really unbearable 4 yhu and u sure he'd be in safe hands...then,u sure do deserve to take a break from all of the heartaches. But even if yhu become separated,don't lose hope..Do not allow him become like his father.pray 4 him...4 d both ov yhu. |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by Nobody: 7:24pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
The truth is that we are who we are and no one can change anyone unless that person is ready to change He wont be the only one who lives in London and he wont be the only one with bad friends . . .these were his choices It was also your choice to ignore warning signs and decide to marry this guy No matter how hard one trys, one cant hide ther true behaviour . . .certainly not for 5 years I dont know why the mother is coming She cant change him . . . . .She didn't change him when he was 5, 10, 15, 20, 25 . . .how then can she change him now? Truth is that not everyone will be responsible and not everyone will live a decent life and some people will be used as lessons to other people unless your husband is ready to change . . . .im sorry there is nothing much you can do You need to Love yourself, demand the best for yourself, put yourself first and respect yourself and time wasters and destiny killers will flee from you. WIshinj you all the best, 1 Like |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by bioduneberry(m): 7:25pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by Endtimesmith(m): 8:06pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
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Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by Endtimesmith(m): 8:07pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
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Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by xynniey(f): 8:15pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
wasak:all the advice need to stay alive is here. so just follow. the lord is ur muscle |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by blackprowler: 10:34pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
In their mad rush to answer "married woman" they ignore clear, easy-to-see signs and when the novelty and value of that title wears off they start to squeal. Abeg carry your cross. Marriage is not a biological necessity of life (especially at a fixed age range) but a mere social construct which is gradually outliving its usefulness. Nearly 50% of marriages now end in divorce in America and Nigeria is also stepping up its percentage too. It's now commonplace to find people in their third marriages and some divorcing in their 60s when closer to death. Start relationships early; don't put a time frame during which you must marry or because your friends are marrying. We all have different paths in life. I'm over 40 and barely ever had a real girlfriend. I'm not worried that I must marry. If I get financial security, find whom I'm compatible with, then maybe. If not, no. The greatest secret of couples is that they're much more miserable than if they were single. They won't own up cos they've invested so much to earn that title and are prepared o deceive themselves. Only few couples are actually happy in their marital life having connected with the right person. Women spend their adolescent years being taught how to mock boys who approach them, how to think the world would have been better had boys not existed. Lo and behold in a few years people are already asking whom they want to marry? In their late 20s it's already an issue of desperation and they become blind to so many potential problems of a potential suitor who "makes the mark" i.e has physical presence, a decent income and material things to show (not minding if he was really on thin ice). Too much to say and I lack the fortitude to type 4 Likes |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by malachytochukwu(m): 11:09pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
I think I would be greatly aided if "The professor of English Nairaland" could tell me what figure of speech "80%" is? Incase you just wrote jamb, I wud suggest you approach my brother's youngest son to help you with Post UME past questions. Success in your exams Prof. Goldenboy007: |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by gazilion: 5:22pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
90love: Nothing is irredeemable. I pray it works out well for you...do not divorce - it's the worst. It's heart breaking and depressing when it seems you have put in everything and no good result is coming forth... I sincerely pray God to see you through this trial... |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by slam7000(m): 8:42pm On Oct 25, 2015 |
lifeskilz129: Not really. It is a subtle way of protecting her lazy Yoruba yahoo guy. 80% actually refers to Yoruba men. |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by nnekaud7: 12:45pm On Oct 26, 2015 |
i think you should talk to him, in a nice and slow tone explain to him what u are giong through, some guy dont want to show love but that does not mean they dont love you, u need to fight for your family for the sake of ur unborn baby, remember that any woman who can not take responsibility when it comes to keeping the family together has FAILED as a woman May the lord see you through |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by azeeztqophic(m): 5:52pm On Nov 01, 2015 |
My dear friend there is no problem without solution... I think the first is to go back to God pray for your safe delivery and your husband becaus some things are not ordinary God will help You. |
Re: My Marriage Is Crashing, I Think I Hate Him...Help by diva90: 8:25pm On Mar 19, 2016 |
OP wats the current situation of your marriage? Did you end up leaving him? I think your husband is highly irresponsible. I would have separated from him if I were in your shoes. But then again, I'm wondering if you didn't see these signs while you people dated? The lack of ambition and signs of laziness would have been obvious. Even at the point you noticed all wasn't going well and that there were financial issues, you shouldn't have gotten pregnant(family planning). The worst part is having to raise a child alone or in a broken home. Hopefully you were able to resolve the issue to a reasonable extent. |
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