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| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by ashmanpolo: 9:42pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Touching stories here, burning out the grease of my emotion. I just dey vex. People are cruel. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by stonecoldcafe: 9:45pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
silverr:Nah, this is bull! Someone treats you like this and you keep quiet when she asks for your precious baby sister? Nah, somethings not right ere... |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Ordinary9jaGuy(m): 9:49pm On Oct 24, 2015*. Modified: 11:14pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
@MissAssy... Been reading thru so many comments and av also read ur summarized writeup and the few points I can tell you that will be of huge benefit to you are d following... 1. It takes courage to come to terms with an horrible ordeal dealt on a person and dat uv done beautifully so it shows ur already in charge of ur life, emotions and eventually ur future actions. 2. You are not of d white race so u don't need counselling over sumfin dat happened to u. U lived thru it and the only person dat can help u is U and also a really true friend dat won't use ur emotional predicament to his\her advantage. (The heart of man is desperately wicked so says the bible... Even when ur at d point of death they still want to use u to their gain) 3. Ur experience will only make u stronger cos from ur words I can tell ur already a strong lady but u presently need someone who can ease u of d burden of ur past. GOD can help u wiv dat and I am not talking about Christianity or Islamic sentimentality but u being highly spiritual about urself being created for a higher and greater purpose. 4. It is obvious u love urself and the people u consider family cos if u didn't, u would av ran away midway into dis sordid ordeal wiv your aunts and her kids. So ur already beautiful on d inside and never see urself in another light. 5. And finally, in order to rid ur mind of all d horrible things uv been put thru... Forgiveness is key and seeing ur ordeal as a test of strength, personality and preparation by GOD towards something that it presently unknown to u and its meant for ur future. (Remember, every word was invented by GOD being d inspirator and HE invented KARMA... Everyone always gets wot they deserve sooner or later definitely) Sorry for d lenghty note.... Av a beautiful weekend. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by ChiSun27(m): 9:49pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
All these una stories dey learn where my own dey..... But I thank for today... ![]() |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by paranorman(m): 9:49pm On Oct 24, 2015*. Modified: 11:40pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
silverr:chai.. So you allowed your sis go through the same hell you went through? Experiences here almost made me cry. I stayed with my Uncle a lil' while, though the wife wasn't a demon but I was emotionally intelligent and I knew when I had to leave. I can't take nonsense from anybody, I am a captian that'd rather die with my ship than take a ride with my enemy. I gave up on humanity sometimes ago, and I prefer spending time with animals. I am even thinking of getting parrots/peacocks/turkeys/dog and all lovely looking domesticable animals. I have sworn with my right hand raise high that I will never be a source of sorrow to another human, never..! And I know God will give someone to complement my dreams. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by hushush(f): 9:50pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
I can never forget how my own eldest sister (same father, not same mother) introduced me to all her high society friends and sons' friends as 'the help' I can relate with the poster. They become very nice when your parents are around and they call your name with a snarl. I thank God the story has changed now. They interviewed my sister recently and she refered to me as her 'baby sister, so and so, who works at so and so'. In fact the same friends she introduced me to as 'the help' are now chasing me with CVs for their children. I have sworn, God helping me, that my children will not step a foot in any relative's house even to spend as much as a weekend! I sincerely pray that your own success story will better than this. That is the best revenge for them |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 9:52pm On Oct 24, 2015*. Modified: 11:00pm On Mar 18, 2016 |
Forgive and forget. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 9:53pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
silverr:Thank God its over now |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by yoged(m): 9:54pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
@ softandmoist . Asa dam to post office . I guess that's in Ilorin. Wowwww. I still don't know why people are so cruel . Went to my brother shop and I saw one of his sales girl with this strange and disfigured in Mark on her cheeks. Was forced to ask her . And she said her mom twin sister did that to her . She mistakenly broken a plate and this woman used the broken plate to draw a circle on her cheeks. I was like , that's really cruel. My dad will never and never allow any of his kids to stay with someone . |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by inze(m): 9:57pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
ViNeHaNds:. . . Indeed, God is Good. This man, hope you had a swell birthday? Happy birthday |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 10:02pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
dahaz:Yea am doing fine now |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by sorepco(m): 10:04pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
[quote author=queenfav post=39322032]@op at least your's happened when you were 11.Mine happened from april-july 2014.I had a problem with my law school posting for court and chambers attachment.Instead of my house local govt area in ughelli south,I was posted to Effurun.My mum had to arrangem I ........ I really got engrossed in your story. She should ve treated u like aprincess seeing dat u would soon become a lawyer or potential s.a.n. Could u let us in on ur relationship with this woman and what she thinks of you now as a lawyer... as well as how you now relate with the husband. What of the maid who stopped greeting you, as she then felt you were both mates....or is it maids? Lol. I remember when i stayed at my cousins place...she spoilt me with food and jollying. The husband gave an order i be given what ever i wanted....after 7 months, i got the kids xbox game...later ps3. And just got them ps4. Waiting for ps5. Just becos i was taken care of...those kids wont lack if i have my way |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by youngice(m): 10:05pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
chrisbaba1:is he dead yet |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Fourwinds: 10:06pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Raymondenyi:u have said it all |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by damola1: 10:06pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
yoged:What did you do to improve the situation? |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by dustydee: 10:12pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Ordinary9jaGuy:Hi, this position is very wrong. Abuse, especially of a child has profound effects on the subject and has nothing to do with race. Some people may be strong willed but it still has an effect on them. I am matured now, did not go through what she went through, consider myself to have a strong personality but only recently have I been able to link my past experiences to some of my current past actions/behaviors. A counselor would have been of help to me. People do things in our society that we do not bother investigate why they did it as we either attribute it to the devil, fate or chance. So please if you find someone in a similar situation, please advise them to seek help. Thank you. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 10:15pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
MissAssy:I thank God for your life... you look so beautiful and nobody would even know you've gone through such things. I'm happy you've also moved on, please find it in your heart to forgive them for how they treated you, forgive your parents as well because they were partially responsible for your ordeal. No matter how bad things were for your parents, they shouldn't have left you that long in a relative's place. When I was younger, I lived with my cousins for short periods like 1-2 months (long holidays) regularly and I always noticed the difference. Nothing like christmas clothes or special stuffs for me, although they never maltreated me. As young as I was, I realized that nobody can treat you as good as your parents, unless they are true christians who fear God a lot. I wish you all the best in life, see it as a training for you to be strong. May God give you his grace. Keep smiling. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by alchemist(m): 10:20pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Guy, u b rick ross Atmmachine: |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Cirphrank(m): 10:22pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
MissAssy:Mine was only 4 years of pretty hell, not with a relative but with a brother, believe it or not. well it ended with me speaking up one day in a mad manner, got beaten till I bled and I left for... abegi, long story, I see good life coming to me now though. #wish you success. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by silverr(f): 10:22pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
stonecoldcafe:I didnt know she will go to the extent she did with me. I thought she just didnt like me. she had always gotten along with sis. never knew it was all pretense. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Highcuerayte: 10:36pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
MissAssy:Babe you fine oo. But do you know you can make millions of naira if we make this a non fiction book? |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by nosike3(m): 10:36pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
MissAssy:Heaven knows how much I hate such stories. There was the particular scenario I had. I leave for work real early in the morning and each time I drove past, I saw a girl either washing plates or washing a bus at 5am. This girl should not be more than 8 years. Saw this for too long and decided to get to the bottom of the whole nonsense. Stopped one morning and asked her where her parents were and she told me her aunt was inside. Behold I approached this jezebel and she told me upright to mind my business. We ended up in a scuffle and she soiled my shirt. I went back home, stopped work for that day and invited the police. The little girl had scars all over and looked so malnourished. She was returned home( benue state),and the woman has long moved out from my location. I seriously wished that woman was prosecuted but you know Nigeria with out of court settlement. Anyway God has been and will remain your strength. Please pm me. I need positive aura and spirits around me. Good luck |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by saintfizzo(m): 10:37pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
chudidonas:I hate this comment.... allowing such wickedness with churchy comments |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Chartey(m): 10:38pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
softandmoist:Asa dam to post office. Na wa o. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by kunzaar83(m): 10:39pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
MissAssy:eyya may God see you 2ru |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by chilan: 10:42pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Please send your name and address to 08035533560. |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by stonecoldcafe: 10:43pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
silverr:Crap! Goodnight tho |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Owliver(m): 10:44pm On Oct 24, 2015*. Modified: 11:17pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
This stories made me sad...... if it were me i'll go back 15years time and KILL THEM ALL. i will show no mercy i will take a knife and pierce them through their throats one after the other. if any of them still moves i will get a pistol and shoot the knee caps if there is any sign of life in their miserable bodies i will take petrol and light them up in flames and while they are burning i will sit and make sure they burn properly after that i will ask my ever loving God for forgiveness |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 10:49pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
I wont say my aunt is wicked, but they don't know their limits...I was posted to serve in pH,accommodation is so expensive and I had to stay with my aunt and her husband..I was overworked..I lost so much weight.I wash clothes and mop sotey my palm became dry and rough like cement.I was like a maid...I don't want to go into detail... |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 10:52pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
chilan:Why? |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 11:00pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
softandmoist:Good heavens!! |
| Re: My Horrible Experience When Living With A Relative. by Nobody: 11:00pm On Oct 24, 2015 |
Owliver:Aah, no o forgive and move on |
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