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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 11:10am On Oct 23, 2015
udysweet:
Wow,that's nice! I left d whatsapp group o the very next day,for personal reasons. Guess a lot is happening there? I'm not missing out jare,havin my fun here too, smiley
Dis my lips o chai,na jus lip gloss pink one o tan! Lol
Hmm I am sure the reason you left is no more there self,but you shouldn't run because of someone now u self lol..and you are MISSING a lot o so try and come back tongue or I'll locate you and kidnap u back there lol..
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tjfulloption(m): 11:35am On Oct 23, 2015
VenusBetty:
though I still have a decade to go, but I wanna learn from my egbons
wink

Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:38am On Oct 23, 2015
tjfulloption:
wink
friends? good to go
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by tjfulloption(m): 11:52am On Oct 23, 2015
VenusBetty:
friends? good to go
Pm me your eleven digits let relate.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 4:38pm On Oct 23, 2015
Udysweet just went through your beads thread... Your beadwork is so fine... You really are a professional smiley
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 5:47pm On Oct 23, 2015
@Melish,thanks! By the way you can order one for yourself o,I'm here for serios business,don't worry I'll give u a huge discount wink
@Torqque7,hahaha I don dey fear o,if u kidnap me,walai nobody dey to com pay you any ransom o,unless I get pple wey love me wella for dus thread,lol!
Toks2008 my one and only oga at d top,na u biko,hope you're good?
And yay I get a namesake,Horduak. Welcome koko,nice to hav u here.
To d rest:sparkles ddshow nouvelle otunba dosunmu extravaganza(I got it abi) joebekz and the rest wey I never fit cram dem names yet,hope your day went well? Hope dos in Lagos no see traffic sha?
A bit of a stressful day for me and yes I did turn 3shades darker today no thanks to d lagos blazing sun,lol!(I'm shopping for whiteners o any suggestions,lol!)
If to say I be clubbie I for say mak I find one go jus to relieve myself but I tink I wld prefer a long walk on d beach and hav d cool breeze caress my face(I'm picturing that sef already,lol)
Oya enof,am out once again. Kisses!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 9:42pm On Oct 23, 2015
udysweet:
@Melish,thanks! By the way you can order one for yourself o,I'm here for serios business,don't worry I'll give u a huge discount wink
@Torqque7,hahaha I don dey fear o,if u kidnap me,walai nobody dey to com pay you any ransom o,unless I get pple wey love me wella for dus thread,lol!
Toks2008 my one and only oga at d top,na u biko,hope you're good?
And yay I get a namesake,Horduak. Welcome koko,nice to hav u here.
To d rest:sparkles ddshow nouvelle otunba dosunmu extravaganza(I got it abi) joebekz and the rest wey I never fit cram dem names yet,hope your day went well? Hope dos in Lagos no see traffic sha?
A bit of a stressful day for me and yes I did turn 3shades darker today no thanks to d lagos blazing sun,lol!(I'm shopping for whiteners o any suggestions,lol!)
If to say I be clubbie I for say mak I find one go jus to relieve myself but I tink I wld prefer a long walk on d beach and hav d cool breeze caress my face(I'm picturing that sef already,lol)
Oya enof,am out once again. Kisses!
Hmm no Ransome ke?sha at least I'll get good food cooked by my hostage (u)lol..only problem now is where to steal u from,I am thinking that beach you are thinking of is the perfect place..don't worry it will happen swiftly and you'll rest your heels where I'll hide u so the colour of ur skin will get back to normal from the 3shades sunburn..I sha hope those lips weren't affected o,they might need emergency mouth to mouth resuscitation..anyway how's your Friday going dear
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ddshow(m): 12:30am On Oct 24, 2015
Greetings to everyone. Hope our week went well!(mine was horrendous, I was virtually nagging all through)

It's good to see the thread hopping this week especially with the newbies.....I'm welcoming all and hopefully we will engage decently over time.

I wish us all a restful weekend.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Hooduhark(f): 8:53am On Oct 24, 2015
grin thanks Udysweet, its my pleasure. Guess u were able to catch some gud sleep. U really need d sunscreen for dis lagos sun but try not to go shopping for sunscreens under d sun o
@ all; gud morning. How was ur night? Gwish u a fabulous weekend.
. quote author=udysweet post=39286871]@Melish,thanks! By the way you can order one for yourself o,I'm here for serios business,don't worry I'll give u a huge discount wink
@Torqque7,hahaha I don dey fear o,if u kidnap me,walai nobody dey to com pay you any ransom o,unless I get pple wey love me wella for dus thread,lol!
Toks2008 my one and only oga at d top,na u biko,hope you're good?
And yay I get a namesake,Horduak. Welcome koko,nice to hav u here.
To d rest:sparkles ddshow nouvelle otunba dosunmu extravaganza(I got it abi) joebekz and the rest wey I never fit cram dem names yet,hope your day went well? Hope dos in Lagos no see traffic sha?
A bit of a stressful day for me and yes I did turn 3shades darker today no thanks to d lagos blazing sun,lol!(I'm shopping for whiteners o any suggestions,lol!)
If to say I be clubbie I for say mak I find one go jus to relieve myself but I tink I wld prefer a long walk on d beach and hav d cool breeze caress my face(I'm picturing that sef already,lol)
Oya enof,am out once again. Kisses![/quote]
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 12:45pm On Oct 24, 2015
Any pastor or cleric in the house? A wedding needs to be conducted ASAP,lol! Be like torqque7 don ready for marriage o,but we're mum on the bride to be,hehehehe.
Sebi dey said anytin can hapn on d thread? Ngwanu smtn is happening faster than we thot,lol!
Ok enof of my jokes jo,am fine torqque,hope you are too? My weekedn is goin well and yours?
@ddshow,haba wat happend? Hope you're good dear?
@Horduhark(I feel odd spelling dis name so o,lol) tnx dearie,abg I need were to get suncreen for lite skinned ladies cos sun dey show. Infact lemme pay d cosmetics,oh fashion thread,to see suggestions,as long as dem no go sell me wetin go kill me,lol!
@siamia,sis were hav u been? We've missed u o,work is really takin u away frm us. Pls show up today mbok ma,lol!
@all,I still love y'all as usual. For d 1st time I hav a thread I can kick off my shoes sit back relax and gist without fear,God bless dis thread and this forum!
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 1:14pm On Oct 24, 2015
ddshow:
Greetings to everyone. Hope our week went well!(mine was horrendous, I was virtually nagging all through)

It's good to see the thread hopping this week especially with the newbies.....I'm welcoming all and hopefully we will engage decently over time.

I wish us all a restful weekend.


hmmm now i see why melish think this is my account.

ddshow abeg soft pedal with this grammer o lol..

Which one is horrendous nah? you for use the simple word we go understand so that we go fit respond with eyaah,sorry o,werrin happen but with this word even me sef with my big grammer had to check google before i kon understand you.

No be small thing o.sorry bro i believe next week will be sacrosanctly positive..make i talk my own too lol.

Hope you all are good...

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by torqque7(m): 1:53pm On Oct 24, 2015
udysweet:
Any pastor or cleric in the house? A wedding needs to be conducted ASAP,lol! Be like torqque7 don ready for marriage o,but we're mum on the bride to be,hehehehe.
Sebi dey said anytin can hapn on d thread? Ngwanu smtn is happening faster than we thot,lol!
Ok enof of my jokes jo,am fine torqque,hope you are too? My weekedn is goin well and yours?
@ddshow,haba wat happend? Hope you're good dear?
@Horduhark(I feel odd spelling dis name so o,lol) tnx dearie,abg I need were to get suncreen for lite skinned ladies cos sun dey show. Infact lemme pay d cosmetics,oh fashion thread,to see suggestions,as long as dem no go sell me wetin go kill me,lol!
@siamia,sis were hav u been? We've missed u o,work is really takin u away frm us. Pls show up today mbok ma,lol!
@all,I still love y'all as usual. For d 1st time I hav a thread I can kick off my shoes sit back relax and gist without fear,God bless dis thread and this forum!
Lol..pastor go waste time o..na sharp sharp things I de find o..cos that soup u made a thread on I have to taste is ASAP..
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by fairlyisabel(f): 3:36pm On Oct 24, 2015
Melish:
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GOD is love.
He knows the heart of all men.
He knows our secret sins and weaknesses.
If you want the best partner from him you must also be the best person for your partner.


If you want a partner that'll bless your life then your life should be able to bless your partner.

If you're hot tempered, lazy, wicked, a gossip, a womaniser, full of pride, always jealous and envious! Selfish, disrespectful, uncaring, a slanderer, abusive etc.... then go and fix yourself cause God will not bring good natured people your way to suffer in your hands..

You'll only end up with your kind.
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Gbam! You may be stubborn but I like you jare. grin I have learnt un diluted truths from your posts so far. Mana inaghi anu nti grin

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 6:04pm On Oct 24, 2015
Nice thread....
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by kenemza76(m): 8:25pm On Oct 24, 2015
Hi everyone, I've being a member of this forum (Nairaland) for about a decade but has never been active because i never dimmed it fit to participate in some primitive discussions. For a long time now, I never visited the site but when i did today and decided to check the romance section, siamia's caption really captured my interest and i checked other posts. I had always seen the forum as one for the immature but siamia proved me wrong with her thread 'if you are 30+ and still single'. Sure, this thread will make me visit this sight more, henceforth. Thank you, everyone.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 9:00pm On Oct 24, 2015
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Just came back from church.. It was so wonderful
I wanna share what I learnt especially for the Christians here but lemme start with the analogy that was given.





If you have a very expensive phone and then it's serving you very well and it falls into water or fire or gutter one day... What will you do?.. You'll pick it up of course... Because the phone is serving you, you can't allow it to get spoilt



But when that expensive phone is not serving well, the screen shatters, the sensors are not working... What happens... You abandon the phone at home for kids to use as toys and you wouldn't be bothered about losing it........ Because the phone is not serving you don't care so much where it ends up





That's how we are in God's hands. .. When we're serving God he can't allow situations to mesmerise you.... He picks you up from muddy waters just like you'd pick your very important device...


But when you just go to church to warm the bench, you hardly give, you don't win souls , you're not working in church in one way or the other...... You're like the spoilt phone... And you know what follows...




In summary....
Until you start meeting God's needs you'll remain in your needy state... What does God need?
The souls he shed his blood for..

Start spreading the Good news from now on..
GOD BLESS YOU.
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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ddshow(m): 10:20pm On Oct 24, 2015
Toks2008:


hmmm now i see why melish think this is my account.

ddshow abeg soft pedal with this grammer o lol..

Which one is horrendous nah? you for use the simple word we go understand so that we go fit respond with eyaah,sorry o,werrin happen but with this word even me sef with my big grammer had to check google before i kon understand you.

No be small thing o.sorry bro i believe next week will be sacrosanctly positive..make i talk my own too lol.

Hope you all are good...

Oh boss!

I hail you Sir, I'm very well! Just seeing this........I've been sleeping all day. Came out to the pub to refresh just this evening. How is the ministry?

Myself and Melish are 5 & 6, I like her still even with the blemish. I hope your weekend is going on well.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:40pm On Oct 24, 2015
ddshow:


Oh boss!

I hail you Sir, I'm very well! Just seeing this........I've been sleeping all day. Came out to the pub to refresh just this evening. How is the ministry?

Myself and Melish are 5 & 6, I like her still even with the blemish. I hope your weekend is going on well.



ddshow:


You are so uncouth and morally deficient.
All your submissions so far on this thread lacks depth.
You keep displaying a complete lack of awareness, the capacity for sensory perception and good sense.


Hmmm
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 10:48pm On Oct 24, 2015
Melish:






Hmmm
Melish, how old are you. I mean seriously.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 10:55pm On Oct 24, 2015
ddshow:


Oh boss!

I hail you Sir, I'm very well! Just seeing this........I've been sleeping all day. Came out to the pub to refresh just this evening. How is the ministry?

Myself and Melish are 5 & 6, I like her still even with the blemish. I hope your weekend is going on well.


Yes o i have been grooving since yesterday and for the first tidme i went to a club for an after event party yestrday lol...i know im soundiing like a bush guy right now but no blame me..i no get business with clubbing all my life and from what i saw i doubt if i go ever just decide to go clubbing again...not for me.

I wish everyone a greeat sunday ahead.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 10:59pm On Oct 24, 2015
halexito:
Melish, how old are you. I mean seriously.


Good evening halex... I'm 20 years three months and one day old
Any p?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Toks2008(m): 11:07pm On Oct 24, 2015
Melish:

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Just came back from church.. It was so wonderful
I wanna share what I learnt especially for the Christians here but lemme start with the analogy that was given.





If you have a very expensive phone and then it's serving you very well and it falls into water or fire or gutter one day... What will you do?.. You'll pick it up of course... Because the phone is serving you, you can't allow it to get spoilt



But when that expensive phone is not serving well, the screen shatters, the sensors are not working... What happens... You abandon the phone at home for kids to use as toys and you wouldn't be bothered about losing it........ Because the phone is not serving you don't care so much where it ends up





That's how we are in God's hands. .. When we're serving God he can't allow situations to mesmerise you.... He picks you up from muddy waters just like you'd pick your very important device...


But when you just go to church to warm the bench, you hardly give, you don't win souls , you're not working in church in one way or the other...... You're like the spoilt phone... And you know what follows...




In summary....
Until you start meeting God's needs you'll remain in your needy state... What does God need?
The souls he shed his blood for..

Start spreading the Good news from now on..
GOD BLESS YOU.
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Honestly if all you ever did on the thread was copy and paste or re writing what you learned in church or other places we would not have lashed out at youu but amazingly despite your quest to enlighten us,you also went overboard.

This quoted message is admonishing.

Btw melish,psycologically i think you are not 20 as you claimed because i believe its awkward for a 20 yr old to insistently post on a thread for the 30plus wheen even pople who are just a year short of 30 gladly and respectfully maintained a status quo.

So please come out straight and lets know you else we will continue to have an unwholesome picture of you.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ddshow(m): 11:16pm On Oct 24, 2015
Melish:







Hmmm

Melish, Melish!....I know this Is why you've been avoiding me like a plague. I'm sure you don't want apologies for this cos we've rambled on from here.

Something tells me you are not Lagos bred. Where are you located?

Hope you're good anyway.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:19pm On Oct 24, 2015
ddshow:


Melish, Melish!....I know this Is why you've been avoiding me like a plague. I'm sure you don't want apologies for this cos we've rambled on from here.

Something tells me you are not Lagos bred. Where are you located?

Hope you're good anyway.


All is well
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:20pm On Oct 24, 2015
Toks2008:


Honestly if all you ever did on the thread was copy and paste or re writing what you learned in church or other places we would not have lashed out at youu but amazingly despite your quest to enlighten us,you also went overboard.

This quoted message is admonishing.

Btw melish,psycologically i think you are not 20 as you claimed because i believe its awkward for a 20 yr old to insistently post on a thread for the 30plus wheen even pople who are just a year short of 30 gladly and respectfully maintained a status quo.

So please come out straight and lets know you else we will continue to have an unwholesome picture of you.



You're very funny.....
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ddshow(m): 11:25pm On Oct 24, 2015
halexito:

Melish, how old are you. I mean seriously.

Lol....we all ask this question.

Melish:

All is well

Even in the well......Do you have a bf?

Toks2008:


Yes o i have been grooving since yesterday and for the first tidme i went to a club for an after event party yestrday lol...i know im soundiing like a bush guy right now but no blame me..i no get business with clubbing all my life and from what i saw i doubt if i go ever just decide to go clubbing again...not for me.
I wish everyone a greeat sunday ahead.

Life is too short jare....live happy, make no foes.
Best wishes.
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:35pm On Oct 24, 2015
ddshow:

Even in the well......Do you have a bf?





. It feels so awkward replying you and then replying toks... I just can't stop seeing you "both" as one personality.

Sorry about that sad


'No' to your question
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by udysweet(f): 11:35pm On Oct 24, 2015
And then you had to go and dig out DDshow past post jus to mak him feel like a bad person,Melish? Me I don't like dis ur style o. I hv ur type in my elder sister. The churchy churchy type and spirikoko,trying to mak everyone look guilyt,pointing out faults,and makin pple look so imperfect even wen d Bible has clearly stated,none is perfect no not one. Jus aprecate d kind comments and move on,no need digging up past to spite d person mbok. I don't knw wether you will beam ur searchlite on me now. If u say you're 20+,its means ur not been truthful. And if u say ur 33 lik u told sm1 here(I cnt find were it is anymore) then don't do dis! There is smtn u planned on doin,on ur other thread. I dunno why but I tink you need to complete it. From your posting this night frm church,smtn abt determination cld be deduced. Now apply that to that project uav sudenly abandond. I need to see results! And like that lady told"ina nunti" evn tho u mak a lot of sense most time but u too stubbron,u no dey hear word! Lol.
PS:abg no go dig up my archives o,u be lik na journalist u be,forgt sef say na masscomm I read and I practise smal b4 I run away,lol!
@d rest of the house,how una dey? @torqque7 don ready to marry me o,were d clergy in d house mak e com join us togeda. Oh wait,why d rush? I need to sell aso ebi na. @torqque7 darling,wat color theme do we use? Mak we find event planner abi?lol
@klassik,where are u?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:48pm On Oct 24, 2015
udysweet:
And then you had to go and dig out DDshow past post jus to mak him feel like a bad person,Melish? Me I don't like dis ur style o. I hv ur type in my elder sister. The churchy churchy type and spirikoko,trying to mak everyone look guilyt,pointing out faults,and makin pple look so imperfect even wen d Bible has clearly stated,none is perfect no not one. Jus aprecate d kind comments and move on,no need digging up past to spite d person mbok. I don't knw wether you will beam ur searchlite on me now. If u say you're 20+,its means ur not been truthful. And if u say ur 33 lik u told sm1 here(I cnt find were it is anymore) then don't do dis! There is smtn u planned on doin,on ur other thread. I dunno why but I tink you need to complete it. From your posting this night frm church,smtn abt determination cld be deduced. Now apply that to that project uav sudenly abandond. I need to see results! And like that lady told"ina nunti" evn tho u mak a lot of sense most time but u too stubbron,u no dey hear word! Lol.
PS:abg no go dig up my archives o,u be lik na journalist u be,forgt sef say na masscomm I read and I practise smal b4 I run away,lol!
@d rest of the house,how una dey? @torqque7 don ready to marry me o,were d clergy in d house mak e com join us togeda. Oh wait,why d rush? I need to sell aso ebi na. @torqque7 darling,wat color theme do we use? Mak we find event planner abi?lol
@klassik,where are u?




Started a whole new stuff on that diary.....
Never said I was 33...Maybe you're talking about someone else's post..




This age stuff sef. .
Any age you give me in your mind can serve o...
I'm not too bothered. .

. Didn't mean to spite ddshow o.
Just wondering what relates "5&6" to "uncouth and morally deficient" .
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by halexito(m): 11:49pm On Oct 24, 2015
Hmm.... Another Saturday gone. Marriage ceremonies all over the place. We dance, eat and take numerous pictures. But in reality, Many just see it as mere formality not a merger of love again.
The result is there to be seen after the wedding. Divorces and broken homes everywhere. People boldly and with smiles tell lies on this day. " Till death do us part",.......... "for better for worse ",.......... Fast forward to the future. It's betrayal and cheating galore ;left, right and center.
Sadly, It has become the norm. [Bo tito ko si mo, bo ti gba loku] . With what we see and experience around us , people hardly believe in love again. Many now see it as an illusion................ They ask, 'does true love exist?'
So, I ask myself the question too..............?
Looking into the world, sadly, 'no' as an answer will take 99%. Because it's a world where lust is celebrated, where the male folks and the females plays fast ones on one another's' hearts and lives.
But then I thought about God. HE is love. I can't deny him with a 'no'. His is the truest love I can find...........
But then, what about myself? If I say, there is nothing like true love again, it means i'm a failure, a cheat, a player etc. It means there is no true love IN me too. It means I'm part of what is wrong with the world.
I'm just sad tonight. There millions and billions of people out there crying.........
...........for love...., to be loved..., in truth........, to be cherished and treasured.......
Please, please,.... enough of these painful heartbreaks, lies, silent tears and anguish.
Please, always love only in truth, let go of the negatives of the past and never repay evil with evil [lies with lies, cheating with cheating etc ].
She should be treasured. He should be truly loved.
Love is never a game.... It is LIFE. It is EVERYTHING.

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Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by ddshow(m): 11:51pm On Oct 24, 2015
Melish:






. It feels so awkward replying you and then replying toks... I just can't stop seeing you "both" as one personality.

Sorry about that sad


'No' to your question

Lol.....Stop the delusion, I'm me not toks. Let that sink in.

I have numerous questions for you, will you be open for an interview session with me?
Re: If Ur 30 Plus And Single, Let's Talk... by Nobody: 11:54pm On Oct 24, 2015
ddshow:


Lol.....Stop the delusion, I'm me not toks. Let that sink in.

I have numerous questions for you, will you be open for an interview session with me?

.
OK..... go on

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