Toks2008:


I guess so.

But for the fact that adultery is a sin and messing around is unacceptable before GOD,i do not see any reason to settle down with a woman..FACT

halexito:

Hmm.... I take it that you have never met THAT special woman. When you do.............you will never want to let her go. She will make you see and feel why God instituted marriage. You were created for someone, Toks,someone special............. If she's not here yet, never you stop hoping.
It will be a very sad story, if she's to come but to find your heart closed against her. Because of several not so good experiences I know you must have had.
To me, not all women are bad. Not all women are the same. I know something gave you that mindset that settling down with any woman is not worth the trouble. But God made it like that for a reason.
Toks, as you grow old and old, One day you will grow tired and weary of being alone.........
We all need a life companion, friend, confidant, helper, lover, soul mate etc in our lives eventually.
Someone to call your own, yours and yours alone.[not a public toilet ]. Your special joy and happiness. Someone to have those lovely kids with.
Maybe they are scarce but believe me........they are not out of existence.

sihom:

Lol, you clearly missed the post where I said I turned 33 this August.

Sparkles003:

yes i know

Melish:
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GOD is love.
He knows the heart of all men.
He knows our secret sins and weaknesses.
If you want the best partner from him you must also be the best person for your partner.


If you want a partner that'll bless your life then your life should be able to bless your partner.

If you're hot tempered, lazy, wicked, a gossip, a womaniser, full of pride, always jealous and envious! Selfish,disrespectful, uncaring, a slanderer, abusive etc.... then go and fix yourself cause God will not bring good natured people your way to suffer in your hands..

You'll only end up with your kind.
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ehemwhy:
Una wll done o ! I'm 35 an accountant,presently in between jobs.
I don't know if it is me or something else, but single mothers have been comming my way lately, I'm not prEjudiced against them or something .

Toks2008:


Did i just see disrespectful and abusive?Oluwa o lol!

Melish melish,please before you copy and paste just try and admonish yourself with your theory and i believe it will pay off.

We pursue you but no way,you have officially turned mario here. How i wish i could ignore your post but honestly i just cant help bursting out in laughter anytime i read your post and by the way what does OWUYA mean?

Melish:



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Not copy and paste
"owuya" means "na so"


Why do men marry late?

I understand that for women but men's own just doesn't make sense to me....

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Toks2008:


Honestly we will not mind answering your questions if you maintain a proper decorum because you really need to learn one or two things.

Many men who are single at "very ripe" age find themselves in such situation due to many reasons.

1.Disappointment in previous affairs which makes them lose interest
2.Setting targets as regards finance or comfortable lifestyle and we see this mostly with our Igbo brothers
3.Other reasons.

Toks2008:


Welcome bro.

Please if you see a single mum that catches your fancy just go for her abeg and you will enjoy the affair so well in most cases because these ladies are ready to calm down very well.

As long as the lady is looking sweet and sexually decent why not. Having a baby out of wed lock is never a yardstick to see a lady as sexually indecent,this thing happens even at first time sex experience.

I dont mind a single mum as long as she is looking dapper and decent.

lolu20:
@ udy,send me ur digits make I recharge u.any kind of recharge u want.I hope u understand. thank u once again,I really appreciate

klassic:
Good morning good people. Hope ya all had a nice night.

siamia:
I just want to say this here and nobody shd take offence bcs am not pointing at anyone. As Papa Adeboye once said, iif u feel am talking abt u, then am talking abt u.
Pls I said it clearly, I ate my 40th birthday cake. I even ate after that. If ur nowhere near 40, do not mail me. Let's keep all talk here. Pls. Really, if ur 27 and ur chatting me up, how do u want me to see u? As a person with serious intentions? Everyone who says age is just a number shd try and marry a woman who is 12yrs ur senior. One day u'll wake up and accuse her of jazzing u. If u want an older woman, go for someone in ur age bracket, so that when people see u both in public, the age disparity will not look ridiculous.
So, how did everyone's day go?

ddshow:


I beg to differ from this school of thought irrespective of the personality.

I believe a woman and her child are a package deal. If you date a single mother & her child gets attached to you, then you leave, it will crush that child. It will give that child abandonment issues lasting a lifetime, affecting their future relationships.

I don’t hold a woman’s past choices against her. Single mothers deserve a Man who can lead himself & his children. She shouldn’t have to lead herself and her child by herself, and make every financial decision in her life, and deal with stress, and pay all the bills, and pray all by her self.

She deserves a strong man who can shoulder that burden with her. Lead her child & be her rock. Teach her child how a loving, healthy relationship looks by how he treats her with respect. Melt away her insecurities. Destroy her trust issues. Break down her wall & show her what reciprocal love is....but trust me, you can rarely find these attributes in single men. A single man is completely inexperienced to handle all of these from foundation, he needs a lot of tutelage and requires to undergo the learning process.

It is only worthy to make a woman a wife before making her a mother, because my mother raised a future husband & father, not a future baby daddy.

udysweet:
Fine oga at d top,how's ur day goin too?
@Toks2008
Shoutout to @Klassik @Siamia @Torque @DDshow @OtunbaDosunmu @nouvelle @sparkles003 and the rest,pls pardon me o
@Melish,infact I need to see u,I'm so curios as to ur personality,no homo o,lol! And did u jus say u turnned 33 in August? I must hav missed dat part? So whre did the "I am 20yrs old come in" @Toks2008 abg dis babe is more than ripe enof ,mak we carry wine go see her folks jo! Who knows anytin can happen. Meanwhile me still dey on d lookout too,winks

Indescribable:
You have a great sense of humour. Just stumbled on this post today and all your comments i have read so far have been spot on. First time I have ever taken the bait to comment on any post on this forum. I am female and 34 years old.

klassic:
Brain teaser,let's rack and crack brain.Nor be only marriage talks jare.

Toks2008:


You are most welcomed but make we see your face o at least for 10mins.

Indescribable:
Thanks. Not yet bold enough to put up my pic but will keep it in mind.

ddshow:

PARAKEET.... a bird of the parrot specie

Defcon1:

Turned 33 in Aug as well; 20th, to be precise.
Nice meeting u on here.