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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 10:42pm On Oct 24, 2015
man wants to crack smtn
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by flokii: 10:43pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

grin

he might be fvcking prostitutes or working with HIV awareness team grin

you never see fiancee o... I wnt lie to tou

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:43pm On Oct 24, 2015
missyadorable:

Hahahahahaha! you are so pained that despite a woman,have said the bitter truth y'all don't like to hear

grin Coward!

Show yaself

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by francoray(m): 10:44pm On Oct 24, 2015
He might be selling it or he's a distributor.


He might be using it for protection
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by jaxxy(m): 10:44pm On Oct 24, 2015
It seems obvious so it's left for u to decide wot u want in life. Some don't mind and some won't take it. All depends on d value given.

Yes men cheat bt not all. However knowing he's a serial cheat and not just a mistake/fling beats me. I mean he's not just ur bf nt ur fiancé he shud hv hung his boots by now na. He will definItely cheat in d marriage so the choice is urs.

However ask him about it and y he keeps cheating just for clarity and maybe closure or for his rehab lol or just incase there's smwhere u were at fault bt I doubt he will hv a tangible reason.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by akike: 10:44pm On Oct 24, 2015
uzolexis:

my dear, she has serious self esteem issues.

Don't mind the idio.t. I don't think it is a female

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by kinibigdeal(m): 10:45pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

Probably is the condom he used on you previously, and the unused one is the one is planning to use on you undecided
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by presh2dk(m): 10:45pm On Oct 24, 2015
see this one..at least he's using condom..abi you wan get step child
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Ekaka1(m): 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2015
Ray360:
Dear OP, it's ridiculous to know that a man you have been with for 3 years is a chronic philanderer with Zero modicum of regard for your feelings and worth as a prime woman. Is he Using those Condoms on you or on those harlots out there with no scintilla of woman virtue?
Call him to order and lay bare your grief at his Philandering Lifestyles, Your wedding is just months away and this doesn't bode well for you. cheers.
See as this one dey form hurricane Patrick obiagbona

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Beync(f): 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2015
Op you are very fortunate to see the pointer, some people do not notice until they tie the nut but thank God you have seen. Your fiance exhibits two character that destroys marriages today, cheating and dishonesty. Dont ever try and marry such a man axcept you are into the same way of living, otherwise you will be hurting your self in that union.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by flokii: 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2015
Atlantian:
Just fucck someone else.

GBAM!... lobatan

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by 2rez: 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2015
missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

I guess u must be high on cheap weed to have spewed that sh.it & by the way, when u make ur points, try not to be s.illy by making ur points. Learn not to generalize-all men do that! Lemme assume it was an error anyways. I wonder where the hell u hear that from

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by tosyne2much(m): 10:47pm On Oct 24, 2015
Ray360:
Dear OP, it's ridiculous to know that a man you have been with for 3 years is a chronic philanderer with Zero modicum of regard for your feelings and worth as a prime woman. Is he Using those Condoms on you or on those harlots out there with no scintilla of woman virtue?
Call him to order and lay bare your grief at his Philandering Lifestyles, Your wedding is just months away and this doesn't bode well for you. cheers.
Nice one bro cool
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 10:50pm On Oct 24, 2015
the answer is in front of you.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Frankdamaxx(m): 10:50pm On Oct 24, 2015
Anyss:
Omo dis world is wicked can u imagine? Guys be like; "u lucky he's using CD,he respects u", "it aint cheating cos u guys aint married" like seriously? Anoda anoying dude be like. " u sure no guy's also sexing u?" Christ. Is dis howw naija guys tink? And wwen dey catch or suspect a gal with a guy u here tins like "hoe" "ladies r all hooes" "ladies been cheating since 13ad". God help women from these demons called men. I swear if anyman tryme eeeh na dry fasting for im head ooh. Lolz

Actually, its 450bc. From the days of Pontiphers wife.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by cytellProperty: 10:53pm On Oct 24, 2015
Maybe, there are other colours of the packs that he likes but are not in his former acquisition.
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by engrjacuzzi: 10:54pm On Oct 24, 2015
sorry to say but this girl no get sense at all

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 10:55pm On Oct 24, 2015
Frankdamaxx:


Actually, its 450bc. From the days of Pontiphers wife.

Lolz. U one of em right. My boss at office be like, wen u talk like dis I will not be api with u,god will not be api wit u even d devil will not be api wit u.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by tosyne2much(m): 10:55pm On Oct 24, 2015
missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!
Wait !!! Are you implying that no man bleeps only one woman ? shocked


Mind you, I'm an exception to that cool

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by ajalaolanr(m): 10:58pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

Why do you go unabated checking his bag?
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 10:58pm On Oct 24, 2015
tosyne2much:
Wait !!! Are you implying that no man bleeps only one woman ? shocked


Mind you, I'm an exception to that cool
Lol..even woman wrapper like you is also claiming to be an exception.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Justicealh3(m): 10:59pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.
Ok.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by futurewise11(m): 10:59pm On Oct 24, 2015
Most of the ladies saying leave him are decieving you.

Firstly,they will gladly date him hoping for marriage immediately you quit.mostvof them are desperately looking for what you have.many of naija ladies are looking for who to propose and you here thinking of quiting,Please dont tow that lane.Condoms are not guns.its for protection.If he quit using condom due to your pressure,it might be counter productive

Even if you marry pastor or alfa, forget it my sister guys go still bang around if they want to.Use tuface as case study,Men are Men.

Have a serious discussion with him and dont under estimate the power of prayer.Its not easy but its doable.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by awesome11(m): 10:59pm On Oct 24, 2015
standingtall:
I do know he will marry me because our wedding is this December and please learn to talk to people with respect especially when you don't know the whole story.

Now, that was very lame. How many slated wedding ceremonies were cancelled? Not until you are pronounced a wife do you have a moral right to open your legs for a guy. Any other time you do that is you voluntarily hurting yourself.

BTW, u were right on the issue of people learning to talk to people with respect. Some people needs to be taught some morals and manners.

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by missyadorable(f): 11:00pm On Oct 24, 2015
presh2dk:
see this one..at least he's using condom..abi you wan get step child
I wonder for her oooo
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by JoeCutie(m): 11:00pm On Oct 24, 2015
He did something you obviously detest, you didn't tell him, and you'll never tell him. And here you are telling us. As what? What are we to you? What do you want from us? Wow! I feel so special. Bia nne gee nti ka m gwa gi. If you REALLY have anything against your man, talk to him about it. He's your man, not ours.



But come to think of it oh... that man is wasting his talent oh. I think he has a calling in comedy. Oh, he saw the condom pack on the ground and picked it and saved it in his bag just cos he liked it? Tell my ex that one and even Election tribunal cannot decide your fate. cheesy

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Dyt(f): 11:00pm On Oct 24, 2015
mimicious:
My dear the devil u know is better than the angel u dont know. What of if he is not protecting himself, which will u have preferred? Tho m not in support of him cheating but he respects u if he is protecting himself. #my opinion


A friend was preaching this to me last night
I almost appeared to her to knock off her teeth
No be only devil you know
angry angry angry

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Frankdamaxx(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2015
Anyss:


Lolz. U one of em right. My boss at office be like, wen u talk like dis I will not be api with u,god will not be api wit u even d devil will not be api wit u.

Nah, am not. Promiscuity favours men no doubt but still doesn't change the fact that these girls ain't loyal.
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by swaggprofessor(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2015
wait, I have the solution to your question



















But wait till I win my re run first..............

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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by naijathings(m): 11:01pm On Oct 24, 2015
adeaks:
You were looking for change in his bag...... just when he was conveniently absent. Cool Story! undecided

Thank u bro... u dey see road.

The guy got caught with an empty condom pack in episode one, he must be foolish or plain carefree not to properly hide it like cocaine in episode 2... or is this lady trying to say that she found the condoms on the surface of the bag abi the CHANGE she was looking for ran from wallet to bag and jumped to hide where the condoms were hiding?
I think curiosity found the condoms.

what if u never found any condoms? you would be @ peace and be bragging about how faithful and honest ur man is till some babymama comes knocking @ your home or STD creeps into ur **#@y. but now u r crying and thinking of leaving.

some ladies here are saying "leave him, you DESERVE some one better"... how do u guys know what she deserves? how do u know she doesn't deserve this? I am not saying she does oh. do u know if the OP is very boring in bed and the guy has found someone who is giving him satisfaction out there which he wouldn't want to miss and thats y he makes sure he carries condoms straight from the house?

OP... You know ur man better than anyone here. Confront him with a neutral mind void of emotion and let him give you 2 good reasons why he does this. don't forget to update us with more funny reasons he gives.

wedding in December, good luck with that.

and if u decide not to marry this guy... then i hope u meet a man that will not barng another woman/girl/lady till death do you guys part. u might as well look for a wishing well and make a wish.

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