swaggerdgrt:
dey ar both sin bt its far beta dan commitin abortn,thogh as flesh we hav we may nt b able to resist havin sex smtmes nd mst tmes depnds on individual,if sex leads to pregnancy i advise d girl kips it insted of goin for abortn...my sista dnt debate it oohh..no mke God vess for u ooohh if not ennnn....

mimicious:


Same

Frankdamaxx:

Hahaha. Nah. I know you are straight. You sound like a feminist.

Anyss:


Hehehehhehehehehe. Don't mind my words. Could be misleading

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

irisola:
kill him... ..

Michyeddy:
Dear Op
first I haven't failed to notice that you indeed care for him and you are worried about your future home.
I have read through the comments and some that I see...my heart keeps beating fast and I'm afraid if I read more..oh well!
I want you to realise something, just because "men" have been generally stamped as promiscuous doesn't mean yours has to be like that.
what happened to the love our parents had? I do know we are not in their era anymore but marriage is something one must be careful and careful again before entering. so before u decide on what to do? Have a deep lovely conversation with him and if you really love your man pray for him cs if indeed he sleeps with other girls while he still has you, marriage won't change a thing.

P.S and fr those ladies here who has suffered at the hands of the wrong guys, don't create a mental picture of ur unfortunate world to the minds of some here who still believe in Faithfulness and true Love.
I refuse to believe all men are the same because I am yet to find anyone that shares the same finger print with my future husband!!!!
OP if you love your man, pray for him.

Ray360:

smh! wicked!!!!!

missyadorable:
Op,You are a very lucky lady and your fiance is a very good reasonable man...

He is bleeping other ladies,its not a big deal.All men do that!

Besides, he doesn't even owe you any faithfulness.

Your husband after taking vow of fidelity will still bleep other women..the difference is using protection.

You should be happy and thank him whenever you find condoms in his bag,drawer,wallets.

I congratulate you for having a man who knows and understands the implications of unprotected se.x and he is taking necessary steps to protect himself and YOU from STIs including deadly HIV and also prevent having kids from side chics

What else do you want a man to do for you? Isn't that enough?

Stop making a big deal outta nothing.

No man bleeps only one woman!!

If you are looking for a man who will be 100% faithful to you,take clay and mould him and make sure you don't give him a deek.

HML in advance!!

trapQ:
Thank you very much for this reply. I was so angry at her comment and was gonna use some provocative words but then I realised; she might not have a brain afterall

Girls like that never achieve as marriage to them is the highest achievement for a woman. Smh, science hasn't made anything if they've not invented artificial brains. Some people need it.

frisby:


Wow. What a beautiful thing to say.
I bet you're one of the few from a true home. Because frankly I find it mind-blowing that a person from a home with mom and dad living in mutual love and respect would come here and spew thrash like "all men cheat"...their dads and brothers must be mongrels!

My heart hurts tho, that someday you may fall into the hands of someone that will make you come here to say "all men cheat" as well.
I hope this doesn't happen.

ststyreal:

Dont mind her, for her mind now she don write better thing. End time condolers of evil. No decent Nigerian guys anymore, is that what she is saying? I pity her with this her mentality, her type can never trust her hubby.

Ekaka1:
See as this one dey form hurricane Patrick obiagbona

tosyne2much:
Nice one bro

illiad:

Who wrote this signature of yours? You or Copied?

akike:


Who are you? It is fine if you have a low self esteem and cannot do without a man. Blame it on your mother because no child born of a hardworking, strong minded and proud woman will make such statement.

swaggerdgrt:
dey ar both sin bt its far beta dan commitin abortn,thogh as flesh we hav we may nt b able to resist havin sex smtmes nd mst tmes depnds on individual,if sex leads to pregnancy i advise d girl kips it insted of goin for abortn...my sista dnt debate it oohh..no mke God vess for u ooohh if not ennnn....

Acebar:
Every dog dey chop shit but na the one wey chop carry for mouth we know, @op men are naturally unfaithful. have dat at the back of ur mind. tho there are still some good ones like me

ststyreal:

Young lady, I disagree with u 100%.Anyway, with what u have written here, it is quite obvious that trust is no longer in your dictionary cum trusting of ur spouse. But I want to make it clear to u that if u've being unfortunate to meet men that cheat, good for u but that does not mean that all men cheats despite how immoral our society might have degenerated to. There are true men who will not soil there soul for a pot of porridge which leads to condemnation and destruction of a happy home. Well, u r entitled to your opinion but saying all men cheats is far too way immature and unproven generalization of thought.

omojoshy:
It ll be wise hearing from d Horses mouth. Ask her she ll tell you...

cupidhero:

I don't know whats going down between you two but i see two people who are old enough to raise a family stirring up a fight that will eventually lead them to start washing their dirty leaning linen in public. I'm sure she's got enough ammo to match the shots you plan taking. Pardon my intrusion tho.

kosplateau:

standingtall:
I can't deal with it.I was worried about what people will say.we have already done our intro and our wedding is slated for December. I will do what is best for me before I commit a crime.thanks for your sensible response