streetzdreamz:
bless your soul,some comments here are nauseating,as if all of em sent they brain cells on exile!!!and to think this comments are from ladies who oughta speak out against this shameful act from guys makes me speechless,one slut was telling the op she was lucky to have such a fiance,claiming all guys cheats like its the norms!!I hate it when ladies subjects themselves to such poetic bullshits, apparently they are from broken homes who didn't enjoy the warmth and love of faithful parents,hence they believe a man can never stick to his wife,and a woman can never stick to her husband,what now is the essence of getting married and exchanging vows?y'al should just stick to your baby mamas and baby daddies tag,rather than soil that sacred institution with your low self esteem and low self worth..

standingtall:
hi guys,

I have been dating my fiance for 3 years now. In the beginning everything was cool until recently. About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up.

I let it go because I didn't want to upset him since he started getting upset.

Fast forward to today, I was looking for change in his bag and this time I found 3 different brands of unused condoms in his bag.

I didn't say anything and I won't say anything. I am hurt and crying inside.I just don't understand what he wants again. I hate him so much right now.

Please my sisters, I need a coping mechanism until am safely far from him. Sorry about my epistle. I needed to let it out.

streetzdreamz:
bless your soul,some comments here are nauseating,as if all of em sent they brain cells on exile!!!and to think this comments are from ladies who oughta speak out against this shameful act from guys makes me speechless,one slut was telling the op she was lucky to have such a fiance,claiming all guys cheats like its the norms!!I hate it when ladies subjects themselves to such poetic bullshits, apparently they are from broken homes who didn't enjoy the warmth and love of faithful parents,hence they believe a man can never stick to his wife,and a woman can never stick to her husband,what now is the essence of getting married and exchanging vows?y'al should just stick to your baby mamas and baby daddies tag,rather than soil that sacred institution with your low self esteem and low self worth..

salomycruz:
God bless you for this comment,exactly my point marriage is all abt commitment and at the same time it aint meant for ALL,just because u getting old doesn't make you ready for commitment... why get married wen you wud still go arnd sleeping with all kinda.....if cheating seem to be in ur blood dirz no need walking down the aisle with any1...simple continue ur life single messing arnd....but pple lyk that love to eat dir cake and have it(get married nd mess arnd) by so doing hurting the spouse you claim to Love...lol bulshit....its not a must you get married

akike:


As in I just cannot comprehend. I think he/she is suffering from Stockholm syndrome.

What is the essence of marriage if you can't trust your partner to respect you and honour you?

raayah:


But your religious books condemns Adultery!!!
I cannot believe that you would support cheating for a man but not a woman. The double standards is crazy.
Lets agree to disagree.
Let us just end it here. Don't mention me again. Thanks

standingtall:
I can't deal with it.I was worried about what people will say.we have already done our intro and our wedding is slated for December. I will do what is best for me before I commit a crime.thanks for your sensible response

Judie7654:
Not all men!

intbizoil:
My sister your man is cheating. Like I always say all men are divided into two those that cheat and those that are violent. Your man falls into the first category. Never you think he will change because he will get worse. So if you care about what people say then go ahead but know that those people will leave you to face your marriage woes alone.

swaggerdgrt:
U seff ur own too mch,u too dey search up nd dwn,I no no wetin u dey fnd,as u see d condom insyd, pak ur load and go cos in naija,if we offend u,u go and if u offend us,you go as well cos we men are GENERAL.if u tink it is easy to chaeat go nd get 6 boy frnds nd see if people mouth no go finish u

mimicious:



Just came back

standingtall:
I feel peace by just letting this out.this is a red.I don't know how to walk away from all the wedding preparations but I will walk away.I deserve to be happy.now I know why some women never want to get married. its too much work

Mancity26:
Happy sunday..

standingtall:
I can't deal with it.I was worried about what people will say.we have already done our intro and our wedding is slated for December. I will do what is best for me before I commit a crime.thanks for your sensible response

mbills:

Just go ahead and marry him oooh husbands are very had to get now,just try to fix things and go ahead with your marriage because no man is 100% honest and again, try to win him back
Thanks

maiahsaiah:


Ur mum had a choice of aborting u when u were in her womb, u also have the choice of choosing between right nd wrong, its up 2 u

omojoshy:
keep quiet biko, who lie reach u on this planet Earth? Getting #15k allawee monthly from pupsy, spending over #125k on bday and still claiming to be a saint.....Even ur good morning needs to be cross checked...lips of a lie below and her next victim....

swaggerdgrt:
my mum knws evn bfor nd nw dat abortion is a sin so she dint thought of it let alne doin it,ur mum cud do it bt not mine.abortion is a sin weda u bliv it or not das ur prblm,dnt evn tink abt it in d ist place.nonsence

SmooshCHN:

When you date someone for 3 years, you should have an idea of how your marriage will look like.
2nd time you found condom in his bag - A Cheat/A Womanizer/He was Hot/He sells them which I believe is not his job. Where does he fall in this category?
He got angry when you spoke about it the 1st and 2nd time won't be any better. Would worse happen if you accuse him on his bad day? Think!!
And I'm sure it's not his second time nor third and he will continue to lie about it.
Marriage is a big commitment. Don't go into it with someone who won't give you peace of mind and happiness. You can't travel for 3 weeks knowing fully well he can't control himself. That's not who you want to spend your entire life with.
All these being said he sweet caring charming in his way to you but dear, if he isn't happy and expectant of your December wedding as the first time you guys met or even more, check deep down if you are. If you are not, think and act wisely. The last thing you want is getting engaged to someone who cares less about your trust for him. Don't listen to people saying it's normal or he is doing a good thing by using condom how does that make you trust him or make you feel safe or happy or love him as you used to? In life people will say but not see what you are passing through. One month disappointment of a postponed or cancelled wedding is better than a 1 week of dealing with a infidel. Be strong willed and brave, don't settle for less except you know you do the same to him. If he ain't worth you or your trust don't manage it. You need someone who is 75% willing to marry you also not 75% sure to cheat on you after a eye pleasing and mouth gasping wedding ceremony. Be strong girl and pray. Good men are out there. Don't think you can change him only he can if he likes to.

omojoshy:
it pays to be REAL, deceit na abomination for wia I dey. There is always a PRICE for every action.


Cc: Sleekyshuga

danbrowndmf:
you never tell me waten sleekyshuga do u o bros.

maiahsaiah:



Nd adultery/fornication is what

Anyss:

Heheh. U r free to talk. Free world. Jus complete wotu wanted to say