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Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by megley(f): 8:53am On Oct 25, 2015 |
I'm sorry 4d previous long comment. U asked for a coping mechanism. This is it: zero ur mind & tell urself this "most men cheat" I didn't say all, & it shouldn't be your man. But it is what it is & as long as he doesn't rub it in ur face, then u'll be fine If he denies it, its a sign dat he @least cares about ur feelings. Be as loving as u know how 2b. Goodluck **me & long comments. God help me |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Mancity26(m): 8:53am On Oct 25, 2015 |
akike:.. Pls am sori.. I didn't mean to provoke u dis sunday morning, just dat i hate seeing long relationship going astray.. I understand ur strong opinion now.. Meet me of facebook where my jokes dey rain like water.. My signature.. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by 4lorunsho(m): 8:53am On Oct 25, 2015 |
intbizoil:pls what about women " what category do dey fall #waiting |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Sunnypar(m): 8:57am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Bethh:No, she not. On sharing life issues with Charles b, a woman called crying about the husband infidelity another woman called and asked shared how she was able to deal with it. she usually gives the husband condom to travel with and advice him to always stay protected inorder not to infect her. After every travel visit she conducts a test for herself and the man, this happened for two years after a while the man realised it rubbish and begged the woman for forgiveness. Nigerians and their hypocritical life. Who is without sin should cast the first stone? |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Awoofawo(m): 8:59am On Oct 25, 2015 |
akike: A man that is already akapo will alway be akapo like oyinbo will says leopard can not change its ......... You dion't go into marriage with hope of changing sometime but with resolute to accept the 70% good portion and grace to live with the 30% that is bad.....anything else spell marital wreakage. Eyin obirin yin gaan wahalah yin ti poju.,...that how one woman alway nag her everytime, she spot other ladies with him....our man do everything to reassure her that the ladies are just collueges but the woman no wan hear....na one day the our man come vex gidigba say, I never do am, you dey give me wahalah, make I go do am and let see wetin you go do.... |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Sunnypar(m): 9:03am On Oct 25, 2015 |
smilegal84yaho:some faithful boyfirnds have turn out to be the worst cheating husband. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by menxer: 9:06am On Oct 25, 2015 |
missyadorable: LaraiBoluwaji: Hahahahaha You expected a spiritual advice to a carnal issue? If only you know what successful marriages had/have to contend with. With all the philandering waywardness of 2face a delectable lady was proud to walk the aisle with him, why can't the same be said of our rich, delectable and accomplished ladies? 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Awoofawo(m): 9:08am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Sunnypar: You dey mind them bro, dem no know anything... Even ladies own worst...dem go dey play mother superior during courting only for you to discover laater that she is free distributor for hood Sunnypar: You dey mind them bro, dem no know anything... Even ladies own worst...dem go dey play mother superior during courting only for you to discover laater that she is free distributor for hood |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Emmanuel602(m): 9:23am On Oct 25, 2015 |
[quote author=standingtall post=39297823]hi guys, About a month ago, I found condoms an, empty pack of condoms in his bag, I confronted him about it and he told me he saw the pack on the floor and he liked the colour of the pack so he picked it up. Lolz... Sharp guyz will always have an explanation... |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by kefedmayor: 9:28am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Hello sister,I must commend ur for seeking advice nd I will assumed u staying wth him now nd having sex wth him.If he man want to marry u while u still in his house three months frm now. Then he is still using his joystick fucki around,he doesn't respect nd value u. So I will advice u study wen he is in Gud mood if possible mal sex wth him lik neva before wthout thinki wht he has done. After taking your shower,questions him very well in a cool manner nd u demand explainatn. If u re not satisfied wth his explainatn nd he doesn't show remorse then don't spend d next 24hours den . WALK AWAY cos he is pointing d door for u so that u don't regret ur marriage in life timx. U can add me up in Whatsap for more advice 08134469289 |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Sunnypar(m): 9:32am On Oct 25, 2015 |
kefedmayor:She should add you on whatsapp for more advise, like seriously? There are a lot of clowns on NL......you see the hypocrisy am talking about Nigerians......smh. 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by unilagfreshest(m): 9:35am On Oct 25, 2015 |
missyadorable:God bless u my sista, seems u knw hw d game goes.... ignore it nd let him knws she wont trust him anymore den let him proove u wrong.. d devil u knbw is beta dan d angel u dnt knw.. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by uzolexis(f): 9:46am On Oct 25, 2015 |
masonkz: She's can't be right. If you and your circle of friends can't stick 2 one girl, I have met guys who can so u can't convince me otherwise. 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by djgrafiti(m): 9:48am On Oct 25, 2015 |
missyadorable:hmmm u really have a lot of understanding abt man's polygamous nature but i have been with one gal 4 three years and never kissed another till date,i hope i maintain it till d end...but it's hard though. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 9:50am On Oct 25, 2015 |
tete7000:It's a Sunday, indeed...ur sermon's welcomed...did yhu preach this in church 2day? |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 9:54am On Oct 25, 2015 |
xtervaganza:When yhu decide to get urself into awkward situations,yhu deal with the consequences.What have yhu got to say bout a grown up man picking condom sachets on d ground and still going ahead to have extra in hz bag knowing fully well hz fiancee is probably suspicious ov him? Fcos,if he wasn't actually using them 4 himself,he'd be more careful bout creating dissensions and suspicions over nufin. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nicepoker(m): 9:55am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Nuellah02:body language? Buhari is an expert in this case |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nicepoker(m): 9:56am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Looking for change when he is not around. That's stealing |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 10:01am On Oct 25, 2015 |
uzolexis: Just saying... don't be surprised. Yea....I stick to one guy. My straight friends can't, despite professing all the love for their girlfriends |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by uzolexis(f): 10:04am On Oct 25, 2015 |
masonkz: I can't be surprised cos of course I know guys who can't stick to one girl and I also know guys who can. There are always 2 sides 2 a coin. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Xmen149(m): 10:11am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Chai!..if he z cheating,he truely loves u to be using condom..walahi....remember this : marriage is coming together of two persons who can manage the bad side of each other perfectly..not coming together of perfect people(that one na novel)..u can only let him go if u cant manage his impefection as he manages urs....my brothers wife use to put CD in his traveling park when he goes on business trips cos she knws he lvs her yet she knws hz weaknes and manages..until d guy proved he z straight.. Creat what u wnt,if u run u will be running 4 d rest of ur days..ntin like perfection in marriage. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Fraih(f): 10:12am On Oct 25, 2015 |
I have a feeling your husband to be is right here reading this, and has dropped a comment. Ma, be wise, approach him before you run. Happy married life in advance |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by yanabasee(m): 10:22am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Dyt: Ofcoz, marriage is an achievement.... How will you feel if in ur family, ur parent begot 6girls and a boy! And out of the 6girls... All of them gt married and live happily? Aside that... How will you feel... If you've been dating men and they come to you becoz u're beautiful and not becoz u're worth marrying? And when ur beauty is about to fade out... Gossips wallow around u and somebdy come for ur hand in marriage? Marriage is an achievement in many ways... The joy of you being addressed as MR&MRS.. The joy of u being treated like an angel by ur husband... The joy u get when u wear one attire with ur husband to occasions... The happiness u get when u hear stories from other ladies how they've been dumped after years of dating/courting and so on... Marriage is an achievement marrying the right person! It mustn't be a perfect person... But jst right! 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Obeenah(m): 10:23am On Oct 25, 2015 |
[s][/s] standingtall: I don't get this. You find a condom in his bag, u confront him, he gives a flimsy excuse, u probe further u notice he is getting angry you decide to let it go? First question : why? Second. You find 3 different unused brands of condom in his bag, while searching for "change"? . Hmmm My verdict: your bf is having sex either with you or someone else. You seem to be dependent on him reason you were satisfied with his sham excuse. You can't deal with such at this time before marriage, my dear whatever you are facing here now will be 3 folds after marriage. Know wat u want. If u can bear him cheating go ahead to the alter. If you can't report this to an elder known to the both of you and let him explain himself. Marriage is best when there is trust. A word is enough for the bride. 1 Like |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by tete7000(m): 10:31am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Oliviaarims: The sermon is meant for nairaland. Church gets its own for today. Happy sunday to you. Have a blessed week. |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Dyt(f): 10:39am On Oct 25, 2015 |
yanabasee: A very interesting piece |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Lexusgs430: 10:45am On Oct 25, 2015 |
standingtall: You only need advise from sisters? Trust the brothers to spill it out correctly (albeit with a funny twist or two)!!! |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by dazzlingd(m): 10:58am On Oct 25, 2015 |
raayah:see u comparing men and women.... u like it or not, a man can have many wives and still seen as normal. A woman with two husbands is unheard. that's the society for you. even in your religious books, we had men and Kings with several wives but no no no no for the reverse not an excuse to cheat anyway..... |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by yanabasee(m): 10:59am On Oct 25, 2015 |
sunkky83: It's an opportunity... Except you haven't seen or heard stories of how beautiful girls get old without getting married... Do you think they never tried to keep a man? She has the opportunity.... You can as well attest to this fact that... Out of all the men you've had since u began dating, many of them will talk about marriage, but just one will make it real... Do you think, it's easy for a man to take up that decision of marrying? Knowing fully well that he'll be restricted from a lot of things? To answer your question... Most people don't rush into marriage without knowing the person they want to get married to... What u ask only happen when u meet a girl few months and ask her hands in marriage..., Firstly, I won't jst meet a girl and ask her to marry me... And I don't go to clubs to seek for clubs girls for marriage and/or harlots from brothels... Secondly, any girl that still sleep around when a man has come to official declare his intentions or perhaps paid her bride price to marry her in a month's time is a cheat! Thirdly, comparing a man and woman in that manner will only give u a bitter taste of a single mother.. Coz, in Nigeria, men marry women, not Women marrying men... Although, I'm not using this as a point to support infidelity in men.. And finally, I'll forgive her and still marry her... Then, will talk to her very well, I must have chosen to marry her for more reasons than her being a cheat and I must have known who she was before asking her hand in marriage... Although, you will think there are no men like this... I wouldn't tell u how many times I've caught my ex gf cheating on me with her ex-guy and I still forgive her and until she told me she wants to break up! I never broke up with her... She did and she came back and it was too late that I was already in a two years relationship... |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by sneak3(m): 10:59am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Pineapp: Your No 3 point spilt my tea... Hahahah Madt guy |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by xtervaganza(m): 11:06am On Oct 25, 2015 |
Oliviaarims:we have all done stoopid things b4. It does not make us a cheat or whatever you choose to tag men You don't know it's possible he picked it up to check the brand name. Let me tell you what happened to me, I picked up a pack of cigarettes looking at something on the pack and as someone was approaching I hid it in my pocket so he won't think I'm smoking 2 weeks later the laundry man found it in my pocket and I don't smoke at all |
Re: Found Condoms In My Fiance's Bag.again! by Nobody: 11:18am On Oct 25, 2015 |
xtervaganza:I agree things happen...but certain co-incidences are difficult to believe. I'm not the one yhu should be trying to convince bout anyfin,though. Give it a rest. |
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